Second. There's a lot of pressure when you go out on a date with somebody that was set up by friends, you know, because you know the same people, and you can't go back to those people after and be like, yeah, the date was okay, but now that person's gone. I don't know where they went. They just disappeared. You can't because they know them, you know. So it's like, I don't know, it's just been like news reports. They've been missing for like seven to ten days since our date.
I don't know. It's kind of strange. So rule is, don't go out on a date that was set up by friends and then have that person just kind of disappear. If that's what you're planning on doing, make sure that person doesn't have friends. Wow, that's just a little bit of a helpful hint for you before we get into
the second date. Update, Is that what happened to you? Elise? Well, no, I mean I haven't heard from him, but there's no police before because your email said that you haven't heard from him, and I figured something happened, Like it was your plan to have that happen, and you're just trying to play things off so you didn't make him disappear. No no, no, no, okay, she sounds pretty cold blooded, so it is kind of shocking that that wasn't the case. All right, So your email said that you were set
up with this guy through friends. Yeah, so I am recently single. My boyfriend of just over a year broke up with me a couple of months ago, and so I was like, not really sure, you know, if I wanted to go out with someone new. So it took a little bit of convincing, but I finally was like, okay, I'll meet him because they kept playing him up and saying that he was really great. So we met up for dinner, and he was really great. He was a gentleman. We had lots to talk about. There was never like
a weird breaking conversation. What kind of things did you talk about? Just sort of like music. We talked about TV shows that we watch. I think I know why it's not calling you back. It sounds like a really boring day. So do you like TV? Yeah? No, it really was fun, but I was just I was just like a little nervous, like more nervous than I thought
I was going to be. Were you just nervous because you hadn't been on a date in so long, or because you had really built this guy up in your head just because I hadn't been on a date and I hadn't been out with anyone except my ex in so long. But he was really great, like everything that I could have wished for in a guy. Did you point out the whole time how much different he was
in your ex on a first date? I said to him, like in the middle of the date, like I I was just thinking that I hadn't been on a date since I was with my ex, so like I said that to him just because it was on my mind, and he was just like, oh, yeah, I heard. You know. They our friends told me that you would, you know, just broken up with someone. But and then then I was like, but I'm over it, so it's fine. See the secret is you need to do that while crying,
you know. So it seemed vulnerable let the guy in a little bit, Oh you think so, yeah, crying and then talking about how all men are evil and they'll break your heart. That's what you should have said to him next time, I'll tell him. So, how did you react after you brought up your ex? Was that a weird moment or was this something that was glossed over?
I mean, I don't think it was that weird. Like we talked about it for a little while, and he listened to what I had to say, and then at the end of the night he gave me a hug and I said, like, you know, it was really fun and I hope we can do it again, and he was like, yeah, absolutely, that sounds positive. You would think right right now, now, it's been like ten days and I haven't heard from him, Like I text him, but I haven't heard back, and I don't know what's going on.
What have your friends said about it? They basically just said like he's kind of acting weird and like he's not really talking about it. So did you get that feeling like they're lying to you? I don't know. I mean I want to think that my friends wouldn't lie to me, and I mean I would just rather know, like if you're not interested, But I don't get it, because he was interested, like it was a good date. So do you have any theories? Then? Why do you
think that he's not calling you back? I don't Maybe he's seen someone else and he just doesn't want to tell me. But like I would like to know, you know, don't just ghost on me. That's weird. And are you I mean, are you really over your ex? Yeah? I mean it's done. I mean it's over with me and my ex. Are you sure about that? Yeah? Yeah, he was very clear about that. Okay, in your head, I mean, I can't be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. Okay, so you would actually prefer to be
with your X if you could, but I can't. All right, Well, maybe this guy picked up on that. I don't know. That's the only thing I can think. Yeah, I mean maybe he did, but I would love to know what happened and what's going on. All right, we'll play a song, come back, call him and get your second day update then, okay, okay, great, all right, hang up, you're looking jubil in the morning. Second if you're just tuning in for the second date update. Elise is on the phone with us and she wants
to call a guy named Ryan. They were hooked up through friends went out to dinner. I should also mention that she's recently out of a relationship and she is definitely over her ex. As a matter of fact. While she sits there about to make the phone call to find out why this guy isn't calling her back. She's looking at a picture of her ex boyfriend, wishing things would be different. Am I right, Elise? No, you are not.
Alice thinks that the reason this guy isn't calling her back is maybe when she was sharing how she just got out of relationship, it could have seemed like she wasn't really over her X yet and we know that she actually is not over her exit. Well, and that's okay. At least I am as over my ex as I can be at this point. You're kind of you. I'm interested in Ryan. Okay, here's that, which is the first step in recovery. Really, I mean finding someone else to
get interested in for sure. Well, I'm gonna doll the phone number, get him on the phone, and find out why it's not calling you back. Okay, Okay, here we go. If not, then we'll just call your X after Hello. I'm looking for Ryan. Yeah, that's me, Hey, Ryan, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. From what Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. I don't really know what that is,
but okay, well it's a morning radio show. Okay, great, all right, and I'm calling you today because one of our listeners asked me to see if I could get a hold of you. Yeah, you recently went out on a date with a girl named Elise. What. Yeah, Elise emailed us and told us that she really enjoyed going out with you, and then is wondering why wait wait, wait wait, So this is like a radio show and
this girl, yes, I know who you're talking about. She called you, well, she emailed us because apparently you're not responding to any of her text messages or phone calls. Yeah, no kidding, I'm not. But this is just weird. Okay, I understand it's kind of weird. It's a segment that we do on our show called the Second Date Update. Do you mind telling us why you're not calling her back? It was just a frustrating experience, That's all I can really say. Okay, what was so frustrating about it? All
I can say is we're not really compatible? Okay, why wouldn't you just tell her that? Then? If it was that easy? Okay, listen, it was just a very frustrating experience. I really don't want to revisit it. Okay, but can you give us a little bit of why it was frustrating so that at least we can shed some light on it for her. She just made a comment that really pissed me off. What was it? She just said something that was like totally inappropriate and it was pretty offensive.
Did she mean to be offensive or was she just saying something was totally ignorant? No, it seemed pretty intentional. It was pretty cold and calculated if you asked me, Wow, she didn't seem that rude. We talked to her a little bit about your date. She didn't seem like somebody who would be rude. Well, listen, I'm surprised too. Like, initially I thought she seemed like a nice person and then she like shrew this thing at me, and I was like, wow, okay, wow, not who I thought you were.
You gotta tell me what it is. She's just a hater and I don't want to deal with people like that. Oh my god, what did she do? Was she rude to the white staff or something? No? So, like, we were having conversations during dinner, okay, and I told her that I liked to cook. I cook a lot. And I told her that I particularly am very very fond of the Barefoot Contessa on a Garden. Like I've seen all of her shows. I have all of her cookbooks. Is that a cooking show? Are you kidding me? Is
this a radio show? Me break? This is barely a radio show. I don't watch the Food Network or what it is it on the Food I don't even know where that is. I've never heard of it. It's yeah, of course it's on the Food Network. I in a garden, the Barefoot Contessa in the Hampton's she's cooking meals for like Spielberg and stuff. Hello. Sorry, Sorry, I didn't know who she was. Maybe I'll check it out sometime. I mean, I'm from the sounds of it. I'm sure I'll like it. Yeah,
it'll change your life. Kay. I think she's like the most she's like the most amazing woman that's ever lived. Wow, and the least responded in extremely rude way. It was incredibly disrespectful. What did she say to you? First of all, she laughed at me. She like dropped her fork and openly laughed. Like everyone in the restaurant turned and looked. She was just laughing her face off at me. Because you like the Barefoot Contessa because I like the barefoot contests.
Apparently that's hilarious. No so, but then she says, in a really loud voice, she goes that, lady, she's the worst. And I was like speechless, could not I was like, what she said that she didn't like the Barefoot Contessa. And yes, she said she did not like the Barefoot Condessa. Not only that she didn't like her, she said she was the worst. And then she went even further. She said she is so fake, her show is so boring and oh my god, okay, and her recipes are like
so simple. There for like a middle school cafeteria. And I was like, oh, you have got to be kidding me, lady, you got to bed. You're that into cooking. This is bigger than food. This is yeah, this food's amazing. This is this is about this woman, this incredible soul. Okay, And and to disrespect her like that, I don't think so not on my watch. I was like, you both a Barefoot Contessa, you're coming from me? Are you joking? Yeah? I'm sorry, maybe okay, maybe you didn't hear me. She
said she's the worst. It's like she insulted, not only in a garden, but she insulted me. I mean, like she just sort of said, what I believe in the thing that I care about the most is a joke. And like, you know what, lady, I'm going to toss his table over and walk out because this is so crazy to eat. Well, don't you don't you wish that you could tell Elise off a little bit then, I mean, and let her know. No, I don't want to have
anything to do with her again. That's Justo's dead to me. Okay, all right, well I should probably not tell you this, but I'm gonna tell you anyway. Elise is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, Ryan, Wow, this is just getting better and better. This is amazing. I Am like, I don't even know what to say. Yeah, you certainly knew what to say to the other night
about the barefoot contenda. That was pretty clear. I I like, I'm I had no idea that I offended you, and I'm so sorry. I just I can't I can't believe that you're you're so worked up over this. I mean, I oh, I don't know if I don't know if you had said something to me about telling that you care about a great deal and I laughed at it and threw it back in your face. You wouldn't have been offended by that. You gotta be. I mean, but I I yes, she's not my favorite, but I don't.
It's not like I said I hate her, she's the worst. She should you know, jump off a cliff or like I just said, I prefer the show with Giada, And I like, oh my god, that was like fake through my heart. It was like a stake through my heart when you said that you want to talk. Do you think Nah is fake? That is fake? I mean that is like you open up the hctionary the worst fake and there's a picture Giada that's shop fired over cooking network pies. She's not really a Hellian, She's from Long
Island or something. I mean, come on, And then she does, like, you know, the Italian accent when she says Italian words and the rest of the time she has no accent. It makes you want to puke. It's like it's disgusting. That is like capital f FAKA. I don't understand. You just went silent and then we moved on with the conversation. But we could have talked more about it if you were so upset. I didn't. I just don't understand. I don't. I don't think I said anything that was so horrible.
I just said, oh, I don't stop saying that. Please stop saying that. I mean, I can't even who would say anything like that about the Barefoot contest. I would ever say something about disagree on things every day. This isn't the disagreement, okay, it's this is about the thing that I care about the most in my life, and you just tested all over it. You're just like, oh, what a waste of time, what a loser you are? Well,
thanks a lot, lady. Thanks. Do you think that maybe it's unhealthy to like the Barefoot and Tessa that much? I don't. I don't even want to talk about this anymore. I'm just this is exhausting. I'm just frankly, I'm surprised that this whole time we've been on the phone, Alice has not actually apologized to me. Alice, do you want to apologize? Well, I am very sorry that I afolded you. Do not apologize. I'm not going to apologize for feeling the way that I feel, or having a conversation and
disagreeing with you, but it wasn't a disagreement. It was a full on attack. And anything less than that that you're insane. At this point. I would love to ask you, guys, if you will go out on a second date, we will pay for it. Got to be kidding me. Maybe you just need some more time together to talk about your favorite cooking shows and the Barefoot Contessa and get on the same page. Guys, I think I'm okay, Yeah, absolutely not. I don't want to see her ever again period.
All right, Okay, I did not see this turn of events happening. But Ryan, thank you for your time, and I'm sorry you had to endure Elise center hatred of the Barefoot Contessa. Yeah, okay, whatever, Yeah, Elise whoa, Well, thank you wearing that up for me. Guys, No problem, Hey, welcome back to single life. I can't wait to see what nut dub I'm gonna get. It's got a text in at seven eight, five to nine two that says that dude Ryan is going to be on TMZ sometime soon.
Found hiding in the Barefoot Contessa's kitchen cabinets. It's broken jewel in the morning talking about today's second date update. This girl named Elise wanted to call a guy named Ryan to find out why he wasn't calling her back after they went on a date. It turns out she did something terrible and insulted his favorite cooking personality, the Barefoot Contessa. He was hot too. It really angry about it. I don't think we've had anyone on this show as
passionate is that guy about anything, let alone a cooking show. Yeah, and people are texting in at seven, eight, five to nine two. Now it's moved on from them just commenting on the second date update, and now they're just arguing about which cooking show is the best. Somebody's texting in like that GeoDa girl is the worst. I can't stand her. Someone else texted in she probably likes Bobby Flay. Yeah, yeah,
this is why che Yeah, and everybody knows. The best personality in the cooking world out there is Guy Fieri. Everybody knows that. Yeah, I'm the coolest chef ever. I frosted my tips. I look like the guy from smash Mouth from the nineties, remember him. I'm a badass. Sweet glasses on backgroun from the back of my head. It is impressive that he's still trying to bring flame shirts back. It really so there you go. Screw the second date update.
It's all about the hot topic today and that is who is the best and worst chef out there on TV. Remember if you want to do a second date update, to email the show. We would call the person that didn't call you back.