Need Leasic trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lesic at Evergreen dot com rooking jewels? Second dat up day. Dating can be very expensive. That's why you shouldn't do it. No, but if you have to date, you should find a way to do it spending as little money as possible. And that's what Joseph did. Who's on the phone for a second date up date today?
His email said that he found some awesome cheap date ideas because he didn't want to spend a bunch of cash on a first date. That's great, and it sounds like it worked okay, except he's not getting a call back. What's up, Joseph, how are you? I'm good? How are you all right? Pretty good? So you came up with a bunch of cheap date ideas. Yeah, I'm kind in between jobs right now. So I'm just trying to say about money, you know, because bill still happen. I think
that's fantastic. You don't need a lot of money to woo a woman at all. Well, I mean, I think it helps, but I got to it's never a bad thing necessarily. What's the name of the girl that you want to call today, Stephanie, Stephanie? And where'd you meet her? Well, I didn't delete my dating app just because I was I'm not working, and so she sent me a message and she was really pretty and like the way her hair framed her face. So I took a chance. And
you like the way that hair framed her face? Yeah? Yeah, it really makes her eyes pop. She's got these pretty blue eyes. You are so cute or a hair stylist, I'm not sure. Yeah, not against hair stylist, but I'm not that. But you've noticed that her hair framed her face nightless? Is that was that your opening line? I'd go for it, man, I'm sure I brought that up. Yeah, I think it's fantastic. So I mean, what was your
cheap date idea? Well, I googled like free and cheap dates, and as I read the things that came up, I decided to come by in a few of them to make it like one cool date. Okay, So I invited her to like walk around this neighborhood, right, but not like someplace that has a bunch of shops in places she might want to go and spend money, but like houses, like pretty houses and stuff. Wait, you like a residential neighborhood totally like people, I mean rich people's yards, and
they're in their houses. Okay, So he walked around basically casing rich people's homes in case you ever wanted to rob them later. Yeah, you know, we would try car door handles to see if they were open and see what he said. No, I'm kidding, I'm kidding. We didn't do that. She seemed to enjoy that. I thought she was having a great time. She was smiling a lot and laughing at I could feel like she was like holding back her laughter because she didn't want to be
too excited. I don't know, but we had a really good time. Wait wait, wait, so wait the date was walking around rich people's houses. No, that was just the first part, okay, because it just so happened that at the end of the neighborhood walk, we came upon this park where there were a free concert. Nice, and so we listened to these old ladies were saying. I mean, they were probably professionals at some point, but they weren't
like famous or anything. They watched old people singing a park. Yeah, and it was mostly old people around or like families with some kids, and it was pretty cool and like nothing was by accident. You know, I planned all of this. I knew exactly you went to start walking through the neighborhood and when we would finish so that the concert would be starting up. And I obviously acted like I didn't know. The free dates a lot more effort and planning than when there you've just spend money and go
out to eat. Yeah, I mean, I mean it was like a work of art, just as a free work of art. It sounds like a lovely date. I thought, So you guys do anything else? Or was that the whole date? No? No, Well then there was a farmer's market at the park. It's famous for having free sample Okay, so we's made the tour of the farmer's market and got like a couple of plates for appetizers, an free everything. Yeah, I mean, it couldn't have been a better free date.
She couldn't ask for more. All right, Well, why do you think she's not calling you back? Then? I don't know. This is what I think it is, she said. I don't remember what she said because that wasn't but it was something that made me laugh, and I said, I love you. What wait, I thought this whole time we were harper on the free date, because that's why you thought she wasn't calling you back nothing. You dropped the elbow,
But I didn't mean it like that. I was just like it just like came out of me because I was enjoying her personality and her sense of humor. O my god, what did you do? Were you backpedally like crazy? No, because it's sort of like ended the conversation. Usually it does if you're on a first date and you tell somebody you love them anything about it or she didn't like show any facial reaction, but we just kind of moved on. Oh my god. I wanted to say some thing,
but I didn't want to. Also didn't like I want to offend her, like make her feel bad, like, oh, just kidding, I actually don't have affection for you, because I did, but it was what I wouldn't said, I love you? Like what else could it be? That has to be it? Right? I would hope not. But that's all I can make of. Did you ever recover from it? Or was how the how did everything end? The rest of the day was Okay, it was great up until
that point. There was effort made after that, clearly, but it wasn't the same, right, okay, And you haven't heard from her since your date. We've texted a little bit, but it looks like it's not going at all, and you haven't brought up the I love you a moment at all. No, I haven't. Okay, Okay, tell her again and just tell her that you meant it, ye, double down? All right, Well we'll play a song come back and then call her and see if the fact that you said I love you on your first date is the
reason you're not getting a call back. All right, thank you? All right, get your second day update right after this, looking jubil in the morning. Second if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Joseph is on the phone, and Joseph opened up his heart on his first date, told his date that he loves her, and it was just followed by silence. So the most hurt Joseph has ever felt in his life. Can he recover and get a second date? We're about to find out, Joe, you're
doing all right? Can I just first just clarify maybe I wasn't clear before that, I did not mean to say I love her. Yeah, we got it. We got it. That's how love works sometimes, and loves a cold thing, you know. I meant to say, like you have a great sinse of humor, and what came out was I love you. Joseph accidentally did say I love you, maybe not like I painted the picture earlier, but he did let that out, and he thinks that's why he's not
getting a callback. So we're about to call Stephanie, the girl who went on a date with, and find out if that was what did him in. I do think where you went isn't the accidental I love you, it's the never backtracking from it, because you tried to just skip over it and move on and you've never broughten it up. I was worried of putting my foot in my mouth further and digging a deeper hole. Yeah, okay, but I think now we have to tell her like, that's not what you meant, right I think? So? Yes?
All right, Well I'm gonna dollar phone of it right now and see if we can figure it out. Here we go, Hello, he all right, May I speak to Stephanie? Please? This is Stephanie. Hey, Stephanie. How are you? This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Hello, Hello, Hi Stephanie, how are you? Um? What is Brooke and jew BWL. It's a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, okay, And I'm calling you today because we have a listener who sent us an
email asking if we could get you on the phone. What. Ye, his name is Joseph and no no, no, no no, no no no, yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah Joseph and you guys went on a date a little while ago. Yes, yeah, so Joseph email. That's because he says that it's obvious after your date that you don't want to see him again. Yeah. Uh, it's all true. God, did you I mean, did you like Joseph? I mean maybe feel really pretty? Uh went to a little farmer's market, which was cute. Um, but
that um, like pretty much out of nowhere. He was like, I love you. Yeah. He told us that that sounds like it was a super awkward moment. Yeah. I don't know, just the rest of the day it was really tense awkward. Is it because you love him too? Oh my god? No, he said he meant it like I mean, you know, you've been in that moment where you like laughing, You're like, oh my god, I love you, like you're so funny.
Like that's how he meant it. At the time. I didn't really he was so upset, Like he honestly started like muttering to himself. Um, and he just it was so sad. I don't know. Wait, and like after he said I love you, he started talking to himself. He would just like, come on, Joseph, I don't know, I don't it was it was fun. But then the next day he texted me and he said that the day was really nice, which was great. Um. And then you know, he told me that he brought up that he was
between jobs. Yeah, he said, he told you that actually where you guys were out. Yeah, and I didn't, you know, I didn't really mind because I know this stuff happened. But he told me that things got really tough. And then he texted me asking if he could move in what who He said, I love you on accident, but he asked you to move in on and he was serious about that. Uh. I think he thought we had some a special connection. Oh my god. I think he was like tired of couch surfing, and um, this was it.
He did not tell us any of this. Great, but you can understand why I wouldn't want to go out with him, right. Did you even respond to him after he asked to move in? No, wouldn't either. That's crazy. We are so yeah, I was guessing you said no, since we're calling you for a second date. Update. Yeah, I don't think I'm a bad person. I just don't need like another roommate. Oh my god. And I now I don't even believe him when he said that he was joking when I said I love you, Now I
think that he was like really serious. Oh no, he like loved my hair and he it was just a little creepy now that I think about it. Um, it was just like so into me. Did he give you a reason why he wanted to move in? Well, yeah, he was telling me about how he's like in between jobs and he's having a really hard time finding another one. But it's like if it's already, if he's already but play for so many months, like how long will he
need to live with me? We can find it out right now because he's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What do you mean? I mean he's listening to this conversation and wants to talk to you, maybe about moving in again. I don't know. Well, I'm not gonna say anything different. Okay, but he is here. I think he's still listening. Joseph. Are you there? Yeah, I'm here, Joseph. You didn't tell us that you asked her to move in? Yeah? Why would not? I TechEd
her like how is she doing? And she was like, oh fine, how are you? And I say, oh, looking, kind of need a place to stay for a few days. So you asked her I'm moving in And she wasn't the only person who got that text. What I mean you asked me to move in? It kind of sounds like you want to move in with me. I mean, I guess I could. I see how you could jump to that conclusion, but maybe you should have sought clarification before you did. Dude, our date even wasn't that good.
I don't know. It's like I could have don't ask a girl to move in after one date. Stop saying I asked to move in? I didn't, Yeah, and you just blamed her like, well, you should have asked for clarification. I think you're the one in the wrong here, Joseph. Whatever, Look, the point is I didn't want to move in with her, and I found a place to stay with somebody else that I used to date, and I stopped on the couch and we didn't have sex. And why are you
explaining all that one bad date? Yeah? Why are you talking about other girlfriends right now? I mean, I just don't know understand why you're making such a big deal about just putting feelers out to see if maybe I could crash there for a few days. Maybe because you'd gone on one date with her and it didn't even go that well. I don't really know her. We didn't go well, it went great. She said she had a good time. I had a really good time. Everybody had
a good time. So I understand. Yeah, So why wouldn't you be living in together? Yeah? Yeah, because if you already told me that you loved me, and then the next day you asked to move in, it's just too weird for me. But it's just two times when I meant one thing and you took it as meaning something else. What did you mean if you didn't mean I love you? I mean, like I love you like I love the way you just told that joke that was funny and match my sense of humor. And then you were quiet
for like half an hour after that. I got I got nervous. I knew I had said somebody well, I knew that. I confused, and and then I got I was okay. I don't know. Wait, Joseph, are you even going out with people to like date them or are you just looking for random places to stay? This this was not that it didn't date her, just because I wanted someplace to stay. And yes, like I've been in the situation before, so I have places that I can stay,
Like it's not a big deal. I'm just waiting for the right job so that has the flexibility so I can do the music and whatever. I don't know, Just the more I think about it, like you put so much effort into that date and then you said I love you and then you asked me to move in, it just doesn't seem like you care about me so much as you care about my couch. I crash, all right, So I understand how you could from all that make
that make that conclusion. And I just think that if you still want to consider that we could go out again and it might not be a bad thing for you if I stayed with you. I cook a clean I'm a person to have a round and h you know, I'm not like I'm not dead weight. Well, you just told me you're staying with an ex girlfriend. Are you seriously asking me to move in again? First, she's not my eth girlfriend. We just dated once and then that's it. Oh my god, you called her your girlfriend. I don't,
and I'm not asking to move in with you. I'm saying that it might be beneficial to you if Oh my god, what do you think, Stephanie, would you like to go on a second date with Joseph? We will pay for it. New roommate. He does the dishes. I do you do laundry? Joseph? Yeah, and I know how to separate everything. I will say a roommate is hard to come by, one that pulls their own weight. What do you think, Stephanie, Will you go off on a second date with Joseph? Will pay for it? No, I've
got roommates. No, thank you. Yeah, that is not shocking. Your roommates want to go on a date. I hope you're joking right now. I don't think he is. Yeah, I don't feel so forget about it. It It wasn't gonna work anyway, Sorry, Bark, wasn't there got a couch to sleep on anyway. I'm sorry, Joseph. No second date for you, no place to crash. That's okay, I'll be fine. Yeah, I'm sure. God loves me and God loves you too. The person listening that's the most sad to this is
the person he's living with currently. She thought, he's fine, we're gonna leave broken jewel in the morning, talking