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You shouldn't even really be even looking at that age. I mean, let's wait a couple of way. Do you call it quits? On this show, we say never, never, Never, No matter how many times you fail miserably, you get back up on that dating horse and you ride. Yeah, you ride until your backsides blistered in blue, and you finally fin that special person or at least someone who's
willing to spend time with you in exchange for money. Yes, and in that spirit, we have a listener who was on with us before for a second date update okay, and we could not get it done for him the last time to us like this, But even though we failed him. Even though we failed him, he still trusts us to help him out one more time. So let's say welcome back to Noah. What's up, Noah? Hey guys, Yeah, we're hanging there. Wait, Noah, can you just remind me
what happened last time you're on the phone with us? Oh? Man, So this is this girl Anna that I was really into and I set her a pillow. Oh with your face on it. You set her like a right. Yeah, you visited her a college right. Yeah, that didn't work out. It was sweet, but it was too much got you. She was kind of my high school crush. We hooked up once, but that was it. Yeah, she sucks. We're over.
She's dead to us. That's right, we've moved. We're looking forward to the next victim or from a love interest. Next love interest? What's her name, Noah prospect? I couldn't think of it. So her name is Sandra? Okay? She is amazing, Like, okay, so Anna's sister. I just love Noah. You are obviously a hopeless romantic. You fall hard, and I love that you're open about your feelings. Where did you meet her? The new girl? So she's actually not that new um, it was a high school crush as well,
are there? Why why are we still living in high school? In her mind? Noah, why can't we move forward? Okay, to be fair, like this girl Sandra, I know I didn't mention her before because I was really trying to make it work with Anna, But I've always really liked this girl. She's not even number two on the list. She's like one beat on the same level as Anna, but just not quite. I kind of understand that. I hope you didn't tell her she was one be So
how'd you end up reconnecting with Sandra after all these years? Okay, guys, so here's what happened. I after alf the Happy Hour, and we had a great time. We started talking about, you know, high school, some of the old days and stuff. And like one of the pranks we did was we filled the gymnasium with balloons for our senior prom. Yeah, guys were a wild bunch. It was actually hilarious. It
was like a huge McDonald's play place. We were laughing so hard about that, and we're just having so much fun, Like it was really good to think back about high school. Yeah, it sounds so what happened then? I mean, did you guys end the night or so? We had a few more drinks and we ended up back at her place, okay, doing the play place at the apartment. Yeah, I mean I she did see some sort of like romance or chemistry there then, right, I think so, because we definitely
started making out. Oh right, like over the closed stuff. I mean, this is high school romance, right. Well, guys, we actually didn't get that far because we were interrupted. Oh oh, does she have a roommate? I don't know. I just I heard there were some keys at the door and suddenly she's like, oh, quit, get in the closet. So I had to grabble my stuff and get in. Wait, get in the closet that's had a good size there. Did you hide? Of course I hid in the closet.
She was like speaking out about it. I had no idea what was going on. You you got to trust people. You don't have to hide an there was a serial tickler on the lucy. He's gonna come in and it's obviously yeah, and the major thing is never good if you're hiding in the closet, is what I'm saying. Did you hear a male voice? Did she have a girlfriend girlfriend. Maybe it was a did you hear a love interest? No, it was definitely a guy. Okay, so what did he What did they say? I mean, did she? Did she
live with a boyfriend? I don't know. I guess because they definitely were making out. Oh my, well, you just stayed in the closet the whole time all that happened. Well, I was kind of freaking up. I don't know what I was supposed to do. Like, they stay there for over an hour, and the whole time, she's like trying to get him to go to a bar, and he's like, no, I just got back. Why do you want to go to the bar? Why calling her back? She made you hide in a closet for an hour while she made
out with her boyfriend. Are you still in the closet? Is that why you're calling out? Out? Getting out? No? I'm not in the closet. How did you? How did you get out? Well, they finally left after about an hour or something, and like, I mean, she and I really had an amazing time, and so I don't even think she wants to be with this guy. No, no closet. I mean, I know I gave a big speech about never giving up. But there's a time to be like, you know what, maybe I need to give up on
this one. Why would you want to call her? Look, if it's a choice between this guy and me, she's gonna pick me, and she's gonna pick every other guy that comes along and shows her any interest at all. I know there's a lot of doubters in here, Noah, but I do like your optimism. So let's try this do Let's give it a shot. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Sandra for you, and we'll try and get you your second date. Update. Okay, thanks
so much, guys. All right, man, hold on, everybody's worse night there is going on a date. Things spiral and you turn into a closet case. That's what literally happened to one of our listeners, Noah, during his date with an old high school crush named Sandra. In the middle of hooking up, the door to her apartment jiggled and she told Noah to go hide in her closet. So he did, and he stayed in there for over an hour,
listening to Sandra make out with some other dude. But if there's one thing that we've learned about Noah through all the calls we've had with him, it's that he does not give up. No sweet Noah, No matter how many roadbumps he has to clear or closets he has to hide in, he wants to find love and still wants us to call Sandra. And Noah, we never asked you. Have you tried reaching out to her after the date? Like,
are you guys texting at all or anything? Yeah? I texted her a couple of times and she didn't get back to me. It was just like, what is that all about? And uh, yeah nothing. You You are too pure and too sweet for this Sandra woman. Okay, she is going to walk all over you like a doormat. Wow, are you absolutely sure that you want to make this phone call? No, she's really amazing if you guys only knew her, like, she's really awesome. Yeah, you're right, we
don't Okay. Yeah, she left you in the closet for an hour and even apologize. Hasn't even called to say, oh my god, you don't know her. She's probably embarrassed Brook and didn't want to embarrass him too. Yeah, okay, you know, I hear the lack of hope in this room, and I want to remind you Noah believes. So we need to believe for Noah. Noah, Okay, for you, for you, Noah, We'll muster it up. I just no, no, no, I just no, I just there's just just just believe places
he could put his energy. That's all. Come on, Brook, I need you to believe in me. Ye, do know what I do? Do you know what I'll do for you? Noah? I won't even say I told you so. When you call us three months from now, sad, oh wow, get a date whatever, I'm gonna give the laugh laugh here. That's the spirit. I do want you to win. I don't. I'll tell you that. Don't haters. We're all realists. We're all rooting for you. Man. So I'm gonna dial Sandra's number.
We're gonna try and get your second date up date. You ready, all right, let's do it. Hello? Hey, is this Sandra? Yes, it is Can I ask us calling? Yeah? My name is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing? Okay, I'm good good. We're in the middle of a segment called a second Date Update, and we'd like you to be a part of it. Oh, um, I don't. I don't know what
is the work's good question? Yeah, it's really simple. It's where if you go out on a date with someone, and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you can email our show and we'll reach out to them to help you figure out the reason why. Oh it makes sense. Sure. Okay, So recently you went out with a guy who really really likes you, and he's confused about why you haven't been in touch with him lately. His name's Noah. Yeah, okay, you remember sweet Noah. Um, yeah,
we hung out. I wouldn't necessarily say it was a date, but I do know him. Okay, you had some chemistry with him right while you guys were hanging out. Um, yeah, you guys kissed. According to Noah, so I hope that you'd have some sort of connection with him, unless you just kiss anybody. How much did he tell you about what happened? I mean he went to a lot of detail. He said that you guys met up, you ended up back at your apartment. You guys started to hook up
a little bit, but then you two were interrupted. Yeah. Yeah, I feel really bad about that. Actually, we know about the law. Yeah, yeah, you know. I did really like Noah. He was really sweet, He's really funny, and I enjoyed hanging out with him. It would be nice to have someone like him in my life. But um, okay, I don't really have that right now. So live with your boyfriend. No, we don't live together. I have been seeing someone, yes, well, but there's no label on it. How could there not
be a label on it? He had keys to your place. That's how he got in, right, Like the Noah heard jingling of keys and someone entering your apartment and you told him to get into the closet. You could have been a robber that broke in, and she made out with him to save her rights on restract closet. Take whatever you want later. Is that what happened, Sandra, It's okay, that's what happened. Yeah, he's just kind of this on again, off again boyfriend type thing. Okay, well we're just looking.
Is there anything possible down the road, even in the future with Noah? Is there a chance? Look like, I have been seeing another guy, but I do kind of like know a better. I just think he's a better person. Oh that's great. Look you know why, Let's find out what Noah thinks about this, because he's on the other line listening and wants to talk to you, and I'm willing to bet he's on board again. Yeah, Noah, you there, jump out of the closet, Zandra, it's me what you
have a radio station called me? Oh my god? Sorry, I didn't really know how to get in touch with you, and I've been texting and like, I was just really nervous to be honest, and like, I really like you a lot, but I didn't. I don't know. I kind of thought you were just blowing me off. No, I wasn't. I wasn't intentionally trying to blow you off. To be honest, I felt the same way. I did, feel like there's a connection. Oh, I just didn't know really how serious
you were about it. Noah, do you think this is something that you would take seriously? If you feel like that guy's not good for you, then I'm open. Wait, this is a way to do it, you Jane around till the guy calls a radio station, you pick him. Yeah. Are we all just going to ignore the fact that, Sandra, you haven't even apologized yet for leaving him in the closet, he sounds happy, hying about having a boyfriend, Like, why
are you trying? I'm not digging anything up. It's like right there trying to start a fight, trying to start a fight. I'm just saying, Sandra, like what was going through your mind when you're making out with some boyfriend while he was in the closet? I know it looks really bad. The thing is is that this guy that I've been seeing, he's just kind of trouble. He has a little bit of an anger management problem. Oh why aren't you even talking to him? Still? What do you mean?
Like how angry? Is the type person? I mean, he has been in and out of prison and does have a little bit of a mean streak, not to me, but to others who have wronged him. Yeah, Sandra, you deserve better than that. You guys, listen, this guy's gonna find out about their relationship and he's gonna kill him. So he's not kind of like violent mean? Is he just more like loud angry? Mean you went to prison,
not for like emotionally yelling at somebody. Sandra. You know, I don't think I should talk about everything he's done because I don't want to get him in trouble, and I don't want to block that out onto the error. But like Noah, like I said, and I told these guys, you're the type of person that I need in my life, and I am really interested, and I think it makes sense we could have something okay her life. I feel
like there's something here to work with. I'm yeah, I mean between the prison guy and Noah, she chooses Noah. That's got to feel good. You're right, right? Does that mean you're actually going to break up? Like break up? Break up with prison dude? It's not gonna be easy. But I think if I sit and talk with him and kind of tell him everything and tell him about Noah, then oh maybe he'll understand. I don't think. So yeah, wait,
why do you have to tell him about me? Yeah? Well, he's gonna want to know who I'm seeing, So can't you just tell him that's none of your business? I mean, I told you he has an anger issue, so he's gonna want to know, and I'm probably gonna want to meet him. But like, I think it's going to be fine. Well, maybe we can help make that happen, because we would
love to send you guys out on another day. We will pay for it, and you, Noah and the prison guy can all meet and discuss leaving your relationship to just being with Noah. That sounds like it's going to be civil. I mean, I'm sure he'll be the reasonable one between the three of you. Yeah, Sandraw, what do you say? I'm down to try and see if this can work with Noah in whatever way possible. I think that's good. You need a healthy relationship. Yes, Noah, you're
still up for this. Guys, this is all coming at me so fast right now. Do you want to go back in the closet and hide in for a second and then think about it? Oh? I mean, Sandra, I really want to make things work with you, but I'm I'm a little nervous about you know this guy. Yeah, come on, Sandra. He doesn't have to meet him, does he. Yeah? I just tell him your name is like Jeffrey de bou or something. Okay, running out of time. I think
it's gonna be fine. It's probably going to take him a few days to get over it, but I think we'll be okay. Okay. I don't know how I feel positive right now, but I do don't know. You don't look at Sandra taking charge of her own life, making decisions for herself, good jobs. It sounds like someone's about to go back to prison. Yeah, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.