Second Date Update PODCAST: He’s Got a Big Crush

you back. But I'm really excited to talk to the guy who's on the phone today because his email is a little different than most. Most of his email was about how big of a fan he is of me, And you know when you when you email something like that, just gushing about what a big fan you are. I can't help but respond to that email and go, absolutely we can do a second date update part because really just makes you feel kind of warm and cuddly inside. Hey Nick, Hey dude, Hey man, how are you? I'm

great and I'm great, Juble, It's all you guys. Everybody's so great to talk to you guys. Nick, real quick, I'll give you a chance to do it in person, because your email is really nice. But I feel like that's a little you know, impersonal, So I'll give you a chance to just real quick, Nick, how great do you think I am? Dude? You you are hilarious. Stop it, stop it, Nick, I'm solicited, tap amazing. I feel uncomfortable now, I feel awkward. I feel awkward. This is embarrassing. Nick.

Are you sure you want to find this other girl? I mean, you and Duel just sound like you hit it off. That wouldn't be bad. It wouldn't be bad. How are you doing, buddy? Thank you for being a fan of the show. By the way, I appreciated your email. So the girl that you want us to call today, her name is Carrie. Yeah, and again, honestly, like Juba, you are great, but I love everybody honestly, you get this show. It's so much fun. Thank you. That's awesome

for real? Um. Yeah, So Carry is this girl? And I met her online and you know, we went back and forth and talked and then we set up a date. Actually I made some reservations at a really nice restaurant and told her about it. We were all set and then getting ready for the day, and I'm trying to get my sideburns even. And I know that sounds unbelievably stupid, but really, I mean a haircut is important. Yeah, I do that all the time. You got to do the

finger thing to make other even and stuff. Yeah. And when I'm shaving, like, I'll usually shave one higher than the other and then you spend most of the time trying to even it out. And by the time you're done, half your head is shaved and the other half is like down to your chin. For some reason, you can never get them right. It's an issue that we go through. I do like to know that men have to try

a little bit before a date. That's nice. Yes, So I was doing that and then I was kind of paying attention to kind of out really and I like turn real quick, and then I'd like, all of a sudden, racer goes up and I got a huge ball spot, like right in the side of my head. So you went to dinner sporting like half of your head ball I could have, but I was like, oh, I can't go on a date like, you know, with a huge

ball spot. I this is and things. So I called her up and I was like, hey, you line if we all go to dinner, we go to a bar, and I thought, like, I got a gottle place where I can wear a hat so I didn't look like an idiot. Oh right, yeah okay, And then how did the actual date go? Did she notice your bald spot? No? No, I never took the hat off. But it went really good, Like it was fun and we laughed a lot, and actually we talked about you guys, to be honest, Yeah, yeah,

So is she a listener? Then, well, actually she's heard of the show, she heard of you guys. Okay, I only ask because I don't want to call her and get her on the phone for the second part of your second date update and then she's gonna start raving about how great. Only so much of that I can handle in one day. Nick, Actually, I'm asking because she's going to be very familiar to know that you're on

the other line. Yeah, I mean I don't, but I'll be honest, like I talked a lot about second date updates, Like I talked about the one um and dude, it was so funny. But when the girl um in the backseat, Yeah, is this whole thing just a huge setup? So that you can be on our show, ye is the girl? I know, I know it seems like it, and it's really I mean, I'm glad. Part of me is glad that I'm doing this, but the other part of me

is like, oh man, i'd really like to have somebody. Okay, so it's cool that you can be on the show, but you'd rather not be on it. In a second date update, exactly exactly, Okay, So conversation seemed to go all right on your date. Yeah, any weird things that happened. How at the end of the night, go cold, get a kiss or anything? It was good? No, No, I'm just hugged, you know, I didn't even go in for

the kiss. And then emails and texts and subsequent like next couple days and no responses, and you know, I really had a good time. We laughed a ton. It was really fun. And I think that maybe the reason why she's not like getting back to me is because like I changed it up last minute and she probably thought I was like didn't care or sheep or didn't think she was worth it. Yeah, because you went from a classy place to a bar, right, Yeah, yeah, I

can maybe see that happening. Some girl like, oh, well, he was gonna take me to the most expensive restaurant in town, and now he's taking me to a dia. Did you try and offer up any explanation for that or did she ask you about it? No, she didn't, and I just said, like, I thought this would be more fun. I didn't want to tell her like I have a huge ball spot right under my half may have been funny. I mean, did you get it? Like, what was the sense? Why do you think that she

was disappointed? You know, I have no idea. I mean, we have such a great time in the day. We laughed a ton, it was awesome. Um yeah, I really I don't know. That's that's why I emailed you. Guys. How long has it been since you heard from her? A week and a half? Two weeks? All right, so a good amount of time. Okay, well, yeah, we'll play a song, come back, call her, get her on the phone,

and get your second date update. Okay, awesome, All right, hang on, man, if you want to listen to, like some podcasts or something more your way website moving, all right, hang on it brooking jubil in the morning. If you're just tuning in for the second date update, Nick is on the phone with us. He wants us to call

a girl named Carrie. Today. They met online, went out to eat at a bar, and actually spent some time talking about us because Nick is a huge fan of the show, and Nick, I gotta tell you, I'm not only surprised that you're not getting a call back, but I'm also surprised that she didn't sleep with you right there on the spot, because, as everybody knows, bringing up this show on a date is a huge apphrodisiac for people.

I mean, we get text messages in all the time, but people like, hey, I scored us someone last night just mentioning your name. It happens. It happens, Nick, So are you sure you want to call her back? Yeah? I want to see when we had a great time. I want to see what her deal is well, because any girl who Google on a date with and you bring up this show and she doesn't sleep with you sounds kind of like to me. I mean, I'm just gonna say it, and it's the truth, and you need

to hear it. Nick. And just to remind everybody, Nick was trying to trim his sideburns and accidentally shaved a hole in the side of his head, so he downgraded his date from a really nice place to a bar where he could wear a hat. But he thinks that she might have been turned off, thinking that he was like, you know what, You're not worth the nice restaurant that

I already had planned. All right, Nick, I'm gonna doll the phone number, see if we can get her on the phone, and then find out why she's not calling you back. Okay, A cool? All right, here we go. Hello. Hi, can I speak to Carrie? Please? Yes? Hey, Carrie, how are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Hi? Sorry from where Jewbil from brook and Jewil in the Morning the radio show sometime Joke? Are

you kidding? No, I'm not. Actually I'm calling you today because you recently went out on a date with a listener of ours. Oh my god. His name is Nick. Oh my god. So I think that you know who Nick is? Yeah, I know who Nick is. Nick emailed us a little bit about your date, and he also told us that you're not calling him back and he wants to get a second date with you. So we said we would call you and ask if there's a specific reason why you're not calling Nick back. Welcome. You

want me to tell you why I'm not calling Nick back? Yep, that would be the reason that we're calling today, just so we can let Nick know if he's kind of a screw up when dating or Oh what was it so funny? It's really weird that you guys are calling me when he would not stop talking about you during the date. Really, Carrie, I will say that we talked to Nick about your date, and it's obvious that he is a big listen to the show and he likes it a lot, yeah, a little bit, a little and

he mentioned that you guys talked about our show. He said that you're not necessarily a big listener, which I hope maybe we can change that in the course of this phone call, but he didn't mention. I mean, I feel like I've listened now. I mean he told me about everything like loser a line, something about like first date update, second date update, second date update, carry And that's exactly what this is. That's the segment that you're on right now. So what was the issue then? With Nick?

He said that you guys had a good time and laughed a lot during your date. Well, I mean, as you can imagine. Um, you know, he had a lot of interesting things to say. So we did laugh a lot, but it was all about you. I mean, I know you guys are great. I'm sure you guys are like amazing, but he would not stop talking about you, and he just like he kept going on about one of the hosts on your show. It was I don't know who.

Who was he talking king about? A guy or a girl? Um, hey, I'll tell you the names of the people, and then you tell me if he was talking about us. Okay, that wasn't me. My name's Jubil. No it wasn't. It wasn't a good eye. It wasn't. Okay, so that rules me and jose out Brook. Oh no, it wasn't for us. Lydia then does that name sound familiar? Yes, yes, it was Lydia. Someone's gonna don't know he has Yeah, I think he has some major crush on her, like you thinking, Oh,

she's so funny. Lydia is the traffic of date, potential voice, essential voice. Okay, that's what Lydia say. Hi to carry it. Carrie knows a lot about you, guys, have never met Carrie. This is Lydia. Hey, Carrie, I feel like I'm meeting the other woman, the famous Lydia was essential voice. I was gonna say, I would like you to know that you also have a cential voice. You guys are bonding, Oh maybe? I mean this is actually significantly less weird

than the date. Is that the reason that you're not calling Nick back because he talked about our show and specifically Lydia. It's just that at the end of the night, I just felt like, it's really obvious he should not be going out with me. He should totally be going out with Lydia. Was he like, did you feel like he was sort of Stockrish? I have to know, I don't know stocrity. This seems like in love with her.

I mean, I book, I mean apparently like you guys don't know obviously hasn't been colined the station obsessing over her, you know, in person, but I think he's in love with her. It was that bad, car I mean, it kind of was. It's just like if you've got on a date with someone and they just, I don't know, keep talking about jay Loo or something. You got a comparison to Jaylos lists down from the entire off of it. I get your point, though, carry I get your point.

If you went out with someone and they seemed like whatever level of Eberty Stoker they are, you gonna be like, all right, this person's a creepy obsession with j Lo or Lydia. We're talking about any other person on a day, is right? Yeah, that's kind of true. Can I say something? Sure you can, Nick Kerry, that's Nick. He's actually on the other line. Listen, Terry. Don't you think that you're

kind of over exaggerating a little bit. Oh, I just want to say that, like, yeah, I mean I did talk about Lydia and stuff, but I talked about everybody on the show. Nick, I'm really sorry, but it was really excessive. I don't think it was. I mean I talked about you know, Lydia, yeah, and said she was great and funny and everything. But I also talked about Jose and Brooke and Jubil and I like talked about everybody. Lydia was the only one with this the essential voice.

And it wasn't just what you said, it's how you said it. I mean, a person can tell that it is his story in your eyes. I thought you were like like a little glistening peer in the corner, like it was really I'm a big fan of the show, Okay, I was just telling you things that I liked. No, I mean I respect that, Like there's nothing, it's nothing you did something wrong, and it's just you kind of just revealed the truth. And I just think, like this

heart is the heart. I think that instead of having the radio show call me, I think you should just be saying the same things you were telling me about Lydia just straight to her, you know, I mean, like everything you were saying about her Instagram picks and all this, Like, Nick, did you really bring up Lydia's instagram on your date? Yes, but I mean it was just when we were talking about her and then she didn't know, like I just wanted to see what, you know, how what Lydia looked like.

And it wasn't like that big of a deal. Nick, Are you Are you just embarrassed now that you got outed in front of Lydia. I mean it's embarrassing that I think Carrie is blowing this out of proportion. Listen, this is the thing. It's like, I'm not even criticizing you. It's not that you did something wrong. It's just it's really obvious, and maybe you just want to kind to look inside about what your feelings are, because I don't know you well enough to make a judgment except only

what I experienced. And I really think you what Lydia. Lydia's face is so uncomfortable. I know Lydia has a boyfriend, and I respect that. It's just a little weird to be constantly talking about someone you don't even know. On first date. I was just explaining to you how great the show was and how great I think everyone is, and I was just, you know, wanting you to become a fan too. Yeah, And I think you're blowing it

out of proportion. And I think, you know what. I think Nick is doing God's work by letting people know about our show, carry so I can't really fall to him, and I think that you should give him another shot. Carrie, would you like to go out with Nick again? We will pay for a second date. I'll even instruct him not to talk about the show if you want. Ah, I really appreciate it, you guys. So I'm awesome Nick. You're a great guy. But I think maybe for someone else,

I'm gonna have to decline. Like, maybe I wish you the best. Well, it's not over yet. You guys, Nick, would you like to go out with Lydia Hello for a first date with you? And I know she has a boyfriend. Maybe she could bring them along? You guys, all three could go out and hang out? Yeah? No, no, I mean I respect Lydia too much. I know she has a boyfriend, and I don't want you know. That's sweet of you, Nick. Plus, I would only agree if Carrie was there, because three sums not awkward enough. I

want all four. One four you have to delete. Yeah, A broken jupil in the morning.