Second Date Update PODCAST: Fly In Surprise

creepy right from the get go. I'm not a creepy and just a bit confused. Okay, sometimes there's a thin line between creepy and I've been a victim of that many times. You have a pretty interesting situation, Abigail, Why don't you tell everybody? First of all, the guy that you want to call? What's his name? Brian? Brian? And

how did you meet Brian? Well, you know, I'm little leary on going on online dates and meeting guys on dating websites because they're usually either nuts, ugly or snelly or just not just not that it sounds like so many great options. I don't know why you're so upset about this, But you know I tried. I gave it a shot one more time, and I met Brian, and I gotta tell you that we hit it off immediately. It went from zero to sixty in virtually no time. So you liked his aroma. He had a good roma.

I mean, for when I could smell over the phone, he was great. Oh say, you're saying it from zero to sixty before you guys even met in person, right, I mean, it was instant attraction via conversation. His profile picture looked great, and then I did a little more digging and found his Facebook profile and I realized it's really what he looks like. Huh, how did you get his tax returns? It sounds like you put in a lot of effort. Have I done a little more digging? Needy? Yeah?

I mean that's a lot of pressure to put on a date when you've been disappointed so many times. Were you worried about that? I was, and that's why I did my due diligence and we talked for hours. I mean, there was nothing I couldn't discuss with him. We text me at least five times a day. How long was this going on before you guys actually decided to meet in person just about a month. Whoa, that's a long time. I really wanted to see him. But the thing was

he lived two states away. Oh, so the whole logistics of meeting each other was really difficult. I see. I was going to say, like, what took so long? Did that make sense? But I thought we had kicked it off so well. I wanted to do a grand gesture of romance. And one night when we were chit chatting, he was telling me his best friend's birthday was that weekend and where they were going to be and what plans were, And I thought, wouldn't it be cool if

I flew down and surprised him? Who for your first meeting? I mean, we had chatted for so long, this was inevitable that one of us is going to fly in to meet the other. But a surprise and just showing up as a whole different ball game if you don't know him that well yet. But it could I mean I could see where it could pay off, Like it could be amazing thing, or it could be really bad. So how was it when you saw him for the first time? I just started drooling. He was so gorgeous.

Oh my god, Wow, Well maybe that's why he's not calling you back. You just showed up randomly out of the blue with drool all over. It's a good boy. And how did he react? Was he drooling as well? Was it just a big spitfest? He was kind of taken aback. I basically came up behind him and tapped his shoulder, and he turned around and he got white as a ghost. He was shocked. Okay, wait said the scene. Where were you guys when you tapped him on the shoulder?

Were you at the birthday party? Yeah? I showed up at the restaurant where the birthday party was. Whoa, that's a very bold move. Well, because I didn't know where he lives, so this is the only way I could get in contact. So what did he do? I mean, after he recovered from the initial shock, did he hug you? Did he kiss you? I mean the first thing he did was say, what are you doing here? And I told him I thought it'd be a really cool surprise to you know, shock you and be here, and thought

it'd be really romantic. And then for most of the night I ended up speaking to his friends and not much to him. But you got to understand I mean, I knew he had to speak to other people who was his best friend's birthday, so I let it go. I figured, hey, that's what he has to do. So wait, hold on, like, how is he introducing you to his friends? Well, he really wasn't. I mean, one or two times that I'd bump into him, somebody would come up to him and say, oh, and you are, and he would say, oh,

this is a friend of mine. Okay, okay, oh, And I thought, well, you know, it is really new. We haven't really told people about us. So I get it. He wanted to keep it on the down low. I get that. I'm starting to worry about you. I mean after the birthday party, what happened, Well, when we got to the end of the night, people started leaving, and it was basically he and I and his best friend. And I started talking to him and I said, well, I'm here now, and he said how long are you

here for? And I thought that was odd that he would ask me when I'm leaving when we were just met. When I said to him, I'm here tomorrow, eve, maybe we can have lunch or brunch tomorrow and or maybe even right now, let's go for another drink or a cup of coffee, and he said he was really busy. He had a lot of commitments the next day, but I was like, okay, maybe you can spare an hour. I did fly all the way out here. He said, you know what, we'll set up date for when I

can either fly out to you. Were you to fly out here again? Were you crushed? I was crushed until he said, let's see we can figure out a time to meet up again. Oh so I thought there was some hope there. No, you know, maybe he really was busy the next day. I don't know. You are so nice to this man. Well he's something special. How many times have you tried to get a hold of him since that weekend? It's been a week so far and I only heard from him once, and that also through texts,

So it's not like it was before. Oh my gosh. And you're sure he's single right from what I understand. I didn't see any rings on his finger, and I see any other woman around. Okay, good, Okay, Well we'll play a song, come back call him, and then get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning. Update If you're just tuning in for today's second date update. It's the kind of

thing that movies are made about. Abigail's on the phone and Abigail met the man of her dreams online and they chatted back and forth every single day, every single night for weeks until Abigail decided to show up unannounced at a birthday party. She flew all the way there to surprise him, tapped him on the shoulder, and he turned around and she said, Abigail's home. Abigail, I think I've seen that movie before, but I don't think that's what that is. Sort of what happened. Abigail did surprise

this dude that she'd been talking to online. They live in different states, and she actually showed up to a birthday party that he was at unannounced and was hoping that everything would go great. But when she got there and surprised him, he was kind of weird and sort of ignored her the rest of the night and they haven't really talked since. Abigail, Hi, sounds just like what you said, JU, I mean, very similar. I'm really not a stalker, I promise. Well. I have a whole different

scenario in my head. Abigail Abigail, You're so sweet. It just makes me so angry because it sounds like you guys really connected and he really led you down this path and he's just a jerk. I don't know how else to say it. She didn't show up out of the blue, unannounced, like from states away. That could creep a guy out, but he was given her the wrong signals. Man. I really got the feeling that we had the connection, and he would have loved this romantic gesture. All right,

well we'll find out. I'm a dala his phone of her right now and see if we can talk him and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, okay, Hello, Hi, can I speak to Brian please? This is Brian. Here's this Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sor are you Jewbil from Brook and Jewbil in the Morning? Weird? Ways, I know it sounds weird. Yeah, I don't. I don't know what you're talking about, man, I figured you wouldn't.

That's fine. Brook and Jewil in the Morning is a morning radio show. Okay, okay, and that's I'm calling you because one of our listeners actually asked us to reach out to you. All right, sure you got the hype, Brian, I'm I'm pretty sure I do. I'll check. Do you know a girl named Abigail? Yeah? Okay, well we know a girl named Abigail as well. And she's really confused because she thought you guys had a great relay and ship for a few weeks until she decided to just

fly into town and surprise you. And she said you seem kind of cold to her, and now you haven't really talked to her since you can understand why that. She's going to like any length possible to get some sort of answer, Like if you put that much energy into seeing someone and then they suddenly shut down, Like, that's got to be really confusing. Let me get this straight. Then she had you guys to reach out to contact me.

That's what you're selling me, yes, because you won't really give her an answer and you're kind of being cold. Thicket is this is crazy, man, It's not really that crazy. I mean, she just wants an answer. I just can't believe that she's doing all this just to get in touch with me. Yeah, but you guys wish you're like texting like five times a day for a whole month to nothing. Yeah, and she liked you a lot, Brian, and talking to you right now, I can understand why

you seem like a sweet dude. Yeah, I normally am, but not when like radio shoes call me my personal life. We get that, we do. Can you just tell us anything at least we can talk to her and be like, oh, he just wasn't really feeling you when he saw you in person or something like that. Well, don't tell her that, because I mean that's not true. Really. Yeah, no, yeah, I actually I really do like her a lot. There's this stuff going on, and I just don't want to

get into Oh, you're in a relationship. I knew it. I told her that. I told her that you're She swore she thought you were single. Yeah, I know, I'm definitely single. That's not it. Really. I thought what we had going on was good. I mean, I kind of like, I guess the distance aspect of it. And then for her to just randomly show up at a friend's birthday party, I'm not really expecting it at all. But why did you spend all night avoiding her? I mean, at some point,

if you say that you really like her, Yeah. Well, I guess I just got too real for me having her right there, too real, Like you like talking to her online and on the phone, but to realize you could actually touch up her person. No, I mean it's not necessarily that. It's just there's other stuff. But I understand there's other stuff. But right now, all I understand is you like her a lot. It shocks you that she showed up, and then there's stuff like how is that a message to give to her to help her

understand why you're not talking to her anymore? You know what, whatever, I don't I don't care anymore. I just I need a kidney transplant. Um whoa, whoa, Yeah, Oh that's serious. Yeah, way to take things down, Brian. You guys asked for it. Usually these things end up like, oh I thought they smelled funny or they puked in my back seat. Man,

I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah. Yeah. So is it just that you don't want to get involved in a relationship because you obviously have some serious health stuff that you need to concentrate on pretty much, you know, I just I don't want to drag her into this, you know what I mean? I feel like this is kind of battle right now. By her showing up, I realized, you know, that she really does like me a lot, and I'm just not wanting her to be that close to being around all this like stuff going on. Oh,

I feel so horrible. I thought these awful things about you, and now yeah, look at you, Brooks. Seriously, dude, I am sorry. It's all good. It's it's not a big deal. I guess. So did you not tell her about your situation when you guys were chatting online and on the phone and stuff. No, you know, I didn't want to tell her this, you know what I mean, Like, that's like we kept it from a distance, so you know, we can keep it upbeat and I have to kind of like talk about all this stuff. Yeah, you know,

I just I really just enjoyed her conversation. And sometimes, you know, when there's a lot of bad stuff going on in your life, to have somebody there to kind of just talk to you and you know, just kind of laugh with and stuff like that, it kind of brings you up. So I didn't want to like kind

of bring her down by the transplant. Yeah, and you're able to escape your own stuff too, you know, Brian, You're You're kind of making this difficult on me because this would normally be the point where I'd try to deliver a witty line and then tell you that the person is on the other line listening to the conversation. But I don't have any witty lines, so I'm just going to connect you too so you can talk. Okay, Wait she on another line now? Or what do you

mean by connect us? Yeah, she's listening to this phone call and wants to talk to you. Oh my god, man, are you kidding it? Like I just I didn't even want her to know. Yes, Unfortunately she does know, now, Abigail, are you there? Hi? Brian? Hey, Sorry, I didn't really want you to find out this way. No, I'm sorry. I don't even know what to say. I'm sorry. I'm sure you don't mean you don't have to say anything. I mean I know that I didn't tell you, so

there's no way you could have known. It's just I don't know. I didn't know how connected I was going to get with you, and then I just, I guess I got worried about actually telling you. So, but I want you to know something. I care about you more than you can imagine. I'm here. If you want to talk, I'm here. If you mean to make you laugh, I'm

there for you. I really appreciate that because, I mean, I don't know, I got scared once you got down there and you know, actually seeing you, and it made it seem too real, and I just, I guess I pushed you away a little bit and didn't want to, you know, get too close. Listen, get close if you need me to do anything or help you, or just put a smile on your face whenever you need me. Yeah, I just You're such a sweet person. I don't want you to get all caught up in this and then

something good wrong. Right now, I'm on a waiting list. I'm not you know, there's no guarantee of when I'm gonna be able to give the transplant. And honestly, Abigail, I really care about you and I really want to, you know, keep you in my life. And at the same time, because I care about you so much, I feel like I can't. I don't know. I'm just really torn right now. I mean, I'm willing to take a blood chest. Is there anyway meaning I'm compatible in some way?

You know, I don't want you to do that, affygel I really listen. This is this is about kindness. This is the reason why I was put in your life. The chances chances are so slim that that's even possible. I don't have to go through with that, but Brian, there's always a chance. It may be slim, but it's still there. Yeah, But it's just I can't. I can't think about you actually giving up your kidney for me. I can't think about you doing that. I don't. I don't want it to happen. Well, I got too, so

I give one up. It's like a spare time. Wow. I don't even know what to say. At least give me the chance or the opportunity to look into this. Consider it. You have to consider it, Brian. How about this? How about we send Abigail out to you and you guys can spend the weekend together. You can hang out, you can go on a few dates, and you can even discuss a possible kidney transplant in the second date update before. But I'm saying it so I can't believe

it's actually happen right now. Oh my god, we've interested in that, just checking things out. Um, I don't know about the whole kidding. Transplant by the date would be awesome. I would I would love to go on a date. Yes, Okay, so that's it? Yes, yeah, definitely, Yeah, I'm happy to Oh me too. I'm really excited that I'll Actually this has been a really weird second date update. Normally it's the dude who's begging to put his organ in a

woman into I couldn't help it. In the morning, a text in at seven, eight, five to nine too says I was not prepared for those feels this morning. Thanks a lot, guys, too much feels. Talking about today's second day update. It's broken jewil in the morning and if you missed it, Brian and Abigail. Abigail met Brian online and they talked for a long time, like a month, and then she decided to surprise him because he lived

in a different state. She actually showed up to a party that he was at and he was kind of cold and weird, and then he didn't talk to her after and she was confused, so we got him on the phone and found out the reason that he didn't call her back was because he is going through some health issues and needs a kidney transplant and didn't want to call her back because once she showed up, he's like,

I can't put her through all this. Wow. And a lot of people texting in at sevent eight five nine two say they're in tears from the second day up date today, we're so intensely Yeah. I went from like zero to one hundred because I thought this guy's a player, Like he's got a girl on the side. You're the reason. You're like, oh no, did you see the text message we got? This says my brother gave a girl a kidney and now they have two kids and have been

married twelve years. Yeah, just even the text message makes me weepy. Well, of course you'd stay with somebody like that because arguments would be so awesome. You're like, dude, take the trash out, I gave you a kidney, take it the trash out let. Somebody text it in at seven eight five nine two and says, can we get back to the yelling and the screaming in the second day? Just way too heavy for me today everyone everyone seems to have dubbed them the kidney couple. Yeah, it is,

but it's also kind of sick. Yeah, I know. And somebody texted in and said, are you really going to send her to meet up with him so they can talk about a kidney transplant? Because she said that she would even be willing to give him a kidney if she was a match. Wow, that's that's love right there. And we often to fly her out there so they could go on a date at least and hang out and talk about it. And are you really going to

send her out there? No, we're not. We're just it's all give cars to Applebe's and tell them to figure it out. Of course we're gonna send her there. You'd like to lead people on with promises of possible kidneys and then rip it away. It's kind of our thing. We're a wacky morning radio show. It's what we do. So we'll send them out there, and everybody texting in at seven, eight, five nine two says you have to

get an update from that couple. We need a second date update update from them, and we will definitely try to do that well. And I hope they continue to like each other through it all, too, because like, what if they are a match and he's like, oh, I'm really just not into this, and then it's not he's not not calling her back to protect her feelings. He just like is calling her all the time to get the kidney, and then after that, you're gonna