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It's a problem I've never had because usually girls are so mesmerized by my beautiful hazel eyes they never even think about staring at their phone screen. The only time they do it is actually take a picture of my eyes because they want to show their friends. Anyway, I guess we'll talk to Jesse and see why he wants to call it this girl back. So, Jesse, your email said the girl you went out with was on her phone the whole time. Why do you even want to
do a second date update? Well, she's actually a really cool person, and besides the fact that she was on her phone the whole time, I do like her. Um, Okay, you know, we did have some commonation. I feel like that this is such a good example of men who really loved the chase, because it sounds like the girl was really bored on your date if she's on her phone the whole time. I don't I guess I didn't think about that part. But what's her name? First of all? Oh,
her name is Lorie. What did you guys do on your date when you went out? We went out to dinner, okay? And how much of the date was she on her phone? A lot? A lot? Was she texting someone else? Or she's like, oh my god, look at this Instagram picture I just put up. I couldn't tell. She had like her phone like kind of where I couldn't see the screen, but she was on it and was definitely typing a lot, so I assumed she was texting. Yeah, I don't know. Maybe,
I don't know. Did you ever say hey, can you put the phone down and concentrate on the conversation please? I actually did. Um. I said it kind of rudely. I think, um. It was bugging me a lot. It was. I was getting kind of pissed off about her being on the phone and not she'd be mid conversation and would not be paying attention to what I was saying, and I'd ask her a question and I'd say something and she wouldn't answer, and so I kind of blew
up at her. I guess I kind of yelled. I didn't yell, but I said it loud enough to wear the tables next to us kind of looked over. Really, what did you say? I was just like, who are you texting? Like? I was in the middle of talking, and she obviously wasn't paying attention. You're like, hey, the person over here across the table who's probably gonna pay for your expensive dinner? Would you mind putting the phone
down for a second. Yeah, I mean it wasn't that bad, but I think I did come off with the jerk. Did she put her phone down at that point? Were you guys actually able to enjoy the rest of the date. She did put her phone down, but the date wasn't too enjoyable after that. Is that why you think she's not calling you back because you yelled at her about being on the phone. I'm afraid it is. We After the date, I apologized. I tried to explain to her
that I was wanting to hang out with her. I'd been so excited about how finally having a date with her, and you know, I just wanted to talk to her. And she was on the phone the whole time, and and so you know, I was also nervous something was wrong she was maybe he was a family issue or something. But she wouldn't tell me who she was texting. And she kind of hugged me. And then we went our ways and I haven't heard back. You didn't say like,
can we try this again? Yeah? Yeah I did. I was like, you know, please, let's you know, let's meet up again. Let's and she just kind of nodded yes, yeah, okay, And you know, I was like, all right, we'll text you. And I've texted her a couple of times, and we know she knows how to use that phone. Yeah, yeah, we know that she's seen your text for sure. She hasn't gotten back to you at all, not a word, no,
not anything. And I'm not trying to be overbearing and get on her a whole bunch, but I at least need some need to overies. I mean, if she's mad at me for the I yelled at her, I you know, I don't know. You just want the opportunity to explain to her that, hey, sorry I snapped, but you were
on your phone the whole time and that's pretty rude. Yeah, yeah, and I and I feel like I did explain that afterwards, but it was you know, it was right after it happened, and yeah, I just kind of want to if that's the problem, I'd like to apologize to her again about it, and you know, and try to have another date and maybe whatever she's on their phone with about she cannot do that next time, and I won't yell at her. Well,
what makes her so special? I mean, if you're online dating, I'm assuming that you have some other options you can go with. Yeah, Well, honestly, she's she's gorgeous that when I first started talking with her, I thought she was too pretty for a dating website, you know, But then I got to know her a little bit and we have a lot of same interests, and you know, I don't know, I would like to get to know her more. Do you want this to be more of a hook up?
Are you actually trying to date this girl? Because from the sounds of your date, it sounds to me like you want to see her again just so you can hook up and you're not actually interested in dating her. Yeah, I mean there's definitely part of that that. Yeah, I'm trying not to be too honest here, but I mean i'd definitely like to hook up with her, maybe a relationship too. I don't, I don't know. I mean, you know, anything can happen. We're both young, and you just want
another chance at whatever it is. Yeah, I feel like I put a lot of effort into it. You know, there was a lot going on, and I don't know. I guess I'm really just confused by the whole situation. And Okay, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. All right, all right, cool, all right, hang on looking cubile in the morning. I actually don't know if I should do today's second date updates. Are you there, Jesse, Yeah, I'm here. Jesse wants us
to call a girl named Laurie. They went out on a first date. Laurie spent her whole time texting while they were on the date. He even called her out for it, got kind of mad at her, and then things got awkward at that point and the date was sort of over after he called her out for the texting. Jesse, I think I shouldn't do this second date update. Why, Well, because I've got a little bit of insider information. The
person she was texting on your date was me. Yeah, she was texting me the whole time, like, hey, this guy Jesse's a boy. I need a room man to swoop up in here so I can enjoy my evening. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you still want me to do the second day that you still want my seconds? I guess I can get Yeah, I know how better year, so it'll be fine. All right,
that's the gist of it. Though Jesse went out with this girl, she spent the whole time texting, They got in an argument, and she hasn't talked to him since. We're about to get her on the phone and find out if she wants to go out with him again, even though she didn't seem very interested on your actual date. Jesse. Yeah, all right, Well, I'm Ndala the phone number. We'll probably get her on the phone because I'm assuming it's attached to her hand at all times, and find out if
she'd like to go out with you again. Okay, awesome, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Laurie Please? This is Loie. Hey, Laurie, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, Hi, Hi, how are you? How come we u? Who is it? Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning the radio show. Okay, what can I do for you? Well, you could start by letting me know why you're not calling my man Jesse back. What do you remember going on a date
with a guy named Jesse. Yeah, well, Jesse listens to our radio show and we do a segment called the second Date Update. Jesse wants to know why you're not calling him back. Oh, that's weird. It is. It is kind of weird, and I know it's a weird phone call to get. But do you have a few minutes to talk to us about your date with Jesse? I guess so, Okay, I have a question for you. So
Jesse told us a little bit about your date. He said that you were texting the whole time during your date, and then he told us at one point he called you out for it, and you seemed a little annoyed that he did that. Yeah, he got really mad. Is that the reason why you don't want to see him again? It's just one of those things where it just didn't work out. It just wasn't a good FETA. Were you like disappointed when you saw him? No, why were you
texting the whole time on your date? I was just texting my friend because it was about something he said that was so nuts that I couldn't even believe this was happened. Like I thought I was like on like a hidden camera show or something. Wait, something Jesse said that was so crazy? Yeah, what did he say? I mean, it was just bad whatever. It's not that I don't I really don't want to talk about it. Really. Well, here's the thing, Jesse wants us to do this, so
he probably should know for future dates. If he's saying something so outrageous that you have to text your friend in the middle of it, it might be helpful to him to know what he said. Yeah, okay, So he asked me, like, you know, kind of what what are you into? You know? And I was like, oh, I'm, you know, kind of into photography right now, um, you know, just stuff that I like to do and just normal
first date talk. Yeah. Yeah. And then I was like, oh, I asked him what he's into and he said, I'm really into Hitler what no way is he talking about it? Is he talking about a different Hitler or the most famous you know? And like no, I thought. I was like, oh, is there a band? Would be weird, but like what that's a little shocking. And then he said, no, seriously, I can't get enough of Hitler right now. He's amazing. What is amazing? I'm gonna have Jewish too, So it's
even more. It's just like I can't even I don't even understand. I mean, it's just it's yeah. And then he's a going off on all these facts about Hitler, like like things that you wouldn't even know. Did you tell It's like fun facts about Hitler or what? I like? It was so weird, and I was like, what am I doing here? Yeah? I was texting because I'm texting. Ever, I was like, what do I do? What do I talk? What am I doing? And now he gets mad that
I was texting. Yeah, that's kind of scary, Laurie. You're out with a guy who's like, I love Hitler and then you're on your phone. He's like, put the phone down. Now, what did you say to him? I just couldn't. I was like it felt like it's a teaching moment, right, It's not like I need to reach across the table and go, hey, man, probably shouldn't talk about your love of Hitler on the first day. That is a good point. Hey,
I just like I'm telling you this now. I believe that speaking of teaching moments and letting him know that he shouldn't be talking about his love of Hitler on the first Dade Laurie, he's actually on the other line listening right now. What Yeah, you're kidding. No, I'm I'm shocked too, because I had no idea that this was even something that was an issue in the date or something that came up. It was an issue. It's an issue. What issue? Like, it's a it's like a universal issue. No,
I was. It's like a hateful, horrible thing and you're like into it and what No, No, I'm into I'm like the man himself was he was. He was crazy. It was the person. He was an artist, he drew stuff, he was look morality aside, Okay, it's crazy stuff. He was a he was an amazing person, you know. No, No, morality is kind of the point. I know this sounds bad, but I was just bringing up other facts about him, and he's very interesting to me, the things that the
person he was before things happened, before things happened. I'm just saying that I've been reading a lot. We were talking about things we've been doing. I've been walking a lot of document reason. I just can't get enough watching and learning, and it's fascinating. It's so fascinating that that that person that's human. It is fascinating. I will say that, like I watched documented, it's fascinating. It's a very very
bad mark in human history, but it is fascinating. Is Is that what you were trying to say, Jesse, rather than you're a fan of Hitler? Yes, I was not saying I do not support his Okay, it's his issues I do not support. Did you said, I'm really into Hitler right now? Right like you know, like I'm really into baseball right now, where I'm really into rocket science. I don't know, like it was something i'm studying. It's just something i'd like to learn about things. It's what
i'm learning about right now. I'm just learning a lot about Hitler. I keep learning more and more things, and it's just it's crazy, how much is about this guy. Oh, my god, that's what you want to learn. You're a fan. You're a fan like one direction. You're hey, hey, hey, don't you dare talk about one direction? Okay, we don't want to run. Remember the things that they've done for society. I'm not saying I'm a fan, Okay, I'm just we were talking about what we're into right now. It's what
I'm reading about. It's this is totally getting taken unto context. I mean, I so, why don't you say it like that? Jesse? Why don't you say I've been watching a lot of documentaries about Hitler, and I find them very interesting. Even so, who even says that, like, exactly bring it up. I'm trying. I'm even trying to make up excuses for you now. And I you were texting, you were texting the whole date, and then you wouldn't say anything if you told me
that you seemed like a crazy, evil person. Allright, think about it, think about it, all right? What's worse texting on a date? We're talking about Hitler? Right, I rest my case. I guess they're both bad. I know what to do with that. Really, they're both They're both really bad things to do on a date. I mean, I would argue that the texting is a lesser of the two evils. Well, it's not like he did anything Hitler did.
He just said he likes to watch documentaries. I'm not as bad a guy, is everybody thinking Laurie at this moment, I would like to ask, if you'll go on a second date with Jesse, we will pay for it, not even no, like no, what sorry, Jesse, no second date for you. That's fine. It's okay about it. If she's gonna get upset about little stupid things in conversation when she asked me a question, yeah, I mean, you got
a bunch of history to catch up on. Anyway, you don't need to be going on dates right now, right exactly whatever. I've got plenty of other people I can hang out, you know, I've got a group that we meet up and we talk about all kinds of stuff. So I bet you do cut up bed sheets. It's not like that, dude,