Second Date Update PODCAST: Disconnect Four

came up, so let's talk to him about it. Jay DOGG, what's up? Jay Dog? That's awesome? Do you mind if I call you Jay Dog? No? No, that's really cool. I mean that makes me sound like even cooler than I think I can. Hey, can I can I interject and say I mind? Does anybody else we can do something we can do like Jay money? All right? What do your friends call you? My friends? I have one friends? If he just called me John, oh yeah, it's not as exciting. Yeah, well thank you John. Okay, John, So

who do you want to call today? Her name is Lisa. Can I just say something I'd like? Nervous? I get a little awkward and pathethic, sort of when I when I'm nervous. But I don't worry about Jim. Okay, thank you. I just want to listen. I love you guys, thank you so much. When I emailed you, I had no intention that you guys are or rather I had no I know, I got a little stutter, I got a

little like okay, so cute. We're here for you, man, and listen you thank us now, and just remember that because the end of this could not go the way you want. Okay, Okay, well listen, I'd still thank you for responding to me. Not many people do. And this is if I were to say one thing. This is before we get going. This is like the top five highlights of my life. Okay, guys, it's pretty sad life you've lived. Oh, Jeffrey, do you know what John? I

think you're awesome. Yeah, thank you. I love the sarcasm. I I what doesn't stick to me bounces off me and hits you. Yeah, glue paper wherever we're at here, rubber, I don't know how it goes. You said her name is the girl you wants to call is Lisa? Yes? Oh yes, Lee don't you tell us about her? How did you meet her? Well, you know, I wasn't having a lot of success dating. I think I could chalk that up to my friend tells me it's probably because I'm not so good looking. Oh my god, John, I

bet you're great looking. Okay, Well, I mean that's nice of you to say, but I mean I could send you a photo. I mean, I don't look like those stars in Hollywood or um, like any sort of like athlete or something. I'm sort of pudging and none of us look like that. Oh I wish you guys were around in my team years. I could have used that. John, you are so endearing. I will say that for sure,

So thank you. Tell us. How did you meet Lisa again? Well, I guess I could preface this by saying that I've been using dating apps, but I wasn't getting many success, no responses. Um, I met her finally on Craigslist. Okay, they don't require photos on Craig's list. Oh, there's like a dating section you can Okay, Okay, all right, So she didn't see what you looked like, so you matched with her exactly. She didn't see what I look like, so we matched there's a little bit more accepting. Yeah,

that's good. That's good. So what do you guys do for your first date? Well, here's the thing. We messaged back and forth. She was warm and kind soul and I'm telling you she's the kind of girl that, like, would donate a kidney if I needed it. Maybe she's on Craiglist. She'd steal your kid That sounds nice. You guys are so funny. I don't believe I'm doing this, so as you do it, Lisa. We exchanged numbers, invited

her to hang out at my house. I got some hard ciders, I have apps, you know, like a veggie tray, those little pizzas. Huh. I set out a candle or two and then Connect four because that's my favorite game. Oh god, I'm gonna tell you you guys are I mean? But I think that is a first date done right? Are you kidding me? Pizza, roles, hard cider and Connect four. That would wait over anyone. But I agree, Wow, Brooks getting steamy over here just thinking about connecting that fourth piece.

I mean, don't bust out the game risk though heavy? Oh I love Risk? Yeah? So did she love it? John? Did she love it as much as I do. We'll listen. Um, she didn't show up. I texted her. I didn't hear it back from her. I started to freak out. And then, um, about an hour later, just and you know that's pretty late after you know the time set. Yeah. I texted me and she said I had a work meeting that

was running late and she needs to reschedule. And so I haven't, you know, been able to really connect with her since. And she's saying that she's busy, and I think she's avoiding me. Yeah, it does suck so bad. Like I'm kind of mad at her, especially when you play in something like really big for someone, even if it's like Connect four, like you go through the effort and then they don't show up. That's just rude. Yeah, did you tell her that you had planned these things

and then she didn't show up? Or was it all supposed to be a surprise. It was a surprise. I haven't told her what I planned because if it does happen, I want to do it all again. Okay, is it okay if we tell her or no? Um, if you think that's the best, then I trust you way more than I trust myself. I don't know if that's the right thing to do, but yeah, I agree. Okay, well, here we go. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back and then we'll call Lisa and try and get

you a second date update. All right, Jay, Doug, awesome, thank you so much. All Right, hold on, if you're just tuning in for today's second date update, we're talking to John, or as his friend likes to call him John. Yeah, thank you, thank you for that nickname. That doesn't that

was John's name, That's what he said. Anyway. John's a nice guy, says he hasn't had a lot of success in the dating department, but he finally connected with a woman he met on Craigslist named Lisa, and he had a steamy date night plan for the two of them, filled with hard cider, bagel bites, a little game to connect four dud is awesome. There's a lot of people that agree with me on that one, John, don't worry you forgot and oh yeah with that ranch dip. But

she never showed up. In an hour into it, she finally texted him that she got caught up with work. So since then, seems like Lisa's been avoiding him. And now, John, I just want to be honest with you. I can't promise that we're going to get you a second date out of this, but I can promise that if we don't, I'll hook you up with Jose's sister. She's recently single. I heard yeah, actually she has a kid and she's mine. Okay, she's my sister Leaver alone. Sorry, she's not mine. You're

gonna have to fight Jose. J I didn't you guys were that clothes? Oh? She's fine. You're making me nervous. Oh, don't be nervous. Okay, take deep breaths and remember that no matter what happens, one person's opinion doesn't matter about who you are. Right, you love yourself, You are awesome. Okay, whatever you say. Okay, that's the spirit. All right, We're gonna dial the phone number right now and try and get your second date. Update. Okay, okay, okay, okay, here

we go. Hello, Hi, can I talk to Lisa please? Oh? This is she? Hi Lisa, how are you? This is young Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Oh okay, okay, I'm sorry the radio What do you mean we have a show and you're on it right now. Um, why because we do something on this show called a second date update. That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can email us to get in touch with them and try and figure out the reason why. Uh,

what do you want to say? I don't get this. Well, you don't need to say anything yet, you need to like, we're just trying to tell you what's going on. That's what the segment is. And the person that wanted us to contact you his name is John. John. Um, you actually never went out with him, you were supposed to. Um, do you know when this was supposedly? Well? In his email, he said this happened about a week ago. M Um, I give I can look in my give me one second,

I'll look in my um my text. Um, he said he met you on craigslist. Uh okay, Um, yeah, I have a John here and I did reply and say that we I had appointments and clients and that we would reschedule. No, this isn't like a business thing. This is like a date. Yeah, okay, Um, John, about a week ago, right, he invited you over to his house to hang out and then you were like an hour late. You were supposed to be there and you were late. Yeah, I said that we were going to reach schedule. So

I did text him, but he asked again. And you keep saying you're busy. He says, because I'm busy, and when I'm not busy, we'll get him scheduled. It sounds so so business like, informable. Yeah, totally. Did you like him at all, Lisa? I mean he said you guys texted back and forth for a while and maybe had a pretty good rapport. Well, I mean I've never really actually met him, so it's kind of hard to say

that makes sense. Well, I mean, he's really wanting to get in touch with you, and he doesn't understand why he's not able to get a hold of you. This is crazy. I don't know what to say. Guys, I texted him, I said, you know, I'm busy, and then booked up and we can tell. Well. I think I think it really helped if you told him that directly in person, because he's been on the phone listening this whole time and he wants to talk to you. Okay, John,

you're there, Yes, John, I'm a hi. Hi, Lisa, I'm hi, Hi, Hi, John listen. I just want to say that your voice is like everything that I thought it would be, like a little smoky, almost like Audrey Hepburn. And I'm like really sort of panicky right now because it's it's beautiful.

Oh cute. Uh. I know you're really busy and everything, and I'm completely you know, I'm always free because I don't really have much going on, but I think that, like I'm excited, I have connects flour and candles and Okay, John, relax, relax, let her respond to you. Oh. Um, hey, John, I think, Um, I think I need to clarify something with you. And so here's the thing. Um, I've got hard sliders too, if you like hard cliders. He has a really cute

date night plan for you, Lisa. He's obviously very excited about this and that's really nice. But I do need to talk to John about this. I need to clarify something. Okay, okay, So John listen, Um, so we met on Craigslist. Um, and this wasn't like a date scenario. You actually clicked on my link. I'm actually an escort and that was an ad that you clicked on. What Oh yeah, right, you're a Craigslist escort. Yes, so this wasn't like seeking

love or relationships. I mean my ad it was pretty obvious, like dressed a certain way on a bed and it was spelled out for you. So I so, I'm really sorry because that sounds very wet of you. But can I can I just jump in for a second. Um, I don't know what that is, John, for real? Okay, So John, here's the thing. Yeah, Um, I have a business. Okay, where um instead of instead instead of you know, I sell my time to entertain men as opposed to as

opposed to seeking a romantic relationship. This is more intimately. Wow. Wow, wow, wow, Oh my god, are clicking in his head right now? Are those bad? Wows? Wow? Don't be embarrassed, John, I'm sure this has happened to other people, right Lisa, first time, not gonna lie I did. John is one of a kind, though,

So John, I can see why that would happen. Well, I think that you mixed sort of send mixed messages and I don't want to get combat of here, but okay, you did send the mixed messages putting yourself on the dating section of Craiglist. Okay, so okay, John, it is in that section in the dating area, but it is still separate. It's pretty clearly defined as yeah. I mean, it's even talks about call for rates. So I don't know, John,

did she have it for any money or anything? When you emailed each other there was a dollar sign at the bottom, but I thought that was just a type of Okay. I don't think this is at all Lisa's fault on this one. We can't put blame on her here. Sweet John, you're I didn't know men like you still existed in the world. And there's some hope I guess in that, But there you go. I'm just going over it in my head right now, the stuff that's on

your Craigslist posts. And you said that you love giving men company, and I mean I love companies a connection. Most men love company, John, but not in the same way. Well, John, the good news is that you pay for it, and I guess we are offering to pay for you to see each other one more time. I mean, I'm not paying for services, no, but paying for dinner for you guys to hang out, and that would count as her time spent. Do you know what's gonna happen. He's gonna

have to pay a little extra, but we do. We've got the food cover. Yeah. Okay, Well, if you're putting money into this and you're paying cash, like, if there's cash available, I'm definitely available then. So I don't know about cash. But we do have gift cards. So do you accept gift cards? Lisa? It only gets you so far the gift cards. Okay, that's something though, John, So John, what do you say? Look, I just love company and I already have the hard cider. I haven't even touched it,

and i'd have to get a new veggie tray. Would you be able to reimburse me for that? Yes? We will, all right, John, Listen if I if we do this, this would be hanging out and we can have fun, but there will be a transaction. There will be cash at the end of this experience. So just know that if you want to proceed, that's great with me and play Connect for one and watch Shark. That's right. Connect four bedroom addition