Looking for the perfect birthday or anniversary gift or a special date night, Well then you need zod Art, Seattle's only exotic car metal company. Visit zart dot com to book an exotic special car for that very special day, looking jewels, second dat day. How do you define what a romantic kiss is? Is it thirty percent tongue, fifty percent tongue, one hundred and twenty percent tongue at all? For me, I define a romantic kiss all based on
where the thumb goes. But I'm different than others. And Andrea, who is on the phone today, says that her meeting with a guy ended with a romantic kiss. So why is he not calling her back? I don't know. We're about to find out. Andrew, what's up? How are you? Do you ahead? How are you all good? How do you define a romantic kiss? Andrea? I think like fifty percent tongue, like a nice medium, sorry, nice and gentle? And did he like cradle your head with both of
his hands and gaze deeply into your eyes? Oh yeah, a little bit of hair plane? Wow? All right? Yeah? I mean it was definitely the best kiss I've had in a while, So I don't know why he's not on me back. Well, tell us a little bit about him. What's his name? His name is Tim Tim And how did you meet Tim? I met him at a friend's work party at a bar okay, And did you know him beforehand or no? She introduced us that night. I
noticed him as soon as I walked in. Though. He's so my type, tall, scoorgeous, dark head, these like baby blue eyes with smile. Was like, Oh my gosh, I made my heart melt. Did you tell your friend right away you have to introduce me to him? Oh? Yeah, yeah, No, I mean she knows my type. We've been friends her forever and I'd heard her mention him before. She was like on my radar, but that was the first time I'd ever seen him or met him. And yeah, he's
he's in florado boy hands. You're like flustered right now. I can hear it, I am it's so pathetic. Did it show on your face how horny this guy makes you? No, it wasn't like dirty or anything like that. It was just like, you know those butterflies, like that feeling of like my stomach is all like and not horny little butterflies. We all get those horny little butterflies sometimes alone. All right, So what happened next after you met this guy? Well,
we talked and hung out that whole party. It was more of a group setting though, so as like the work party was wrapping up, he asked if I wanted to go to this other bar down the street and get a drink, So just the two of us went. Did you bring the horny butterflies with you? No, I've gotten those a little more under control of that time. But obviously, I mean he was feeling it too if he asked you to go to another bar with him, I know, right, That's what I thought. Okay, then, so
how did things go at the second bar? Well, we talked, but he was getting a little more flirtatious, like put his arm around me and like really sweet. I wish it would just started getting late though, and it was a work night, So around like eleven o'clock, we're like, ah, you know, should probably go. So he called me a cab,
super gentleman. Yeah, were you guys pretty wasted by this point? Um, I'd say, like happily tipsy okay, so not super hammered, No, No, like I could still think informed sentences and you know, okay, so he called you a cab and this is that
when the romantic kiss happened. Yeah, so he kind of walked me outside and like he kissed me and then he did this adorable like little like fun me out and like brought me back in for like a final kiss, and it was it was super sweet, and so I, you know, I could get into sign and was like, hey, we should do this again. Sometimes did he seem almost like too smooth, like he's done this so many times
that he's got like a program. Yeah, that's what I mean, Like the toral seems like a little almost over at the top, Nate. I mean it seemed genuine, like in the moment maybe I maybe I was a sucker, but he seemed super genuine and just smooth, but not in like a slimy way. Yeah. So I was tired. I went home. I didn't even realize that I didn't give him my number. So I was like, well, if you know he'll want it, he'll find it. So I waited
a couple of days and nothing. So I got hold of my coworker and was like, hey, this is weird, but can I give his number? Like we haven't talked, and she sent it to me, and so I texted him, was like, Hey, this is Andrea. I had a really great time the other night. I just wanted to make sure you had my number. Did you respond to that at all? Yeah? All he said was thanks, that's really just thanks. No thanks, I had a good time too, or thanks I'll see you later. No, just thanks. That sucks. Yeah.
Why do you think he would be so cold like that after what sounds like a great evening? I don't know. I mean, I've been trying to figure it out because I don't want to be too clingy or too forward. But the only thing that I can think that it might be is when we were talking and hanging out at the second bar Um, I mentioned to him that I still live with my parents, like I still live at home, and he kind of gave me a little
bit of an odd look. So, I don't know, if you know, he was just playing it cool that night, but thinks I'm not mature enough for like, I don't know, so you think that he might not want to date you because you live at home with your parents, I guess. I mean, I have a job, I'm responsible. It's not like you know, I'm living in the basement playing video games all day. Some guys like that. Yeah, all right, I can play a mean Mario Kart. But all right, well we'll play a song. Come back, call him and
get your second date update. Okay, awesome, thank you guys. All right, hang on rooking jubil in the morning. Second update. If you're just tuning in for today's second date update. That music right there would be the sound of horny Little butterfly, you know the ones that getting your stomach is and as you see somebody that you find attractive. Well, Andrea is on the phone and she has a bad case of the horny butterflies because she met a guy
named Tim and her friend's work party. They hung out for a little while even after the work party, and end of the night with a romantic kiss. But now he's not calling her back. She actually was able to text him and say that was fun, we should do that again, and he just said thanks. So apparently he's not hearing the same horny butterfly music that she's hearing in her head. But we're about to see if we can get him on the phone and find out why
he's not calling her back. Andrea, Are you ready? I guess are you regretting doing this after being labeled as a horny butterfly girl? You know, I guess I'll wait to hear what he has to say until I regret it. Well, I'm gonna dial his phone of her right now and find out why he's not calling you back. Here we go. Okay, Hello, Hi, it is Tim there. Yeah, this is Tim. Who's this Tim? How are you? My name is Jubil and I host the radio show Brook and Jewil in the morning. What cool,
We got that out of the way. I actually I got your phone number from somebody who listens to our show. They wanted me to call you. You're a radio station calling me? Yes, I am the entire station, music and everything. Well, is this like a prize or something? What's this about? No, it's actually a segment we do on our show. It's called the second Date Update. You recently went out with a girl named Andrea. Do you remember her? Oh? Jesus, yeah, that's not yes. Usually not what people like to hear
when their name is brought up. But yeah, it's like an awkward situation there, man. Really, Andrea emailed us and told us a little bit about your date, how she thought you were awesome. But when she texted you asking if you guys can hang out again, all you did was text her back and say thanks. Yeah, I was just I was trying to, you know, be nice. All right? Did she do something to piss you off? She swears the date you guys had was awesome. It was fine. This is all. This is weird to say. The day
was fine. I just I can't date her. What you sounded, I mean, the way she described it, you sounded like you were really into her. Yeah, everything was going fine. I like her, I think she's cute. So what's the big issue? Then? Her dad? I hate her dad? What How do you know her dad? What it's like? It's it's it's complicated. But the guy's a slimeballs. Her dad's
a slimeball. Did you meet him? No? No, not when we were on I met him like a long time ago, and I don't even really want to explain it to her, to be honest. Did you know that who her dad was when you took her to the second bar and it's kissed And no I was. It was only afterwards I looked her up on like Facebook and saw you know what her last name was and who she's related to, and I guess I'll tell you her dad owns this
like card dealership. And a couple of years ago, I bought a car from a used car and the guy totally screwed me over. It was it was like the worst I've ever been taking a back of my life. How random is that? I know, man, I know I was not expecting it. He give me a car and the horrible interest rate and it was one of my first times like getting a car, you know, on my own, so like I didn't know any better really, but like the guy totally took advantage of me, and that was
like a big turning point in my life. Like no joke. I was like, I don't want to be in take advantage of anymore, Like I get smarter about this stuff, but I also like I want to prevent myself from that type of thing happening again, and I never want to see this guy again. Okay, so wait, you don't want to talk to her because you think her dad like she could be like her dad, or because you are afraid of this going into a relations and ship and you having to meet her dad. Well, first of all,
she lives with her parents. So I'm guessing if you went into relationship, I would run into the guy sooner or later, right, And I don't know if I can control myself around him. To be honest, I'm not gonna be able to shape that guy's hand, you know, but it could be like the ultimate form of revenge. I mean to be honest, To be honest, like that actually went through my head, like, oh, I should just, like you know, I should sleep with her and then, you know,
get back at this guy. Yeah, but I'm not. I'm not the type of guy. Okay, man, you're You're a way better dude than I am. Because if somebody screwed me around a car, I would do that in a heartbeat. I'd go over there just to have dinner with him and stare him in the face and shake his hand and be like, guess what I just did. And you're positive that that's their dad? Yeah, why why wouldn't you
just tell her that? Who wants to like to hear that I can't date you because your dad's a Yeah, her to feel bad if I don't like I'm she raced her. I'm guessing she knows I'm like I don't like maybe she doesn't. I don't know. Maybe if you guys were dating for a little while and it was like at the point where you had to be around family members, Like I can't be around your dad ever. But this is the first guy, first time you're hanging out and you realize her dad as a guy that
screwed you over three years ago. Yeah, like, why not cut cord now and like say troubled on the line. Yeah, okay, well thank you for telling us why. That's crazy? Yah. Yeah, I hate hearing about people getting screwed over and people being lied to, you know. Yeah, no, it's the worst. Yeah, that's probably why I should have told you this earlier. But she is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes? I
am hate Tim, it's Andrey. Yeah, yeah, I heard everything you said about me and my dad. I don't say anything bad about you, I know, but you've been ignoring me because of something that wasn't even my fault and that doesn't even sound like my dad. I'm sorry, Like it sucks. It's allus the person your dad is a bad person. I guarantee you. I'm not the first person who's done this too. My dad is not a bad person. I'm sorry for whatever experience you feel like you had,
But my dad is a good guy. And that does not sound like I'm sorry for whatever money out of my pocket and then giving it to you for your birthday. Like I'm sure like that makes easier to be on that side of things, But on my side of things, he's a bad guy. I'm sure it was just a misunderstanding. My dad is not a bad guy. I can't believe that you haven't let this go how long it was just a couple of years ago. It wasn't like when
I was ten years old. But Jim, I mean, can't you give the guy benefit of the doubt, Like, do you have proof that he tried to screw you over? Maybe like he didn't know there was something wrong with the car or you buy. Oh come on, this is his business, Jim. If you signed a contract on the car, that's equally on you for not having checked things more clearly. Oh my well, the apple certainly haven't balling far from the free plain. I am so offended right now. I
don't even know what to do. I think you guys should go out again. Honestly, Like Andrea, I thought you were really cool. I cannot get past the fact that your dad's growed me over something. You know, I don't really like how you've treated me during this situation, but I'd be willing to get you together with my dad and see if he can get to a deal and
make up for whatever wrong you feel like he did you. So, Andrew, you're kind of up for a second date if you take Tim to the car dealership and you get him a better deal on a car. Well, I mean, he clearly feels like my dad took advantage of him, and no one should feel that way. And I think my dad would agree. And I bet if he came down to the dealership, then my dad could get him into something newer and nicer. And a cardboard box would be newer, nicer than what he sold me. I got a second
day update has turned into a car sale. Tim, would you like to accompany Andrea to her dad's dealership one more time? See if you can. You're crazy, you're missing out. She's a good salesman. Yeah, she's report her father to the Better Business Bureau. You know it's him. I don't want to talk to you anymore. You blew your chance with me, and you blew your chance on a great new car. She said, yeah, okay, yeah, maybe I'll see
the next Presidence Day weakened Salem. In the morning, I got a text in at seven eight, five to nine two that says that guy's crazy. He should have gone on a second date and had the radio station buy him a new car, because you know, after all the second dates we always offered to pay for their date. I guess technically we would have to buy him a car. If you do know what I'm talking about, I'm talking
about today's second date update. This girl Andrea wanted to call a guy named Tim because he wasn't calling her back and the reason he got screwed over by her dad on a car purchase and he realized who her dad was, He's like, I can't date. You know what he could have done? What's that? He could have called my friends at Advocateslaw dot com and suthed that guy for selling him a bad car. If you have any legal issues that you need help with, you can always
hit up my friends at Advocateslaw dot com. They're available twenty four hours a day. I have to do is call two of six to five one two thirty five fifty five. They've gotten over one hundred million dollars for people who need their help. So even if you're curious, if you need help, just go in there get a free consultation. It's that easy. Okay, back to the second date update anyway, Yeah, he wouldn't go out with her because he got screwed on a car. I kind of
understand it, though. I mean that feeling of just getting raked over the coals sick. We're getting lots of texts in at seven eight five to nine two. Somebody said he needs to let it go. That was a long time ago, but more people are texting in, like I understand completely. Yeah, somebody texted in at seven eight five to nine two that said that they bought a car in California once and got screwed over, so now they will never purchase a car in California. Well what stance.
I mean, no car dealership at all, just the whole state of California. It's one of the largest states in the entire country. But cool. It just sucks for her that she's getting screwed over by her dad. Well her dad screwing everybody over screwed this guy over in a car screw and her out of dates and he doesn't even realize it. Yeah, because the guy liked her. He's like, she's great. Everything about her is cool, except her dad is kind of an a hole and owns a car
dealership and screwed me over. She didn't seem that surprised by the information. She really like, well, I can get you in there and you can get a better deal. I'm like, I feel like you're part of this family business. Yeah. She definitely has a job at the dealership and sells cars too, because she did say at the end of it, like, hey, let's just go down to the dealership so you can meet my dad again and he'll put you into a great new car. Yeah, anyone put you into a great
on the inside, exactly, all right. Remember, if you want to do a second day update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.