Second Date Update PODCAST: It’s a Dog-gone Shame

while he was shopping for some pants. I'm guessing it went down exactly how it always goes down when I lived for pants, right, Ramona, Okay, I did not measure his in team. Okay, whatever. Tell us a little bit about the guy that you want to call today. What's his name? His name is John John and your email said that you met him while he was shopping in your store at the mall. Yeah, and he was shopping for pants. But I didn't measure him. Did you hit on hammer? Did he hit on you? I kind of

had you hit on him. He's really shy, which I liked. You know. He was like, clearly he had no idea what he was doing. He does not shop for himself. He didn't even know what size he was, so he needed like a lot of help, and that was kind of fun. And I mean I saw attracted to him right away, But what attracted you to him right away? Well, okay, he's really good looking, so there's that. And I liked

the way that he didn't hit on me. I'm so used guys coming in there, and I must get hit on, like twenty five times a day in that store, And like he was really there to buy pants, and I kind of got it. You actually just want clothes is so weird? Get out of my store out? Yeah, No, I liked it. You sound like he still really like him. I kind of really like it. Yeah, how did you ask him out? I didn't ask him out? You know, I just kept trying to get his attention. So I

just kept dropping hints. What kind of hints we know? Like I would say, oh no, those aren't good, why don't you try to sea? And I would pick the ones on the bottom shelf on purpose, so I would have to bend deliver to I knew it. And I knew that every single time a girl bends down to pick up something, she's trying to taunt me, contempt me with her backside. I knew it. No, I think that might be true. A girl is not trying to taunt you, she'll probably squad. Did he pick up on your signals?

He went to check out, and when he was leaving already, I sort of went up to him and I said, oh, I'm glad you got those. And I took the receipt out of the bag and I wrote my number on it and I could you know, if you have any problems with the pants, here's my personal number. You can always call me. Right. That's a good that's a good sign.

Imagine that though, if he calls you and he really does actually just have a problem with the pants, You're all excited when you pick up the phone, be like, oh my god, it's him and he's like, yeah, so remember those pants, And there's a little fretting on the end. Could I bring him back in? And then, knowing me, I'd probably fall from him a hard Yeah? Right, Oh my god. He still doesn't like me, so obviously he used the phone number. Did he just call you right

away or text you right away and ask you out? Yeah? He texted me like a few hours later, like do you want to have a drink after work? And I was like, yeah, I'm off in like half hour. Oh my god, you were freaking out, weren't you. I mean kind of, but I was also kind of happy that it was like right then and I didn't have time to freak out. Really it was it made me feel relaxed that we were going like right away. So did you guys go to the food court? Then you work

in a mall? Where'd you guys meet up for drinks? No? We did. We left and we went across the way to a restaurant and bar. It was like happy hour coming up, so we sat and we talked for like a half hour until happy hour hit, and then we just got some drinks and it was so fun. First of all, he totally loosened up after I got a drink in him. Really, he was like chit, chattie. We talked about like everything. It was so nice, like I had such a good time, And how did your date

end with him? Okay, this is where it gets a little weird and I don't know what happened, and I've been well, okay, I'll just tell you. So after about an hour and a half and we had had a couple of drinks and I really thought we were having fun, he says, So I'm having a really good time and I hate to do this, but I really got to go because I got to get up early for work in the morning. Okay, and it was six thirty at night.

What do you mean right, It's not like it was nine thirty or ten thirty, because even then I would have thought, okay, that's a little early, but sick thirty. Yeah, but maybe he knew, like if you guys continue to hang out like it's more drinks, you know, it does end up being a long night. Yeah, but if I would have done it, like if he liked me, wouldn't he have well whatever, And then he gives me a hug goodbye, no kiss, just a hug. And then I got home and I texted him I had a really

good time and he responded immediately like me too. So great to meet you. And I was like, great, we should do this again and his response was like yeah, I'd love to. And then I never heard from him again and that was it, and that was it. And that was four days ago. So yesterday I text him, hey, how are the pants? Because I thought it would be funny or whatever, and I thought maybe it would make him response nothing, not one, and so now I'm embarrassed at I even since sat pet and I'm like racking

my brain, like did I talk too much? Or like did I say something dumb? Like I don't know, I don't know. I'm like, I mean, he asked me out, so he left the way. We spent a little time together in the store. So it's not the way I look, not the way it smells, not you know what I mean, you really thought this out. There's a lot of scenarios playing out in your head right now. Days a million miles an hour. We'll play a song, come back, call

him and get your second day update. All right, okay, thank you in the morning if you're just tuning in for the second date update. Ramona is on the phone with us, and today she wants to call a guy named John. They met at the mall she works there. He came into her store to buy some pants and then she slid him her number and he texted her later and they had a happy hour together. It was great. And then the date ended and he's not calling her back.

So her happy hour has turned into sadness hour. Where you go out and from five to seven at a bar, they serve you nothing but empty glasses, no beverages to enjoy, empty plates where appetizers should be, just a napkin, and sadness. It's sadness hour for Ramona right now. But we're gonna call John and hopefully get him on the phone and find out if there's a chance to salvage what they once had. Ramona, are you ready to see if you can get your happy hour back? I am? Are you

tired of sadness hour? I am tired sadness hour. We're about to dial a phone of her right now and see what went wrong again. Ramona has no idea what could have gone wrong. On the date she said, everything seemed to be fine. The weird thing was at about six thirty, after happy hour was over, he said he had to leave so he could get up early for work, and then hasn't talked to a really sense, not a word. I don't think it's going to be that bad. I

have hoped for you. It's only been four days. He could just have been busy or lost his phone or something stupid. I'm book from your mouth to dig years all right here, I go now the phone of her right now and get him on the phone. Hello, Hey, can I speak to John. Please, speaker John. How are you. This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. What this is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Wow. I okay, it's nice to meet you. Yeah. Yeah, nice to meet you too. Why

are you calling me? I'm actually calling you because one of our listeners recently sent in an email and asked if we could get you on the phone to ask a few questions about something. Huh. Her name is Ramona and you met her at the mall. Oh boy? Wow? Um, yeah, I remember meeting Ramona. Okay, do you remember going to happy hour with her after? Yeah? Okay, Well, Ramona sent us an email telling us about how she met you

and how she really enjoyed happy Hour with you. But since then, you haven't texted or called her back, so she was wondering if we could get you on the phone and find out if something went wrong during happy Hour or if there's a reason why you're not calling her back. She's a really nice girl. She's pretty attractive too. Um oh, that's a good review. Pretty, she's pretty attractive for me. She's on the okay scale. I mean she is, you know, I just don't want to say anything bad

about her behind her back, you know. Okay, so there is a reason that you're not calling her back, Yeah there's okay. Well here's how it works. So she emailed us because she want us to call you and find out why you're not calling her back. So you're really not talking behind her back. If you could just tell us what the reason is so that we can, you know, go back to her and say, hey, this is what happened.

I don't know. I just hate the feeling that like I might be saying something about her behind her back. But now, trust me, trust me, you're not saying anything about her behind her back, I promise. Okay. Um, So we're talking, we're we're having some drinks, we're paving a pretty good time, and somewhere in the middle of it, I got this this red flag and it just kind of made me skeptical, and so I kind of just decided against the whole thing. Okay, Well what was the

red flag? So we were talking and I just happened to bring up the topic of pets. I asked her if she had an any any pets, and she says, yeah, you know, she's got a dog, named I think Chloe like, oh cool, cool, right on, and then she says, yeahnah and a son in law Clifton. Did you say a sound in law? Yeah, yeah, exactly, like stay with me, stay with me. Yeah, I'm confused, she says, son in law. And so I thought her. I was like, well, wait, I was kind of just asking about, you know, pets.

Oh no, no, no no, uh, Clifton's my dog, Like wait, I thought you said that Clifton was your son in law. She goes, he is, And so she pulls out her phone, and I thought she was just gonna show me pictures of the dog, but she shows me his picture the dogs in a tuxedo with the bow and the tails and everything. And she's showing me pictures of her dog's wedding to another dog. So she has her dog that's married to another dog, and she calls that dog her son in law. Yes, and she and she shows she's

scrolling through. She's showing me pictures of like this dog's wedding cake, like they had a whole elaborate wedding for it. Yeah, like wait, like nobody does this, you know, And and it was a huge red flag, like I saw this and I kind of west. Hey, that's kind of weird. It's kind of weird. I'll give you that, But why is that a reason to not give her a second chance at a date or maybe the type of person

that would arrange a dog wedding? Point taking, point take, and John, I, I guess I can understand where you're coming from a little bit. Yeah, I really didn't think we would be a very good match. So don't you think that she was just using it as like a fun excuse to have a silly party. Though, I don't know, Man, the pictures look pretty serious. I've seen wedding pictures that look kind of like these dog pictures look. And I mean seriously, she referred to her dog as her son

in law. Yeah, I should also tell you, John that she's actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you. Hi John, Hi Ramona. Okay, first of all, it's not like he's really my son in law. He's my dog in law. I just call him my son in law like I call Chloe my daughter. It's not like I'm crazy. It's not like I think he's a person. I know he's a dog. I just love him like a sin Oh boy, I just can't believe it's such a big deal to you, and I can't believe you

didn't talk to me about it. I mean, tons of people do it. It's all over the place work. It's not that uncommon. Our dog weddings common, Ramona. Of course, I've been to three weddings. Have isn't your own dog like getting divorced and getting remarried or is it three different dogs. I have been to three dog weddings, including mine, so that every altogether. And it's such a fun thing to do, and plus it makes some family living creatures.

And it's sort of everybody treats their dogs like, oh, that's my daughter anyway, but this is like, this is my family I love. Come on, yeah, see this is why I didn't want to go out with you. I mean, it's absolutely fine if you feel that way about your dogs. It's just I can't really be a part of that. I mean, it's not like I'm into it like my friends dogs. Clifton is like the best and he's perfect for her. He's like a year older than her, he's

a little bigger than her. They're perfect together. You don't care about any of that stuff, you know, when I have a dog. The dog is just a dog. It's there. I don't have to feel like you know, I just didn't shocks. Honestly, I'm really surprised to hear this come out of your mouth. This is not at all the person that took me out for that drink, Ramona. Look, it's not the fact that you did that for your dog.

I'm ecstatic that you did that for your dog. Trust me, are you because you don't sound ecstatic, But it's not. The thing is is that you went through all of that for the dog. All right, it's I'm glad you're for you to put that much effort into a party for your dog like that. We're just not compatible. Maybe you're right, because if you don't care about living creatures and the about dogs and family, then maybe maybe we're not. Maybe you're right, you're right, I'm ron. Well, let me

let me ask John first, Ramona. John, would you like to go out on a second date with Ramona? We will pay for it. I don't want to go out with you anyway, I don't he would you're snop. You're gonna tell me how I should spend my money, and you don't have love in your life. No, I'm actually weirdly on her side on all of it. Yeah, thank you. I absolutely love that you do that, Ramona, I really do. I love that you love dogs. I love them too, but I'm just not going to do that, all right?

What type of person that does that? John? Thank you for your time. I appreciate this person than Ramona. Thank you for thank you for doing the second date update. I'm sure you'll find somebody else that's as into their dog as you are eventually. Thank you. I do love you, guys. I wish that. Listen if there's another sale second date update and you think I'm right for him, will Okay and Ramona in the meantime a thing that not many

people know about me. If there is any infidelity in that dog marriage, I do dog divorces, So hit me up, Okay, Broken Jewel in the morning text in at seven eight, five to nine two that says that guy's in a hole. I've been to a lot of dog weddings and they're really sweet. It's Brooke and Jewel in the Morning, talking, of course, about today's second date update. Yah Scar. Ramona wanted to call a guy named John to see why he wasn't calling her back after they had a date.

He wasn't calling her back because during their date she kept showing him pictures of her dog and the wedding that she had for it, and referring to the other dog as her son in law. And she was really into dog weddings. Apparently she's been to three of them, and it just creeped him out. He's like a little too attached to your dog, so he didn't want to date her. I don't know. I think it's kind of judge.

You know, it doesn't affect him, Like, just because she loves her dog and she's having some fun parties, maybe you can get in and get some free alcohol, free food. There's a difference between like depreciating your dog and loving your dog and then loving your dog a little too yut, you have to be an extreme dog lover to date this chick, you know what I mean? Because people who on the tech sport are like, either she's crazy dog

marriageery kidding, or it's like give her my number. I'm all four people who like their dogs, but I've been around some people who are obsessed with their dogs. I used to work with a dude who his dog was sick so he slept at the bottom of the stairs with his dog instead of in the bed with his own wife. That is strange. That's an obsession. If you're the big spoon and the dog is a little spoon, and that's what you need to do. I don't know.

I'm not gonna judge. It's not for me sleeping with a dog over sleeping in bed with your wife, and that is a problem. And texting in seven eight five nine two, do you agree that he shouldn't have gone out with her because she has dog weddings? Or sorry, I had a dog wedding that will probably last forever, so congratulations to her. A lot of dog lovers are texting in at seven eight five nine two. They want to have a dog wedding now, So maybe she started

a new trend. If you want a second day update, just email the show and we'll call the person who didn't call you back, whom in ninety two point five