Second Date Update PODCAST: Grilled Cheese Factory

so you angrily called your day in a hole. Whatever. I'm glad you want to call him back. How does that work? What happened? Well, okay, so I met this guy as he was Treasure, Trevor not Treasure. I was, yeah, I would hope his name was Treasure. I've never met a guy named Treasure, but I wanted to, all right, So his name was Trevor, Trevor, Trevor, right, and I met him my mind, and I thought he was really cute, and you know, he said he liked to work out,

and he said he loves food. And then that's kind of what prompted me to start talking to him and we were talking about what the kind of food we love, and he was like, there came I be one person in this entire world who doesn't like a grilled cheese sandwich. And I was like, oh my god, I feel the same way. And that's when you got into it. That's when you said, screw you, you a hole. I love grilled cheese more. No, no, no, no. This was over

the app, you know. It was just like back and forth, and then we started texting and we were like sending pictures of grilled cheeses to each other, and I was saying, like, I make like the best grilled cheese, Like it's my favorite food. I've got this great recipe. And I was like, you should come over and I'll make it for you. Are you really now, are you really that passionate about grilled cheese or were you just using this as a cute ploy back and forth. No, I really love it's seriously,

it's like my favorite food. I order it any time of restaurant has it. I'm like a girl cheese aficionado. I always feel like it's a ripoff, like girl cheese so cheap to make over charged on the menu. It's usually over charged I'll give you that, but you know when you got all those different kinds of cheeses in it with four dough bread, Oh, I'm into it now. The girl the other date, So did he come over? And well, yeah, so this is how I ended up

yelling at him. I was making the sandwiches and we were having a couple of drinks and we were talking and I was multitasking, and I went over to talk with him, and you know, I was nervous and I smelled something burning and I realized, crap, I burnt the sandwiches. And I felt like such an idiot. Yeah, I felt like such an idiot. And after yeah, saying that you're an artist, obviously you're not. Yeah, yeah, I talked to all this big talk and like, you know, here I

am screwing it up. And then he came over and I was like, oh, I'm so sorry here. What if you did it this way? What if you did it that? And he's not like that? Like I was like, why is this guy trying to tell me what to do? And so I freaked out. I like slammed down the pan. I went over into my room and I yelled out, I can do it myself. A hole and I slammed the door and say, so it was more than just calling him an a hole. You literally had a freak

out erect your room. Yeah, all right, are you always unstable? No? I just did that moment. I mean it was but not it. You know, ladies, you know when it's a time of the month, what happened, you know, you get a little bit more emotional and you know it just it wasn't great timing to have a guy over, probably, and like I had a day anyway, like that morning was hard. So I just emotionally wasn't So it wasn't

the best first day. You did not plan accordingly? No, I did it, but you know, I spent a couple of minutes in my room, like it was like, oh, I was so stupid. And then I walked out and we were laughing about it. Oh he was still there. Yeah, he stayed. It was really sweet, and I was like, I'm so sorry. I totally freaked out. I don't know why I did that. You were just trying to help, and he was like, it's totally cool. And then I made the sandwiches again. I did not burn them this

time or recall him an a hole. He even slept over. We didn't do anything. He was just like, it's really late. Is a COOLF I sleep over? ILL sleep on the couch? Totally fine, He's The next morning I woke up got a note that said, hey, I had so much fun with you. Things again for the girl cheese, and then I like texted in the next day saying like, hey, I had so much fun too, and he said me too. And that's really all the conversation we've had and it's

been like ten days. Wow, that's crazy. If I was hanging out at your house and you freaked out of me like that, the last thing I would want to do would be asleep there. Yeah, it doesn't make sense, right, And that's why I'm like, I'm calling you guys because I don't know what to do. I mean, is it He went home and he realized, whoa, she freaked out. I don't want to have anything to do with her? Or was it something else? Was there any moments of intimacy or did it just feel like you were hanging

out his friends the whole time? We kissed right before he went to sleep. We had like one kiss, you know, nothing crazy, and it was nice and it felt like we left on a good note, but I don't know. I was confused. The real question is was how was your girl cheese? Did it actually hold up? It was really good, very good, and he so too. Yeah. I mean he said he liked it, but maybe he was lying. Maybe it was the grilled cheese that was the problem. Yeah,

it could be. That's happened to me before. I've not called a lot of girls back because of a bad grilled cheese. Play a song, come back, call him and get your second day update. All right, cool, thanks guys, Okay, hang him. Well, if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Amy is on the phone, and Amy's not getting a call back because she sucks at making grilled cheese sandwiches. Don't say that just the worst, am I? Right? Amy, don't say that. I'm gonna have to cut you if

you keep talking him like that. And that's the kind of anger that really is behind the reason Amy thinks she's not getting a call back. She met this dude named Trevor online. They were talking about their love for grilled cheese sandwiches, so she invited him over to her

place to make the best grilled cheese ever. She actually ended up kind of starting to burn the sandwich, and then when he tried to help her out, she yelled at him and said, I could do it myself, You a hole, and then went and locked herself in a room. And surprisingly he stayed and they finished the date, and she said he actually seemed like he had a great time. He even stayed the night on her couch and they

had a kiss. But now he's not calling her back, so we're gonna get him on the phone and find out why. And you did apologize for the freak out, But did you dwell on it too much? I don't think so. I mean, it happened and then we laughed about it, so I don't really think that it could be that, But I don't know what else it could be either though. All Right, well, I'm gonna Dallas phone Umber and see if we can find out why. Okay, cool? Hello, Hi, can I speak to Trevor please? Yeah? This is Trevor.

Hey Trevor, how are you. This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, Okay, hi back. Have you ever heard of Brooke and Jewel in the Morning before? Yeah? I think Okay, what do you think it is. Then you guys are like a radio so right, Yes, and have you ever really listened? No? Not really? I know the name? No, okay, cool. Well that's a start. The reason I'm calling you today is because somebody who does listen to our show wanted us to call and get

a hold of you. Cool. Could be cool, could not be cool? You don't know yet, I guess not. Her name is Amy. Oh okay, yeah, and Amy made you a grill cheese sandwich. Yes, she yes, she did about that. Yeah, she did tell us all about that. We do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update. So Amy wants to know why you're not calling her back after your date. It's not that I'm not calling you know, this is not really I don't want to like it's not that I'm not calling her back, but I'm not

calling her back. I'm not calling No, it's just, you know, I don't want to talk about that kind of thing on it was we had a nice time, you know, it's one of those things. Amy's the one that wants to know. I mean, we're asking on her behalf. She said she'd be willing to hear whatever it is. I don't really know how much you guys already know, Like, how much do you guys know? Well, we know that you bonded over grilled cheese sandwiches, and you went to

her house and she made you grilled cheese. But at one point she kind of burned it and then yelled at you and stormed off to her room, and somehow, somehow you stuck around. That was fun. No, that burning wasn't the thing, Like she freaked out, but it was like cute, it was funny. She wait, she slammed the pan down, called you an a hole, and you thought that was hysterical. No, it wasn't. I wasn't like dying laughing. But like, that's not why I'm not calling back. That

wasn't an issue at all. Okay, so the anger issue is not a big deal with you. No, but I slept on her couch. I didn't. We didn't share a bed, so I'm not saying that at all. Um. But before, like she went to her room and I was on the couch, she had some pictures on the wall, like photographs, like professionally done ones that people get, and they were of her and a guy embracing it and like kissing, and these were like big pictures. These weren't like the

little ones. Did they look like engagement photos or something like that style? Yeah, like that kind of thing they like, you know, they hired a photographer to take pictures of them, like holding each other and stuff. So I was just like, what are those and what she say? She went, Oh, that's my ex fiance whoa. And I was just like, Oh, that's weird. She's not currently with her fiance, then that's

pretty strange to have engagement photos of herself. Phone three of them though, hanging up, and they were big photos. I can't stress that enough. Like they were. And you would think that if you're having a first date with a guy that that would be, I don't know, something on the agenda to take down before he comes to your house. Yeah, but I was willing, I guess kind of the laugh it off because I am going to sleep there. I don't want it to be like super

crazy weird yea. And she goes, yeah, we're still really good friends, so right there, I'm like, all right, cool, I guess. And then and then she says, I told him I would keep them up until I found someone that I could replace them with. WHOA Like Oh cool, and that's awesome, But like I'm sleeping on her couch, I'm not going to have like the greatest night sleep. So I would like wake up and then just be looking at her and this, you know ex fiance like

kissing and holding each other. And when you were looking at it, you weren't thinking, I hope that's me one day. No, No, I wasn't. I was thinking I need to sleep off a few drinks that I had and get out of here, like really fat. Well, guys, I don't like how this is going. I'm not. I'm not what's going on. Oh, Trevor, that's Amy. She's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Yeah. I've been listening to the whole thing. Heyst to the whole thing. Hi, it's

nice to hear from you after ten days. It's nice to hear from you too, after ten days. I am like so disgusted right now. I cannot believe that that's the reason that you're like not calling me. You're talking to me because it's it's a perfectly good reason. You have pictures of you and your exce my relationship. Listen, I invited you into my home and it's my space, and you asked, and I just met you the first time I ever met you. You know why why? This

guy is my best friend? Okay, and yeah we're broken up now, but he's a part of my life and he's part of my history and I talked to him every day and he's my best friend and I care for him. And I don't know why you're you're reacting like this. I don't think it's strange. You know, wouldn't you have pictures of you in your best friend? So what we're kissing in the photos? I think that's the point Amy, I would have never had of me and

another girl kissing if I had anyone. I was kind of romantically interested in coming to thank you for the first time. This is the first time I ever met you. I'm inviting you to my house. The only thing I'm inviting you over. You're talking about cooking, and I wanted

to cook you something. I'm not going to sit here and redecorate my house for some guy that you know I might not ever see again, which, by the way, I'm not going to because it's been ten days we spoke, all right, WHOA, you need to slow down this sounds way crazier than I already imagined. You crazy? You think I'm crazy? Well, you know what, You sound jealous, and a real man doesn't get jealous of other guys. I

don't think you know if that's necessarily jealousy. It's just I kind of don't want to see what a mean. Can't you see that? Maybe it's a red flag that you're not quite over your past engagement, that you haven't taken the photos down. Sure, fine, it's it's a red flag to some stranger doesn't even know me. But I'm explaining to all of you people that he is my best friend and I care for him, and why should I take down photos for some guy I met online?

But why would I do that? I have pictures of my best friend in my house and none of them are me and that person embracing. Oh well, I'm still really sorry for you because all of you apparently have a problem with intimacy. Oh no, I do have a problem with intimacy. I'd like to admit that. But it is strange to have a picture of your ex fiance on your wall. You don't think so at all. He's my best friend, Okay, but why don't you put some other pictures of you guys as best friends up and

not the romantic ones. Listen, I wake up every morning and I look at those photos and I set an affirmation for the day, and I say, I am going to find a best friend just like that. It's my motivation and just what gets me through the day. Okay, whoa okay? Instead of there, why don't you just try some like orange juice and light exercise. I don't think that's funny, and I don't appreciate your sarcastic tone, Trevor. I spent a lot of money on those damn photos.

Why would I pitch them out with some piece of crap because you're not engaged anymore? Amy? What are you my therapist? Are you guys like my therapists? Now? Is that why I called into a radio show to get therapy? That's not why I called in. And I am so upset that these are the results that I'm getting from this. Guys, do you still need me on this one? Or can I just actually? I no, no, I need him real quick, Trevor, would you like to go on a second date with Amy?

We will pay for it. No, No, come one day you're on grilled cheese sandwich. I will happily make grilled cheese sandwich is alone. I don't want to we're gonna get one. You're never gonna get one like I made ever again. You're never going to get another one like that. Oh you mean, Burt, You are such an don't say anything about my grilled cheese is okay. You'll never get anything like that ever again. Oh man, I'm sorry, Trevor. It does sound like she hung up to dude. What

was that? Are you serious? He's an insane person. Oh my god. I feel like you should have seen that coming after that whole burn grilled cheese incident. I'm just happy I'm alive right now. I'm got out of there alive. Text in at seven eight five nine two says, I definitely am scared of that woman, but I do want to try her grilled cheese and I agree. She was very passionate about grilled cheese sandwiches. If you don't know what I'm talking about, I'm talking about today's second date

update with Amy and Trevor. We taped that while Brooke was still here. Jackie is filling in for Brook on maternity leave, but Amy wanted to call Trevor. They made grilled cheese together. They bonded over the fact that they both loved grilled cheese. We got him on the phone and found out the reason that he wasn't calling back was because he stayed the night at her house on the couch and noticed that on the wall she had very very big pictures with her and another guy kissing

and being romantic. And then we found out that that was her fiance or ex fiance, and they're really good friends now, but she doesn't want to take the pictures down until she finds a replacement for him. That is creepy kind of he was creeped out. Trevor was very very creeped out by it and did not want to go out with her. But then she started calling him jealous and saying that it's his fault, like it's wrong

with him. I don't know. Text in seven eighty five nine two Would it bother you if you went over to somebody's house and they had pictures of their ex fiance on the wall and refused to take them down? Neither there was the worst wedding pictures or something, but in the big frames, yeah, just still up there. It's just kind of sound sort of desperate. I can see though, I mean, it's her house. She's not gonna expect to

have people over. This was a date that turned into a better date, but she was required to take down her picture. But wasn't the date already planned? Like, if you know he's come over, you wouldn't take those down? Yeah? I don't know, or aren't you a person who operates in life and knows that you shouldn't have pictures of your ex fiancee in frames on the wall if you're trying to date. Anyway, she hung up on us. Hopefully

he'll be okay. He might have to get a restraining order because she was very pissed at the end of the call wherever he wanted to do a second day update. All you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.