Second Date Update PODCAST: Don’t Sleep There

reading your email. I don't even know why you want to call him back. Oh no, no, it's not weird. He's not. You're sure about that, because the way that you describe the situation in your email sounds very odd to me. Before we get into what I think is weird, why don't you just tell us about your date a little bit. Where'd you meet this guy? And then I'm online there's a dating website and we were talking for

a while. What about his dating profile? Are like, Yeah, this guy, I don't know, you seem cute and me chatted for a little bit and hit an amazing smile and he hit these ice blue eyes. So so what do you guys do for your date. We went out for drinks, but the bar closed early, so I suggested we go back to my place and chill, and we bought some cheap wine and we need popcorn, and we ended up watching YouTube videos on my couch. Did you have a plan when you invited him back to your place? No? No,

I just it was going well. You know, I had good conversation and I just wanted to continue it and seemed like the easy thing to do. This is where the weird part comes in for me. Okay, Yeah, it's not so much during your date, at least the way you described it in your email. And maybe there's something else that I don't know about, but you said that you and him kind of got into an argument about where he was going to sleep because it was drunk and didn't want to go home, and he apparently wanted

to sleep in your roommate's bed really bad. Yeah, with your roommate. No, my roommate was gone, so he just really wanted to sleep and it hurt bed. See that's what's weird to me. Yeah, and I maybe you made it clear that he wasn't going to sleep in your bed, which is fine. I mean I would have I would have left at that point, but I mean the couch was an option. There were other options from to sleep, but he was insistent on wanting to sleep in your roommate's bed. Yeah. I was so out of it. I mean,

that's my roommate's room. I respect face. She is a neat freak. She everything is spotless. And he said, oh, I'm super clean and he is respectful, and he just wanted to he's not comfortable on the couch, and I just said no. I mean, he said, why don't he text her? And I was like, no, I can't not even bringing this up to her. So I made him sleep on the couch. I don't like to sleep in

any stranger's bed. Yeah, I don't know where their sheets, but I don't know who they've had in their bed, you know what I mean, Like, I would rather sleep on your couch. I mean, she had been drinking. I don't know if he would have done the same thing if he hadn't been drinking. Why didn't he just take

a cab home? You know, at that time, it's might just be easier to crash, wake up refreshed, and you know, he had more sleeps basically, you guys or drunk, and it seemed like the best option instead of getting Maybe he was hoping that if he slept there, you would come in and wake him up, you know what I mean? Yeah, all right, So he slept on the couch and did you guys talk? The next morning he has left. By the time I woke up, he was gone. Have you

heard anything else from him since that night? No. I try to call him once and it's been a week and a half since I called him, and he never responded. Okay, So and you only called that one time? Yeah, I only called that one time. Okay. From the way he was acting at the end of your date, I'm surprised you want to call this dude back. But no, But the rest of the date was really, really fun, except for the fact that he wanted to sleep in your roommates bed really bad. Yeah, I know, it was amazing.

It was an amazing date. I wouldn't have suggested he come back, and I was excited. Well it's okay, Well we're gonna play a song, come back, see if we can get him on the phone and get your second date up date. Okay, okay, all right, hang on point five looking jubil in the morning, Seate. We're talking to Tor right now. She just told us about her first date with a guy named Luke. They met online. They

had a good time. Nothing really crazy happened, except when they were back at her place and it was time for bed. He was insistent did he stay in her roommate's bed. They had like a little bit of an argument about it. He ended up sleeping on the couch because she wouldn't let him sleep in the roommates bed. The roommate was out of town, and I guess he was like, no, it's fine, let me sleep in there.

I want to sleep in the roommates bed. I just think it's really weird that a guy would insist and argue with you to the point where you actually, you know, had to be like, no, sleep on the couch, You're not sleeping in my roommate's bed. I think a lot of this was just him being drunk. Okay, well, I'm gonna doll the phone. We're right now. See if we get him on the phone and get your second date up dated? You ready? Yeah? All right, here we gollo all I was looking for Luke. Yeah, this is Luke.

Luke how are you. This is Jebil from Brook and Jubil in the Morning. What this is Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. I think you might have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure I have the right number. My name is Jubil j B. Yes, ju B a L if you want to Google it or follow me on Twitter, whatever you can. We're calling from a radio show because you recently went out on a date with on our listeners and they asked us to call you. I know it's weird, Okay, I'm yeah.

I'm sorry to feel like a joke here, Luke. I'll explain to you. Okay, So you recently went out with a girl named Tori who listens to our show, and she emailed us and asked us to see if we could get you on the phone and find out if something went wrong on your date or if you just didn't like tor and you don't want to go out with her again. Okay, what exactly did she tell you?

She just told us that you guys met online, went out to the bars, ended up going back to her house after drank a little bit and went to bed, and she woke up the next morning and you were gone, and she's tried to call you, but you haven't responded to anything. I think it's been like a week and a half. So and that's all she said. Yeah, that's it is. There is there something else. She didn't talk about her dog. She did not talk about her dog. We just talked about her date with you. We didn't

even have any idea she had a dog. Yeah, yes, No, she has a little piece of dog. You don't like her dog, okay? Me? Oh the dog bit you? What she has a little dog and the dog bit me and I was bleeding and she didn't care and I went. But that was gonna be my question. Did she see the dog a by you? Yes, she thought she's just rude. Okay. So she didn't apologize for it or punish the dog. She didn't do anything. She just sat there. God, you were kind of drunk, right. Did you do anything to

the dog? Did you provoke it in any way? I pet it, I touched it like you do with a dog, and then it bit you. Okay, But Luke, you can't blame her for her dog biting you. Hell no. But if she's not training the dog properly, I should at least say I'm sorry or yeah something. I would be mortified if my dog bit someone. So that's why you don't want to go out with her again. Because her dog bit you and she didn't apologize. Yeah, and on top of that, she wouldn't let me sleep in her

roommate's bed. She made me sleep on the couch. And she's a man, she's according to her, all right. According to her, you guys had a great time, other than the fact that you got into a little bit of an argument about sleeping in her roommate's bed, which, by the way, I think is kind of strange. But other than that, she says, anjama, what else am I gonna do? All right? Well, other than that, she says, you guys had a great time, you obviously feel the opposite. Yeah,

she's rude. You can tell her. I said that. Okay, I don't want to see you again, all right? What else you need? Um? Well, I do have one more thing, Luke, before I let you go. I appreciate you being honest with us. I'm sorry that you had to put up with Tori's rudeness. Normally, I you know, I wouldn't take that from a listener of ours being rude to somebody. But what I need to tell you that Tori is actually on the other line. Yeah him, this is I'm sorry,

I'm gonna go this. I don't want to do this. Hey, hang on, Luke, Luke, at least talk to Tori. We'll talk to her about how you feel that she's rude. Maybe you know rude. You're rude, would teacup Pomeranians. You didn't apologize. Yeah, yeah, I warned you to not waive the popcorn and see his face, but you did it, so you got what you deserve. Whatever. It doesn't matter doctor but me and you didn't apologize, and so I'm not interested. You need to get a muzzle for that thing.

You need a muffle. What kind of dog did you say? It was, Tory? It's a he up hummering and it's literally like five pounds. Not even that thing couldn't have done that much damage. Really, I was bleeding. I don't know what else to say. You've made it sound like she had a Rottweiler. It's a tiny dog. And I did not break the skin. I'm sorry. I did not see bleeding all over my floor. I was bleeding. You're blind. You were breeding. No, I know that, are you? This

is a tiny dog? How tall? Are you acting like a bit? Your arm off? Don't be all right, I have nothing to say to you. You're dog really wow to toy if you think I'm rude, but then you wanted to sleep in my roommates said, I mean, if someone offering the bottom line, here is your rude. I had a terrible night. Obviously you think we had a good one, and I just don't want to see you again. Clearly I was wrong, and clearly you are as weird as everyone thought you are. No idea. Everyone would be

asking me, why are you calling this guy? Yeah? I mean you know what they were right, Hey, Luke, Luke, I appreciate it. Don't go anywhere yet. I still have one more thing to ask you, and I will let you go. Okay, fun, hurry up, all right. I just want to ask if you would go out with Tory on a second day. We'll pay for it, Luke. Is that a real question? Come on, man, I'll pay for it one more chance. All right, there you go, Luke. Hey, Tori, Wow, Tori,

you got your answer. Apparently Luke thought you were the rudest person on the planet. I feel like he was extremely pushy and I was just being courteous. Okay, yeah, at the beginning of this phone call to Guy, ever, I love him. No, I mean this is totally different. I had a good time with him. But now, I mean talking about my dog like this, I mean, don't then he's now You still kind of want to calm him though, don't you, Dory, No, no, no, no, let

my dog meet him again. Broken uoble in the morning,