Second Date Update PODCAST: Is It A Date?

by the way, Rene, Renee? Okay, and tell us a little bit about Renee. Well, we were friends for a few months. We met hand. I really liked you, really cute, but I didn't necessarily feel like there was any chance that she'd want to go out. Okay, But we did have some mutual friends in a play okay, and so we were just hanging out and I was like, Hey, there's only one night left to see this thing. Why don't we just go ahead and go together. She's like great.

So at this point, I'm like, it's not a date. We're just friends. Okay. So you thought you were just two friends hanging out. Yeah, that's exactly what I thought. So how did everything go at to play? So? Everything goes fine, We had a great conversation, we enjoyed the show whatever. So I take her back home, and when we get back to her apartment, instead of just saying good night, she invites me in. Okay, that's a good sign, right. Oh yeah, that's like the biggest sign. Anytime a friend

of mine has invited me into their apartment, stuff always happens. Yeah, I mean no, but yeah, So I still wasn't thinking that it was romantic at all. Okay, I just thought, okay, yeah, she just wants to hang out some more. Great. And she said something about cooking me dinner. Okay, all right, I mean that starts to sound like a date to me. Friendly. Yeah, but at this point, I wasn't trying to put anything on it. I didn't want to make it weird. I

was like, okay, dinner great. Okay, okay, So hold on, just to clarify, were you actually interested in her before this night? I mean, yeah, I thought she was really cute. Okay, so when she made you dinner, you were probably like sweet, Yeah, I was, you know, worst case scenario, I get free dinner. Yeah, all right. Yeah. So we go up, she cooks me dinner, We eat, and then she goes, do you want to watch a movie? Wow? All right, dude, yeah, this all

sounds like more than a friend experience. That sounds like a date to me. Yeah, that's exactly what I started thinking at this point when I start putting it all together. Okay, she said, you has to go into the play. She invited me into her house, she cooked me dinner, and now she wants to watch a movie. Yeah. Yeah, okay, So then she puts on a movie. I don't even remember what movie it was at this point. I'm not thinking about it was a movie. I've never heard of it.

I don't care. I'm not even thinking about the movie. It doesn't matter. Yeah, you're not even watching it. You're just in your head like, oh my god, I'm I'm on a date with her. I'm on a date. Yeah, I would have watched an hour of a free frame of a pencil. I ain't care. All right, that's cool, that's exciting. Then you had to feel happy about that. Yeah. So then she says, let me go change. Okay, so

I'm sitting on the couch. She goes into her bedroom and then she comes out and basically pajamas but kind of like you know how sometimes women like to sleep and box her shorts and a T shirt. Yeah, yeah, that's what she's wearing. So she goes to change and then comes back in something skimpy. Yeah all right, that's pretty intimate though, to be in her sleeping clothes. Yes, that's At this point I'm like, oh my god, yes,

this is a date. Sweet. So you said in your email that you're not sure though why, I mean, this is definitely a date. Okay. So she sits down the couch next to me, like real clothes next to me, and she put the blanket over both of us. Okay. And so halfway through this movie that I'm not even paying attention to, I think, well, if I don't do something, I'm going to lose the opportunity. Right, did you make

a move? So I do the thing where I like, I kind of put my hand on the opposite side of her face, this side opposite for me, and I kind of graw. Okay, I just started. You started that, and I was like, so you do your trick and you just grab her face? Is that what you do? You know, like you kind of put your hand, like gently on her chin or something. I kind of guide her face towards yours. I wasn't like, ah, you know,

all right, so trying to get a kiss. Yeah, and she turned her face towards mine, just sort of guided by my hand. And then all of a sudden, she starts making this noise and turning away from me, and she says, going m m m m m oh, no like that. I take my hand off of her chin, and then we just watched the rest of the stupid movie. And now I'm going she didn't want to kiss me? Did she bring it up to you at all? Did she mention anything about it? Now? She didn't say a word.

And I mean I left pretty quickly after that. Yeah, that would be pretty embarrassing. I give you, it's a bold move to go in for that kiss, but it's like the worst case scenario that you get rejected. Yeah, it was really awkward. And I actually wanted to talk about what had happened the other night, and she said no, just like no, like no other explanation. Yeah, she just said no, nothing else. Wow. Okay, And is that the last thing you've heard from her? Or have you guys

tried to talk about it at all. No, we haven't talked about it at all. Dude, I don't know. I just think you misread the situation. Now, I really want to do the second part of the second day update because I do have to know if this was a date or not. Yeah, they'll believe me me too. Well, we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, great, I got brooking jubil in the morning second date right in the middle of a second date update, and we don't know if it's

a date. Actually still we're trying to figure that out. If you miss the first part. Darren is on the phone and he wants to call Renee. Renee is a friend of his and they went out one night to see a play and then got back to her house and she made him dinner and then decided to watch a movie together and she gotten like her boxer short to put a blanket over him. And then at that point he was like, this is awesome. I'm on a

date with Renee now. And so they were in the middle of the movie and he tried to kiss her and that's when she said no. And she hasn't talked to him since. So we're still not really sure if that was even a date, but we do know that Renee has pissed a him for some reason. It's so confusing. My one question, though, is when she got into her boxer outfit makeup on or took the makeup off. You're asking if she had makeup on. She was a T shirt and boxers. I have no idea. Yeah, good point.

At that point, you're not really paying attention. I should have asked if she had a braw on if maybe a better question for you. I can tell you that because she did not. Okay, all right, well man, that is mixed signals. All right, Well, I'm gonna call her right now and see we can get an answer. You're ready, Please? Hello, Hi, Can I speak to Renee? Please her? Hey, what's up? Renee? How are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. What this is Jewel from Brooke and

Jewel in the Morning the radio? Well, I'm a person you guys all the time? Really? Okay? Well, yeah, this is the radio show. It is Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Well, if you listen to us all the time, then you probably heard a second date up date before right. Wait what yeah, congratulations, Wait, you guys are calling me about a date that I went on. Yeah, I haven't

been on any dates with anyone, all right. Well that kind of answers a question for us then, because Darren, who I guess is your buddy, thought that maybe you were on a date the other day. Oh my gosh, Oh my gosh, I'm so embarrassed. Well, he emailed us because he said that when you guys went out, he thought it turned into a date. And then he told us about how he tried to kiss you and you turned him down and then he left and you haven't talked to him since. Yeah, it's just kind of awkward.

So you never really liked Darren in that way, is what you're saying. I mean, he's cute. I've always thought Darren was cute. But what did he tell you guys? Well, he said that you guys went out to see a play and then went back to your place, and then that's when he started feeling like you guys were on a date, because you made him dinner and then gotten like your sleeping stuff and then put a blanket over you guys a movie. It all sounded very date ish

to me. I mean, yeah, all that happened, but at first it was just friends hanging out. Oh so wait, you mean at first like you had intentions. At some point your intentions switched from friends to something else. Yeah, I guess so. Okay, so you guys were both on the same page at some point. We were having fun and I was just kind of going with things. At some point I thought this could be a date. Okay, so why aren't you calling him back? Then? Oh my gosh,

things got so awkward at the end of the night. Okay, during the kiss, like you didn't want to kiss him, that's when it got awkward. I can't believe he told you about that. It's not embarrassing for you, it's embarrassing for him because you shot him down big time. It sounds like, well, it was just so awkward. We were watching this movie and the family dog had just died and it was a ship suit like I used to have when I was a kid, and I started crying and then he just like put his hand on my

face in those weird ways. It was such a weird way and time to kiss someone. So he kissed you when you were crying over the death of the dog. In the movie. Yes, did he notice that you were crying? Obviously he didn't. I mean, who tries to kiss someone after a dog just dies? And I don't know what his thing is? You know, that could be his thing. Oh, that's not a thing. I know, who does No, Renee? Oh my gosh, I forgot. Is he on the phone? Renee? Yes he is Rene? Oh hear? Okay? So yeah, bad

timing on my part. Yeah, to be fair, as soon as I saw you in what you were wearing, I wasn't even paying attention in the movie. And I didn't know that a dog died in that movie. Yeah, a dog died in that movie. Right before you tried to kiss me, there was a child crying. Yeah, I feel really bad. I had no idea that you were kind of been an emotional placed. So I guess now we can understand why she was like, no, don't kiss me,

don't kiss me. It definitely makes a lot more sense now. Well, I feel kind of bad now because I just I haven't been responding to your text messages. I know I'm wondering that too. I mean, like, yeah, bad timing on a kiss, but it's not a reason not to call somebody back. It was just so weird and so awkward. I just didn't want to deal with it. Yeah. Um, you know what would be really cool if you gave me a second chance. Oh maybe we got together and

watched another movie this time. Maybe it could be Beethoven The Dog Lived the whole time. That's a good idea, Renee. Would you like to go out on another date with Darren? We'll pay for it on I would That sounds like a lot of fun, Okay, and this will be a date the whole way through the whole time. Yes, yeah, I know we don't want to replicate the first date. But can you still wear that outfit you tried to kiss me after a dog died? Don't push your luck, okay, Darren? Yeah,

d tread lightly. All right, Well, congratulations you guys got a second date. Say, I really appreciate that. Yeah, and Darren, next time you try to kiss her right before it, FaceTime me so I can let you know if it's okayed. Dial text in a seven eighty five nine two says I'll totally date that guy. Movies about dead dogs don't bother me. One bit brook a jewel in the morning that was obviously taped while Brooke was still here. Brooke is it out on maternity leaving. Jackie is filling in.

But if you missed today's second date update, this dude named Darren wanted to call a girl named Renee. They're actually kind of friends, and they were hanging out one night at what he thought was a friend date, and then it got more serious. After they were done, like watching a play and stuff, they went back to her place. She made dinner and then she got into her comfy clothes, got on the couch, put a blanket over both of them, and then he was like, oh my god, this is

an actual date. I've got to make my move. I'm getting So they were sitting there watching a movie and he says he was so nervous. He wasn't really paying attention to much, just wondering when he was gonna make his move. Then he leaned over to kiss her and she no no, no, no no no, And then it was awkward after that, and he left and she wasn't

calling back, and he was wondering why. Well, we found out the reason that she wasn't calling him back was because during the movie there was a dog that died, like the family Dog whatever. Movie they were watching and she was kind of crying a little bit, and that's the moment that he went in for the kiss as soon as her tears started to flow from the dead dog. Yeah, that's just really bizarre timing, Like that's not smart. Yeah, that's just really bad timing, Like, oh, I can see

that you're all broken up about this. Hey, screw that dog though, screw your crying. Let's make out. And maybe I do feel like maybe in some people's minds they think I'm gonna comfort you. Yeah, but then it seems creepy. Yeah, and that's even creepier if you're doing it on purpose. Yeah, you know, yeah, because yeah, they're they're vulnerable, and then you're going in my tongue. Yeah, how about I just kiss those tears off your cheeks. So she felt awkward

and wasn't calling him back. We got him on the phone. They talked about it, and he told her that he didn't mean to try to kiss her after the dog had died, and they decided to go on another date, an actual date. Ya that can work out where they both know it's a date. Yeah, really rare that we actually have a successful second date. Update where the two agree to go out, and they did actually agree to

go out. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person that didn't call you back.