Second Date Update PODCAST: I'm Moving On... Or Next to YOU

know all the details. We'll get it from him. Dressing, what's up, man? How are you? Hey? What's up? Man? You can call me Dress? Dress? Okay, did you wake up? Dress? Are you in a different time zone? No? I'm good. Sorry, that's all right, all right, Dress. So what's the name of the girl you want to call today? Her name is Sierra? Sierra all right, and your email said that she lives in another state. Yeah, I mean we met on line, okay, So we hit it off right away.

She was the type that she seemed really intelligent. She made me laugh, I mean her laugh, and we really hit it off. So I said, you know, you live far away, but maybe I could just fly down we could actually meet in person. Then a little time together see if it works. How long did you guys talk online before you decided to meet in real life? A few months? All right, so that's a good amount of Yeah, so you feel like you really know a person by

then as much as you can you know online. Yeah all right, So how was it when you actually went to go see her? Dude? That's the thing, Like, it was amazing, like the best day. So I went down on Friday. We of course, got something to eat, She gave me a tour of the city. We walked around, we saw nature like one on a hike. But it wasn't like platonic. It was a very romantic kind of connection. You can tell, I mean, your whole personality. I feel

like just got uplifted even talking about this date. Yeah, I'm telling you, man, it was a great experience. I mean so great that I had booked a hotel but I didn't stay there. Put it that way. That's nice, all right. Also so great that she's not calling you back. Let's live in the moment. I think this is the moment. Let's live in the past, that reality. Why why do you think he's not calling you back? Then? That's the whole thing, because it's like, Okay, when I was leaving,

I was legit sad to go back home. Yeah, and you know, we're at the airport and she's dropping me off and I'm like, you know, next time, you're coming to see me, right, And she was like, of course, you know, yeah, that's a done deal. Of course I'm going to be up there to see you. And then I get home and initially we're texting and calling and everything, but then it just like slacked off after like two weeks, and the text slowed down and the call slowed down.

And I mean, I know she's a busy person. I'm a busy person. She's got a lot of friends, so she's got a pretty full social calendar. But I'm like, this is an amazing weekend that we shared. It was not your typical weekend. I mean, did you feel like you were basically I mean, I would feel like you're starting a relationship, Like that's more than a date to spend a whole weekend with somebody. I mean that's how

I felt, And I really thought it was mutual. It's not like we put any title on it, or or in a full blown relationship or called each other like boyfriend, or girlfriend or anything. But that's the vibe that I was getting before I left totally. Was there anything awkward that happened when you guys are hanging out. I wouldn't say awkward. I mean, the deal was sealed, so that's unawkward. But maybe it's something. I mean, did you say something in the two weeks following that turned her off or

made her rethink the whole thing? Trust me, I have combed over everything that I've said, all of my texts, like trying to figure out is it anything I could have said or done that turned everything sowarre? And I just can't figure it out. So that's why I came to you guys for help. And if she not talking to you at all, it's like almost non existent at this point. Man. That's always something when you go from texting all the time NonStop, you can just feel there's

some kind of shift in the vibe. Right, Yeah, it just seems like something's going on. I just want to know. If it's not popping, I get it, but let me know something like I'm just dangling here. Maybe it's super romantic and it was too much for her and she doesn't know how she could live without you, and so she cut it off. Now, he said later, I don't know whatever I just tried to give. It could be something good. Do you think maybe it could be the distance?

I mean, that's the only thing I could think of, dude, Like, maybe people are in their ear, like, oh, it's never gonna work because you guys are so far away. It's not an adult movie. They only stay together long distance in adult movies. But why wouldn't she just talk to you about that? Right? Exactly exactly, we're adults. You're adults, and it's obvious that's what you're doing. Exactly. Okay, Well we'll play a song and then come back and call

and get your second day update. All right, okay, brooking Jubil in the morning, sate in the middle of a second day update and DRez is on the phone. Today he wants to call a girl named Sierra. They actually live long distance. They met online. He went to travel to visit her. They hung out for an entire weekend. He said, everything went great. They even sealed the deal. I'm not sure what that means, You're not, I have no idea. Yeah, they it was a contract. What sort

of deal did you see dress? I'm a gentleman. If nothing else, I'm a gentleman. I still don't understand what you mean, dude. They slept together? What? Yes? Like it in the same bed? No? Oh god, let's just say yes, Triss. Did you guys sleep in the same bed? Yes, we slept wow, hot and heavy. No, they definitely had a great time. And then he came back home and since then the conversation has fizzled off, and now she's not really talking to him and he doesn't know why because

Court and him everything went great. All right, man, are you ready to give her a call and see why she's not getting back to you? Yeah? Man, I'm ready. And did she ever indicate that maybe she was freaked out by long distance? No? But I mean if they did freak her out, like I would think that be something that she would tell me about. We flew all the way down to see her for our first date. R YEA. Hopefully that is an expensive first date that you did. All right, I'm a dollar fun number right

now here we go? Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Sierra. Please. This is she Sierah? How are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewble in the morning. Who's this Jebil from Brooke and Jebil in the Morning. It's a radio show. Oh okay, how are you today? I'm fine? Any idea what I'm calling you? No, No, I'm sorry. I don't know you guys, I'm sorry. I understand it. I don't know. We want you would guess. I just want to see

what you would guess. I'm calling you today because we do a segment on our show it's called the second Date Update. That's where if you go out with somebody on a date and then end up not calling them back, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened. And we got an email about you from Drezz. What Yeah, wow, Okay. He told us how he met you on line and even travel to come hang out with you, and he thought everything

was great. But since he came home, you haven't been returning any of his calls and he's wondering if he did something wrong. Oh my gosh, what wow? Well, I mean so it's like you you meet people online and it's kind of strained, you know, and you just kind of hope you don't get catfished along the way. Yeah, but Dres was absolutely amazing. And he was everything that he said he was. So No, it was nothing like that. Yes, like I have really strong funds for him before he left.

So what happened? Are you just I mean he thought, you know, maybe he's jumping the gun, and you were just really busy and that's why you haven't really talked to him. No, Like, Okay, so I've been at this crossroads, right, so I don't have this big surprise that I wanted to surprise to him. I've just been so became used. Like Okay, so my job wants to relocate and it's close to him, it's you know, closer to that state, that area, and I wanted to get closer to him.

I just didn't know how to do what to say. So you're just are you just scared? Like you're scared to tell him, like, hey, I might be moving to your area. I mean, you know I kind of felt like, hey, this could be fat because this has never happened. I mean I didn't want to seem crazy. Yeah, like I'm moving in next door now, right, Yeah, but like not talking to him, that's crazy? Like how is it gonna be fat if you just don't ever talk to him again? Okay? Well,

there's this a little situation. So I went out with you. No, my god, No, I don't have a husband. Okay, god, So my friends they threw me a party and before my going away party. Yeah, and it got so crazy and I feel so horrible about this, but I hooked up with another guy that night. Oh okay, so hold up, So hold up, the moving thing is for sure because you said it was possibility. So you are actually going

to be moving closer to Dress. Yes, I want to, you know, like, I feel horrible about what happened, and so honestly, I haven't spoken to either of them all right, So you feel guilty for hooking up with another dude. It makes me feel so horrible because I know how I know how I felt about Dress, and I know the weekend we had was like more than a freaking first time meet up. Yeah I heard you guys slept

in the same bag. Well, yes, we slept. But Dress even said you guys didn't have a relationship to finding talk, you didn't set boundaries for each other because it was I mean, yeah, it was a big weekend, but it still was your first date. Yeah, well that's true and true things like I really do care about him, and that it was more to me than a first date. I mean, who spends the whole weekend together on the first date. And we were just such a great connection.

So yeah, and maybe you needed that hook up with the other dude to affirm everything you're feeling about Dress. I think it was just a wild night. Yeah, and who knows. You don't even know that much about Dress. He might like that sort of thing. Oh my goodness, No, we should probably ask him, because he's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. I'm sorry, Dress is actually on the other line listening and he wants to talk to you. Oh so he knows everything, now, Dress,

you there, Yeah, I'm here. Man. How are you feeling? I gotta say, I'm really disparted. I mean I thought we had like this cosmic connection, and I haven't been able to think of anybody so blown, man, I haven't even been able to think about anything else but you. To be honest, like, I am just so sorry. I've just been so conflicted. I've been going through that and thinking about what happened and feeling horrible about that and thinking about you and moving my job. Want to get

closer to you because I totally enjoyed our weekend as well. Like, I am so sorry, please forgive me. I mean, if we hadn't been so far apart and we had, you know, established boundaries or something, that I could be more upset. But you know, we didn't draw that line. We didn't say, okay, now we're an item. So but I mean, I would like to know what's to deal with you and this other guy. Is there some kind of future in that still? You're sure? Absolutely not. I'm certain in the hands, so like,

was he better than me? Ask? No? Of course not, nope. Never. I am excited about thought of you being closer to me because I mean I was ready to risk it all. I gotta be honest, like if there was a situation where it was the distance I would have come down there. I mean, I just I really felt like we had this just one in a lifetime shot going and whatever I had to do, I was going to do it. Oh man, Now that is intense. You were worried about freaking him out, Sierra, Yea, the feeling is so mutual.

I love you too, and I'm a little bummed out about the situation. But you're gonna use your one get out of jail free car. Well, then, Siera, would you like to go on a second date with Dress? We'll pay for it, not a plane ticket, like, we'll give you a gift card to go somewhere to eat. But he has to get to you or you have to get to him first. Oh wow, you guys would do that for us. Yeah, and we do it for everybody on the second date update. But yeah, so we will,

we will do that. Well. I did promise to him that i'd be there the next time we had our date, so I'll be there. Oh my god, what are you moving here? Well, my job moves within the next two weeks. Actually, so soon to day. I thought, Oh, there you go, as you got a second day. Yeah, I can't wait, man, I gotta be honest. I'm really relieved. This is a big surprise. So happy for you. And look at you. Guys are already creating a great foundation of communication and

understanding and forgiveness. Yes, hey, Dress, Yeah, is this where we tell her that we slept together last week? Oh my god? And Jubil shut up, man, don't tell her anything. Congratulations, you too, Keep in touch with us and let us know how everything goes all right, thank you, all right, thank you. Broken Jubil in the morning,