Second Date Update PODCAST: I Wanna Tell Him Off

So your email said that you don't want a second date, you just want to yell at this dude a little bit. Yeah, I have him. Tell us a little bit about why you want to yell at this guy because he's a really, really mean person and he doesn't know how to treat women and someone needs to put him in his place. All right, well, wow, let's first of all find out a little bit about him. Sounds like a swell guy. Where did you meet him? I met him a Juffy Loupe.

We were both having our cars service and he was in the waiting room and I was in the waiting room. And was your first impression of him? I actually thought he was very cute. Like, I walked in the room and I was like, oh, who's this? You know, but I never thought he would like initiate a conversation with me. I just figured, like, you know, it was just another cute guy. Yeah, so he asked you out in the waiting room of a Givvy Loube. Well, yeah we were.

We started talking, we were laughing, and then eventually, you know, one thing left him another already asked me out, and I agreed to go out with him. Okay, and where did you guys go? Two days later? We went to a bar, we got drinks, and at first the date was going really really well. It seemed like we were meshing, and then he said something really kind of beyond stupid. You don't say something to stupid to a female on

the first date with her. What did he say to you? Well, he told me that the glasses I was wearing made me look like a frog. A frog? Yeah. Was it that a weird way to try to compliment you? Or did you feel like he was trying to be rude? I fell very much. So he was intentionally trying to be rude and just really make me feel bad about my fashion choices as a woman. How do your glasses

make you look like a frog? I don't even get that. Hey, they don't be I just think this guy has some sort of overactive imagination or he just may see things that others don't see. I mean, at this point, I don't know. I have really bad eyes and sometimes, you know, my glasses kind of magnified my eyes. Like maybe that's what he meant. Either what you still don't say that, it's still real no matter what, you don't look across the table from your date and go, you look like

a frog right now? Did you say anything after he said that to you? Or I mean, did you go like that? Didn't you know? At first I kind of just stared in shock. It's say, for good, like five seconds, because they can't believe a guy like that would say that to me. I thought like he was kidding. And then I realized like he wouldn't want to go, and he was just really kind of going to town my fashion choices, Like he said, I looked better without classes. He said, I didn't really dress my age like I

dressed a little bit older. So at some point your date was going okay, and then he flipped and just started being rude to you. I thought maybe he must have thought in his own mind like he was trying to help me out and do me a favor by like telling me these things. Did you contill in the end, it was just making me feel really really bad. Did you ever say anything to him about it? Well, that's the way I was doing. So I just decided to get up and like take a bathroom break from the gate.

And I was in the bathroom it couldn't get no longer than like five minutes, and I come back and he already had another drink, Like he finished the drink he was already on when I went to the bathroom, and then had another one on top of that within fives just like a great guy. I'm surprised that you want to call on yell at him instead of asking for a second day. It sounds like sparks were flying for you, guys. I haven't even gotten to the kicker of what he did, because this isn't even the worst

part of it. This is just the beginning, okay, So telling you that your glasses make you look like a frog and criticizing the way you dress, it gets worse than that, Yes, it gets way worse. Okay, what did he say? Way worse. So I get back from the bathroom, I see him a drink and you know, he drops his phone. Yeah, so you know, I go down to take it up for him, and as I'm down, He's just like, oh, yeah, that's what I'm talking about. So he dropped his phone to get a look at your

butt and then comments it on it while you're doing it. Yeah, but he commented. But he commented like he likes your butt even though he didn't like anything else about you. Well, you know, when I went down to pick up his phone, he goes, that is actually perfect that I would not change. It was a compliment. Oh how did you not go off on this guy? It was just in total shock and disbelief that a guy like this would talk to a girl on the first date. And at that point

I was just in such a state of shock. How did it end with him? Did it end? At that point? Well, I remember just getting myself together. I think trying to think of something to say after he said this thing about my butt, and I'm like, you know what, I said something along the lines of like we're just not compatible. I don't really see this going anywhere, And he basically said to me, well, yeah, you know, I didn't think you put out anyway, so I'm gonna can I add.

I mean, it's not an excuse, but was he wasted or something? I don't know, but like you just said wasted or not. You don't fell a girl she looks like a fog. You don't tell a girl she dressing something. Then you don't do a phone trick and make her bend downs. You can check out her butt and then like all in all, in the end, you just say I knew you wouldn't put out anyway and leaves like, so, why why are you wanting to do this in a second date update? Then why not just call him in?

I start calling him a few days after after I like regained my bearings and I cooled off because I wanted to give him a piece of my line and this guy had blocked my number. Well, yeah, of course you look back a frog and you got a fronty outfit. Although nice, but I wouldn't would take your calls either. Yeah, so I know you guys usually this second date update to like try to set up a second date, but in this case scenario, I just want you to call him. So I can like tell the off and like really

finished him. Okay, cool, Well we'll play a song, come back call him, not necessarily do a second date update, but let you yell at him a little bit. Okay, okay, all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning if you're just tuning in for the second date update. This is a little different than normal. Andrea is on the phone and she wants to call Mark. They went out

on a date. It was bad because he insulted her during the date, said that her glasses made her look like a frog, and then at one point dropped his cell phone so she had to pick it up and complimented her butt at least. And she just wants to call up and yell at him because he's blocked her phone number so she can't get him on the phone to yell at him. I understand your pain, though, Andrea. It's frustrating when you're in this situation and you can't get the last word. Yeah, I have to be able

to say something to you. What do you want to say to him? You know why? I just let me go at him, Just let me him a piece of my mind, Like, I've a lot to say. Well, first one I call him, I want to talk to him about the date. Okay, So when I get him on the phone, I want to ask what he thought of your date, and then I'll bring you on the phone. You can do your thing. Okay. I don't have a want of patience. I can't really wait for you. So

can you hurry up with this more? I will. I'll let you yell at him, I promise, but I'm curious to see if he realized the things that he was doing on the date were really bad to do on a date. Honestly, I don't care about that. I just want to like him. I know, I know you don't care, But just for me, will you let me at least talk to him a little bit and find that stuff out? Okay? But hurry up up, oh said. He's not going to learn anything from this, right, It's just gonna end up

making hopefully making you feel better. Yeah, okay this, I have like no desire to see this guy again. I just want to like tell him off and like maybe he won't treat the next girl so poorly. Okay, cool, I'm gonna doll the phone HI right now so you can get him on the phone. Okay, okay, I hope he answers me too. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Mark please? This is Mark speaking Mark. How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, all right? Do you know who I am at all? No?

Do you know who I am? Mark? No? Who are you? My name is Jewbil. I host a radio show. It's morning show. And you recently went out on a date with one of our listeners. Um, okay, okay. And she emailed us because she wanted me to give you a call and just kind of get your opinion on how the date went. Her name is Andrea, and you met her at Jiffy Loop. Oh. Yes, Andrea. So she emailed us and was like, Oh, I can't get ahold of this guy. Can you give him a call for me?

I was like, sure, see if we can get him on the phone and ask him about your date. So okay, So she she she wanted you to call me. She did. That's good, Yeah, she said that. She she said she enjoyed your date together and was yeah, and she was confused why she couldn't get you on the phone. So she asked me to call you and just find out if you didn't like her or something that's amazing. It is perfect what I knew she would try to find

me somehow. Okay, but we talked to her about your date and everything else, and she said, it seems like you blocked her number because she couldn't get a hold of you. If you knew she was gonna call, why would you block her number? You know, that's part of how I work, my ladies. You know, I have I have a system. You have a system to block people's phone numbers so they can't get a hold of you sometimes. You know, if you make a little resistance, you know,

the girl comes after you. Right, Yeah, I know what you mean. Kind of like if you play play it like you don't care that much. Or some guys think if you like an insult a girl out of a bar, something about that's gonna make her want you more. It worked nine percent of the time, right, so that's your game? Well, well, what I do? You know? Honestly, if you tell a girl something bad about herself, sometimes she can't get you out of her head. All right, So give them bad

self confidence and just be mean. It's a game. You know, she will try to reach me. She'll think I blocked her. I'll call her back next week. Then now she'll be ready for me. Okay, so you did like Andrea? I like her enough for a one night or you. Dude? Seriously, what was that mark? That's Andrea. She's actually on the other line listening. Oh yeah, it's me. I'm on the phone. Here's the biggest ever went out on date? Lift? Seriously, how much did you hear everything? I was just messing

with you because I liked you. You know, so you purposely insult women when you like him. That's how you operate. You're calling me back, aren't you. It doesn't work. I'm not calling you back because I like you. I'm calling you back so I could tell you off because you're more on. All I hear is a passion and I like that. This isn't passion, dude, this is me wanting to wring your neck. So you don't want to go out again? No, I don't want to go out with you again. Do you want to tell you off? You're

an ass? You treat women like garbage. Why don't you see that to me over dinner? Sometimes? Oh? My god? Again, still trying, still trying? Yeah, well he can keep on trying because he's a moron and he's never ever going to go out on another date with me again with this track record, he's never going to find a wife or anything. Well, this is a second day up date, Andrew, So I'm gonna ask anyway, Mark, would you like to go out with Andrew again on a date? I won't

pay for it? Why not? Are you? Kid? He wants to go out and he wants to go out with you. Andrea, you liked you. No, I'm not going out with that ever again. And after this, Mark, you're never gonna get any more dates. Like why wouldn't you just treat women with respect or like as people? You know? Trust me, I'll be fine, all right. I mean technically you did get a call back, Yeah you did. It didn't work for you in a in a weird sort of way. Mark,

you're so gross. Well, if she doesn't want to go out with me, maybe I could leave my number for for anybody else who calls him. Yeah, sure, I'll look yeah with all kinds of people. Mark, thanks for your time. Man. Yeah, Andrea, there you go. I mean I hope you at least got it out of your system. I definitely did. Thank you did. Okay, that just made me more angry. You feel better now, though, I mean I feel a little better.

I'm steel pissed, but you know I'll cool off it over it all, right, Well, I think we all learned something today. Never go out with a guy who picked you up at a jiffy loop, right Andrew, or taken a fuller broken Juwel in the morning.