Need Lasic trust the experienced team at the Lasic Center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lasik at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels. Second data Day, Today's second data. Her name is Ali. Send us an email saying that she thinks she's scared the dude she went out with on their first date. She didn't go into much detail, but I'm guessing maybe maybe she was too aggressive, maybe not aggressive enough, and
he was like, oh, she's not interested. Or perhaps she did the scariest thing of all and she wanted to like talk and stuff. Oh not that, no, God, like find out about each other, like ask questions. So yeah, I could barely get the words out frightening, frightening stuff on a first date. So I hope that didn't happen. But let's talk to her and see, Ali, Welcome to the show. How you doing good? How about yourself? See already with the talking. I knew it. I knew it.
Jules got goosebumps. He's about ready to hang up. All right, Allie, your email said that you scared the guy. Before we get into that, what's his name? His name is Anthony, Anthony all right. And where did you meet Anthony? We met on our morning commute to work on the busy. Oh my gosh. J A lot of really normal people take the bus to work. Ye, never met one. You've never been on a bus, I don't think. All right, allie,
how'd you guys meet on the bus. Well, he's a really nice guy, but he's very shy, so it took us probably riding the bus for about six months together before he finally talked to me. So he asked me out, okay, and I'm like, you know, I was just like, okay, why not? My last boyfriend was a jerk, so I thought a nice, shy guy would be a good choice. Did you say that to him on the bus? Like? Oh why not? No? Okay? And what were you feeling leading up to the date? Oh? I feel pretty good
about it. I mean I'm not scared of much. Okay, yeah, like anything is better than your ex, so pretty much. All right. What did you guys do when you actually went out? So we went to the shooting range, which is more my thing. Oh okay, that was your choice? Yeah okay? And had he ever been to the range before? No? No, And he was a little bit like Okay, Well, you know, do you want to go out to dinner and you know, talk and stuff, And I was like, oh no, let's
go to the shooting range. Because my theory is dinner movie, all of that, everybody's on their best behavior, so you don't really get to know much about them. I don't feel like so in my opinion, going to the shooting range and putting a gun in somebody's hand really brings out the real us. It shows you if they have confidence, if they're a whimp. You know, dude, I'm kind of
scared of you right now. I mean, maybe I'm scared him when I shot the you know, bad guy in hostage target and I shot the bad guy right in the center of the head. Maybe not scared him. I don't know. That was gonna be my other question. Did you you like bring your own target and it was actually a picture of his face, like that could have scared How did he seem to react when he's look him to the shooting range. Was he cool with the
gun or was he, like you said, scared of it. Well, he seemed a little bit nervous, But I shot first and showed him the rope, showed him how to use the gun and everything until his turn came and first time he shoots, she like kind of screams like whoa, and like starts laughing. And you know, at first I was like, oh, ye okay, and he's like, yeah, yeah,
that was cool. Like he seemed like he was okay with it, but after another shot or two, he just seemed to get more and more shaky, and then he's like, oh, I need to go outside, and I was like, okay, seemed a little weird. But after I finished my next round, I went out to check on him, and he still seemed like he was shaking a little bit, but he was on the phone and when he got off, he was like, I'm really really sorry, I have to go. I was like, oh, it was everything, okay, Are you okay?
And he's like, yeah, yeah, there's something I had to go and weird. Haven't heard from him since, and tried texting him a couple of times. How much do you think the gun range had to do with him not
calling you back? I mean, do you think it was maybe making up an emergency or he realized that, hey, I really like guns and I need to listen to the the military now, and that's where he went, Like, I really don't know, because, like I said, at first, he seemed really excited, but then, you know, catch him outside with a phone and saying he has to go, like and not giving me any kind of reason. It did kind of make me wonder it did scare him, But I don't know, Like, I didn't really think it was
that scary of a thing to do. I think it's weird too, because he asked you out, and even if it was a little scary, because guns can be scary. Yeah, yeah, but why wouldn't he just say, hey, let's get out of here and go do something else. Yeah, I don't know. Did you notice his pants? Did he maybe tinkle his pants because he was nervous shooting a gun and he's embarrassed? Now, I don't know. I saw. Okay, And you've tried reaching out to him a few times and he has not
responded at all. Yes, okay. Have you tried writing something down on a bullet and shooting it in his door? Oh my gosh, Well that's another option. All right, Well, we'll play a song, call him and hopefully he answers and we can get you a second date. Update. All right, all right, thank you very much, okay brooking jubil in
the morning. Second Date and welcome back, ladies and gentlemen to the Second Date update and also the new Broadway smash hit Ali Get Your Gun, darring Ali who took her date to the gun range on their first date and co starring Anthony, the person that she took to the gun range and isn't calling her back, probably because he tinkled himself because he's scared of guns. Let's find out the dramatic conclusion right now in Ali, Get Your Gun? Alie,
did I about get that right? Oh? Sure? If you're just joining us, Ali took her date to the gun range. In the middle of it, he excuse himself to take a phone call, look rather nervous, and then left and hasn't talked to her since. So we're trying to figure out why. And Ali didn't ask. I mean, if he is scared of guns, are you still wanting to date him? I mean, I think it secks you when a guy knows how to handle a gun, But I would still give him a chance. I mean, he's a really great guy.
Maybe you can teach him how to be a man, not being a man. If you were a little afraid of You should be afraid of guns. They could kill you. Right here we go, Ali gonna call him after a brief intermission, Sir, we can get their coro, nuts and licorice and head right back to their seats. It's Ali, get your gun all right here? We call him Dallas one him right now. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Anthony? This is Anthony? Hey, Anthony, how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and jew BWL in the Morning. What
my name is jew Bowl. I host a morning radio show. It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. So I'm on the phone. Also, Brooke is here, hey, Anthony, and Jose is also here too. He's on the phone too, So you got three of us on the phone with you right now, Anthony. Okay, okay, what is this about? Well, we actually got an email from one of our listeners who was trying to get in contact with you. What
is this? I'm just I'm confused. I'm sorry. Well, we do a segment on our show it's called the second Date Update. So you recently went out with a girl named Ali Ali. Yeah, and Ali emailed us because you're not calling her back? Right? Yeah, that was not a good experience with that person. Really wait, she said you took a phone call outside and then like bailed, like something could have been really wrong. She was worried about you. Yeah, I just really bad. I felt really like guilty and
so I had to bail. I'm sorry that was not for me. What did you feel guilty about? Well, I don't even know, like what you know or what she told you or what. Well she told us that you guys met on the bus first of all, weird, okay, weird, But she told us that you guys met on the bus and then you went to a shooting range and in the middle of that you took a phone call and then were nervous and left and haven't talked to her. It wasn't my idea to go to the shooting range.
So you didn't like the shooting range. Parts of the shooting range were not for me. The bathrooms are dirty or what do you mean? What part didn't you like? Okay, So we were at the shooting range and we shot some bulls eyes and she was helping me, and that was all right, that was fine. And then there were the like you know, the silhouettes of people and shot
some of those. That was fine too. Then they had this like pay for picture of a deer shoot and I don't know, I love like animals, and she was just like it was right there and she was like, come on do it, like shoot this. I know it's not a real deer, but like it was just like she got me to shoot it. And I just felt like immediately, just so bad, just not good at all. Oh, that's really sweet. You felt bad shooting a fake deer silhouette. It wasn't a silhouette, it was a picture. It was
it was looking at me. I could see its eyes. So you shot bammy and you felt bad. Don't say that that makes me feel even poor dad. I think that's fine to have those emotions. But why does that make you not want to call her back? Well? I was feeling bad about that, and so I went outside and I called my mom and um, I want to talk to her about it, and like I was like, I feel like I'm a bad person, and she said that yeah I am. Oh my gosh, that you were
a bad person. Well yeah, I mean the way she's it's like you start with paper deer, and then what's next, plastic deer? Then it's just getting more normal to hear. Real, dear, you're just getting used to it. It's just slippery slope gateway, dear, is what you what you shot? She said, it's probably a bad influence. So she thinks that Ali is a bad influence on you because she wants you to kill animals. I just my mom didn't raise me that way to
shoot deer, paper deer, anything shaped like a deer. Just loved animals. Okay, okay, but you were cool shooting the silhouettes of people, just not that well, they didn't have faces. Oh that makes sense, they can't look at you, Jubilee, that's true. Good point. Honestly, maybe it's just the way I was raised, But I think shooting a deer would hurt me more than shooting a person. Okay, okay, why didn't you just tell her that? Well, she's so into it. She was like excited. I came back. She shot the
deer more. That must have been just horrible for you. She just couldn't stop shooting the deer. She was really in your well, Anthony, I do need to let you know that Ali is actually on the other line right now, so it's a perfect opportunity for you to confront the paper deer murderer. She's on the phone. Hi, Anthony, Why didn't you tell me she was on the phone. I'm sorry, Anthony's short memory. I forgot that she was there. So, yeah, she's there and wants to talk to you. Yeah, hey, Um,
why didn't you just tell me? I don't know. I didn't even know that i'd have to talk to you again. I didn't think this would happen. Well, yeah, I mean, but it's healthy to talk things out, you know. Like by had known that the animal thing was really gonna upset you, we didn't have to shoot that. We could have stuck with bullseyes the whole time. I mean, I didn't know that or people. He was fine with people. I don't know how was I supposed to tell you that?
Like I was gonna call you and tell you that I had a hard time shooting the paper deer. Yeah, I mean, I guess I could see that being awkward. I think the hardest part of that conversation would have been saying I had a hard time shooting the paper deer and then I had to call my mom about it. It's funny, I mean, it's jealous. The paper deer. It's not even like you shot the real thing. I mean, come on, it's not a big deal. It is a
big deal. You had eyes, and you know what I mean, No matter what your mom says, I'm not a bad influence on you. I'm helping toughen you up. Don't talk about my mom. Okay, you don't know what. So did mommy help you get over everything after you got back from the shooting range? I mean, I mean I dealt with it, Like I went home and I could cried, and I donated two hundred dollars to a wildlife foundation
day hard. That's good, But come I mean, a lot of people would say that hunters have more respect for animals and what they eat and the time that they put into getting their food than people who just go to the grocery store and buy meat. Right, yeah, but then they shoot them. There's a whole lot of honey. I guess now would be a bad time to say that. Like I grew up hunting and I have antlers mouted on my wall. No, that's not good. You should take
those down. But it's not a big deal. I mean, I really, I really just can't believe you're serious that this isn't really happening. But you've killed them. I mean, I yes, I killed them, but I ate their meat, so their life didn't go to waste. That's that's so gross. Oh man, dinner date's gonna be real hard for you
to I mean, are you are you vegan? I'll eat like chicken and fish, but I won't eat like bear meat or foresta force me, Anthony, you know that they get chicken and fish with a shotgun, right they stand outside of the water. The way they do it is a lot more cruel. Stop talking about this. Well, how about you guys go talk about it in person and go on another date? Anthony, would you like to go out with Ali again? We'll pay for it. Alia a steak? Oh wow. I don't appreciate the laughter, and I don't
appreciate the offer. I don't want a steak, especially when with someone who might have killed the steak. So is that a no, Anthony? Yeah? Well, Ali, I'm sorry you did not get a second date out of the deal. I'm not. I mean, this was playing more entertaining than our first date, and I really like to keep eating meat, So I'm totally okay with this. Okay, Anthony, thank you for your time. Man. Hopefully you know, after some counseling and stuff like that, you'll be able to get over
shooting that paper, Dear. I mean, it's gonna be hard to forget, like it's stuck in my memory. But I mean, I just have to find somebody who believes the same things I do. I think you already found her. I think her name is mom Broken. Jewil in the Morning in a text in at seven eight five to nine two says poor guy, he has PTSD from watching BAMBI. Can't you hear that Brooke and Jewel in the Morning talking about today's second date update if you missed it,
Ali wanted to call this dude to Anthony. They went to a gun range together. It was her idea. She likes to shoot. He had never done it before, and he's split in the middle of it. He got a phone call said he had to leave. It turns out when we got him on the phone that he was uncomfortable because they were shooting the normal targets and then a deer target came up and he shot at it.
He felt really bad, so he called his mom and his mom told him that he was a bad person because he was shooting it a deer target, and then he left and he just feels horrible about the whole thing because he shot at a deer, you know, but not a real deer. It wouldn't be that big of a deal to me. If you know, he didn't feel comfortable shooting whatever, that's fine. But calling your mom, I mean that's where I draw the line, Like, come on, buddy, yeah, on a first date to call your mom and go, Mommy,
guess what just happened. I shot at a deer a picture of a deer? Am I bad? And she's like, yeah, you're bad. Get home. You're getting a spanking right now. She's like, I don't want you hanging out with that kind of person, right, Yeah, you're an adult man. Yeah, of course, every single dude who owns a gun is texting in right now like, yeah, I'll take it shooting range. I'm not afraid to be real. Man. She stopped dating Mama's boys, Yeah, it's that, or it's a lot of
people making jokes about how she dodged a bullet. Yeah, a lot of dodge a bullet jokes. Thank you for those. Keep them coming, because I'm enjoying reading them all right. Remember, if you want to do a second day update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back