Second Date Update PODCAST: Dating WAYYYY Up

I did not yet, That's the whole point. Yeah right, I was reading your email. It sounds like you got wasted. Stop. I did not get drunk. Yeah right, you sound drunk right now, Bethany. I'm like, I'm just a happy person. All right, Well, we'll talk to you a little bit about your day. First of all, who's the guy that you want us to call today? His name is Robert.

Robert okay, and what did Robert think about you getting absolutely I did not get drunk, okay with a line tasting and I mean yes, I did swallow a couple of wine. Thank you for finishing that sentence, right, or your email said that you think he might have thought you were drunk and that's why he's not calling you back. Yeah, because I got this like rampant case of the hiccups and I could not get rid of them. I was trying to hold my breath and I kept hiccuping, and

I started laughing. That sucks whenever you say, even if you're drinking or not, just when you can't get rid of the hiccups, and that would be embarrassing on a first date. Yeah. I mean we're in this like quiet room with a bunch of people like learning about these wines and oh yeah, I didn't even think about the fact that you were wine tasting. So you've got a bunch of snooty Oh I can taste this one tastes very nutty, mean, while you're in the corner hiccuping, throwing

down glasses of wine looking like the drinks. Yeah, and I like, like I said, I was giggling because like once you like have that giggle bug and you cannot shake it and then you're hiccuping on top of it. I was just like a crazy person was laughing with you though, because I mean, it sounds like a funny situation. At first, he was like, oh my god, I can't believe you know you have the hiccups and like kind of the silly thing, but they would not go away. And I think that by the sense of this, he

thought that I was like really drunk. I mean, if you had seen like these ships of wines, like, there's no way even if I had drank all of them that I would have been wasted up until the point when your hiccup started? How was everything going great? And mean? He was just such a gentleman and very sweet. He's like exactly my type. All right, what else happened on the date? The craziest thing is the whole time that

I had these hiccups and then we were asked to leave. Yeah, Like the instructor was like, I'm sorry, because you know you can't like be obnoxious and drunk, but I wasn't. Are you lying to us about the drunk part. Are you sure you weren't wastedful? I wasn't, No, not at all. So they kicked you out of the wine tasting, thinking that you were hammered. When he actually said I'm gonna have to ask you to leave, it was the most

humiliating thing. I mean, there have been times in my life where like I have been tipsy and I have been a little whild I have never gotten asked to leave. That's the worst part. And when you get kicked out of somewhere and you're not drunk. I've been kicked out of a place because they're like, hey, you were grabbing girls on the butt, and I was like, no, I actually wasn't. For once in my life, I wasn't doing that.

I was like, if you want to send me back in there, I will grab somebody on the butt so you can kick me out. I just it's worse when you haven't actually done something wrong and they kick you out. Yeah. And I was turning to reason with the guy, almost like don't you see how this is like the most ridiculous situation, But he was just like very serious, like I ticked cheese and wine very seriously, so they kicked you out of the wine tasting thinking that you were

hammered and what did you do after that? It was kind of awkward because once we left, like I didn't have hiccups anymore, so I was like, well, we could have gotten back in, but then we couldn't because they kicked us out, So he was just like thoroughly annoyed and I could tell, but I was just kind of like trying to blow it off, like, oh man, like what are the chances? How did everything end with him after your date was done? Did he say that he

wanted to go out again? No? I kind of gave it this, like, oh man, how about we like give it another shot? You know, like just trying to blow it off, like he couldn't get out of there faster. So when we get him on the phone for your second date update, do you think that he's going to be open to going on another date with you? I think if I can actually get through to him the honest truth that I was not drunk. Okay, I mean I'm serious when I say, like I get to hiccup,

Like if I spicy food, I'll get the hiccup. But it's not like usually they'll go away. So you need our help in pointing out to him that you actually wasn't drunk, right, Yes? Please? Have you tried to explain to him since your date? I send him a couple of texts that I didn't want to look like a person, and did he respond to anything? No, he didn't. You haven't heard a word from him. No, I haven't since that night, since our parting Hug, all right, so he's

obviously Hug didn't like something about your date. No he didn't. Okay, we'll play a song. Come back, get him on the phone, and get your second date update. All right, okay, great, drunk in jubil in the morning date. The goal of today's second date update is to call a guy and convince him that his date wasn't absolutely hammered during their first date. Bethany, you about ready to give him a call? Yes, I am, all right. Here's my advice to you. Before

we make the phone call. Get hammered right now, Get as drunk as you possibly can. That way, when we get him on the phone, I can be like, see this is how she sounds drunk. She wasn't drunk on your first date. Well, don't you think that would decrease my credibility significantly? It could, but it'd be fun for me. If you're just tuning in. Bethany wants us to call this guy named Robert. They met online. They went to

a wine and cheese tasting. She got a fit of hiccups like halfway into the thing and they ended up getting kicked out because the guy who was running it thought she might be drunk. And now she thinks that Robert isn't calling her back because she got hammered on their first date. So our goal is to call, get him on the phone and convince him that you aren't a drunk mess. Are you ready to go, Bethany? I am ready? All right, iron a drunk mass is calling

to convince somebody else. Yeah, you call the right place. If there's anybody that have had to do a lot of damage control after being drunk, it is me called the right place. Bethany. All right, I'm another phone him right now. See we can get him on the phone and hopefully get you a second date. Great. Hello, can I speak to Robert please? Yeah, this is Robert. Hey, Robert, how are you doing? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning Star where Brooke and Jewel in

the Morning the radio show. You are obviously a big time listener I can tell yeah, yeah, no, not at all. Are you up, Robert? We do a radio show in the morning from six to ten every morning, moving ninety two point five, and we recently got an email about you from one of our listeners. All right, her name is Bethany. She told us about your date and also told us that you haven't been returning any of her

phone calls after your date. So we said, hey, why not let us call Robert see if we can get him on the phone and find out if you did something wrong. Okay, weird, I know, it's kind of weird. Bethany did tell us that she thinks you might have thought that she was hammered. She told us about the hiccups, said that she got like a fit of laughter because of the hiccups, and then told us that you guys got kicked out of the wine tasting class because they

thought she was drunk. Is that why you're not calling her back? I mean, she was definitely tipsy, there's no question about that. You know, none of that was good. But you know, in between the jugs of wine she was drinking, she leaned over to me and said, the instructor reminds me of my ex boyfriend. Talking about your ex during a first date. Talking about your X during any date kind of suck. Yeah, that's understandable. R sucked. But the weird part was the instructor was like sixty

five years old? Really, yeah, what are you dating a sixty five year old? How does that guy remind her of her ex? I didn't know if I should even ask, you know, or even get into it. But this guy was wearing bifocals. He had a receding hairline. I said, what makes this guy reminds you of your ex boyfriend? And I mean this guy had a receding hairline, a pot belly, he wore bifocal And did she you think she had like beer goggles on? And she's like that a lot. Yeah, I don't know. I didn't even know

if I should even get into it any further. But she said my ex boyfriend was sixty five. She dated a sixty five year old? Yeah? Wow, she left that out of her story. Robert, how old is Bethany? Because Bethany sounds like she's a lot younger than sixty five. I think she's twenty eight or something. But this is vain. I mean, you got it, like, how are you judging somebody based on their ex? I get like bringing him up,

but how does that affect you? Well? It made me wonder, why is she on a date with me when she's had relationships with guys twice my age. Yeah, Robert, why don't we ask her that because she's actually on the line listening. You really like that was he didn't call me back? Was because you thought my ex boyfriend was too old for me. I mean, yeah, that was a turning point for me. But it has nothing to do

with you. I mean I was there with you, obviously, like I'm not dating that person anymore, and we were having a good time before we got kicked out of the thing. You're definitely you're twenty eight. I just didn't understand why you would even date someone twice your age. Just really weirded me out. Well, it would just happened. It wasn't like I set out to start dating older men. And he was like a friend of the family kind of. That's worse. So like cars and forwards, like handsome no

matter how old he is. I didn't ask you about any of your excess because it doesn't matter to me. Yeah, And Robert, don't you have some crazy stupid people that you've dated in your past that I'm sure if she found out about, she could judge you for I suppose, but they certainly were in my age rings. Yeah, none of them were about to collect social Security. I mean, also, Bethany, you gotta think you offered up that information. He wasn't necessarily asking. Well, yeah, I mean I guess I did.

But it was just like a funny thing, like I would saw already laughing. I was already like. It was kind of like Vinchuker was like getting mad at us and like looking like over his glasses at me, and I was like, kind of like that, Oh, you remind me of my ex. I don't know the best growth. I don't want to speak thinking about five year old dudes with walking canes and bifocals. I wasn't like that. Like I said, he was just older and I liked him and I like you, and so what's the problem

older is? You know, maybe forty? I mean I can't understand that. But this guy was getting near retirement age guys playing single on Wednesday night or something. I don't know that. I can't even you have hear him, No idea. Age is just a number. It's just just you know, I like you, so it doesn't even matter. Look, okay, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I can't help how I feel.

You know, I can't go out with a girl, and you know, every time I look at her, I'm thinking of some old guy, some crotchety old guy, you know. I mean that's you're saying. If you're into old man, that's fine. You know, I choose the person. I choose the person. And besides, only old people go to wine and choose things. Anyway, f YI, time can have a good time. And like, I mean, you're being rude and judging. So you did me a favor, all right, fine by me,

you know, good luck of your early bird specials. I'm guessing that you guys don't want to go out on a second date based on that little conversation right there. But I still have to ask Robert, would you like to go out with Bethany on a second date? I will pay for it. Uh No, okay, Bethany, would you still like to go out with Robert? No, I'm going to find someone less judgy and a little more in my maturity range. Start right now here. The Elks Lodge

has a bunch of dudes. Yeah, you could hang out with broken Jupil in the morning.