Second Date Update PODCAST: Elderly Women be Just as Crazy

I haven't found her yet. And there are a lot of women that don't like younger guys. They feel awkward about dating a younger guy. And that is the problem that I think Tommy is having. Tommy is on the phone for a second date update today, and he went on a date with a girl who's a little older than him. Tommy, how you doing? I've been better to be honest, sound sighted. So what's the girl's name that you want us to call today? Well, I guess I shouldn't call her a girl. She's older than you. What's

this woman's name? Her name is Carrie? Carrie, And before we get into your date, how much older is she and you? Six? Years, So I don't think it's that big of a difference, honestly. And how old are How old are you? Because I mean six years I think is different at twenty compared to twenty six. Yeah I'm twenty six actually, so she's thirty two right now. Yeah, I don't think that's that huge. So tell us a little bit about how you met her. We met online, okay,

volunteering at retirement home. Was that I thought two year olds watch she actually knows how to use the internet at her age. What attracted you to her? She's cute and she has red hair, and I really liked that a lot. She was really funny, she's very outgoing, and so we exchanged a few emails. Everything was really cool. Finally I was like, hey, do you want to meet up? And and we had talked about bowling and she seemed excited about that, so I said, yeah, you want to

go bowling? So, and did she know your age when you guys started this conversation? Yeah, it's on my profile Okay, okay, so she knew what she was getting into. You know, she's insane right because she's her redhead and red hair. She's an old, insane lady. You want to call this woman, tom Yeah, yeah, I'm sure. All right, tell us a little bit more about bowling. We had a great time, We had a drink, we played two games. I mean,

everything seemed to be to be going really well. And then I said at the end, you know, hey, do you want to do you want to grab another drink? And she's like, no, I can't do it. I'm a little tired and I have an early morning tomorrow. But the thing about old women, they get tired at any point. Tommy didn't. Did you guys have a moment where your age came up or there was a difference in it was all just pretty light and easy, like everything was really good, you know, I didn't. I didn't get a

sense that there was any strangeness. There was no age gap. In my opinion, we felt like peers. So she said she had to go home. She said she had to go home. And then after the date she text me and she said, I had a really good time, but I think I might be too old for you. Yeah, And I just texted her back and I said, no, it's not an issue for me. I would really like to see you again. And nothing, no response at all, none, no, maybe she just can't figure out how to work the phone.

She's like, it's a rotary phone. So you know, the exact reason why she doesn't want to see you. She feels like she's too old for you. But you want to do a second date update, Yeah, you know, I really want to go out with her again, and I just want to convince her that my age doesn't really matter, like we had a good time. Age ain't none but a number, and then we could probably play who is

that Aliyah? Yeah, we could probably play that song for you even But you want to tell her not to worry about the age and go out with you again. I think it's ridiculous. We have a connection and that shouldn't be the reason that we don't see each other.

Are you not prepared? Tommy? Though? If it's for reasons like she wants to have kids, or she wants to get married or that kind of stuff, I mean, if it's the right girl, then yeah, you know, I don't want to say I'm ready to get married to her, but you know, those are definitely things that I see in my future. And so if that's what she's worried about, if she's the right person, then Yeah, six years is not going to prevent that from opening. Dating an older

woman doesn't bother you at all. No, And I don't even see her as an older woman, but I think she maybe has a complex about being six years older than I am. So all right, we'll play a song, come back, get her on the phone, and get your second day update. Okay, yeah, please, all right? Brooking jubil in the morning date. Hey, Tommy, Yeah, I'm gonna make your call for the second day update in just a second. But while i'm doing it, I want you to think

about something. Okay, Okay. When I get her on the phone and while I'm talking to her, I want you to be thinking about all of the positives that there are to dating a younger dude as opposed to dudes her age. Right, what do you have that these old guys don't have? You got more stamina? Probably, student loan debt, maybe worst credit, probably probably credits worse, you know, but find a way to turn those into a positive when

you get her on the phone. If you're just doing it for the second day update, Tommy went out with a girl who is older than he is. She actually texted him after they went out and said that she thinks that he he is too young for her, so she doesn't want to see him again. Tommy's goal here is to get her on the phone, find out if that actually is the problem or if there's more to it, and then see if he can still get a date with her, because he says that age shouldn't matter. The

age is irrelevant to me. I really do think it's irrelevant like that to me sounds like just a poor excuse. And you do really like her. It's not just a something you know, you want what you can't have type of situation totally. I mean, I wouldn't go through all this trouble if it was kind of, you know, just sort of a lukewarm date, like we had a really good connection. And I hate her. I hate her, that's why.

Then show her despise this lady people who only want to talk to them to figure out what's wrong with them, not necessarily because they really wanted to see him again. All right, Tommy, here we go. I'm gonna doll the phone him right now. Okay, Okay, cool? Hello? Hey is Carrie there? Yeah? This is hey Carrie. How are you? This is j Bowl from brook and Jebil in the

morning the rains. Yeah, I'm calling you because you recently went out on a date with one of our listeners and he's been trying to get a hold of you but he can't, so he asked us to call you. Okay, he goes by the name Tommy, and you and him enjoyed a little bowling action. Yeah, what is this? Well, Tommy told us a little bit about your date, and he also said that you texted him the other day and said that you think that you're too old for him.

So he emailed us in hopes that we could get you on the phone and ask if that's really the reason why. I mean, he was really nice, he was great. I mean, like I enjoyed meeting him. I just did you know that he was six years younger than you before you went out with him? Though? Yeah? So why, Like, to me, that would make me think that there's something else, Like you just don't want to see him. If you already knew that he was younger than you, why would you even go out on the first date. Well, I

mean people can surprise you, you know. I mean I went into it hoping that he was going to kind of fit what I'm looking for. What are you kicking for right now? Oh? God, the radio now telling us everybody about what I'm looking for. Um, I'm getting older, you know, and I'm I just you know, I have a plan and i'd like to be pregnant by the end of the year. W year, but like by the end of a year from now. And Carrie, you're not that old. Tommy sounds like a young, virile man to me.

You don't want to maybe see if Tommy could be the guy to do that for you. I've got the goods. I mean, he's great, like I said, I mean totally like a great guy, you know, and really cure and fine, like we had a good time. I don't think he's where I want him to be. You're ready to have kids right away, and you think Tommy's maybe a little too immature for you. Well, I mean okay, like he's not as tall as he said he's gonna be, and like that's important to me when I'm saying, I mean

I'm very short. I want my children to not have that day straight. You don't like you think that he's too short, and you don't like his genetics. Look, I told him, I mean I think I feel like I did it like nicer. I mean, he's a great guy, and he's great for somebody, but for somebody who's paranoid about my kids being short little trolls, and that's and

that's a reflection of me, not him. Right, So you're sizing up guys that you go out with based on they're height and everything else because you want to have a kid that is like a certain way. Look, my family is sure and I'm trying to stop this awful Did he did he lie in his dating profile? Is he a lot shorter than he said? Oh? Yeah, I mean his dating profile said he was like five to eleven, So I was like, great, that works for me because I mean it's not extremely tall, but he was very

person like me. That's that's exciting. And he turned out to be like five to seven, making like five six. But don't you think, I mean, like I get it, Like there's a timeline you want to meet, the timeline you want to have the babies. Do you care about the husband, because from the sounds of it, it it sounds like you're looking for a sperm donor. I've thought about it, but it does seem like it's more fun to do

it the old fashioned way. All right, So when I go back and talk to Tommy and tell him what you said, do you want me to leave out the part about him being short and having horrible genetics and you just wanted to tell him because he's too young. Yeah, I don't want him to be hurt. All right? Well, unfortunately I can't do that because Tommy's on the phone. Are you serious right now? Is it really the reason for me? I'm really sorry that you heard this this way.

I never meant for this. I'm five nine, so I don't know where this five six is coming. If you're looking for some tall guy, you're totally disregarding every single other feature that I have. Like I was a high school athlete, I was a college athlete, I played tennis. There's no one in my family who does not have a full head of hair. You're gonna meet a tall

guys himself, What do you think about that? I just feel like you're looking for something that's like, yeah, you're gonna get a tall guy maybe, but he's not gonna have everything that I have every single person in my family. Is a comment, Tommy, Are you saying, Tommy? Tommy? One second?

Are you saying that you're willing to get Carrie pregnant? Now, No, I'm just basically saying that she's petty like this really, like two inches is gonna keep her from going out on a date with me again because she just wants Basically, you're just looking for a stud to impregnate you, and that's just weird first off, and you're not being up front on your profile. Wow, well, I mean if I'm

petty and selfish, I mean, see, this wasn't the right set. Okay, this wasn't the right set, and now it's gotten really dramatic and weird and overblown. Where I tried to make it. I tried to let you have it you were too young and that you had the life I had of you, and then I'm too old. I gave you that. I mean, like, go on, I understand, but you gotta be a little realistic with your expectations. I'm just trying to be a hardcore because I'm just at a different place in my

life than you. I have a I have a clock that I have to worry about it and you don't. So you made some say you like me right, like you're you're not forty two years old. You're acting like you're forty two right now. I am the total package. There are plenty of people that would recognize that. But you're just looking for something that you're not gonna get, And I just I gotta be honest with you. You're

not gonna find whatever you're looking for. But I guess temperament isn't one of your good genewhere and a weird Carrie, don't you think you're looking for the wrong the wrong thing though. I mean, I just had a baby, and I think that it's way more important to find a partner and someone that will be in this with you than two more inches of height. You're gonna love your child. I'm on Carrie's side right here. It's all about upgrading

your genetics, you know what I mean. Plus, her kids are gonna have red hair too, so they're gonna have a heart at that time. We have a hard road out you guys. M Well, it sounds like I know the answer to this. But Carrie, would you like to go out with Tommy again? I will pay for a second date. I mean, let's not push this any further. Yeah, there's no way that we're going out again. So no, no, look, I'm sorry I had to find out like this. You're

gonna have pass your jeans along. You'll probably end up with some tall, gorgeous Amazon and you guys will have amazing, tall, wonder babies and they'll never have to deal with the things I have to worry about. Carrie, thank you very much for your time. Carrie, Oh, thank you. Appreciate you

being honest. Tommy, no second date, man, I'm sorry. Yeah, no worries, but kind of a cool thing for the second date update, I never thought we'd be doing one with a female version of Hitler, which is interesting.