Second Date Update PODCAST: Judging Game

play Checkers on a first date, man, Yeah, thanks. I thought that was a little too run of them though, you know, yeah, exactly, Mike knows. I'm talking about everybody's always playing checkers on first day. Tom, I know, I know. Why are we so obsessed with checkers? Right now? What

did you do on your first date? Well, so we went to a bar, right and like, we got to the bar, and I wanted to do something fun and I wanted to break the ice, and so I decided, like the two of us should play this game together. You know, Okay, what game? I thought, We'll look at the bar and we'll pick out a person and we'll guess that person's name and what they do for a living. Oh, I like that game. I play that game. I don't know that there's a name for that game, but I

also play that game. Yeah. It's fun, like you get to show each other like a little bit your personality, you laugh, and you get to judge people all at the same time. Super fun. It's just like making funny backstories about how maybe they like worked at a manure plant a while back. Totally. Totally. Yeah. So like after the game, I thought, let's go talk to them and like actually see like how did we do? Oh wow,

that's a risky. Did you just go up to him and be like, hey, we've been watching you all night trying to guess what you do for a living, and we want to see if we're right, and then ask them a bunch of questions. So, you know, you go up to them and you just sort of like casually ask them about themselves, and you just try and like

you know, drop it in. Like I mean, it's easy to start with the name right, and then like you naturally get to like what they do for a living, and like it turns out we got one guy right. So what did this guy do that you got right? Well, so he works in it. And we looked at him. We saw his t shirt. It was like a computer graphic and he was wearing some glasses and he was like nursing his drink in the corner and and you know,

we both we both thought like it. And we're talking to him and he tells us he works in it. And as soon as he said that, just instinct, like she and I high five and he looks at us real weird. Maybe he just thinks you're really passionate about it. Jobs like, hell, yeah, guys, can I get in on that high five? Two? Yeah? Yeah, I mean, like we totally would have high five then. Like it was a great moment. Okay, so it sounds like you had a good time. Yeah, it was so much fun. Like we

kept going around and like meeting more people. And there was this other table that we introduced ourselves too, and we like we hung out with them. We laughed. I was enjoying myself. She was enjoying herself this table, like they enjoyed hanging. We're like, hey, I mean, everything sounds great till this point. How did you end everything? You know, we both had to be up for work the next day, and like we both decided let's call it a night,

and we walked outside. I gave her a hug, and it was just like it was a really nice day, like, you know, nothing awkward. It was just like a nice hug at the end. And I haven't heard from her since, did you? I mean, did you get time through all this game and hanging out with your new group of friends to actually get to know her very well? I

mean I thought so, yeah. You know, I thought like we got a chance to show each other like how we interact, and you know, there were no like awkward silences that like I tend to experience on first dates. You know, we got to sort of like we got to sort of like hang out with each other and like see how we interact with lots of different kinds of people. I thought it was awesome. Okay, so after the date, did you make plans to hang out again?

We didn't make concrete plans, but we both said, like, yes, let's hang out again. We both she confirmed that she had a good time, and I was like very clear, like this was awesome. I would love to see you again. You think she's not calling you back? Then? You know, like I don't know there was one moment like during the night when like I made one joke about one guy that like I just thought it was a joke that like didn't land right, you know, what was a joke.

So we were looking at this one guy trying to guess his name and what he does, and like his clothes were like real shabby, didn't look like he prized like personal hygiene, and like I made a comment and a joke about like, well he's probably poor. Oh dude, Okay, that's a joke, you right, you know, if you're right, I don't know, I will be steered clear of that guy. Yeah, you don't want to talk to poor people anyway, right, Yeah, how did she react when he said that? Did she

seemed upset? I mean there was like a look, right, she seemed a little bit like, oh he wins the little Yeah, of course he's poor. You're gonna win because wins because she's at uncomfortable and yeah, but but I didn't think it was more than that. I mean, like, I'm poor, I couldn't care less if she's poor, right, Like joke, Okay, so so you think maybe she's not calling you back because she didn't like that joke. I mean,

that's that's really all I can think of. Okay, cool, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. All right, Okay, awesome, thank you guys. Okay, hang on focking Jebels second date update date if you're just joining us for today's second date update. I'm really surprised that Mike, who was on the phone to call Deanna right now for another date, isn't getting a call back, because normally women love it when you make fun of poor people on days. Mike, I'm surprised,

Like that's always been a go to for me. Just sometimes you just drive around the city and laugh at homeless people, and it's always gotten me so far with ladies. That is not that is not fair. That is not all what I meant. It was a light joke and it didn't land. It didn't land, all right. If you're wondering what we're talking about. Mike went out with this

girl named Diana. They went to a bar and they spent their night playing a fun game where they would look at people and try to guess their occupation and all that, and then even go up to them later and meet them and then find out if they were right, but he feels like she might not be calling back because he had a poorly time joke where he looked at someone and said, I bet you that guy's just poor and didn't look like she thought it was funny. It sounds worse here. I never heard. Did you ever

approach the poor guy and find out what he did? No, we steered clear of him. I thought it was probably not best to revisit. Yeah, yeah, just leave that in the past and move forward. And even then, it sounds like you recovered because you said that she was interested in hanging out again at the end of the night. It sounded like it. Yeah. And when we kept hanging out, we kept meeting these other people. She had a great time. Yeah,

all right, cool, Well, I'm about to die her. Fun of her right now and see if we can find out why she's not getting back to you. Okay, awesome, Thanks, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Danna please? This is Danna, Hey, Danna, how are you? This is jew Bil from Brook and Jewbwil in the morning Brook and Jewbil in the morning Brook and jewels the first name, last name in the morning. Don't listen to him what are you calling me about? What's happening?

It's Brooke and Jewel in the morning. It's a radio show, and we got an email about you from one of our listeners about me. Yeah, his name is Mike. Can you guys went out on a date the other night? Oh? Why did he email you? Guys? That was a tone change because we do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. So Mike had a really great time. He says, he thought you had a good time too, But now you're not calling him back, So, well, that's interesting,

that's interesting. You don't think that he had a good time. You could say that. Yeah, his description of the date is like picture perfect, almost like you guys were laughing, you're high fiveing, you gave hugs. Oh that's true. I thought we had a really good time. I had fun. But apparently he didn't have good enough time. Why do

you say that? I mean, how much do you guys know? Well, we know that you guys went to a bar and then played a game where you would guess people's occupations and stuff, then went and talk to people and found out if you were right. Yeah, yes, pretty much. All he told us was it the poor joke. He told us about the poor joke, how he tried to make fun of somebody and it didn't really work very well. Now, the whole thing was us judging people. It was that

was I mean, that was fine. Um, so you're into that, all right, Yeah, I mean I was even joking about somebody saying that they were probably a professional like hamburger eater or something. We were just joking. It was all good fun. It was fine. Okay. So if that didn't bother you, then why don't you think he had a good time? Okay, So did he tell you like we made some friends. He told us that, you guys talked

to a lot of people. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, there was this one group in particular that like we kind of ended the evening with. We were sitting sitting at the table and like you know, having drinks and having laughs and like we had along really well. Okay, all that sounds good, Like you told me anything that sounds bad yet. So so the point is I had to work in the morning. He had to work in the morning, so

it was time to go. You know, we give each other a hug, We say, you know, I had a great time, like to see each other again, and at this point, you think that you guys are going to

go out again. I thought so. Yeah, So we say goodbye and I get home and one of the girls from the table sent me a friend request on Facebook, so you know, I accepted her friend request and like, I had not been home that long, and she sent me a message on Facebook saying that she's like, I don't I don't know if you know, but this guy that you were in with is back at the bar. And he was like, she told me she's there, like in real time, like telling me, like what's going on

with this guy? But he's like at the bar, like flirting with other girls. He was going to go home, so he yeah, didn't go home. Yeah, but it's the same thing you guys. I mean, it's one date. It's not like you're in a relationship. He has no reason to be. But I'm just saying, it's kind of weird for him to say goodbye to me and go back into the bar where we just had a date and he's hitting on other girls. Yeah. Yeah, I mean I guess I could see that I'm still on the fence.

Is that weird? I would say that's weird, Like he said, he was going home. He lied. Obviously, he's not that into me, and I'm just not into that. Okay. Well he said that he was into you, Well it seems otherwise. Okay, Well maybe you want to ask him, because he's actually on the other line listening to this conversation and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yep? Mike? Are you there or have you called another radio show already? Yeah? I'm here, Hi, Piana, Hi Mike. Well there's a comely

reasonable explanation to all of this, Okay. I came with a jacket, and when we walked out of the bar, I left it in there, so I went back in to get my jacket. So you're saying you forgot your jacket and then you accidentally started flirting with other women. No, No, I'm saying that I don't get to like have a lot of nights where I get to like socialize. I don't go out a lot. And so when I went back in to get the jacket, I went back to the table that we had been hanging out with, and

I just like staying. I hung out with them and I had a good time. I wasn't hitting on other girls, really, So why would this girl tell me that you were I have absolutely no idea. I wasn't even talking to her. I was talking to like the other guys at the table more than her. She has no reason to send you that like that way out a line. So you're just telling me that she just made it up, that she just decided to tell me, just make up that you were flirting with other women. Why what would she

do that for? Why would she tell me that. Look, yes, were there other women at the bar that I spoke to, Yeah, was I hitting on them? No, like not at all. I hear you. I just it just seems different than what I heard, and it just it just felt really really crappy, you know, like I had a good time with you. Okay, if you're asking if I am banging anyone that we need oh wait, that's the word that you jump to actually said flirting. Yeah, you went from

zero to one hundred. Well, I just thought like, let's put all our cards on the table, you know, yeah, put it out there, Mike. You did you put them all out there? Yeah? Mike, I didn't say you were banging other people? Like well, I mean I just got like I feel like I'm being a use here. Yeah, but she said flirting Mike. Yeah, yeah, Well call a spade a spade, like I know, I know, I don't know. I just had a good time. This is such an

intense conversation after a first day. Mike sounds like a sketch ball, and I don't know about a sketch ball. Like that's a little bit harsh. I agree, But you know, like both of you sound a little crazy on the phone right now to because it's not my fault. I was brought into this on the radio. Yeah I was. I was happy to just leave it alone, you know.

I'll give you that look, Dianna. I like you. I had a good time, and I obviously wouldn't be calling this radio station again in touch with you if I'm always banging somebody else. Mike, stop it, we get it, We get it. Mike, Danna, would you like to go on a second date with Mike. We will pay for it. Assure you he's not banging anybody else at that barn. Please, Dana,

please go out with me again. Like I swear on my life, on my brother's life, on my mother's life, on my grandmother's life, that I was only going back into that bar to get my jacket. Wow, you hear that, Danna. People will die if Mike lying? So would you go out with him more time? I mean I don't want to hurt his mom. Okay, yeah, all right, so that's a yes. You'll see you'll go on a second day with Mike. Sure, yes, Okay, that's amazing. Okay, thank you.

I promise you will not regret it. We'll have a great, great time. Okay, but I keep the banging talk to a minimum. Jewil in the morning got to text in at seven eight, five to nine two says that guy is totally lying. He definitely went back to that bar to hit on other women. Yes, he was. You missed today's second date update that was taped while Brooke was still here. Jackie is filling in while she's out on maternity leave. Mike wanted to call a girl named Diana

who wasn't calling back after their date. Apparently, while they were out on their first date, they kind of played a game where they would look at people and guess what they did for a living and stuff, yeah, a thing, and then they'd go up and talk to those people and find out if they were right. Well after they left each other for the evening. Apparently they made friends with some people and one of the girls text in and was like, Hey, that guy back here again, and

he's totally hitting on everybody. So she didn't want to call him back because he figured that he was just a player. And he went back to the same bar they were just hanging out at to hit on people, and he swore that he forgot his coat there and he just ended up like hanging out and he doesn't know a lot of people and have a lot of friends, so he was just having a good time, and she

bought it and agreed to go out with him again. Say, she had someone that was almost a stranger, another female that went out of her way to say, girl, he's a dog and she I mean, normally girls, you know, that's the kind of girl you want to be friends with. But you know, Jackiet girls are haters like that. Like if if I went back to the bar and I was just like randomly having conversations with like five other women that night, somebody's gonna be like, he's hitting on girls.

That's just how it works. And all I was doing was just trying to hang out with my friends and my new friends that I met because I forgot my jacket. Yeah, totally inn Anyway, they agreed to go out again. If you want to do a Seconday at update, all you have to do his email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. It is Friday, so young Jeffreyes song of the Week just a few minutes way at eight ten