Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put away that mouse and get out of the house. Join in the Loop, Seattle's brand new activities clubs just for singles. Put in the Loop singles dot com Today Rooking Jebels second date of day. It's tough as a guy when you go out on a date with a single mom and the woman happens to be raising a little hater, you know what I mean, Like the kid hates you because the kid has smarts and the mom isn't quite
figured it out yet. Doug emailed us about a girl he went out with named Gwynn, and apparently Doug had a problem with her kid, right Doug, Oh, yes, yeah, Hey you guys. First of all, explain to us how you met Gwynn. We met on a dating website. I had just saw her profile and thought she was cute and messaged her and uh went pretty well. Could I ask you why were you meeting the kid on the first date. I wasn't meeting the kid on the first date, but the date went well, so you ended up back Okay?
You know she she had to get back early to put the kid to bed and stuff. So what do you guys, do when you went out. We just went out and grabbed a bite to eat and we went to go see a play. So okay, that's a nice day. Yeah. And so then things progressed and you went back to her place. Yes, you know, she let the babysit her go and she put the kid to bed, and I don't know, I mean things things were going really well. We were talking and you know, hanging out on the
couch and uh. And then I love how you're just like sidestepping what you were really doing. You know, you know, we talk a lot, a lot of a lot of talking, a lot of talking. Okay, but yeah, And I mean the kid gets up and like comes. I don't mean, you know whatever. It's the kid's house too, I get it, you know, wherever he wants. I like that you just call him the kid, dud. Did he walk in on you guys making out? I mean, not like, what's what's
making out? What's your definition kissing? Fooling around a little bit? I mean she heard him coming, she heard him coming out of his bedroom, and then she she stopped and threw to the other side of the couch and tried to act like everything was normal, right, Yeah, j Mommy was just working out. Mommy was just working out a little out of breath. So how old is her child? I don't six. I think I'm not good with kids ages. He could literally be anywhere between like four and twelve.
I don't know five year old. So what did it do though? When it? When it saw you or you know? The kid? So the kid comes around the corner and he's tired. It's he's like, you, I want to watch cars. I want to watch cars, and you know, I'm just I'm just sitting watching this all go down. And she's like, you know, sweetie, it's time to go to bed, It's time to go to bed. And I swear to God, I sweat. The kid points at me and says, Mommy, I don't like him. Little kid was trying to block you.
Oh man, I love this kid. What did you say? Kids? Funny? Little like? I said, yeah, did you try to defend yourself against the six year old? I tried to kind of stay out of it because this is her house. She was like, well, sweetie, you don't. This is mommy's friend. His name's Doug. And you know, she tried. I was. I tried to introduce myself, but he wasn't having it. Yeah,
she's not interested. So so she ended up like going and taking him and like putting him into bed, and I'm just hanging out in the living room for fifteen minutes, um, And I mean, honestly, that was kind of it. She she came back and said, you know, maybe we should pick this up another night, right, Okay, So that's how it ended then, with the six year old hating on you, and then you six year old kicks you out. Yeah, the six year old kicks you out of his house. Yeah,
so that's how it ended. Did you, guys kiss goodbye or anything and say like set up another time for a date or anything like that. Yes, I kissed her, and I thought even with that, I thought that it went well. I absolutely thought that I was going to see her again. But we didn't set up another date then. But it sounded like you handled the whole thing really well. Yeah, I mean, and then, yeah, stop trying to so salt in my game hating on me. I'm tired. Are you
hating on me? You hate on me because you hate me? Kid? Go to bed? Yeah? Have you have you tried to reach Gwenn? Have you called her I have UM. I called her a couple of times, left a couple of voicemails, and I sent her an email. UM and I don't know, like it's been a week. I just haven't heard back from her. All Right, we'll play a song, come back and call her and get your second date update. All right, all right, all right, hang on me looking jubil in
the morning. All Right, we're about to call Gwyn on behalf a dog because Doug was punked by her six year old son, right, Doug, Ye, Doug met this girl, Gwyn on a dating website. She is a single mother. They went out at a good time, ended up going back to her place, started messing around a little bit watching a movie. After she put her son to bed. Son woke up at some point walked in the hallway and was crying that they wanted to watch a movie or whatever like kids do. And then at that point
pointed at him and said, I don't like that. Man, defense, you can't really do anything back, Yeah, you can't. A little kid you want to see it, but you know that's gonna be really bad if you do. So, she put the kid in to bed, came back and then told Doug to leave, not in a mean way. She said that you would make plans. But Doug hasn't heard from her since, so I want to give her a call. Doug.
Did you ever address to her like, hey, I hope your kid starts to like me at some point or not really just because like I don't want to like move too fast. I was just like, I was just like, hey, you know, let's go out again. I really liked you. You shouldn't speak that way to his father, all right, you refer to me as new dad. Rounded. Okay, we're gonna get her on the phone right now and see if we can find out why she won't call you back. Okay, Okay, Hello,
I was looking for Gwen. Yeah, that's me. Hey Gwen, how are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Okay, what's going on? Do you even know who I am? Do you know who I am? Okay? That's enough? Do you though? You don't? Do you? We host a radio show and we do a segment on our show where if someone goes out on a date with somebody and they get blown off, they email us to call that person and ask why you went on a date recently
with a guy named Doug. Doug told us that he enjoyed your dating. You had kind of made verbal plans to go out another time, but you haven't been answering his emails or phone calls or anything. Is there a particular reason why it's not going to work out with Doug? Well? Why the laughter? Why do you know? So definitely? WHOA, We're not gonna gel. It's just not going to work out. Is it because your kid doesn't like him? He told us that your kid came out in the middle of
your dating and said, I don't like him. Uh. The next morning, I was talking to my son and I said, you know, why didn't you like mommy's friend? And he said, well, Mommy, that man litters. I said, I said he litters and he said yeah. And he took me in the bathroom and he pointed at the floor to a rapper and I picked it up and it was a little individual rapper for viagra. Are you sure that's where I thought it was going to? So he was on your date and he popped a viagra yea. Not only did he
uh come prepared, but Doug can't get it up. All right, hold on, hold on, hold on, I need to address something, um, Gwen, Gwen, that's Doug. Doug is on the phone with us. He's on the phone. Yeah, Why would you say something like that on the radio? Why would you do something like that. I can't even believe a human being would treat another human being in that way. You can't believe that a human being would want to prepare themselves to bring pleasure
to another humans. Think a soldier doesn't load his gun before he goes into battle. I don't think so. I was trying. I was trying to be considerate. It seemed I was getting a lot of signals from you. It seemed like it was going to be going in a certain direction. We couldn't discussed the situation. You didn't just jump the gun, so to speak. Sorry, but that aside, that aside, aside from the fact that I really don't want to go out with a guy who's got a
limp noodle. Okay, Look, it's it's it's it's it's a thing that a lot of people deal with every single day, like this is a problem that millions of men suffer from. Jubil backing up on this, I don't know what you're talking about. This is the only time you men will
never have each other's back. Bro, you came to a first date in my house with my child thinking you were gonna get lucky enough to need viagra to be prepared, and if the child had not come out, I dare say I would have used Come on, you gotta be honest for him. Making out is a far cry from getting in the pants like a dug just jumps the gun. He's like she made eye contact taking an pop the pill. Oh, come on, Gwen, But you like Doug. I mean you
brought him back to your house. I liked him, but you should have seen his face when my son came out. It looked like a dread disease had entered the room. Nobody wants to me around a kid when you're in the state he was in. After takings, we get the kid out. At this point, I would like to ask you guys, if you'd be willing to go out on a second date. We will pay for it. Gwen, would you like to go? I'm gonna say a resounding no. Okay, And Doug, you don't want to go out again? Right? No? No,
I'm good I'm good. Thank you well, Gwen, thank you for your time. Appreciate it. Yeah, you're welcome, and I'm sorry, Doug. Listen, I don't feel like I have anything to defend. I am so glad that you guys did this for me. You think you're dodging the bullet, huh yeah, thank you so much. Hell yes, well you're very very welcome. I've clearly dodged something, but it's not as a bullet broken jubil in the morning. I used to bite my tongue
and hold my breath. Les get to rock the bullet and make a mess, so I said quietly,
