Second Date Update PODCAST: I “LIKE” Photos

singles mixers. And every time you go to one of those, just a bunch of dudes wearing bad leather jackets all the time. Every time I've seen one of those horrible leather jackets. Chuck, how you doing? I'm good, guys, How are you good? Are you owner of a bad leather jacket? No? I do not. I do not own a love jackets. But I did notice a bunch of really bad Yeah. See, can look at any one of those things. It's just

guys with greasy hair and bad leather jackets. So tell us a little bit about the girl that you met at this singles mixer. What's her name. Her name's Rebecca. Rebecca, all right. And when I first started talking to her, like the first time I met her at this thing, I was kind of nervous, and I really don't think that I came across very like charismatic or confident. You know. I really didn't really have much to say, so the

first meeting didn't really go too well. Then I got to talk to a few more girls, and I warmed up a little bit, you could say, and I gave a little more confidence. And then the second time I went to talk to Rebecca, it went a lot better, a lot smoothly. I'm always surprised that people actually meet somebody that they want to date at these events, because I've hosted a lot of them, and I haven't actually seen success stories Like what about her stood out among

the group? Well, this was my first time going to one of these events, and I actually brought a friend in lack of I didn't want to go by myself, So I really don't have much experience with these things. But which good out about Rebecca was just because she's very classy, you know, she was well dressed, she was very pretty. She came across like really intelligent, you know, like more so than me probably. So what did you

guys do when you actually went out? Well, I wanted to take her somewhere kind of classy, you know, because I thinkured she was a smart classy check. So I actually heard about this ARTI hibbit. I think that's a pretty classy saying that there, you know, art exhibbit, kind of an original first day sort of thing. And you impress her a little bit by going like, hey, I'm cultured, I know about all the art in town. Baby. Yeah. So we go to the to the art exhibit, you know,

and you know, luckily they had a few drinks. They had some like wine there, and we had a few a few drinks while we looked at some art and we you know, talked about the sculptures in the painting. Is that we saw who was more interested in the actual art like you were her? Well, I don't know, like I pretended that I was interested. I don't really know anything about art. And certainly after a couple of glasses of wine and I decided to sort of talk

like I actually don't know. There was something sitting in front of like a painting breaking it down, and you have no idea what you're talking about. Yeah, Like I would take a look at like one of the paintings and I would be like, oh, I really liked this avant garde style and the use of pistels, And were you just sort of spouting any art word you've ever heard pretty much chotts idea who the artist was? You know, what sanctuary was? May could have been painted yesterday. Though.

Do you think she saw through it as like maybe you're trying a little too hard, or you were a fraud or anything. That was my initial thought as to why she's not returning my calls a task because we had a pretty good time, you know, I would seems so anyway, we shared a kiss at the end, Oh you did. Yeah, we had a kiss and that was it though, I mean there was no hot action as

you will. Yeah, but things went well. And asked her if I could give her a call, and she was like, yeah, sure, okay, So it must not have gone too bad though, if she's willing to kiss you at the end of the day, and my experience, if a date doesn't go well, most girls are not open to a kiss. It's so weird. Yeah, I agree, I don't know what went wrong. You know. I do think though, I think it would have been more attractive if you would have just said, hey, listen,

I think you're classy. I don't know a whole lot about art. Let's experience this together. Like, why weren't you just honest about it? Yeah, that would have been a great idea, Brooke, I hadn't thought of it. Unfortunately, I'm not that bright. I don't know. I just I feel like maybe I didn't come across very genuine on the day, you know, and maybe she saw through that. And I just want the opportunity to, you know, maybe take her at again and perhaps show her like the real me.

You know, what is the real you? The real me is a guy who likes uh to drink and play pool and walking forth and watch stupid movies. Okay, all right, I will say, in a couple of minutes we've talked, I think you're really likable. You are, well, thanks, I appreciate. I agree. I may not I may not be the sharpest bold in the drawer, but I do you know, I got lots of friends. All right, Well, we'll play a song, come back, call her and see if that's

the reason. In your second date update, Okay, okay, great, all right, man, hang on looking cubile. In the morning, Chuck is on the phone with us and he wants to do a second date update to a girl named Rebecca.

They met at a singles mixer ended up going out to an art exhibit, and Chuck thinks that he's screwed up because at the art exhibit he tried to act like he was refined and knew all about arts didn't know anything about it, so he thinks that she was able to spot that he was lying and isn't calling him back. Chuck, I really want you to be successful in the second date update. Yeah, that would be nice. I'm pulling for you on this one. I want to get you a second date with this girl really bad.

Not necessarily because I want you to go out with her, but I don't want you have to go to any more singles mixers because I know they are pretty bad. You said, this is one of the first times you've been and you don't own a bad leather jacket. And we talked about how everybody at singles mixers has bad leather jackets. And I know if you keep going to these, you're going to acquire one of those. And I want to keep you from getting a bad leather jacket. Well,

I appreciate that, no problem. I'm just trying to save you from that leather jacket. That's all I'm trying to do here. All right, man, are you about ready to give a call? Let's do it? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Rebecca please? This is she? Hey Rebecca, how are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Who is Jewbil from Brooke and Jewil

in the Morning. I'm calling you because one of our listeners recently send us an email about you, and I wanted to ask you some information about me an email about me? Yes, it's a segment that we do on our show. It's called the second Date Update. It's basically, if you go out on a date with somebody and then don't call them back, they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and ask why. Okay, okay? Have you been out on a lot of dates recently?

I wouldn't say a lot, but I've definitely been dating. I'm single, So all right, Well, this guy's name is Chuck. You know Chuck? Is that a Yes? You know him? And you're not impressed by Chuck because that's what it sounded like to me, Or you don't know who Chuck is. I know who Chuck is. Okay, I'd appreciate it if you could just like just tell us maybe why you're not calling him back. I mean, he said, you guys met at a singles mixer and ended up going to

an art exhibit. That's true, Okay. He said at the art exhibit, he was trying to act like he was smart and knew everything about art, when in fact, he really doesn't know much at all, And he thinks that you saw through that and that's why you're not calling him back. I thought he knew a lot about art, so, oh, you did really off. I thought he knew what he was talking about. I mean, I don't know too much about art either, so maybe that's that's awesome. Okay, So

there's some common ground between you guys. Yeah, I mean we had a good time. He's very charming and a little rough frond the edges, but in a way that was nice and what I liked. So if the date went really well, then why did you sound so disgusted when I brought up his name? Well, he kind of crewd me out, I mean, and not for anything that

happened on the date. The day went well. I came home, I felt good, you know, went to bed, and the next morning I got up and logged into my Facebook and I had a ton, like hundreds of notifications, and I was like, what the what's going why? And he'd gone through like every single profile photo that I've ever

posted and liked them. So all were him liking my photos and they were photos I like swear to you from like the beginning of my Facebook, like lifetime, Like I mean when a Facebook starts, this must have been from like two thousand and six or seven. Like he even before that, like, oh man, anytime anybody's ever been on my thing? And I get a like from like five years ago. I oh that's creepy. No, no, it's

totally creepy. And what's worse, he didn't didn't just stop at Facebook though, he went to my Instagram and like, let's a few comments too. I'm like, oh, posting like kind of been a way that was seemed aggressive almost. It was like thank god I didn't have a Twitter account or like what would he do from ten years ago? I mean, you're telling me that you didn't look up all of his old pictures and Instagram. Well that's good.

I did look at photos, but I didn't like like him, and I did not go back to like the beginning of his face prof and be like, oh, you look adorable as a twenty four year old or whatever. You know how whenever Facebook started. But that's like a huge dredge flight in either I mean, whether or not he knows the etiquette. Thank you for sharing that with us. By the way, there is a difference between just looking

at the photos. We know everybody social media stocks. We know that there's a difference between looking at it and a difference between liking those pictures every single one and old ones. I think that that is too fun. You're telling me that if somebody went on your Facebook, a guy that you dated, and started liking pictures from like five years ago. And how many pictures do you have in your Facebook, Rebecca, Oh my god, I mean like hundreds,

like over a thousand for sure. Like he didn't like over a thousand photos, though he liked like six hundred of my normal photos, like photos taken photos I posted all of my photos. Wow, I think there was even a few events that he like wiped on the way that must have taken him a lot of time. Yeah, yeah, that's even creepier. I mean that makes me want to not friend anyone ever. Like, you know what, this might creep you out too, because he's actually on the other

line listening and wants to talk to you. Let me get this straight. You don't like the fact that I liked your stuff? A bad way to say it on the internet if you didn't want people to look at it and like comment on it. On this, I just wanted to know well about you, you know, I really, I really liked you. I wanted a little background on you, you know. I mean it's like six hundred of my photos, like enough background, Like how much background did you need?

Like did you need to go back to what I looked like in two thousand and six and like enjoy that moment of my life? Like I never assumed that someone was going to go back and like every photo and leave comments like I mean, Chuck, you found a photo of me when I was twenty four and blonde and posted some something like hey blonde bombshell. I mean, like you posted that on that, Like why would you do that? It's true, you were a blonde bombshell. I

wasn't a line. Forgive me for thinking that you were attractive at age twenty four, but it was weird you posting on these photos from I mean on my Instagram too, Like, how long did it take you to do that? You sifted through six hundred photos at least? You? Are you up all night? Well? I don't really sleep very much, so I was just up online, you know, and just shifting through photos. Oh my god? Does that not creep

anyone else? Am I alone? And then I kind of still think that he's likable and that you should give him a chance. I know that sounds crazy, and I know it's really creepy, but he really doesn't sound like he gets it, Like, Chuck, do you just not understand how social media works? Well? Apparently I don't. I mean, if you're not supposed to like things, I mean, why is there a like futton if you're not supposed to

use it? You're supposed to that fair? I don't want to because you're supposed to use it sparingly, check like use the like button like a precision sniper one shot, right, you don't just go through with a sim automatic weapon just blow a bunch of likes across somebody's Facebook page, it's gonna creep them out. I thought it was a nice thing, you know. I mean, if somebody went through my photos and likes them that were comments on them, I lose these like really flattered. I mean, that's why

they're up there so people can enjoy them. I was surprised that Rebecca didn't like any of my photos. I mean, I looked at your photos, but I didn't like go through it and like them all because, I mean, like, it's so creepy. I don't creepy creepy? Or is he just more honest than any of us, because at least he admits that he went through and stopped it instead of pretending like he didn't. Rebecca, I would love to ask if you'll go on a second date with Chuck.

We will pay for it. I promise I won't like you, and then I'll go back and I'll stay up all night and I'll unlike all the photos if you want that makes you feel better. I mean, I did have a really good time. That totally creeps me out, But I maybe you are just more honest than the rest of us. Their Facebook stocking. Okay, so you'll go out with Chuck again? I think yes, I think congratulations, Chuck, you got your second date. Really, I want to point out you did get a date by a go going

all right, whatever it is. You'll take a broken jubil in the morning when your legs don't work like they used to before