Second Date Update PODCAST: I Go on Dates and Close Deals

find out if that's what happened, though, Heather, how are you? Hey? I'm good. How are you guys doing good? So you went out on the most romantic date of your life and now the dude isn't getting back to you. Yeah, did it involve any of those things? Did you guys play skiball? No? No, yeah, you said romantic, so I assume skiball do. Where do you meet the guy that

you went on the most romantic date ever with? Well, he actually does business with my dad, and you know, my dad is the type of guy who's always like, you know, you should be my daughter. Yeah, and I'm usually pretty resistant, but he kept talking about this guy and just said he was really really great and he kind of convinced me, so I gave in. I guess you actually agreed to go on a date with somebody

that your dad recommended. I know it sounds crazy, but he sounded like a great guy, and then I met him and he is. That's the craziest part. You actually had to own up to your father that he was right. That was the worst part. What's his name, by the way, the guy that you went out with, Trevor? Trevor? Okay, what was so special about him? First of all, he's like super good looking, funny, smart, intelligent. You know, I

was skeptical, but he was everything my dad said. Yeah, really sounds like your dad had a crush on him. So what happened when you meet Trevor? Where'd you guys go? He took me to the rooftop of a building and there was this amazing dinner laid out with like flowers and wine. I mean he had to spent a lot of money set that up. Okay, wait, hold on, though I would almost be freaked out on a first date

walking into that. That is a lot of pressure. Yeah, I mean it was a little weird at first, but I go on so many dates where it's just like Hey, let's go to the bar and get drunk. You know. So when this happened, I was like not gonna say no, or a rooftop Was it a rooftop deck at a restaurant? Because the way you said it sounds like it was

just a private thing. Yeah, it was just a private thing. Yeah, and you hadn't hung out with this guy at all, Like did you know anything really about him yet besides what your dad told you. We like talked a little bit leaning up to it, and he just asked me what my favorite food were, and then when we got there, he had had chefs make my favorite foos. Wow, it's too much. You're doing too much there in my opinion. Yeah, you follow that up with a second date. My god,

that's why he's not calling you back. He's like, well, I did the best I could and now it's over. We peaked already. Maybe, Well we had such a great time and he said that he couldn't wait to see me again. Yeah, how did you guys end everything? Helicopter ride? So I just on the way back to our cards, he like stopped me and he said he really wants to kiss me. But then he's like, I'm a gentleman, and you know, I want to treat you with respect, so I want to wait a couple more dates to

kiss you. Oh my god, I'm playing it so good. No, I mean, but oh my gosh, I'm bush. Yeah, the best date of my life. Yeah, I mean, it almost feel unreal, the whole thing, like it was all just a dream. It kind of did feel like that. And then after the date, we were texting for a couple of days and he was being really sweet and just telling me how much he wanted to see me again. Okay, and then all of a sudden, you just stopped texting me and I haven't heard from him. Have you had

your dad check up on him? Well? No, I did ask my dad though if he talked to him recently. And you know, they don't work directly together, they just do business together. So he said he hadn't talked to Trevor in a while and hadn't heard from him, and he said he would call. But I just thought that was too weird. Yeah, yeah, Trevor, Yeah, this is mister Heather here. What's going on, Bud? Why A you're not calling my daughter back? That would be awkward? Yeah, exactly?

Is there anything that you could think of why he would just stop talking to you. Um No, I mean we had a great date. I don't think so. He was the one being ultra romantic, so I can't imagine he was scared. And the follow up emails about how we can't wait to see you, like why would you even go there? Ye, the whole thing just confuses me. I have no idea why he would just completely drop out of my life like that. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. Will play a song, come back,

call him and get your second date update. Okay, thank you so much. Hang on looking jubil in the morning. They say that romance is dead, but that's not true. Romance isn't dead. It just doesn't want to talk to you. That's what happened for today's second date update. If you're just joining us, Heather is on the phone. She actually went out on the most romantic date she's ever been on with a guy named Trevor, and now Trevor isn't calling her back. They actually met through her father, who

does business with Trevor. I guess her dad's one of those guys that always recommends that people should date his daughter. You know how, that goes, and she's usually skeptical, but she actually went out with this dude and it ended up being the best date she's ever been on. I'd say, so, now we need to call him and figure out why he's not getting back to her. Heather, here we go, ready to call him. Yep, I'm ready. I just really want to know what's happening. I'm the best date of

my life. I'm really hoping for a reasonable explanation. But if I was gonna play bad cop, do you think that there's any way that this guy may be like a super player and like you know, the private chef's, the rooftop dinner, the line at the end with the kiss. Yeah, but those types of guys, you know, they just want to hook up with you and leave, And that never even happened. Unplus, he spent a couple of days chexting with me. Yeah, he didn't even He didn't even kiss you.

He actually said, I want to kiss you so bad right now, but I'm a gentleman and I can't even When you say that, it makes my heart melt and you're not even Oh my god, I feel to say, wait, I'm not even you all right? Well, let's call this dude and find out why he's not getting back to you. Hello, all, I was looking for Trevor. This is Trevor. What you got Trevor? How are you? Man? This is Jewil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. What is that? That is a radio show? Jew Bil is your name? Yes

it is? How are you? I'm great? Good morning? What can I do for the morning? Well? I actually have a question about a date that you went on. One of our listeners emailed us about you, and I'll just get to brass tacks. I can tell you're a business kind of guy. Yeah, straight to the point here. Okay, whatever would you need to do? All right? So here's the deal. You recently went out with a girl named Heather. You remember going out with Heather? I do remember going

out with Heather? Yes? Why are you asking me about it now? Well, because Heather emailed us saying that after your date, which was the most romantic date she's ever been on, by the way, after your date, you stop texting her and she's wondering why. Wow, that is at the real grown up move there, Heather? What wait? I don't get it, Like, are you upset by that? Or you mean sarcastic, or that she emailed the radio station to complain about why I'm not calling her after our date,

not to complain about it. She's just like in the dark. She doesn't know why you stopped talking to her. M Well, all I can say is I'm good there. You're good there. Wait, you're you're telling me that you're good there. And you put that much effort into a first date. We talked to Heather and she told us about the date you took her on the private meal on a rooftop with all of her favorite foods made by private chefs. That's a lot to do for a lady. That's kind of

just what I do. That's what you do on all your first dates. No, it's just kind of what I do in life. It's little details are important and if you can ace the details, and you're gonna as the test. Okay, okay, so this so this wasn't even that crazy of a first date for you for me, No, for her, it was for her. Yeah, Okay, I knew. I knew it would be that way. And that's I mean it with

all by design way I've confused. The way she described you, you were charming you were romantic, and right now you're coming off as kind of a smug a hole. Well, you called me in the middle of my business a day in the situation like this, I'm not going to be particularly happy about it, all right, So we can get you on the phone as quick as possible, if you wouldn't mind just telling us why you're not wanting

to talk to her. Look, we had a lovely time and I got what I wanted out of the digg get what you wanted out of it, But yeah, you didn't even kiss her at the end. What did you want out of it? Dinner? If you must know, I did it for a business deal. What you did it for a business deal? Going out with her? I don't get it. Yeah, I sometimes do business with her father. Yeah she told us that. And sometimes in a deal the numbers can all line up and it all look great,

But it's truly the personal touch the closes. And this guy clearly had a fastbot for his daughter. She was a good looking gal. He mentioned that it might be a good idea that I date her, So I called her up and I took her on the best state of her life. You're telling me that you used her as a stepping stone in your little effing career. I'm not saying that, no, but I will tell you that two days later I closed the deal. You are so you took her out just to close the deal with

her father, not just to close the deal. We had a nice time, she had a nice time. I'm sure it wasn't a wasted night in her life. Yes, why you have texted her afterwards and you couldn't wait to see her again. You played with her emotions. You totally led her on. You're a total bar Look, you can call me names all you want, but I'm just being honest with you. Guys. You called me and I'm the

one closing multi million dollar deals on a regular basis. Yeah, but you didn't have to, Like I mean, couldn't you just go, yeah, sure, I'll got with your daughter and take her on a regular day and not try to be super romantic about it, so I should take her on the day. Hey, I don't know. Maybe you just don't use his daughter at all, and you're actually a good businessman and you make a deal without having to use somebody's daughter in the process of it. Listen, sweetheart,

in business, you do whatever you need to do the deal. Okay, I closed the deal the day that you're doing things like that. You can come talk to me. But o and by the way, her dad offered her up. She wanted to take advantage of that structure. Yet you are and told he didn't offer me up. Oh my god, boy? Yeah, all right, what what's going on here, Trevor. That's Heather. She's actually on the other line listening and wanted to talk to you. Oh that's hilarious, dude, is you can

use me? You took me on this romantic dinner. You told me all these things, all these things that you loved about me, and how you wanted to see me again. Like, what the hell was that that was? And you had a great time, right, Yeah, I had a great time because I believe you really liked me. I do like you, Heather. But that doesn't mean I'm going to marry you. That doesn't mean that we're obligated to have anything beyond that night. You are the biggest I have ever met in my

entire life. I've never met the one as awful as you ever. I don't really have much a response to that. All I can say is that at the end of the day, ask yourself this question. Were you going home with me? If I asked you no, that's all the look in your eye at the end of the night. If I wanted to take you home with me one percent half and I didn't. I didn't even kiss you. I respectfully ended the night with you. So when it comes down to it, I was a true gentleman, no

matter what you might think about. Really, really, you were a gentleman by wasting my time just to get a business deal with my father. At what point did I sign a contract with you that gave me any obligation with you whatsoever. You have an obligation just to be a good human being, Like life is not business. You don't do this to people. I never once treated you unkindly or disrespectfully until you called the radio station trying to call me out. He's right, He's not right. He

didn't treat her badly when they went out. He treated her like an object. Okay, whether he said it to her face or not, that is totally that's as disrespectful as you freaking get about. I'd like to go out on a nice day. He stopped texting me completely, So, UM, I don't really think that that's treating me. Well, do you just leaving somebody hanging like that after taking them

out on the mill date? You couldn't even just be honest and be like, actually went out with you to close the deal, like I have you even respected that a little more? But I had to call a radio station and get them to talk. It'll give me a freak. I'm gonna tell my dad to pull the deal with you, Like, Well, it's a little late to pull the deal. Deals closed, so it's not gonna happen. D Trevor, how do you

have like zero remorse whatsoever? You know, I might feel a little bad about it, but when my bank account, I feel pretty good about how my business has gone. Oh my god, you nurse. I feel sorry for you because you may say you have a bunch of money and you love your business, but you have no heart and no soul, and I kitty you, you're going to end up alone. Look, you never would have known about any of this if you hadn't done this whole thing

that you're doing right now. I would have fantasy for the rest of your wife of the guy that you could have had. And oh, whatever happened to him, Well, we should have a nice time that night. Why not try to have another nice time? Trevor, would you like to go out on a second date with Heather? I know you have money, but we'll pay for it. Please don't even offer that. I don't want to go for sure.

You know what, Heather. I think there's another deal that might be good for your dad in a couple of months, So maybe we just wait until then. Oh, Trevor, I can guarantee you my dad will not be doing any more deals with you. Trevor. Thank you for being brutally honest with us. Yeah, anytime, Heather. I'm sorry you had to find out that you were just a pawn in his game of trying to get some business done with your dad. Yeah. I guess it goes to show you

don't listen to your dad anymore. The text message in at seven eight five nine two says, I honestly like this guy's style. I'm a businessman and I would do the same thing to get my sale. He has money driven and she was leverage and he used it for an jewel in the morning. Talking about the second day at update, if you missed it, this girl Heather wanted to call a dude named Trevor. Trevor took her out

on the most amazing date she's ever been on. She went out with Trevor because her dad was like, Hey, I know this guy. I do business with him. He's really great. You should go out with him. Her dad does that all the time. I guess she usually says no, but she said yes this time and had a wonderful date. We got Trevor on the phone to find out why he wasn't calling back, and it turns out he just went out with her so he could close a deal

with her dad. He said he wanted to show her the best time of her life, and he did so that she would go back to her dad and like, rave about it and you could get the deal done. This worked, Rose. I mean, I don't know how people are supporting him. He's using like another human being as a pawn in a business deal that has nothing to do. Like maybe if she was involved in the business or something, I would maybe understand it a little bit more. I

actually thought this guy's gonna ripped more than he is. Well, there, it's pretty split. There's a lot of people are like he's kind of a douchebag, but there are a lot of people texting and like, man, you gotta do what you gotta do to get a sale done. Yeah he didn't. He didn't kiss her, didn't do anything like that. He just took her out on a great date, showed her a great time, and got the business done. And I guess, according to our text message boarding, our listeners, that's what

life is all about. Yeah, you ever messed up, We need to talk priorities. If you okay, I want to do a second date, update, if to do his email the show, and we will call the person who didn't call you back