Second Date Update PODCAST: Hey, Dimples!

when you go out. I mean, I know for me, when I'm nervous, I always feel better when I cover myself in Jello. It's soothing and calming. And I'm guessing, Matt, you didn't do that. No, And I'm nervous just thinking about the whole situation, thinking about Jello or jubil covered in jello, and yeah, no, that too. Yeah, the jello is definitely you should have done that on your first date. Like when you guys are out at dinner, just start covering your naked body in jello and things would have

been okay. You would have calmed down. Jello man always gets a call back. If I can get a second date from this, then I'll definitely try to. Okay, don't try that. So before we get into why you think your nerves affected your date, what's the girl's name that you want to call? Okay, Well, her name is Molly Molly okay, yeah, but I didn't know that for majority of the date. Oh no, oh, how did you not know her name? So? Okay, so we met a little backstory. So we met at a bar one night. Um, super

cute and like we got to you know, drink. We had a few drinks. We were flirting and everything. So I got her number, but I forgot her name, so I just put it in as cute bar girls. Oh yeah, alright, makes sense. Yeah, that goes. And that's not her legal name, so I don't think all right, So I figured it would kind of come up, like her name would come up at some point, like we've been texting back and forth a little bit. Never came up, and I wasn't gonna be like, hey, what's your name? Why didn't you

do that? Wait? Can you tell me how to spell it her actual name? Yeah? I mean that's what I would have done. And then she spells it back to you and then you have her name. Oh oh, well, where were you in the situation. Yeah, unless their names super easy and then there's no other way to spell it, and you're like, it's sad got your name? Y? Well, the problem was I ended up asking her out to

dinner still didn't know her name. Okay, okay, that's a conundrum that would make me nervous going into it as well. Oh no, right, well, I figured I could get would it would come up naturally in conversation. Again, didn't come up. Went to dinner. What did you think was gonna happen? She was going to refer to herself in third person, it's me. Maybe I don't. I think I was too busy worried about the fact that I didn't know her name, and how I was just going to kind of play

it off. But what did you do to figure out her name? Well, the first thing that I tried, there was a couple that was like sitting right near us, So I just turned to them and I was like, hey, is it your anniversary? You know, we're on a first date. She just said that. I was just kind of hoping, like I was gonna be like, hey, I'm met this is I was hoping she would say, Hi, I'm Molly they just looked at me like I was the weirdest person in the world, and they were just like, no

snutter anniversary, they have shutout weirdo, okay pretty much. So that didn't work. So I gave her a nickname. I was calling her Dimples because the only thing that because she had cute dimples, that was the only thing that I think of at the moment. So I was just yet, did she like that or not? Because nick names, I mean, if you like the person that gives you the nickname cute,

if you don't really condescending it an ax chess. So in order to shield the fact that you didn't know her name, you just gave her a nickname and said, off, call you this pretty well. Yeah, but I just kept because I kind of just thought it was a natural thing. It's like, yeah, dimples, you know, we've you have a nickname? Now? Oh god, just talking about it all right? So obviously you know her name, now, how'd you figure it out? Well? We So another time I try. We're walking down the street,

came across some people doing like signing petition things. So I'm trying to convince her to sign the petition. I'm like, come on, you know it'd be fun. It was the stand up or so. I don't even remember. I don't even remember what the petition was for. It's like a petition to like murder puppies, and you're like, let's do this. I'm all for that, all right, I would come on, come on, what's fine. You know She's like, now, I

don't want to do wrong date right now. I don't want to I don't want to sign up for anything like that. Oh oh, why didn't Okay, at this point you should have been like, hey, you want to play game, let's see who's driver's license photo is worse? Again? All of these ideas sound great now. Finally, so I saw Starbucks and I was like, let's go just let's go to Starbucks and get a drink. Let's get a coffee

at Starbucks. Oh yeah, because they ask your name unless she orders under your name, and then they just call your name for all the coffies. Well what they said, what's the name? I just kind of looked at her, you know, we'll just looked at her real quick. But finally they wrote it on the cup called it out. So finally figured it out. But that was by the end of the date. Oh my god, and now she

hasn't called me back. How did the date end? I mean everything that we didn't end on a kissor anything, which is one of those Hey have a great night and i'll hopefully talk to you soon, you know. She's like, yeah, yeah, sounds good. It sounds like you could have been an awful date because the only thing you were concentrated on the entire time was finding out her name. Right, That's

the thing. That's what I'm worried about. I'm worried that I put too much effort into trying to figure out what her name was and didn't pay any attention to her right. Yeah. I mean, or you could have just been honest with her in the at the beginning and be like, I'm sorry, I was drinking that night. I put you in his cute bar girl. What's your name? Right? And now I feel like I've dug the hole so much that that I can't go like I've already figured

out the name, which I don't know. I guess down the road that would be a funny story, but right now I'm too worried that that would put her off. Yeah, okay, Well we'll play a song and then come back and call her and get your second date update. All right, that would be so awesome. I'd appreciate it. Hang out brooking jubil in the morning. Second update. If you're just joining us for today's second date update, we have a dude on the phone. I can't remember his name right now,

so I'm just gonna call him Bridges. Hey, Bridges, you're ready to do your second date update? Yes? Absolutely. Matt is on the phone, and Matt wants to call a girl named Molly. He thinks that the fact he didn't remember her name on the date might be the reason

that she's not calling him back. They met at a bar and he put her number in his phone and just put the name in as cute girl at the bar or something like that, and then came time for them to go out, and he didn't know her name was Molly, so he kept trying little things to get her name, and he thinks that that probably is what did him in, because it was maybe obvious that he

didn't know her name. Matt, if it does have something to do with the way you were acting, do you want us to tell her that it was because you've forgot her name or no? So yeah, so I want to. I want to tell her myself because I think it's something that should come from me. And now you guys, Okay, so you're ready to just be honest and see if she'll give you another chance and forgive you. Yeah, yeah, let's let's give that a try. I think it's a that's a good way to live your life. It's what

you should have done the first time around. But you know what, everyone deserves a second chance. Well cool, yeah, No, I'm just I'm really embarrassed, like really, I don't know. I'll figure it out. Okay, Well, I'm gonna doll her fund of it right now and see if we can figure out what the problem was. Here we go. Hello, Hi? Is this Molly? Yeah? Is this hey Molly? How are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Wait, I'm sorry, who Jebil from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

It's a radio show. A radio show, okay, like a show that's on the radio that people can listen to or they can not listen to. Okay, why are you calling me? Did I win something or what's going on? No, I'm calling you because we do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update, So where if you go out with somebody on a date and then end up not calling them after, they can email us to get you on the phone and see if we can figure it out. So you went out with a dude

named Matt the other day, Oh yes I did. And Matt listens to our show and he told us about your date. Buddy thinks that you're blowing him off. Now, yeah, that's kind of true. He actually wasn't too surprised that you're blowing him off. He felt like he like, really blew it on your guys's date. Well, yeah, he kind of did. He really did. Actually, what did he do? I mean it was just weird and awkward from the get go. I mean I don't even know how to

explain it. You know, we're sitting down at dinner and we're chit chatting, getting to know each other, and out of nowhere, he calls me Dimples. Yeah, he gave you a nickname. We wanted to call you Dimples. Did you like it? No? That's the thing about nicknames. You can't really make up nicknames for people that you just met. I mean, I'm not a little baby, right, I know. I have dimples. I don't even know you like that,

but you're calling me a nickname already. Did you tell him that you didn't like it to call you something else? You know, I was going to do that, and then I thought, you know, it's first date. I don't know, maybe he's nervous. I just kind of like let it go. But she kicked on seeing it over and over and over again. And I'm not that girl. I'm not a little cute TBC girl. Grown adults. And if you're gonna sit there and call me dimples throughout dinner, it's just

gonna annoy me. So you know, like sweet cheeks would have been something nicer. Maybe, well no, I mean like it is condescending. It could be really condescending. Yeah, So that was weird. And what's going through my head is like, is this the kind of guy that it's all like htootsie. If we get into relationship, he's gonna want matching Halloween costume? In my head, I'm like, what does he want me to pick a name for him too? I mean I looked at him, I was like, I've got some pretty

decent shaped eyebrows. Am I supposed to go? Hey? Dimples? And Eyebrows are going out tonight. It sounds like a cool band. Though at some point it just got so corn and cheesy and I felt like, literally, if we were going to be in a relationship, this guy would come up with a Facebook page for us for us together. Yeah, okay, Dimples and Eyebrows dot com. It's just too corny for me, and I am not in the nineteen fifties. Welcome to

our world and start calling me by my name. Okay, well, Molly, maybe he will call you by his name, because Matt's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Wait, what hey, how's it going, Matt? You're on the phone. M hm. Okay, this is again weird yea, And yeah, I know, I know it's weird. I just because I wanted to. I want to take a moment to just apologize to you. I uh, oh my god,

this is so embarrassing. So and I don't I don't know how to tell you this, but I I forgot your name after we met, and so that's the reason that I called you Dimples, so I didn't hang on great Wait wait wait, wait, you didn't know my name, and so you thought dimples. See this is really your favor I wish I knew with maybe like I'm sorry. I want you to know that I'm super sorry for making you feel uh, weird or creeped out or feel

like that that I'm weird or anything like that. And I don't even know why I said dimples, Like I honestly don't know. You don't even have like great dimples or anything like that. I don't have great dimples. What I mean is they're not like it's not like that's like the best feature on that's like, that's not your best feature, is what I mean? Matt, you want to stop when your ankle gets down your throat. Oh my god, he has totally thrown himself under the bus right now.

You went from like I am super confused right now you went out on a date with me and didn't even know my name? How much have been possible? No, I had met and talked to so many girls that night at the bar that I didn't remember your name. That doesn't sound now that I say that, it doesn't sound that doesn't sound good. So many girls that what I mean, like you, I don't like not like talking to them like you? Like I just met so many people that night, and I heard so many different names.

But I didn't want to get your name wrong. And I just and I and I just didn't commit it to memory, but I have, like I know it's Molly. I've said it a thousand times, a loud him down. I committed to memory, put it on my phone. I won't really didn't make any sense it Molly. When he explained forgetting your name to us, it was actually kind of a sweet story, like you guys were in the bar. It was kind of loud. He'd been drinking. He saved

you as que girl at the bar instead of Molly. Okay, but according to Matt, there were several cute girls at the bar. I know he didn't include that part of the story when he told us that, I didn't mean it like that. Yeah, you're no, you're right. I probably should shut up while I'm ahead. I didn't mean it like I don't think you're ahead at all. You gotta get ahead first, Matt. Did you show up with the right cute girl from the bar? I mean this is

the one you expected? No? Yes, absolutely, like a hunter? No, yes, yeah, what is it? Yeah, I'm gonna I'm just gonna save you right now if I can. I think he's kind of an idiot, but I think he has good intention as Molly. I think that he really was interested in you know, and I did, and I tried. I was trying sly waste because that's why I talked to the couple. Besides, that's the reason that I would we try to sign that petition thing as I was trying to find that

your name throughout the night. Wait, that's the reason why you were pushing me to sign that petition just so you can get my name. I mean, it's that's ridiculous, Matt. I don't know. I'm like, I'm really sorry. I feel I want you to know that I feel really bad and I'm sorry that I was acting weird. I didn't I didn't mean to make you uncomfortable. If anything, I was more nervous because you really like You're just you're

really cool, You're really pretty. I like talking to you, and I want to go on a second date with you. And now that I remember your name, Molly, there won't be any issue. You actually get to see the real meat. So what do you think, Molly? Will you go out with Matt again? We will pay for it. Matt, you sure you'll remember my name the second time around. Yes, I swear one hundred percent. I swear. Well, I guess I don't know. Yeah, okay, fine, up, I mean, I

guess I'll give this one more shot. But Matt, you come up with any more cutey little nicknames for me, I'm out. I understand it. I won't. I dimples has been completely raced from my mind, especially since they weren't very memorable. Right that not that's not what I meant by that at all. But also, thank you for giving me another shot, because I promise you it's gonna be a great evening. It won't be weird, I promise get weird. I'm calling this radio station back to tell them, Yeah,

please do Molly, that would be awesome. Yeah. If if it does get weird, we want to know about it. All right. Well, I agreed at the beginning of this, I agree to something about Jello, so it might get a little weird. Can I tease my answer for about this date when you just said Jello, don't worry about it. Yeah, Molly, don't don't worry about it. It'll be fine. He's not gonna rub Jello on a thinking aboudy, don't worry about it, never mind, don't worry about it. Don't worry about it.

Broken Juwil in the morning texted at seven, eight, five and nine two about today's Second Date update. That really sums up the whole segment very well. It says it's a wonder that men get dates with women at all. Yeah, if you listen to most of the Second Date updates, that's a very true statement. We have very low expectations, that's true.