Second Date Update PODCAST: I Don't Like Your Sweater

on the phone right now. He emailed us about a date that he had that he feels didn't go so great because he was a little angry when he showed up to his date. Adam, how are you, hey, guys? How are you? I'm good? Hey man. First of all, I will say I read your email and the issue that you had in getting to your date and the way you acted on your date. I can't blame you. I think I would have acted the same way I've

been in this situation a lot. But go ahead and tell everybody about how you met the girl that you want us to call today. So her name was Wren, and you know it was one of those like friend of a friend to saying we were both single. They set us up. But she was real good looking. I was really at tracked to her looking through her pictures. It really seemed like she was gonna be a good fit. So I was pretty stoked on the date from the

beginning before we even actually met for the day. Right before you met and showed her your angry side, dude, I didn't mean to show her my angry thing. That listened the goal of the day. Yeah, but in your email you said you got there and you just raged for the whole time pretty much, and you felt kind of awkward about it. Explain what happened. I mean, I was, I gave myself plenty of time to get to coffee, you know, last thing I want to do on a first day to show up late. And all of a sudden,

I gotta know where. This ass turns into the lane in front of me and starts going like twenty miles per hour. And I wasn't running late, but this guy, he just I felt like he was messing with me because I'm just sitting there and I'm beeping and I'm honking, and I'm trying to be nice first, and then I just lose it. I slipped the switch and I started going crazy on this guy, and he's just just an ask because I'm just trying to get somewhere. Yeah, you're

already raging with us. We're just trying to ask you, okay. Yeah, no, hey, dude, Adam, you're talking to the king of road rage right here. I'm constantly pissed off in my car. So I understand you were angry about this dude. Yeah, well of course I was angry. Yeah, you know, this guy who pulls in front of me makes me ten minutes late and that fits me off. And I tried to let it go, and I guess it was just nervous energy. I just kind of wouldn't shut up, and I just talked NonStop

pretty much the whole date. Were you talking about this guy the whole time? Pretty much? Do you have angry issues normally? Are you an angry guy? I tend to think I'm pretty even killed guy, But I asked you to recap the incident on the way to the date, and you just went off on us. So you sound like an angry dude? Are you? Are you an angry guy or are you I'm not normally, you know, really an angry guy. I think it was just a nervous energy of going to the date. And I think that's

a mix of both of those things. I just kind of, you know, had a tough time. Did you explain to her that you were upset at a guy that you did? I think it just came off angry. Yeah, I see how that happened. Did she comment about your anger? Did she say, like, whoa, You're so pretty upset about that? Not really, I was pretty quiet about it. She was really quiet, probably quiet because she was scared for her life.

People get that way. That's where I felt real bad with I just kind of just talked NonStop for forty five minutes. Did she get a word in edgewise? I mean not much? All right, So so you talked at her the whole time. Well, at the end, I said, you know, I said to her, I asked her about going out on another date, and I apologize to her, and I said that, you know, I'm not normally like this and all this stuff, and you know, we slapped five, you high five. At the end of the day. Oh,

I wasn't gonna kiss her. I was like, from from being so nervous, pissed off, what kind of five are we talking about here, like on the side down low high five up high? So you gave her a high five to say goodbye? Did you ask to see her? End in herlocked fingers though? Gay? Oh nice, it's almost a handhold. You almost held her hand on the first date.

Did you ask to see her again? Well? Yeah, we talked about it and I mentioned i'd throw her text and I texted her a few times and I haven't really heard back, so I'm kind of curious, you know, I know it didn't go great, but I thought it ended good after you apologize to orgies to say, oh, I totally understand. I've been there before or not so much.

And so she seemed upset. Yeah, I mean I told her, I said, I told her that, you know, my energy level was often and I was really nervous for the date as it was, and then this happened and it just it just totally threw me and I and I feel horrible about it. And I told her that, and she seemed receptive to it. Yeah, but this whole situation, you know, it just it it didn't go well, and I really want a second chance because I think her

and I could really do well. Together, and I think that even with my anger issues, you know, the little bit of road rates, because I feel like a girl like her could really call me down. Okay, that's kind of sweet. All right, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date up date. Okay, great, thank you? All right. Trying to freak out brooking Jubil. In the morning, Adam is on the phone with us. He wants us to call a girl named Rin today

for his second date update. They went out met for coffee. He was ten minutes late and ended up being very frustrated from a road rage incident that made him late. Feels like he just vented about the thing the whole time and was just angry and didn't even literally get a word in edgewise while they had their coffee date. Adam, you're about ready to give her a call? I'm ready, man,

all right. I was thinking about this. Most girls, when they list the traits that they like in a potential mate, they usually say something like I like a guy who's sensitive, a guy who's caring, good job, very responsible. They usually don't list potential homicidal maniac as a as a good quality.

So that's probably why she's not calling you back. I mean, if you went on a first date with somebody and they showed up a little late, first of all, that's one strike against you, and then proceeded to just be angry the whole time, I doubt you'd be so to call him back to I mean, I think that's kind of issue. And that's why I'm trying to make it work with her again, because I really do feel like I had a bad representation. You want to do over? Yeah, I just want to try one more time, you know,

I want to. I want to kind of show Rends the adam that I really am. Okay, can you think this call is gonna do it for you? You've got a level head on you right now. Yeah. Can we just get this going so I don't get pissed off about it? Okay, all right, I'm gonna call it right now. Man, here we go. Hello. How can I speak to Ren? Please? Hey? Ren? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio program. I am sorry, I think you have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure

I have the right number. Rend there's not a whole lot of rends and I was given your number by a guy named Adam to call you today. What. Yeah. Adam is a listener to our show, and he says he recently went out on a date with you, but you're not calling him back. And he asked us to see if we get you on the phone and ask why how do you know him? He listens to our

radio show. Adam wanted us to call you to ask if if he did something wrong on your date or there's a particular reason that you don't want to see him again. This is I don't even really know how to respond to this. I know it's you about this he did. He told us that you went out for coffee, and he said that he was a little late, and he actually feels bad because he thinks that he may have been a little upset from a traffic incident and he wasn't very attentive to you on your date. Oh,

oh my god, is that a pretty accurate description. Yeah, yeah, I would say so. I get this is what you guys do. So I don't mean to be disrespectful at all. I'm just kind of like, no, that's fine. I appreciate you taking the time out to talk to us. We just want to pass along a message to Adam and give him your perspective on the first date. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

I can talk about that. My experience with Adam was very limited, and I'm not a very confrontational person, and he was very, very angry, and I think that the first ten minutes of the time that we very very first were introduced to each other, it was really just all about this driving experience that we had had being

so frustrated with this other person. Was he like cussid and stuff when he was explaining it to you, Yeah, I mean, it's not like it was so so over the top that I would have need to have left, because I would have done that if it was really really that bad. If you so, I was going to ask you, rin, I was going to ask you if at any point you were scared for your life. No, I wouldn't say that. It really wasn't like that, but

it was pretty intense. Even when he finally went to go get us some coffee, which he did, you know, finally pull himself up to be like, Okay, I'm going to go get us some coffee, but pulls himself together. Even in that moment when he goes to order the coffee, he I can hear him from from all of the way at the other end of the shop, and he's ordering and he just sounds aggressive. So was he like yelling at the barista and stuff like I'm picturing him

tearing up this Starbucks or wherever you're at. No, it really wasn't like that. It wasn't like he was he was unkind towards the people around him necessarily. It's just the like the manner in which he was dealing with things. It was just like pent up. You know, when somebody's really upset about something and even though they are doing something normal, it's in an abnormal way. And here's the other thing that was that was tough. It was manifesting in like sweat. Oh, he was so mad that he

was sweating. Well I don't know if he just sweats, if that's a thing independent of what was going on, but it seem like it was fueled or at least like made a lot worse by his emotional space. Rand It's called hyper hydrosis because people we can't control their sweat glands. Okay, they sweat a ton. He maybe he has that. So you don't want to see him again because he's an angry sweaty mess. It's not just that he was sweating a lot and being angry. He was

sweating profusely, like in the bottom of his hands. There was wet dripping down him and then collecting like under. I'm trying to think of the right way to say this, um like, oh, man, boobs, you know, Oh, he sweat it out. His whole shirt like dark, dark, just covered in sweat. O. Man, Yeah, that's bad. If he's pitting out a little bit, that's kind of like whoa, man,

you sweat a lot, buddy. If he actually his whole shirt was sweating out, I don't think that's what And that's what I was concerned about, because I know that when i'm offset, like I'll sweat a little bit and that's normal. But it was whoa, It was so mich. I'd be curious to find out if it's an issue or if it's just his anger that makes him sweat like that. Aren't you curious to at least? No? Honestly, maybe he's a really great person that just had a really bad day. But I just don't want to deal

with this, Okay, I really don't. That's cool. Thank you for giving us an answer. I appreciate it, but I really need to find out about this sweat. And that's why I'm glad you're still on the phone, because Adam is also on the phone and heard everything you just said. Oh my god, are you hitting me? Oh I'm not. I'm sorry him, Oh my god. I'm First of all, I'm really really sorry. Look, this is really good. I'm sorry. And then I'm also like annoyed to be put in

this situation. But I am sorry. If you heard things that I said that you don't need to feel bad around every Pretty much everything you said is it's true. I mean I can kind of explain the sweating thing, the anger stuff, Um, the sweating thing, let's start with that. So, I mean, you know, I threw a hoodie in a coat on and it ended up not being as cold out as I anticipated. By the time I was all pissed off at this guy in front of me. I started sweating the car because I was lasting the heat

and I was so pissed up. I wasn't thinking about it. The coffee shop had the heat on. I couldn't stop sweating, and I knew I was and I know that my man hoops were sweating. Yeah, and that was a crappy thing for me to say about man the steps for I'm sorry, that was just the first time was just easy here. That's what I think I want you to hear. It's like, I'm not that angry guy. I know I was sweaty, I know I was hot, ash and I

thought about a kid, and you wouldn't mention it. Like I was so lost in that date and like I didn't know what to do and I went home and showered right away. I was like I was living in the mirror and like I literally like was mortified by myself because I was really excited about this date and like I never tell friends about going out with anybody, but for some reason, I was kind of stoked on you and I just crashed and burned. And I kind of do that a lot in life. And I just

want you to know that I really am sorry. And as far as you and I are concerned, like I'd love one more shot. There's one more chance to maybe sweat it out with you and Heyn, would you like to go out with Adam again. I will pay for a second date. We can send you guys to a spin class or something. We're sweat is supposed to be there, and would you maybe give him another shot to see if he's not so flustered this time he can you

can do a better job, Adam. I am, like, this is awkward, and I just want to say I appreciate you eventually being honest. I think that what I would have preferred is if you could have communicated this to me, not on a radio station, because you did contact me, and you didn't really ever just come out and say I totally did it. Rent. I mean, as crazy as I was there, it's probably crazier that I ended up on the radio with you right now. But I tried calling and I texting you, and you know you ever

got back to me here. So like, I thought like this was my last option of how I could get ahold of you. Rin, Will you do it? Will you go out with him one more time? Come on, we've never had anyone be so sincere. Will you drive? Plea's just a weird It's oh right, okay, all right, yeah one more day? Nice? All right, Rin, thank you for your time, Adam. Congratulations, you got your second date. Man, you guys, this is gonna be great. I promise you, Adam.

Two words before your next date. All right, gold bond today in the morning text in at seven eighty five to nine and two about today's second day update. It's just says four words gold bond and uber, which could have helped out Adam a lot. On his date, he wanted to call a girl name Rin. He was a little late for their coffee date. He got into a little road rage incident on the way, and he thought that was the reason why he wasn't a call back, because he was just venting about that the whole time.

It's partly why he wasn't going to call back. But he was also super sweaty, yeah, because he was nervous and upset, and I guess he was just drenched in sweat the whole time, and he dressed wrong. It's hard sometimes, you know, you do the sweat shirt and the co and then you realize it's too late. I mean, like, once you start sweating, you can't take any of it off. Yeah, you have to leave it on because now you have

pits stains. Yeah, and now it's like eighty times worse. Yeah, And like what a bad day to start already with the rotary interest and then just keep snowballing Yeah, it was a spiral, but I think they're going to recover. I think they're gonna be good. Yeah, they decided to go out again still, and he'll just make sure that he wears enough deodorant and maybe he takes that text there's advice and get some gold bond and he rubs down and everything else too, to make sure that he

doesn't get too sweaty on his next date. I really think he needs to learn how to layer clothing. It's gonna help him a lot. Will definitely remember. If you want to do a second day of the date, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back five