Second Date Update PODCAST: Ditch Me Once Shame On You

a pretty accurate headline. I'd have to say, yeah, oh no, that's not a good fate for the girl you went out with. Your email was a little confusing, So why don't you tell me exactly what happened? Okay, So it was a weird night. I was supposed to hang out with some friends and they couldn't show up. They he texted me, Hey, we're not gonna make it. So I'm just like wandering around downtown board alone till I jumped on tender and said, a you know, let's see if

I can find someone that's close by. Maybe I could, Okay, something else to get into. You know, I like that you are taking lemons and making lemonade. Sir, Hey, what you gotta do, man, all right, so tell us about the lemonade. Okay, So the lemonade's name is Nina. Nina Lemonade. I like it, sweet heart too sugary? Would you think of the Nina lemonade? I gotta say the Nina lemonade

was awesome. Um. So we ended up meeting at a bar, okay, hanging out already with her friends, and she was like, hey, you know, why don't you just come by meet up with us. We're already out, you know, we're close by, so it's a pretty safe situation. And so when I met her, she was cute. I mean she was like hot in a in a weird, quirky way, like she she's not like that girl as you walk in it's like everything stops, but she was. She was. She was like, uh,

like sexy librarian hot. Okay, Okay, so she's business is usual hot, Like she's not hot where everything stopped. She's hot where everything just goes on about its normal pace and she's just in there looking like like that. I did not follow that at all. But you're parking a lot high I like to call that parking lot, Like you walk by here and you're like, you walk by here in the parking lot, You're like, all right, she was okay, and then you just continue onto your car.

She was parking lot. Why are you in a parking lot? I'm so confused. She was beautiful, is what I hear. She was a step up from parking lot hot. She was. She was that middle school teacher that if you see her at the bar, you'd still go for it. Okay, listen, compared to a middle school teacher or something that you look at in the parking lot. But she's compared to a hot middle school teacher, completely different. We're all the same page here, Sean, Oh my god, so lost. How

did the whole evening go though? With her? All right? So, first impression, I went baller on her and I bought drinks for her and her all her girlfriends. Nice, okay, you know, it was all good. We were having great conversation. I was flowing with her and her girls. I was one point with my jokes. And then, you know, I thought I really must have been doing well because her girls branched off and gave me some alone time with her. Yeah.

You know, because if your girls co sign on it, then you're you're your foot's in the door, right, yeah, And I'll tell you I've been out with my girlfriends when they've had a tender date meet up with them, and he did not turn out very good. So we did not leave her side. Oh yeah, because then you're like, you shall not pass. Yeah, well you're just trying to help her out, man, But she was obviously into it

if her girls left exactly. So then we're hanging out, you know, we're sort of kicking it and nuzzled up a little bit, I thought. And so she said, oh, wait, you know, I gotta run through the restaurant real quick. I'll be right back. So I'm waiting and waiting and she never comes back. So she did, dude. But this is the weird part. Now it gets even weirder, right, her girlfriends are still in the next room. Wait, so she's not hanging out with her girlfriend She's like, gone, gone, Well,

this is what I'm thinking. I said, Okay, Well, maybe she's in the next room with her girlfriends and they, you know, they got caught up talking about something or whatever. Running girls due. So I go in there and I'm like, hey, where's Nina, And they were like, you don't know as it what like, it's the only two rooms here, it's where you are and where we were. She's not here and she's not with you. You don't know where your friend is. They're really playing dumb. They're like, no, we

don't know. Last week saw her, she was with you. So I'm thinking, Okay, they're running some kind of game on me. But I don't even understand because it's not like I was some cheap skate. I bought them all drinks. If they're running game, they should have just kept pimping me for the drinks, right, Yeah, yeah, I know, it's sometimes not worth it to be honest. Really yeah, we mean we're women, We make her own money. We can pare her on drinks. We don't need to hang out

with you. If you really suck that bad, okay, that's fine. But would you leave your girlfriend with a guy that you felt suck really bad? No, we're exactly right. Well, so I like, how was the hoose answer? She was like, no, I would never leave my girls. You know, I think that question was more for brothers. But would you leave your girls with the guy that you thought sucks? It is interesting? Have you? I mean, did you text her, that's the thing. Yeah, so I'm texting her. I'm texting her.

I called her. She's not picking up and her girls are still play time. Like they don't know where she is. He can't get any contact with her either. Okay, what are you supposed to do at that point? Can I ask you? Did the group of girlfriends seem concerned that she was gone? They didn't seem concerned, and I think they were lying to you. They knew where she was. Yeah, because if you don't know where someone is and they

really just take off, then I would be worried. I'd be like, oh my god, what did she say to you? Why did she go? Unless they're one of those friends who always takes off, Like who always just gets drunk and wandered off, You're like, whatever, I don't know what happened. I mean, I just want to I want to get to the bottom of I want to figure out what happened. Yeah, that's interesting and it sucks. You got ditched twice in one night, man, exactly, my friends, you know she got me.

All Right, we'll play a song, come back, and then call her and get your second date update. Okay, all right, just go hang out over there. We're gonna go to the bathroom real quickly, rooking Cubil in the morning. Second Date update if you just tuned in to today's second Date update, Sean is on the phone. And Sean is good at a lot of things. Well I don't really know the other things, but I know Sean is good at getting ditched. Pretty much. What Sean is good at

he got ditched by his friends. So he was looking for somebody to hang out with, and you hopped on Tender and then he found a girl named Nina to hang out with. He showed up to the bar where she was at, hung out with her and her friends for a while, and then Nina kind of dipped out and even the friends didn't know where she went. So he's wondering what happened to Nina because she hasn't called him back since he met her that night. All right, Sean, you ready to go? Yeah? And for the record, your

recap really did wonders for myself. I was hoping it would help Sean. We're here for you though, Okay, yeah, I can tell thanks, Yeah, at least for like another five minutes or so. And then, yeah, now, do you just want to find out where she went? Or do you actually want to go out with this girl again? I mean I was very interested, you know, I thought we had a little something going on. So yeah, of course I want to know what happened and where she went.

But I'd be interested in going out again if she could explain this, okay, But if she can't and she just said you suck and I laughed, then we shouldn't. For the story. I'm glad that you found it, so at least I know she is alive. Okay, all right, cool, I'm gonna dial her phone umber right now see if we can get your second date update. Okay, all right, Hello, Hi, can I speak to Nina please? This is Nina. Oh, oh good, You're safe and I've been worried about you.

Who is this? Oh? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. This is Brooke, Hey, Nina, and Jose is the guy that you just heard laugh? Okay? Why am I talking to a bunch of people because we do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not calling them after, they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and find out what happened. And you recently met up with one of our listeners, but now

you're not talking to him. Okay, this is weird. Yeah, I know, I know, I figured it would be. But his name is Sean oh White. Yeah, yeah, he seems like a really cool guy. What wait, hold on, Nina, why are you being so nonchalant about this whole thing? Because he said that you ditched him. I ditched him. Yeah, that's what he says. He said, you went to the bathroom and like didn't come back, ditched him. Oh, oh my god, I guess I did that. Oh god, I can't believe I did that. That was so mean. Yeah,

how are you not? I am so confused by you right now, Nina? You know, how did you ditch him on accident? And then why haven't you responded to his phone calls or anything? Could be honest? When I went to the bathroom, I m I accidentally met up with my ex, and um, you know, obviously we're no longer together, but we just have this chemistry and whenever we tea each other, we just hook up. We can't seem to keep our hands of each other. And you know when you went to the bathroom, you ran into your ex

and like wait home with him. Yeah, we just you know how it is when there's like passion for someone. I just, I honestly like forgot about Sean and we just I was just in the moment and we took off, you know, and I just ended up spending the rest of the night with him. I'm really sorry. I feel I feel terrible, But how are you just now realizing that you did Sean in this whole thing? I know, it was just we just had so much fun at night.

I guess I just completely forgot about Sean. I okay, why not call him back or text him back after you try to get a hold of you. I felt a little weird afterward, you know. I didn't want to tell him. I didn't want to lie to him. I just kind of figured it was a quick situation and he would go away, so I just kind of left it at that. I think that's pretty understandable. Yeah, the only problem is, Nina, he hasn't gone away, because he's actually on the other line listening to this conversation and

was talk to you. Are you serious right now? Is this really real life? Are you serious? You had him waiting on the phone to talk to me this whole time. What are you guys? Oh my god, I'm sorry, but yeah, he was waiting this whole time to talk to you. And now I guess he knows the truth. What kind of person does this? Like? You? You actually forgot that we were in the middle of a date, Like, how can you just forget that human being even exists because

you bump into some dude? Oh my god, Sean. First of all, I was drunk and we like literally I literally had just met you, like, you know, what was it like forty five minutes? So so yeah, I died. But so after you sobered up, you saw my text, you saw that U miscalled, No nothing in you. There was no remorse noe. Oh man, that's pretty messed up. Nothing,

no ideel bad about it. But I kind of figured it was such a quick hook up, and I thought I said goodbye to you before I left, So you know, I forgot, you know, I was, like I said, I had a few drinks, so I wasn't thinking clearly. We're on a first date, Nina, I mean, and you just go hook up with your ex boyfriend. You don't feel like you're all that broken up about it. I mean, I do feel bad about it, but come on, we met on tender dude. I mean, you know, it's not

like you're gonna propose to me or anything. So I didn't think it was a big deal. I mean, you know, I I guess maybe at some point I would have reached I just really didn't put a lot of thought into it some point. But were you gonna wait till at a birthday? I mean no, I figured I would call you at some point, but you know, I was just wrapped up with my ax, and I wasn't really putting a lot of focus on it. You know. Oh my god, I know I feel so bad for you,

Sean Nina. That is really messed up that you just ditched somebody. He had a bad night to begin with, he had already been ditched by his friends. Well, first of all, not everybody has an ex like my ex. Okay, this guy, Oh well, I won't even get into that. And I mean I do feel bad for Sean. I just never thought it was that deep. Really. You know what, now I don't even feel as bad. I don't even feels like because you know what I did to you know, so I wouldn't take a total loss for the night.

Was one of her girlfriends? No, you did not tell us that minute you did? What? Oh, now it matters. Now it matters who was it? Who did you look up with? I mean, why does it matter? You know, I don't know, I'm just some guy. You were gonna call it his birthday? I mean, no, you know, you know it doesn't even matter. I bet I know who it was. Anyway, She's a flood in the room. Now. I'm just like, I'm really confused because if you did that, why are you, after all this trouble to contact me.

Why don't you just both with her? That's a good point. Why are you contacting me? I mean I was a little more interested in you, but you know I'm over that now, obviously. I mean, you're you're It's sounding all confusing to me because if you're interested in me, why are you hooking up with one of my friends? Oh, let me do that's not wrong. Let me use your drunk excuse. Oh, I was drunk, so you know it's

just trying to happen. I know you didn't. All On this note, I would like to ask you if you would like to go out with Sean again on a second date. We will pay for it. Oh that's a very generous offer, but I think I will respectfully decline. Oh my god, I wanted you guys to go out again to see who you'd actually end up going home with that night. Now, maybe you can pay for him to go out with Okay, I good. I mean I

don't want to go you again anyway. Honestly, your girlfriend was a little hotter than you, and then there was a couple other ones that I might be more interested party anyway. Yeah, okay, Sean's got all the girls. This is why I should meet up with guys on tender. I am done with that whole situation. I mean, you have like completely turned me off, and like, if I'm going to be meeting drugs like you, then nah, not even worth it. Whoa, that's fine. Yeah, stick the guys

that dump you in real life. Oh my god. All right, well, thank you very much, you guys, And at least, hey, Sean, look at it this way. Now that you're kind of an ex of hers, you went on a date, next time you see her out with another dude, you might be able to hook up with her. All works out in the morning text in at seven eight five nine two that says, can you give me Sean's number? I'd love to go out on a date with him and then run into my ex and sleep with my ex.

Two Broken Jewel in the morning talking about today's second date update. If you missed it, This dude, Sean wanted to call a girl named Nina. They met while they were out at the bar. Actually, he was like, he got ditched by his friends and then he found her on Tinder and he met up with her, and then she ditched him as well, so he couldn't figure out

what happened. We got her on the phone and she actually sort of forgot about Sean when they were hanging out because she ran into her ex and her X apparently is one of those people that, no matter what, you can't get enough of. So she left the bar with her ex and just forgot that she was hanging out with Sean and then didn't want to call him back. And she's like, whatever, we hung out for like a couple hours, I don't need to get back to him.

And yeah, she told Sean that she ditched him that night so she could go have fun with her X. I think everyone understands like that there's that one X that you hook up with no matter what, but there's still like some sort of niceties that you have to do and ending another date before you make that happen. Yeah, at least say goodbye to the guys you know, d be like, Hey, it was really cool meeting up with you, but my ex is awesome in the bedroom. I haven't

tested you out yet, so you can understand. I'm gonna stick with the old reliable here on this one. Didn't have any reborse man. No, she didn't care at all. Was well apparently so was their love mate. Yeah, text and seven eight five nine two. Do you have a relationship like that with your X. I'm curious how many people out there would actually ditch somebody on a first date to hook up with their AX. And if you want to do a second day up, they remember. All I have to do was emailed the show and we

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