Second Date Update PODCAST: Making it Nice

Usually I think the first is normally true. Usually the first one. Okay, Well, Matt, who's on the phone for a second date update today, was the alone guy in a bar. Oh, so that leads me to ask a question, Matt, which one are you? Are you incredibly creepy? Are you confident? How that works? I don't. I don't think it has to be on either side. I think, Okay, if I had to pick one, I'd say confident creepy. People always

are unaware. So why were you at a bar alone hitting on chick I just moved to my new apartment. I just got a new job, I got a new place, so I don't have any friends here yet that doesn't make me creepy. So I thought, let me go out to the bar. So I got the scene. Okay, So when I when you know, when I go out, I have to make friends there and see how the scene is going. And if I like how a girl is looking, I'm confident in my willing to go talk to her.

All right? Do you are you a like line dropper? Matt? I don't think I'm a line dropper. I think I think I just keep it real. I just just a normal conversation, you know. So you went to the bar alone out of necessity, not because you didn't have anybody would hang out with you. When you put it like that, it sounds different. I just read your email, and your email just said I was at the bar by myself, and then I met this girl. So what's her name? Her name was Kelly? Kelly? All right, and how did

you meet Kelly? Well? I saw her at the bar, and first thing I'm attracted to her, I was. I was really attracted to her. You know, she had a she had a nice I'm not gonna lie, I got my attention. So I went up to her, I introduced myself, and she was really liking me. She we were We had a good deep combo. She seemed like a really down on earth girl. And eventually, you know, things happened and she came back to my apartment. Wow, she came

back with you that night. Yeah, she came back with me that night, and you know, some stuff happened that I'll just leave it at that. Some stuff happened, and I've been trying to get in contact with us, so you know, I when she was leaving, I waited for her with a tax and everything. Everything was going fine. I gave her I even gave her a good night kids. I thought everything was perfect. Wait, she didn't spend the night. She just came over for a little while. Some things happened,

and then she left that night. Yeah, she left that night. She I don't I don't know whether it was my new apartment that scared her. She your new apartment that scared her. What do you have in your apartment? This boxes everywhere. I haven't really you know, settled in yet and made it my home. Oh you know what I mean, Like I haven't put all the way all my dungeon toys yet, you know, very scary stuff. No, it was just I have boxes everywhere, empty beer bottles on the

floor because I don't have my garbage yet. So the only thing that was up was my TV and the couch, and she noticed, you know, everything else was messy and I didn't really clean much all right, so it looks kind of like you're you're living in a cracked in sort of No, no, but at all. Does it smell Okay, it smells good. It smells fine unless I adjusted to it. So what did she say when she left? Well, we were sitting on the couch and kissing, and all of a sudden she backed off and said she has to

go to work early. And I didn't know where that came from, because we were having such a good time and I would have loved if she stayed. Was it late? It was late. It was about two am. Okay, that's not too bad. I mean, if you haven't started doing the other stuff yet, you might be like, well, I don't want to be up until like four or five in the morning when I have to work the next day.

That's true. I wish I got there. I mean, is there a chance that maybe she sobered up and realized, I don't know, you weren't as good looking as she thought in the bar, or she hey, it happens. Well, I don't like to think of myself as an ugly guy. I think of myself as handsome, so I hope that's not it. Yeah, and have you tried to get a hold of her since that night? Yeah? I texted her the next day, actually, just a regular hey, what's up? And she has not responded to me at all at all?

And what was the last thing that she said to you? The last thing she said to me was goodbye? Okay. I was just wondering if she sounded like she wanted to see you again, or did it feel like, hey, this is kind of like fun that we met and then messed around, but I don't want to have anything to do with you. She gave me the vibe that she would actually talk to me again. That's what hurts. So what do you think it is? Then? I think it was my apartment. I think I should have cleaned

up more. Maybe that would have helped. Yeah, but if you just moved departments, I mean, you think she would understand if there's boxing and stuff everywhere, that's what I saw. I'm not sure. I don't know what it is. Yeah, I really want to know. And why do you why do you want to get hold of her so bad? I mean, you see a relationship with this girl, or

you just want to finish what you guys started. I just moved, so I'm just looking for people to hang out with, and I would love to hang out with her. She's my first friend I met at my first friend. All right, well we're gonna play a song. Come back, call her and get your second date update. All right, thank you? All right, man hang brooking jubil in the morning. All right, if you're just tuning in for today's second date update, let me set the scene for you. Matt

is on the phone right now. And Matt went out to a bar all by himself, ended up finding an innocent girl named Kelly, and somehow convinced her to go back to his place, a place that is littered with boxes, beer bottles, a very very scary place, and while they were making out doing stuff on the couch, at some point she must have looked at a clock and realized it was getting late and said she had to leave. Okay, maybe it wasn't as creepy as I made it sound.

But Matt is on the phone and Matt went out to the bars because he just moved into his apartment, wanted to check out the scene around his house, and ended up meeting a girl there. He thinks the reason she's not calling him back is because his place is a mess because he just moved in. Matt, are you ready to call her and see if that is the reason that she's not getting back to you. Yes, I am, And have you cleaned up your place and actually unpacked your boxes so if she does actually want to hang

out again, she's not going to run into that mess. Well, it wasn't as creepy as you just made aside. It's a little bit better now, Okay, so you got it all cleaned up, all right? Well, I'm a dollar phone umber right now, get her on the phone and see if we can find out why she isn't getting back to you. Okay, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Kelly? Please? Hey, Kelly, how are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the morning.

Um okay, um um. How can I help you? Well, somebody recently sent us an email about you, and I want to see if you had a few minutes to talk to us. Someone you an email about me. Yes, okay. We do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then stop talking to them, they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and ask why who someone email you? Who

was it? His name is Matt, And I wouldn't say that you guys necessarily dated, but you did meet one evening and go back to his place and mess around a little bit. Okay, he told, Okay, yeah I met him. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we know that. So we talked to Matt a little bit after we got his email, and he told us sort of how you guys met, But he's confused why you're not calling him back. He asked us to get you on the phone and find out. That way he knows if he did something wrong, So he asked you

or whatever he reached out to find out. Yes, And as we tell everybody who does these things, they're fully prepared to hear anything that you have to say. Really, I'll tell you what he thinks it is, okay, and then you can tell me if I'm right or wrong. He thinks it's because his place wasn't ready like any boxes everywhere, and he said that he did't I was trash set up, so there was beer cans and so he feels like you might have thought his place was gross.

I mean, well he did look like kind of extra homeless in there, like, so that is that it? I mean no, I mean I understand he was moving, you know, but I mean it was dirty. I get it. Okay, it sounds like everything was fine and you guys had chemistry and liked each other. I mean we did up to a certain point. What are you laughing at? What are you laughing at? It sounds like so you think something is funny. Oh my god. Okay, okay, here we go. Yeah,

I'm excited to hear this. So we're, you know, we're there at his place kind of having a little you know, makeout situation happening. And he just stopped, like just like abruptly just stopped. And I'm looking because I'm trying to figure out what happened. Something tall, I mean, what's wrong? And he says huh. He says, hold on, I want to make it all nice for you. And I'm told the confused because I'm like, what is he gonna go

make up a bed? Somewhere. No, this guy says, I want to make it all nice for you and starts pointing down. You also put a bow on it. I was just like, it was just so weird. So he hops up and like shogs into the bathroom and I'm sitting there beating like I hear clippers and all right, Oh my gosh. So he stopped your makeout session to get up and go trim his area. Yeah, I guess, though he didn't come out with a new haircut, So I guess what did you say to him when he

came out of the bathroom. I just said, oh, look at that, it's late. I gotta go. I've never that's interesting. Never, I've never been in the situation where I'm making out with someone and been like, I mean, I've been where I'm like, oh man, I'm not the best down there right now, But I've never thought this is the appropriate time for me to stop and then go manscape right now? Yeah,

or you keep it quiet. Here's the thing, though, not when she's like in the waiting room, did he actually say the words let me make it nice for you before he did it? Yeah, that's amazing. I wonder if he's tried that before, and it's worked. I'd love to ask him that, Kelly, aren't you curious? No? Not really, that's too bad because he's actually on the other line listening right now. Are you kidding me? Wow? Like that's really why I'm sorry. I mean, but that was really weird.

It's not that we what's wrong with me making sure? I am good for you? I'm looking out for you. I did it for you, not when I'm sitting there ready to go. I just figured you would appreciate that. I mean, do you like it? MESSI in the future, when you're making out with a girl, don't stop bord to go get your man skate off. I normally take care of it, but I've been so busy with moving. I hate that when I'm busy with other things and then don't have time to mansk it. Why not just

tough it out at that point? Go all right, this girl, We're gonna do stuff. It's not the best right now, but just go ahead and power through. Jubil If that's how you think you obviously don't get ready girls, you know, maybe you're right. I just am away. If you stay ready, you ain't got to get ready. No, I was moving. I didn't even expects to meet a girl and Kelly

shows up just ready to go. But I mean, Matt, think about if the tables were turned and Kelly said, just wait a minute, and you heard a razor go in in five minute, like I would appreciate that. Yeah, And you know what, Matt, I actually really would too, honestly, I really would. Yeah. If a girl's like, hang on, I'm gonna go take care of some things and I'll be back as a guy, I would think that would be great. Yes, see, that's what I mean. I was

just trying to be respectful Kelly. Maybe the timing wasn't the best, but you gotta admit it was a nice gesture, and if you think about it, it's kind of thoughtful. It really it really actually is. It's like flowers. Really yeah, she's like, oh that's so sweet, and it's in the shape of a heart. Oh my god, I'm not that talented. I mean, you guys wanted me to be honest. Yeah, I would tell you what happened. Thank you very much

for being honest. It's an amazing story. I would like to ask if you will go on a second date with Matt, though I will pay for it. He'll be ready. Yeah, he'll trust me. Matt. Before you got on a date with Kelly, would you be man escaped before right if you knew everything is done? I mascaped and my apartment is clean. Oh my god, there you go, Kelly. You heard that. You heard that. He's all ready to go. His apartment is clean, everything is clean. Oh gross, Oh

my god. Him but to say this, but okay, you'll do it. You'll go out with him again. I will give him one more chip. Honestly, I'm excited. I think we we've already had too much information here, Matt. I don't need to broken jewel in the morning.