Second Date Update PODCAST: “I Know What She Needs”

I'm doing good. I'm doing good. So that's what impressed you about Lisa? Huh? Her praying ability? Yeah, maybe not in that way, but you know, church, it's a good place to meet people. Yeah, so you met her at church. How did you approach her at church? Or did you like wink at her during the service throw a Bible at the back of her head? What'd you do? Well? You know, I've been going there for a while and she started going and she always sits in the same

pew on the right hand side. Paybe about six backs, So you know, I'm watching it for a while and I was like, you know, it's time to make a move. It almost sounds like you're stocking her at church with details like that. No, you do. I grew up in the church and like there's usually like a couple of hot girls and you always know where they sit, and you kind of want to sit like diagonal so you can stare at them while you're at church. Yeah, it's not that weird, John, Thank you. So so how did

you approach her? Well, it was the end of the service and we're all leaving and we're all standing for her, and I mean I just went up to and I was like, hey, you know, I noticed you, and I have my eye on you, and I was wondering if you just wanted to go grab some coffee, just you know, nice and simple, That's what I said. And you had never talked to her prior to that. This is the

first time you guys had ever talked. Yeah, exactly. I mean, you know, you smile you walk past, but I never really like said anything to her, and she never really said anything. So yeah, it was just kind of just walked up to her and just said that. Did you get the vibe like she knew who you were too a little bit? I mean she you know, you said wink, before. I mean I didn't wink, but you know that smile, you know, the way they get you. So you were

definitely like throwing her flirty glances and stuff like that. Yeah, of course, I mean, hey, she's cute, all right, so obviously she said yes to coffee. How was that little date? It was good. I mean, listen, I did everything. It was raining that day, so I waited in the parking lot. She pulled up. I walked in from her car to the dope front door and then open the door for of course, and we sat down. I mean I pulled out the chair, you know, all that kind of stuff,

and it went' good. It went't good? That's really I mean, you sound like a man who's looking for a relationship. You want something more out of this date. I guess I really was looking for something. I mean, she seems great, she looks hot in church. I mean, what more could you want? Right? How was the conversation? It was good. I mean we talked about this, We talked about that. She's one thing I like is like, it's not just all like church talk. I mean there's the real world,

you know. So we're talking about our jobs and what we like do and that kind of stuff, and I bought us everything. I mean, I'm thinking I did everything right. I walked her back out ring kind of was away, but you know I still had the umbrella that way it could stay close. You know what I'm playing back to the car, opened the door, gave or kiss on the cheek. Of course it's just first date, so no, you know, tongue wrestling. So gave Ri kiss on the cheek and just close the door, and she drove off.

And how many times have you tried to call her since? I mean not every day, like stalk like five or six times a day, but you know, trying the morning, try at night, and I mean I've been trying so and you haven't seen her at church or anything. I don't know. I mean I haven't been a church since, so I haven't had the opportunity to see if she's been there. So I'm not really sure. She just hasn't been returning my phone call. Okay, is there anything that you can think of that would make her not want

to call you back? Well, there's just one thing that happened. I mean, she wanted to. It sounds really stupid. I don't know. It just keeps me playing on my mind. So she wanted something to drink, right, So she wanted orange juice. I'm like, it's cold, it's raining, it's wet outside. Why would he get orange juice? If you questioned her orange juice choice, did you like really tease her about it? Well, I didn't think it was mean. I just listened. I

just went ahead and ordered her a hot chocolate. I mean, I was saying. So, I was like, listen, it's cold outside. So she wanted an orange juice. He said, no, you're getting hot chocolate. Yeah, I did, you know. I mean, I just don't understand why you would order orange juice on a cold, rainy day. It's wet outside, you know, just stomping off our rain boots with all this water. I got my wet umbrella, and she like wants to get a wet, cold orange yea, I mean that would

come off as a little controlling. I don't think so. I mean, it just didn't make sense to me. So maybe that's it. I don't know. Maybe she didn't like that that happened. Did she get her orange juice at all? No? Why would you get orange juice outside? Je And this was at the beginning of your date. Yes, okay, at the counter, so, but all the conversation after that and everything else is fine. It was cool. She was laughing,

I was laughing. We had a great time, right, I mean the vibe was just a little weird standing there, because like there were people behind us waiting, and we're back and forth about the OJ and the hot chocolate, and I'm displayed. I asked, did she drink the hot chocolate, because I think that will be the telling sign she drank it. Okay, maybe she wasn't upset by it. Well, the fact that it happened at the beginning of your day and then you had a decent conversation after would

make me think that that's not the issue. Look, it's not a perfect date. I can't say that it was a perfect date, but it definitely deserves a second date. I mean, I've had much worse happened than this, you know, tripping, falling, people not showing up. I mean, I think I deserve a second date. Cool, We're gonna play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. All right, all right, all right, hang up Brookings second date update. All right, if you're just tuning in for the second

date update. Sean is on the phone. He met a girl named Lisa at church. She's not calling him back. After their first date, they went out for coffee, enjoyed

some conversation, and you can't figure out why. The only thing that he can think of that might have turned her off a little bit was at the beginning of it when she ordered she ordered an orange juice at the coffee place, and he kind of gave her a hard time for that because it was wet and rainy and cold outside, and said, why are you gonna do that on a wet, rainy day? And then he ordered her a hot chocolate. But the date continued and it seemed to go fine. So I don't know if that's

really the reason. We're about to get her on the phone and find out what went wrong. Sean, you have any last thoughts before we give her a call. No, I mean, let's get to the bottom of this, all right. And you guys haven't worked out on how you're gonna win her over with your words of romance. Well, we'll see what she says first before I decide what to say her. It could be something terrible. You're like, I don't ever want to talk to her again. Who cares?

All right, I'm gonna doll the phone of her right now, get her on the phone and get your second date update. Here we going. Hello, Hi, gonna speak to Lisa. Please. This is Lisa. Hey, Lisa, how are you doing? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Who Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning the radio show. Okay, have you ever listened? Maybe one? Okay? Cool? Well, it's nice to meet you, Lisa. The reason I'm calling you today is because we recently got an email about you

from one of our listeners. You this, m that's weird. You actually went out on a date with one of our listeners. His name is Sean, and you met him at church. Oh you remember meeting Sean? You remember going out with Sean obviously? Yeah, So he contacted the radio. Yeah. It's the thing we do call the second date Update. It's where if somebody goes on on a date and gets blown off, they email us so we can get

the person on the phone and ask why. Wow, Sean told us about your date, and he also says that you haven't been returning any of his phone calls. Do you mind talking to us? For a second and telling us why you're not calling him back. I didn't like him. That's quite clean, all right, that's a good reason for not calling somebody back. Is there a specific reason that you didn't like him? Because when you talked about your date, he said, you guys seem to have a good conversation

and enjoy each other's company. I mean, he was still not right on the day. I mean, I have to give him credit. Like it was raining and he came to my car with his umbrella and he walked us into the restaurants. So, you know, I compliment him. I told him, you know, it's really refreshing to meet a guy who does all these things. I mean, you've been really polite and you know, going out of your way to be a gentleman. And then he's like, well, you know, thank you. I fell as a man, it's my job

to take care of my will. And you know, the type of girl that I'm looking for, she just knows how to be subsurvan. He said the word subservian, I would have lost it exactly. It was just over from there. He pretty much wants a woman who wants to be barefoot and pregnant all the time, and he said that he didn't want his wife to work. He basically wanted her to stay home and raise the children and cook all of his mills. Oh my god, I would have

left right there. I can't believe you stayed through the date. I was trying to hear him out. I thought like, maybe I can reason with him, but he's just narrow minded, and it was like trying to talk to a caveman. That's why I haven't caught him back. You know, Yeah, I don't blame it. I just think that that's so weird that you would continue to be that nice, not that you'd have to be rude, but you know, I really just didn't want to make a scene. It was

just a coffee day. But I thought, just held my tongue and in forty five minutes will be over and I will never see this after every Well, Lisa, what if I told you at least have to talk to him one more time? What do you mean? I mean that he's actually on the other line listening. He heard what I said. Yes he did, Yes, I've been on the phone the whole time. Hey, Lisa, Oh god, what okay? So tell me you didn't have fun? You didn't like it? Right, you have a good time. Did you hear what I

have to say? Shot, sweetie, listen, I heard it. You mean okay, I'm trying to talk to me after what I said about you. There's nothing wrong with a man taking care of a woman and taking care of her needs. That's what I'm talking about. I'm not talking about you. That is not taking care of a woman and her needs. That is being controlling and condescending. And since you don't understand that, we don't need to see each other. We don't need. But here's the thing, which with me knowing

what you need? I know what you need. I know what you want, so I'll give it to you. Oh my god, are you serious? It's cold outside. Hot chocolate. I'm an old school guy, all right. Even if you don't know what you need, I know what you need because I'm tuned in. I'm paying attention. You're not the issue here, and you're not playing your role. You don't know your place. Your place is to be a woman, and my place is to be a man. A man

has a place. It goes both ways. I know what I want, I know what I need, and you cannot control everyone. You cannot control every situation. You don't even know me. You met me one time, side, you cannot know time. Honey, honey, honey, just calmed out what I'm saying. Rest. So you're telling me you don't like a gentleman. You don't like somebody opening the door for you or walking in the rain, I mean, you don't like somebody doing a man's job. Don't like you. I won't like you.

I don't like what you're about. I don't like your ideas. I don't like your views. I don't like your opinions. I don't like you, Sean. I don't think any woman listening right now likes you, Sean. No, no, no, no. There's a lot of girls out there that want to be taken care of. Okay, well you go find that girl, you go find that crazy f al right, Well, okay, listen, I don't have to listen to some feminist nazi on the radio. Wow, you are the one who reached out to me. I would not have hit up the phone

if it had been your number. I'm gonna ask the question anyway. I feel like I know the answer, but I could be wrong. I'm wrong a lot, Lisa, would you like to go out with Sean on a second tape as well. Thank thank you very much for your time. I appreciate you being honest with us. You're welcome, all right, take care. Yeah, there you go, Sean. That's your answer. Man. Well, you know, it looks like somebody lost out and I'm just gonna go find another one. A lot of people

want a real gentleman. A gentleman, A gentleman believes in things like gender equality and respect for women. I don't know, broken Juwil in the morning.