Rooking jewels second day. The guy on the phone in today's second date update says he met the girl that he wants us to call at the vet's office. They're both there taking care of some business with their doggies, and that's how they met. Apparently, he walked over to her and introduced himself, just like dogs due to each other. He and then he sniffed her, and then she sniffed him in the right place. And since sparks flew at that point, Hey, Jesse, what's up? How are you good? Good?
How's it going good? Is that how you met Aaron? The girl that you want us to call today? Something like that? Behind But you know, that's what I was picturing. I picture you walk up and hey, my name's Jesse. You want to go out some time? I think it would be a happier world if we could do that. Tell us a little bit about the girl that you
want us to call today. What's her name? Name is Aaron? Right? Aaron? Yeah? Yeah, I was taking Rocket, my dog Rocket to the vat and yeah, we just as she sat down next to me, and you know, the dogs started the conversation first with themselves, and then we went into it and I think that takes a lot of confidence to ask a person out in a setting like that. Did you use any lines on her? You know, it's funny just because I didn't. That was what was cool about it was because we
just had a genuine connection. It was really really nice to like to have a good chat with someone that wasn't a lot of pressure, you know. And so um when it was they called me and they take my dog in and I just asked her if she wanted to go, you know, like a doggie date, and I wanted to. That was maybe the extent of using a line doggie play date, Yeah, like a doggie play date. Yeah, So I thought that would be cool to break the ice even further. So I think that's a great idea.
If I had a pet or a kid, I would use them to get dates too. That's one of the things that they're for, right, Some guys only have dogs and kids so that girls will talk to them. Actually borrow dogs from my friends just so people will talk to me when I'm out. So, you guys agreed to go out on a doggie play date? Where did you go? Did we chatted back and forth? You know, text message or whatever, And I found a cafe that lets you take dogs in. So we met there and again like
we got along great. We had a really good chat when took the dogs to a nice little park. More importantly, more importantly, how did the dogs get along? Because I know with you dog people, that's the most important thing. If your dog approves and you're okay, exactly, it's just like the parents that they approved. Yes, great, move forward.
The dogs loved each other, they say, they whatever they talk about in their little doggie language, you know, but the whole thing and the and the grooming and nibbling and all that, so say something to get along goes fine. So your doggies got along, and you guys got along too. How did the date? And well that's you know, the whole crux of the matters that I walked her to her car and chatted there for a minute, and I
thought it was appropriate timing. I went in to give her a kiss and and she kind of backed away a little bit and was like, oh, gotta, I gotta go, And she was sort of quick about it, and she was going to her car. I just said, can I call you again? And she said sure and got in and took off. I don't know, I fell up to that point. We had a really good connection and I don't know if that was just the dogs or not. Was it awkward when she shut down your kiss at
that point? It was really Yeah, it felt really weird, Like I was. I felt like, oh damn, did I did I go into soon? I used and it was a first date, but like, did you address the fact that it was weird? Like did you go, hey, sorry about that? I was, I'd be okay to kissing. Well, I didn't want to make too big of a deal about it, so I just said I thought maybe that was okay, but maybe it's too soon or whatever, and she was like, no, no, it's I just I have
to go. And was she aware the whole time that you thought this was a romantic date and really, honestly not just like dogs get together, because I know that I like to take my dog out and get it a lot of exercise and energy, and it's always nice to find someone to be able to do that with.
I mean, there was an energy there that I maybe I misinterpreted it, but there was an energy there that I felt was I would say, allowed me to do the go ahead and yeah, the kid, I would say that if you went in for the kiss and she shut you down, maybe you were misinterpreting something. Yeah, I don't know, but she did tell you to call her. She did tell you to call her, and did you. Well, Yeah, and I've tried. I've called her, I think once, and sent her a couple of text messages and I just
haven't her back. And I love listening to you guys, and I thought maybe this would be a cool way to figure it out. I don't know, just get a little help, because I don't want to be a you know, I don't want to be a stalk or anything. So I don't, you know, I don't know. Has she replied
to you at all? No, nothing, You haven't heard a word from Yeah, and you know, And like I said, I don't want to keep on, but I but I don't want to miss a good opportunity either, because she was really cool, Like she was just really nice and smart and and there's only so many women that come into the vets office. Yes, well exactly, there's there's only so many women that are nice to have their dogs at the vet. Yeah, the next time, they're all going to be eighty and then I'm gonna be alone. Some
eighty year olds have some cash. Don't shut that one out, right, I said it for years. That's what I would love to find. We'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, right on, Okay, hang them looking jewel in the morning, Jesse. Yes, before we make the phone call for your second date update, I do have a question for you now. The girl that he wants to call today, her name is Aaron.
You guys met at the vet's office. Your dogs bonded and you went out on a little doggy date to a doggy cafe. You said, at the end of the night, she shut you down when you went to try to kiss her. Yes, during your date. Are you one of those people that makes out with your dog a lot? What do you mean with your dog? You know what I mean? There's people that sit there and like they kiss their dog on the mouth NonStop. Do you do that with your dog? I try not to, at least
in front of people. You know. There might have been a couple of times where he jumped up and gave a little lick here and there. But but I but I try to keep that. But you know, what I'm talking about, right, Jesse? There are some people that act they just go to town with their dog and lick each other. Yeah, I've seen people with the food in
the mouth. It just discussed her, really, And I asked the question because we've done a second date update before with a guy who met like a girl's dog and he wouldn't stop hanging out and the girl was actually jealous of how much attention he was given the dog. I just thought maybe that could be the reason she shut you down for a kiss. Yeah. I tried to keep a balance. I didn't the best to keep a balance. So you only make out with your dog in private?
Got it? All right? I'll only make my dog in private, Peanut butter? And all right, I'm gonna dial her phone ver right now, see if you can get her on the phone. Okay, Hello, is Aaron there? Yeah, this is Aaron. How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Oh are you doing? I'm going I'm sorry? What's going on? You recently went out on a date with a listener of our show and he wanted us to call you. But who his name is? Jesse? And
now you're not calling him? Back. Yeah. So so Jesse emailed us and said that he wants to get ahold of you because he'd love to see you again. But he's wondering if he did something wrong when you guys went out. Okay, this is really weird. Weren't the right fit? You weren't the right fit. He told us a little bit about your date, and he said that you guys, you know, your dogs bonded and stuff. He also told us how he tried to kiss you at the end of it and you said no right to his face. Yeah.
I don't think it's it's going to work out. Is there anything that you could tell me about the date that I could at least relate to him and say, hey, maybe don't do this next time you're out with a girl. I just don't think he's gonna last through my role, through your rules. Yeah, I have a role that you have to go ten dates just hanging out, no physical activity, just really getting to know each other before that stuff. Wait, you're saying you need to go on ten days before
you kiss someone. Yeah, I think it's important to get to know each other. Okay, but and did you tell him this while you were on your date? I think people get weirded out, so I usually don't tell them till it was a second or third date. But here he was so eager, like already kissing me on the first date. Yeah, what a journey. You're so him wanting to kiss you on the first date just turn you off? You Why couldn't you just tell him, Hey, sorry, I don't do that on the first date. I don't do
that until the eleventh date. I mean, for me, it's more energy things like he's not gonna last ten dates if you can't even like pull themselves together the first dates. Do you go on a lot of dates aeron? Yeah, I have my practice in dating. Okay. And when you go out on dates with other dudes, do they try to kiss you right away and then you never call them again? See most guys say, you know, they keep their distance. We're sting each other out, getting to know
each other and like an intellectual level. Okay. And then Jessie was like, all of a sudden, I'm getting ready to get in my car and his lips or my face. That's right. Everybody has their rules, right exactly. I have my standards. I'm a lady, and I deserve first tide so we can get to know each other and then we can get fill Okay, well, you have your rules, like I won't go out on a second date with someone who doesn't eats seafood. That's my rules, right, So
you have the kissing rule. You don't go out someone that tries to kiss you within ten dates or someone that you feel like can't hold off for ten dates exactly. I appreciate you being honest with us. Yeah, you're welcome. And I also need to tell you that Jesse is actually on the phone listening. Yeah, Hi there, how's it going? Oh my god, I'm on your side, Aaron. I think Jesse is just out of control. Wow, slow down. I'm kind of a little surprised, Like I'm not even sure
what the first of all, what the thing? I mean that this was the first I've heard of a ten date rule of no contacts. I kind of thought we had a better connection than than that than not telling me something like that. Look, I know you're a type, and I know you're not gonna last ten dates. What do you mean my type? I didn't try to, you know, do what we were witnessing happening in that dog part, Like you know I kept it pretty clean. I guess
it's just you know, is not you know, animal action. Look, I have my standards and and everybody has like and just like that's that's the way it is. Hey, Aaron, let me ask Jesse one question before you go. Okay, Jesse, can you wait ten dates to make a move on Aaron? Do you think you could wait? I mean, yeah, I think so. Look, I guess stranger things have happened. It's I mean and all honestly, like it seems a little successive.
But I hear that that you know that she has things that she you know, believes that that make a good relationship. And so if you know, I understand that, I do think it's it's something that I've never heard of. I think, is you tried to kiss me after forty minutes? How am I supposed to believe that you would be able to last ten days? Okay? I mean, that's okay.
The fact is I didn't know about your rules. I didn't know you didn't express your things, and so if I had known, maybe I wouldn't have done that, or I would have said, hey, I don't this isn't for me or whatever. But I didn't have that option because you didn't tell me. It's a point. I really don't think that he'd be able to control himself. Wow, I just don't know. I don't know. Look, we'll hit your rules, you know, at the beginning, and see if they meshed,
and then we'll go from there. I like you. I think you're I think you're a cool girl. Aaron, would you go out with him again? Give him one more shot? I will pay for a second date. He promises he won't make a move for another nine dates. Now that you've had one, you can and maybe you guys, I think we need to start over. Okay, so start over at zero and then go out on a date and then see if he can make it ten dates without making a move on you. Would you be willing to
go out with Jesse again? I don't know if I can do the tenon. You can do it. He's such a reasonable, nice guy. I mean, I really think a lot of men would just, you know, write you off immediately for expecting that. Let's try it out. I can start it one one more shot? Yeah, all right? Cool? Aaron? Is there any kind of you know, can we bargain on this? Can I get you to reduce it to eight dates before first one. Okay. I don't want to push it. I don't want to ruin Jesse's chances. Gratulations, Jesse,
you got a second date, Aaron. I think that you will be happy with Jesse going out with him again. I hope that he can prove to you that he will not make a move on you for ten dates. Okay, Yeah, and if he does, I'm going to send you out on that date with some pepper sprays. You just spray right in my eyes if he tries to get a kid beautiful in the morning,