Second Date Update PODCAST: Mini Golf Madness

golfing and then tried to beat everybody up. Is that right, Todd? I don't know about beat everybody up, but I did go mini golfing. Okay, did you get angry at all during the entire eighteen holes? How many do you played in mini golfround eighteen? Well, we played both courses. We played eighteen holes. Young. Wow, okay, you're mini golf madman. Oh yeah, that's my jam right. There is mini golfing. It's like the perfect entertainment, perfect first date, you know

all that? Yeah, all right, and so you decided to take the girl that you want to call today Mini golfing. How did it go? I mean I think in one all right, we were, you know, laughing around, joking around, having a good time. To me, I like taking all my dates mini golfing just because you know, it's what I do. I actually I went pro mini golfing. I was, Oh, yeah, I'm a professional professional mini golfer. We have a pro circuit. Yeah, there's a pro circuit. There's leagues up to it all

around the United States playing mini golf. Oh man, what am I doing? Why am I here? I didn't know that, Todd? Can I have an apprenticeship underneath you? Can you teach me so that I can go on? Yeah? You could be as caddy. Oh no, people have cat Yeah. No, there's there's whole shot league. Yeah. Honestly all over the country. There is just so many nice courses. Wait, what makes it a course nice? Like a cool windmill? Well, it depends on what you're looking for, you know, Like some

people like more of a challenge. So there's a lot of courses with a lot more obstacles and things in the way. Um, some courses they use lighting, different fiber optic lighting to make the courses look tough. Can we just throw out the second date part of this and discuss pro mini golfer because this is fascinating to me. I've always just tried to not step in some little kids. Peh've been there. Oh no, No, some of these courses, they don't even allow kids a lot of a lot

of these pro courses. Oh, that's amazing. You have to tell where those are. All right, let's get to your date. So how was mini golfing with Laura? That was great. When I take a day out, I'm not trying to be competitive or anything, I'm just having fun and having good conversation and talking to her. And we have a lot of similar interests and stuff like that. But I guess there was just this one thing that we didn't agree on. Um, ninety five percent of the conversation was fantastic.

And I don't know if it's just this one little thing or what's going on. But you didn't get into like politics or religion or something like that, did you. No, No politics, no religion, nothing like that. It was actually we were talking about the lottery and we were saying, like, what would you do if you won like twenty million dollars? Yeah, how could you get in an argument about that, Well, she goes, she goes, I would donate it to charity, like all of it. Yeah, are you sure? Why do

you want to call this girl? She's obviously got bad judgment. I think that's really noble. Why would that be a bad choicelf? Why are you even playing the lotto if you're just going to give it away? Exactly? Because maybe you want to do good for mankind? You see, you and I wouldn't get along on a date either. All right, So you got into a heated discussion because she said she would give all of her lottery winnings to charity,

and I'm guessing you wouldn't give anything to charity. I would blow it on cars and going out and houses and do fun thing. I can actually see why that would be a reason not to call you back, because it doesn't. I mean, it says a lot about what type of person you are what you would do with that type of money. Right. You sound a little materialistic and selfish with that answer. Again, I'm not dating you. I'm trying to date somebody else. I'm just trying to

interpret why she wouldn't be calling you. But how he did things get with her over this? I mean, not like heated, but there was definitely a disagree ramon and you know, but luckily that was on like the seventeen toll anyway, It wasn't like the whole date was really shot anyway, but the majority of the date was great. And I'm just not getting a call back, and I just I don't know. How did the date end? You know, I walked her back to her car and m Gabriel

hug or whatever, and that was it. Well, I mean, I feel like a date is sometimes like a good movie. You remember the beginning in the end. The middle doesn't really matter that much. It's just the part to get you to the end. And if your end really well, it says everything. It's all she remembered. I mean, I guess I don't know. But if you like the whole, I mean, if you're entertained throughout the whole movie, you're gonna go see the feat No not if the end sucks,

you would never get along. Guys definitely would not be dating. So when she got in her car and stuff, did she seem like she wanted to see you again? Did she say anything or look at you in a certain way, you know that look Todd I mean, I don't know, she's just you know, she gave me a hug or whatever. It's like, Okay, i'll talk to you soon. And it'd really be a shame if she's not calling me back

because of that one thing. Like yeah, and that's why I hope you guys get her on the phone, because I just want to redo, you know, I mean, if that's give me a mulligan. Yeah, all right, Well play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. All right, thank you, all right, hang on it right in the middle of a second date update and if you're just joining us, Todd is on the phone, and Todd took a girl named Laura to mini golf

for their first date. He said ninety five percent of it's awesome, but there was a bad five percent when they got into a little bit of an argument about how they would spend the money if they won the lottery. Todd says he would spend it all the material things, Laura bleeding heart. Laura says she would give it all to charity. And I guess they argued about that a little bit. Todd. I do know one thing, if you won the lottery, you wouldn't be having to do a

second day update right now. You would have date options, that's for sure, right exactly now, if you guys go out again, are you going to be able to not bring this topic up? You know, I don't really think so. Like I think it's a it's a good thing if we bring it up again and talk about it. Yeah, it's an important topic. And I mean, after thinking about it a little bit, I mean maybe I would give some to charity. Like that can't be a totally bad idea, Todd,

do have soul? Or he's just telling her what she wants to hear. I didn't get another date. All right, I'm gonna doubt her phone number right now and get your second day up date. Okay, thank you? Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Laura please? Yeah? This is her? Hey Laura, how are you? This is Jebil from Brook and Jewbil in the morning. I'm fine. Who is this again? Jebil from Brook and Jewbil in the morning. It's a radio show, okay, which airs on the radio. I'm familiar

with the radio. I guess I'm just nice. Never heard of you guys, and I don't really know why you're calling me. Okay. Well, well, we're a show that's on the radio and we're calling you because we do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update, and you went out with one of our listeners recently. Um which one? Who? Who is this? WHOA? So there's a lot of options. Good for you? Well, I mean, I hope that's none of your business. But but no, who's who? Like,

was it Jimmy? No, it was not Jimmy. We haven't gotten an email from a Jimmy yet about going on a date with you, But we did get one from a guy named Todd. Oh okay that Todd. Yeah, I remember Todd. That's what that sounded like. He says that you guys went mini golfing. We did, and now he says you're not calling him back and he really wanted to see you again. What's wrong with Todd? I don't know if I feel comfortable talking to you people. Um, well,

what can I do to make you comfortable? Laura? This is all about your comfort. That sounded even creepier to me for some reason. How about we already heard his side of the story, so maybe it's your chance to tell yours. Oh so he told you his side of the story. Did he What did he tell you? Well, he told us that you guys went mini golfing, and

he says that most of it was great. And there was one time where he thinks he might have upset you because you two were talking about lottery winnings if you had won the lottery, and he said he would just buy a bunch of stuff, and you were saying that you would give it to charity, and he thinks maybe that's the reason you're not calling him back. Oh, I mean that's his opinion, and I don't agree with it, but I'm not going to not date him just because

I don't agree with him. Okay, So you didn't take it like as a red flag that it meant that he was materialistic and selfish. No, I think most people would probably not want to give all of their winnings to charity. I mean, I think that's probably normal. Like it wasn't like a good thing. But no, I mean that wasn't the reason. So if that wasn't it, then why don't you want to see Todd again? So? Does isn't that he wants to see me? Is that what

this is about is bothering me? Yes? This is exactly why we're bothering you, and he wants to see you again. Um okay that's super weird. Um. And if you can't see you again, he at least wants to know why. Well, okay, that's fair, I guess. So. Um he told you we went mini golfing, right, and that he's like a pro and all that. Yeah, he was really good. That like blew me out of the water. I didn't even know that those people existed. You went on date with a

pro athlete. It's pretty cool. I mean yeah, I mean no, it is. It is cool, like, and I did think that was kind of cool. I didn't know it was a thing either. But we were golfing and we're having a fun time and he gave me some pointers and all that stuff, and I made a hole in one. He was like yeah. Then he was like, hey, good job, and he smacked me on the butt and I was like, um, okay, that's that's stepping over a boundary right there. So you

didn't like that. It just it made me uncomfortable, you know, because like he's he's a dude. I'm a girl. I just didn't think it was appropriate. Usually you should share, like a first kiss before you go to butt grabs. Yeah, did you tell him that you were uncomfortable with that and to not do it again? No, I probably should have, but I just kind of I didn't want to, Like, we were having a good time and I didn't want to. I don't I just wanted to let it go because

he's a pro. I don't know, maybe this is the thing they do. I have no idea, and I just let it go. But then at the end of the game he did it again, and he was like nice playing with you, and like another little smack on that, and it just felt really gross and kind of porny. I don't know. Good job that club. You earned yourself a Buddhist lap, and not everybody gets one of those. Yeah, it was just really uncomfortable. Yeah, I can see how that.

Wait a minute, I could explain what's going on if you guys give me a chance to just say, like, I could explain this. You weren't supposed to jump in yet, Todd, Wait, what is going on, Laura? That's Todd. He's on the other phone, wants to talk to you and apparently has no patience. Yeah, he's a little aggressive. I think she's right. Oh, my god, Oh my god. Okay, No, it's okay, it's okay, because I could explain, like I'm just excited to like hear your voice again, you know, like we had a

good time. I would I just want to defend myself on that, like that's part of you know, I didn't mean across a barrier that I shouldn't have, but that's just a part of the game. You got a hole in one, and I was excited for you. That's like we do that in the league. And I know I probably should have said that, but it's just like just like part of the game. It's like a sports slap, Like when you're running out on the field and your coach gives you a little slap on the butt. Is

that what you're doing. It's just like in base fall. I'm sure you've probably seen people like, you know, slap each other on the eating baseball. Yeah, those dudes finol each other all the time. They follow themselves and each other. But the day Todd, those dudes know each other, they're on the same team, they've spent countless hours together. I mean we were already together for like thirty minutes, you know, and I just wanted to teller, congratulations and pass. You know, no, okay,

I'm not a guy. Okay, thirty minutes is not enough time for you to be able to touch my butt. That's not that's just not okay. And I'm not in the league with you. Girls. Don't understand why dude athletes do that anyway, Like you don't see lady athletes smacking each other on the butt. I don't know. I slap my girlfriends everyone as while like, hey, good game. What it is? Really? I don't know why not. That's really

weird and that's something you do. You're not doing a whole lot of butt slapping then, Laura, No, no, I'm not. And this is a date, Todd, like you crossed the boundary and I got you. I don't want to make you feel uncomfortable. You know. I wasn't trying to do that by any means. I was just getting really excited because you were getting really good at mini golf. We

were having fun, we were laughing. Maybe I just misinterpreted the situation, but you know, I would just like to get a mulligan here and go out on another date and uh, you know, try again and be respectful. Maybe we'll go out to dinner this time or something, and after you finish your food, you can give you a nice pat on the button. Be like a good job. Laura. Would you like to go out on a second date

with Todd? We will pay for it. I mean, I think I think his buttslap wasn't isn't thing I really do. And I feel like now he understands your boundaries. So maybe before he didn't get your boundaries. I don't know, but I'll tell you what what the next time we get together, I'll let you smack me on my butt twice just to get even. So that way, Laura, tunning off again on an even playing field, Laura, you get a free date, and you get two free buttslaps on everybody.

She doesn't want to. I don't want to be smacked, and I don't want to smack anybody. No but smacks on dates like just no. I think that's a fair rule, Todd. I can adhere to that, all right. I got you butt slaps are off limits, and that's fine with me, all right, Laura, So what do you say butt slaps off limits? Is the second date on? Will you go out with him again? Well, obviously, Todd, you went through all this trouble to do this, and the second date

wouldn't hurt. I had a good time other than the butt slaps, So why not? Why not? Yeah, yes, all right, you got a second date Todd. Congratulations woo. I just stood up and smacked my own butts. Congratulations. I'm smacking it for you over the radio, too. Good job, broken jewel in the morning text in at seven eight, five nine two says note to self, if I want to smack my date on the butt, just take them to do something sporting. Talking about today's second date update if

you miss it. Todd wanted to call Laura. She he wasn't calling back after their date mini golfing. We got her on the phone and found out the reason why, and it's because Todd is actually a professional mini golfer. I didn't even know that existed. But during their game, she would do something good and he'd like smack her on the butt, kind of like a sports slap, you know how you do that, And she was kind of weirded out by it, and why was this dude smacking

me on the butt. So she wasn't calling him back because he thought he was She thought he was a little handsy. He told her there was. He was just like innocently like, hey, good game or whatever, And they did decide to go out again, just no butt slaps anymore. I think it was good on everybody's I mean we talked it out. Yeah, yeah, they worked it out, and

now they're going on a second day. I remember, if you want to do a second day up date, all I have to do his email the show and we will call the person that didn't call you back.