Rooking jew Boles a second d date. A lot of times when you go out on a date, you're just hoping to get through it, like you want it to be good, but you also want to make it to the end with nothing bad happening or no awkward moments, so that maybe you can go on a second date. Okay, Well, the guy on the phone for a second date update today. His name is Aiden. Aiden met a beautiful girl, asked her out. They went for dinner. Food was good, good conversation.
He made it almost to the end, and that dessert his world came crashing down and his date unraveled. You'll hear a story right now and find out what happened in just a second. But first aidan, what's up man? How are you? Hey? Guys, how's it going today? Good? So tell us a little bit about the girl that you want us to call today. How did you meet her? It was one of those nights when you go out and you're not looking for anything, and sure enough, that's
when your world just, you know changes. I was I was just at a bar with a couple of friends, just having a good time. You know. Meeting a woman was the last thing on my mind. And that this girl comes walking into the bar and everything just went slow motion to sent for her and who, yeah, are you like typically this romantic of a man, not at all.
I'm usually the real jerk. This is something new. Yeah, this was like one of those things that all your friends who are in love tell you about and you're like, you guys are idiots. And then it just it just had never happened to me until that night. And I'm not an overly confident guy when it comes to the ladies, but I wish one of those things. She walked by me the first time, and I was just so taken aback, and it just popped into my head. I'm like, you
know what, everything else be damned. I have to find a way to meet this woman. So what did you What did you say to her? How did you approach her? Then? If you're nervous, After the world stopped spinning and everything, I just kind of pulled myself together and I'm like, all right, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna walk up while she's with eight women. So probably about five ten minutes go by, and she just takes a walk to the bathroom and just when she's on the way, that's
the best way to do it. Yeah, I will say it does sound like you're going from like totally swoon worthy to a little bit clean. No, I've just I've never had luck one. It's like eight women and me and I walk up. So just when she came walking by the bar area that I was at, I just said, excuse me, m and I had all these great, smooth things I wanted to say in my head, and instead of came out sounding so cheesy, it was just, hey, how does it feel to be the most beautiful woman
in the room? And she just kind of looked at me, laughed, pose for a minute, and then just walked right on my Yeah, that is so cheesy. Sounds like a fairy tale meeting to me. Yeah, I froze. I don't know why. I had so many other original things to say, and I went with that it sounds sweetheart, how does it feel to be the most beautiful woman in this room? Well, yeah, when you say it, it sounds creepy. Yeah, that's how
I picture you're saying it. Also like holding out like a little gun with your hand, Like yeah, you go ahead and move along to the bathroom and think about what daddy just told you. How did you come back from that and convince her to go out with you? You know, I think after I went outside and smacked myself in the head a couple of times, it called myself stupid, stupid, stupid. I went back inside. I walked over to her. I'm like, look about what I said earlier.
I know it came off as cheese in a line, but I meant it. And she just looked at me and she smiled and she's like, you're very sweet. I'm like, well, thanks, and I never do this, but if you allow me to, I would love to take you out to dinner. And we've exchanged numbers and that's all that happened that night. So tell us about dinner. Then, how was that I got there early and got the table, and when she
came walking in, it was the same thing all over again. Man, she just took the attention of everybody in the room. This girl, she doesn't have a bad side. She's amazing. And the thing that caught me is the night I saw her at the bar, she was just wearing like jeans and a top, and this night she was wearing a dress. And I don't know how let's explain it other. Then there's some women that can wear a dress, and
then there's some women that just wear a dress. And when she walked in wearing a dress, she was wearing that dress, that dress all the way on her body. Nice. Godm I'm pretty positive some other guys in the restaurant got in trouble with their wives and girlfriends that night because there wasn't a head that did not turn when she went by. Okay, so, but how was actually like dinner with her? When you guys are sitting down talking and everything that was it good? Did she seem interested
in you? It turned out we had a lot of similanches. And what's really funny is you wouldn't know it to look at her. She's so beautiful and mild, but she's
like a tomboy through and through. So just awesome. I mean, beautiful girl into sports and not just like I like watching sports because my boyfriend LEDs watching it, like we were just going back and be like the whole time in my head, I was going there was something that night at the bar that told me to talk to her, and this was it was like I was meant to be hanging out at this moment. So the whole time with her was awesome. Obviously you liked it a lot.
She seemed to be having a good time. Tell us about what happened when dessert came. Well, one dessert came. We got like the trimple, the layered chocolate cake killer thing and it comes out and they play in the siren table and we're just bolsting there, picked out with our forks, and the check came. I went to pull my wallet out, and I guess I had been out like the night before. I didn't put my credit card
back in the normal place. So at first I was freaking out because I'm like, oh, my got great, perfect first date, and now I can't. But so I'm digging through my wallet looking for it, and I found it. But just as I found it, all the cards, all the business cards come flying out, dumping down to the table and then right into the what's remaining of our chocolate cake condom goes flying into the cake. Yeah, now that we had this dessert, you know what would go
better with it? Some latex? What do you think, lady? Go back to my pad. I just saw my whole world come crashing inward. It was her reaction when she saw a condom in the dessert. She just stared at for a second, looked at me and said, well then, and kind of cocked her head. And then it was just horrific frozen face, and then she just busted out laughing. Okay, so she seemed to take it pretty cool. Yeah, we
both started laughing. It was like that awkward and it was that moment where I'm like, do I pull the condom? I was the kid, because obviously I don't want to be the guy it's got chocolate on now do I put that back in my way? It became a thing. I hope she didn't think I was carrying around for a reason, Like I hope she wasn't thinking, oh, he was expecting to get something, you know tonight. It was just in there and there for a long time. Be honest,
I totally forgot it wasn't there. If you feel like everything went cool after the whole condom debacle, why did you put in your email that you think that's the reason she might not be calling you back. Well, that's the only thing I can think that one wrong. Okay, when it comes down to it, that is the only thing that whole night that could have possibly caused the toll one eighty on, you know, returning calls and talking with me. Okay, well we'll play a song, come back,
call her and get your second date update. All right, I'd appreciate it again, brooking jubil In the morning sep Right in the middle of a second date update, Aiden is on the phone today. He wants to call a girl named Summer. He had something very, very very awkward happened on his first date. At the end of the date when he was trying to pay. He was looking through his wallet because he couldn't find his debit card and he accidentally spilled some stuff on the table and
a condom fell out of his wallet and into the desserts. Normally, I would say that this is like the most awkward thing I've ever heard on a date, But We've been doing these second date updates for so long now that I'm like, manh not really that bad actually compared to some of the other stuff we've heard. So at least
there's that Aiden. So he thinks that he might not be getting a call back because she saw the con was like, oh, he's expecting to be getting some or oh he was trying to give me a little hint by dropping it in my dessert, like, hey, that was sweet, This is gonna be sweet, or something like that. Any last words before we make the phone call. Talking with you guys just made me feel really optimistic about because after I ran it all through, I'm like, yeah, no,
why wouldn't she call me back? We had a great time, all right, Cool, I'm gonna doubt the phone of her right now and get her on the phone and find out why she's not calling you back. Here we go. Hello, Hi is Summer there? Yeah? This is her? Who is us? Hey, Summer? How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
It's a morning radio show. Okay, Cool, I'm calling you today because one of our listeners emailed us about you and asked if I could get you on the phone to ask you a few questions. Who emailed you. His name is Aiden, and you went out on a date with Aiden not too long ago. He asked if we could get you on the phone somehow and find out why you're not calling him back. This is kind of weird. I know, I know. It's a segment we do on
our show called the Second Date Update. Do you mind telling us why you don't want to call Aiden back? I don't think that. I don't think that's a good idea. Aiden's a really, really sweet guy. Okay, there's got to be some issue if you don't want if he's a really sweet guy and you don't want to see him again. I mean, I just I don't want to hurt his feeling, you know. I just don't. I don't know. I don't
feel right about it. I think you're hurting his feelings right now by not calling him back with no reason. Can you give me some sort of information so I can at least tell him I think he should understand. Why was it the condom in your dessert? Just saying that awesome? That? Yeah, he did well? He told us because he feels like that's why you're not calling him back.
He said it was an accident, but he thinks you might have assumed that he thought the evening was going to end up with him using the chocolate covered condom. That was just one of the one of the things that he did. Okay, well, what else did he do? Then? Like he knows that he messed up. But yeah, I mean he's a super romantic guy and he's so sweet and he's so kind, but it's almost like he doesn't understand the line between romantic and creepy. Oh I could
see that totally. Like even just him explaining your date, he was he's a lot. It's flattering to a point, but he went like with you know, he'd give me a compliment, but he just went way over that, like he just kept complimenting you too much. Yeah, Like at dinner, he couldn't stop talking about how my dress was clinging to my body. Maybe he was trying to compliment the dress and it just came out the wrong way. I've done that before. Yeah, But then he started talking about
how my walk is so graceful. Where did I learn such a such a graceful walk and how to sway like that? Okay, so he was just pouring it on thick. Yeah, but I mean you could chalk that up to him being nervous, and yeah, I understand him, but it made me uncomfortable, Like I was really uncomfortable during the whole day. Was it that bad? Really? When we sat down at the table, he leaned in and said the instant he
saw me, he became a round what was around? He said? Wow? Again, Like I said, maybe he just chose the wrong way to describe it. I mean he was just way eat you forward, and then when the condom fallen, the dessert it was like the cherry on top of the weird date cake. Yeah, did you guys talk about anything else besides how beautiful and arousing you are? I mean a little bit, you know, I try to hear the conversation
towards forts. I thought maybe that would stappen, and you know, I'll get him to start thinking about something else and you just be like, hey, what time is it? And you're like, I don't know, it's high new on my son down because thinking you are a hot lady. That's just pretty much how it was. Everything came back to everything came back to him just curving out over you. Huh. That's pretty much how it went, just like that. That's understandable.
Then I can see how I can see how that would be kind of weird if somebody just wouldn't I mean, if I sit down at somebody to tell you they're aroused right away? Yeah, that's strange. Did you like anything about the date at all? He is really nice. I can tell like to steep down. He's a really good person, and I don't think he needs to be creepy. But somebody just needs to sit him down and tell him, like where the line is between romantic and creepy? Why
don't Why don't you do it? Because he's actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah, hi, Summer, I was I was trying to compliment you. I mean creepy, Oh my god, I was. I was just trying to give you a compliments. You know, you could just tell a girl that she looked nice and leave it at that, look nice. I told you you looked nice. I told you you were gorgeous, and you told me you were a rouse. Yeah I was aroused. But I mean I
didn't mean it physically. I mean, god, no, I meant it like, you know, my senses felt hypened around you. Yeah, it's a bad choice of words. Still feels like one sense. You have a different way to phrase that. I mean, it just creeps a girl out, Summer. You are the most beautiful woman I've ever met. You literally make me tingle, Like my whole body just trembles. That's something you don't need to tell a girl. That's not what you say on a first date. Hate it. You just met her,
You don't know that much about her. How can you say she's all of these things. I just wanted her to know how good she was making me feel. I mean, it was like being on a drug when I was around her, and I felt like you had the right to know that. Well, it's all very flattering. It's a lot for somebody to take in, you know. It's like you're more worshiping me than actually being on the date.
It just gets a little bit creepy. I'm sorry if you felt like I was saying too much, but I'm not going to say I'm sorry for telling you you're beautiful. You're beautiful and you deserve to be told that. That's sweet. Once is enough, though, and there's better ways of saying it than telling me you're aroused. Right when I said all right, all right, I agree, maybe I chose poorly. Um, if I promised to tone it down, as you say, would you be willing to give me another chance summer?
Would you like to go out with aid and again we'll pay for it. I don't I don't think that he is going to tone it down. I think you should give him a second chance. I mean, I see the creepiness, but he's well, yeah, I promise. I was just I was just really excited to be spending time with you. He doesn't seem like a bad guy. He just needs to learn new words from being excited and excited. It's not the right word you used to. Don't use that one either, but I think that's it. Summer. Would
you go out with him again? You promise me you won't talk about my body and how my dress look and my beautiful eyes. You won't say any of those things. I promise. I'll try my best, but it's hard. It's hard, Summer. Will you do it? Just one more chance? What's the worst that could happen? You sit with the dude who tells you how awesome you are? Yeah, I mean, he is really sweet. I would give him one more chance. Okay, Yes, awesome. Congratulations, Aid,
and you got your second date. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, and Summer enjoy yourself. Thank you for your time. We appreciate it. Thank you. All right, this whole thing was very arousing. Well, thank you for that broken jupil in the morning,