Looking Jules. Second. If you're a fan of the second eight updates, you know I always ask this question in the first part of the second ad up date. I always say, is there anything that you can think of that went wrong on the date. Most people can't think of anything. But the guy who email us to day knows exactly what went wrong on his first date. He hit on the waitress while he was out with a girl that he was out. Yeah. Kind of a big mistake there, Tommy, how you doing? It wasn't like that,
It wasn't like that. It was just she was pretty. She was very pretty eyes. Yeah. In other words, I think it's good to let people know that they look good and let makes me feel good. In other words, you hit on the waitress. I mean, no matter what, if I'm out with someone in the nick like compliment on her hair maybe, but to go you have nice eyes. Yeah. I did compliment her on her hair too. Oh. But that's the reason she's not calling you back, right because
you hit on the waitress. I feel terrible if that's what she thinks I was doing. And what did she do after you made that comment? Um, she was looking at the waitress. Did her tone change? I mean, I don't mean physically did she react to it, but it did the tone of the date change. I don't think so it didn't seem that way. Are you a guy who likes to give a lot of compliments? Had you complimented her a lot that evening? Prior to the waitress incident?
I did give her many compliments. I'm sure maybe too many. I got to make people work for it a little bit better. Tommy third date, at least, where was it that you guys met? We met on an online dating site? Okay, we talked for her a couple of weeks, and I finally got a new job and I wanted to celebrate, so I asked her to come out with me, and she said yes. Had you guys met at the restaurant? Yeah, we met and she blew me away when I when I saw her walked through the door, she was amazing.
She actually looked like the picture online. She looked better than her. Having done a lot of online dating, I can tell you that's not usually actually rare, it's very rare. It's like you went out with Bigfoot. Yeah. I think I had gotten lucky. So is that all you guys did on your day. Just go to the restaurant. Oh, that was it. We just had the restaurant, did a little walk through town. We really did have a great time. I think nice. How did the date end? After the dinner?
I paid to the date and I was walking it to her car, having a good time, laughing. I move in for a kiss and she gives me her cheek. So she actually shut you down for a kiss. I think so, but we had a good time. I'm not sure. So you're not positive that she gave you the cheek on purpose? Or do you think it was an accident that you kissed her on the cheek? And it could have been an accident. Who knows. I could have been hitting the way a lot of mixed singles. Did you
guys make plans to go out again? I was hoping that that was what was going to happen. I told her that I would contact her, and I tried a couple of times since her text give her a call and her back, and you'd be totally transparent with us about the waitress situation. You didn't like grab her number on the side at some point. No, come on, no, I wouldn't do that. It was just an innocent you have nice eyes comment. Yeah, so this whole thing boils
down to you saying that the waitress was pretty. That's it. That's the only thing I can think of, because everything was great up to that point. So how long has it been since the last day you tried to contact her? About a week? All right, So that's why I emailed you guys, and I figured maybe you guys can help me out. Yeah for sure. All right, we'll play a song, comeback,
call her and get your second date update. Okay, that's good looking jubil In the morning date Tommy is on the phone with us, and today he wants us to call a girl named Laura. They met online went out for dinner. The thing that he thinks went wrong during dinner is that he complimented the waitress, and that's when he thinks her mood kind of changed about him, which is understandable. He admitted that he complimented her hair and eyes. Tommy, you did going to anything else any more detail with
her that you're not telling us, did you? Like? You didn't go like, hey, nice ass, you know what I mean? She was walking away or anything? Oh, definitely not. Definitely, don't do that. I'm not an idiot. So it's just hair and eyes. That's all you complimented on the waitress in front of your date, and that's where you think could have gone wrong. Yeah, I think it could have been anything else. I didn't ask. Was a waitress uncomfortable by your compliments? No? She smiled, She didn't. She didn't
seem uncomfortable at all. No, okay, so everything seemed normal. Well I'm gonna dollar phonnel right now, see if we can get Laura on the phone and find out if you being attracted to the waitress is what ruined your date. I wasn't hitting on her, who was just an innocent comptence. Where all right, I'm a dollar phonnel right now. Hello. Can I speak to Laura? Please? Yeah? This is she. Hey Laura, how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, are you guys calling
me from the radio? Yes? We are, Laura. Hey, any idea why I'm calling you? No? Did I know? Well? We do a segment on a show called the Second Date Update. It's basically, if you go out on a date with somebody and ended up blowing them off, they email us to get you on the phone. And ask why, so you recently went on a date with somebody who listens to our show. Oh okay, his name is Tommy, and Tommy told us a little bit about your date. But he also told us that you're not calling him back,
and he was wondering if he did something wrong. Um, he's a really nice guy. Um yeah, bless her heart, but he's a nice guy. But what, Laura, I just can't take him seriously. You can't take him seriously? Why is that? It just the date just didn't go as well as he may have thought it did, Laura. He told us about your date. He said that he complimented the waitress during your date, and he thinks that might
have turned you off. Maybe it felt like he was actually hitting on somebody else while he was out on a date with you. Yeah, yeah, that was part of it. That was so that did bother you? Okay, this kind of made me feel like maybe he was like looking to date somebody else while he was on a date with me. Is that what you mean by you couldn't take him seriously? Um? No, he just maybe he's just a really nervous persons. Like it started off and he like ordered wine for us which was a nice gesture.
And he was trying to order peanut grigio, but he like ordered it peanut Gregario or I'll have the peanut noir. Yeah, he was he trying to be funny. I mean, was that just a joke that didn't go over very well? No, No, he just ordered it and I tried to hold in my lap. So he didn't know he was being funny,
but he was being very funny to you. I don't know, I don't want to be like snobby or anything, but I think he might be like outside his realm of culture or something like, am I going to a restaurant? I mean it's pinot griggio? So was that it though? I mean the mispronunciation of pinot grigio and the hitting of the waitressing on a date probably not going to
get a second date. So are you saying that he's a little more like, hey, supersize that, then go out to dinner in order bottle of wine kind of guy and you're into a classier type of dude. Yeah, because it's like our conversation was interesting. You know, he'd just gotten a new job and he was talking about that, and but he said his first adult paycheck was going to go for him to get cryogenically frozen. What you know you tell me about that. Everything you just said
right there is really strange to me. I'm gonna go ahead and pick that apart his first adult paycheck. He said that, Yeah, he's an adult. Right When I talked to him, he sounded like an older guy. Yeah. Yeah. Did he explain that has he been living at home? Has he been working I don't know, a part time job.
I didn't get a chance to ask him because he was so excited about what he was putting it towards and went into the whole thing about technology and he's going to put his money into this so that he can be frozen and then one day they'll be able to put him back. I support him on that, Laura, I actually think that's kind of an awesome idea, the cragetically, But I can see how that would sound a little weird to you. It's totally weird. Yeah, it was just too weird for me. I just I didn't want to
have a second date. Okay, Well, at least don't you wish that Tommy would know how to pronounce the name of the wine that he's trying to order while he was on your date. Why don't you tell him how to pronounce it because he's actually on the phone listening, Laura, Oh my god, are you doing I'm sorry. I I didn't obviously know you were listening. Um well I was, um and uh. And as far as being cryogenically frozen, it is a proven pathway to eternal life, Tommy, I'm
with you on the cryogenically man. I just want to let you know behind you on that that's an exciting stuff. Yeah, it's just it's just weird for me. I mean, well, you know, science is weird to stupid people sometimes. Oh my god, Tommy, No, I wasn't calling you stupid. I was just saying that that's something that happens. See, this is exactly it. You don't know how to talk to people like you don't even realize it. Like you just called me stupid and you have no idea. I didn't
call you stupid. I said the idea of what you think is stupid. Okay, that might be in your brain, like that might be what you're thinking, but that's not what you're saying. So you have to my brain. You're not in mind people, my brain if you were in my brain, you would know that cryogenically freezing yourself is a viable way. I think maybe you should freeze yourself right now, Tommy. You just maybe I won't and then
I'll come damns on your grave, Tommy. You are you just feeling a little hurt, Tommy that she said that you weren't the brightest guy and that you're kind of a little hurt? Okay, a little hurt. Are you attacking her? And you know that you are? I'm not knowingly attacking her? No, it sounds like you are. Wow. No, that was pretty knowing. No, I didn't know. No, that's I didn't know. I was hitting on the waitress. Priorgenically freezing yourself as smart, and
I didn't realize that you were too dumb to get that. Wow, you're calling me dumb. You don't even know how to say Pinot Greeno, not Gregaria. I know how to say it. I could say right now if I wanted to, let's hear it, Tommy, how do you say the name of that one? Yeah? No, I don't have to prove you well. I always do this at the end of the second dates, I think I know the answer. I'm both of your part now, But Laura, would you like to go out with Tommy again? I will pay for a second date
for you. Guys answer for her. No, oh no, no, that's the first thing you've gotten. Right. Well, Laura, thank you for your time. I appreciate it. Thanks for being honest with us about why you didn't want to go out with Tommy again. Yeah, no, no problem. Have a good one you too, Tommy. Yeah, don't take this the wrong way, but you do sound a little condescending talking to her. No, I'm not condescending. I'm just smarter than her. Okay, all right, Well hit me up about the crowd jenic
stuff because I'm actually really interested in that. Okay, where to go and what to do? How to do? What you mean? Yeah? Well, um, there's a couple of places online that do cryogenically. I don't actually want to know. Yeah, you don't email me. Yeah, that's broken jewel in the morning.