You need Leasic. Trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center at Evergreen Ice Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do? Lesic at Evergreen dot com Rooking jew bols a second deed of day. Everybody knows women can't resist a man that speaks more than one language. That's why whenever I've approached a foxy lady, I've always used this accent right here. Excuse me. My name is Jacques and I'm from the south of France. That's the
difference south, y'all like a bag at. I got these bagg ats on my bicycle. Have to we eat these baggetts. You can go out and watch me do some miming. I'm getting geared up to do some miming. Laid on na cans. I don't even know that that's a southern accent at all, from any country south of France. That's the way we speak down here. Sweet tea champagne. Yeah all right? Is it? My top came off? You're right,
Oh that's a sexy ax. Then couldn't resist. And on the phone right now is Catherine And apparently the dude that she met can speak another language as well. What's up, Catherine? How are you? Hey? Hey, how are you good? It says that you met the guy you want to call today at a Spanish class. Yeah, we were both taking a Spanish night class. And his name's Grady, so he can speak Spanish. I'm guessing I would say he is learning to speak It's not actually that good attempting at it,
but that's good. That's a great way to meet somebody. Yeah, we met in class. Class been going on for a few weeks. I didn't real it much of it, and then he came up to me at the end of class and said I was beautiful in Spanish. Oh did he actually say it well in Spanish? Or did he say something completely different? You have no idea, You're like, what, Yeah, you have to know. I'm a bigetter too, so so who knows who could have said anything to you? And
then he's like, that was that was your beautiful? I said you're beautiful? Yeah, he attempted it. That's really sweet. Yeah, we had been working on adjectives that day and so it was sweet. Okay. And did he ask you out right afterwards or yeah, he asked if I wanted to get a bite to eat, and I was like, yeah, that'd be nice. And then he suggested we go to a Mexican restaurant in the shopping center near by so he could keep clack pissing his Spanish. Hey, let's go
learn some more Spanish. Let's go to Chipotle in the mall. He like stuck with his theme. Maybe a little too hard. Yeah, and you know how people like at restaurants if they speak the language, instead of being like, I'll have the bruschetta, they'll be like, I'll have the bruce gep. Oh. Yeah, I know people do that all the time. I hate that. He was like trying so hard, but it was really endearing. It was really cute, and we ordered and then we just had a normal talk. Okay, well then he dropped
to continue the Spanish. No, no, no. It was just like order, which was sweet, and then just had a really good time platting. I think he's really funny. I think he's genuine. You know, he just keeps it real physically. I mean, he's definitely attractive. Okay, it was fun and I think he liked me too, because he wanted to continue the date. And so we walked around and we were in a shopping center. So we just went in
a few little stores. I picture you at like a really bad chain Mexican restaurant and so you're just walking around a parking lot. Okay, so you went into the mall. It was like a cute Mexican restaurant and a cute shopping center with fun stores. Got it. But that's awesome. What was your interaction like when you guys were walking around? It was great. You know, we were very bantery, you know, joking with each other. And he bought me this hat
that I liked. Um, it wasn't super expensive, but it was a hat I was looking at and he was like, oh, it looks great on you, and he bought it for me, which was so cool. That would make me think, yeah, I think so. But then he walked me to my car and he gave me a hug, which was like really a hug, and then he thanked me for a great time, which was gentlemanly. And he hasn't contacted me since. And it's been a week and you guys are done with your Spanish class at this point. No, we're still
in class, but he didn't show up. Oh so he hasn't been to class. Okay, and have you tried to reach out to him. I just texted him the day after our outing. I guess I don't even know if it was a date at this point. And I thanked him and said I had a great time and he said me too, but didn't ask me out again. Dude, that's totally a date. He bought you a hat. Did he pay for dinner too? He did, He paid for dinner, He paid for our Parkarita's for sure. You don't buy
somebody a hat unless it's a date. That's what I'm saying, no matter who it is. Yeah, and you had a follow up text? Yeah, I mean I followed up to thank him him, because like that's polite. And I did have a good time and he did respond, but it was just me too, like very short. I tried to ask him out. Yeah, have you tried to ask him? No, it's only we've only been at once. It's not time for that yet. Okay. Well maybe so you're like, Okay, I don't want to risk asking him out and ask
him out. I'll just call you guys to ask him out. Yeah, that makes forect sense. I think you made the right decision. So we'll play a song come back and get your second date update. All right, that sounds great, Okay, hang up looking jubil in the morning. Hey Catherine, Hey, are you sure that you want to get a date with this guy? Because as far as I'm concerned, I think that this is the lowest anybody has ever stooped when these second date updates. Yeah, I think I still want
to date with him. I just what kind of monster buys a hat for somebody and then doesn't ask them out on another date. It's ridiculous to me. I mean, I can think of a lot worse. Oh I can't. I can't. Katherine, Well, I guess we're gonna call him anyway. If you're just tuning in for the second day, I'll get Katherine is on the phone. She wants to call a dude named Grady. They met in their Spanish class they were taking like a night Spanish class. He asked
her out after class. They went and got some Mexican food and then walked around the mall. And while they were walking around the mall, he bought her a hat but hasn't asked her out on another date. You are disgusted, Yeah, ridiculous. I mean I've finally found your line and this guy's crossed. This is it, Katherine. Why do you think he's not calling you back? I truly have no idea. I mean, I've run through every scenario in my head, and I kind of staying to wonder if he just feels insecure
because I'm better at Spanish. No, no, okay, I mean he is avoiding Spanish class altogether. It sounds like this week as well, So that's not a bad theory. It could be. I'm just I'm really anxious. All right, Right, Well I'll call him right now. See if we get him on the phone and get your answer. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. Hello, Hello, puto a block on Grady? Please? Hello? Oh hey, what's up Grady? Sorry? Uh sorry? I speaking Spanish again? Is this Gray? Okay? Yeah?
This is him? Who's Who's this? This is Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I know there's a lot of things you don't understand right now. Why this is really the radio station? Well, I'm a person, not a station. But yeah, there's a show that airs on radio stations. Yeah. Uh, why are you? What are you guys? Me for? Well, we do a segment on
our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then don't call them back after, they can email us to give you a call and find out what happened. And we got an email from Catherine. You spent an evening with Catherine, getting Mexican food and walking around the mall. You bought her a hat. I don't know if you remember that or not, but hold on, man. So Catherine emailed you guys about a date that we went on. Yes, wait,
was it not a date? She wasn't actually sure on that one, but she thought it was a date. Yeah, as far as I know, it was not a date, and I thought that was clear. Oh well, I don't think it was Claire with Catherine because well, I mean, she wasn't sure, but she was sure hoping it was a date. Did you have fun with her at all? Yeah? No,
I had a great time. I just honestly, you know, I met her at Spanish class and I thought, you know, she looked pretty and she was nice, so you know, I thought maybe she could also help me find like a little fashion on my own, because she seemed like a little fashionable. So I thought it would be cool if we like hung out and shopped a little bit.
That's it. Wait, hold on, though, I don't get that, because you're like, oh, she's pretty and I to hang out with her, So why wouldn't you consider it a date even if it was for her to help you go shopping? So this is kind of awkward. I guess I guess should explain this. Um, I am currently trying to go out with the Spanish chick, so that's why it took these Spanish classes. And oh yeah, so I wasn't trying to go out with her because I was already taking the class to try to go out with
somebody else. Okay, so you're basically using her as a stylist for the evening. That wasn't my intent. You know, I needed I did need help finding some clothes for my date. Uh yeah, this sounds bad now. Um yeah, but you bought her a hat even as like a thank you, Like we were shopping for me and I felt bad that we weren't getting her any thanks. I'm like, you know, saw her eyeing this hat and I bought it for all Right, sounds like a barre saying, but that he has no style. You go out with him
to Yeah, it is embarrassing. You need to do a better job of shopping for yourself. I agree that, but also like the mixed communication there. I mean, I don't think it's your fault, and it's not her fault either, but I'd be so embarrassed if I were her. Yeah. No, it really wasn't a date though, Like I didn't even kiss her or anything like that, and it was more of a business transaction, you know. Okay, well maybe you guys can do more business together, because she's actually on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Grady, what, Yeah, it's Catherine. Hey, this is awkward. Why are you? Why are you calling a radio station or emailing them about a date? I really didn't think we were on a date at all. You took me to dinner after telling me I was beautiful. Unless you mean to say something else in your space, eish is just so bad that
you which is possible. Let's be real, But you said I was beautiful, You took me on a date to dinner, dinner and drinks, and you bought me a hat and O wait, you never I didn't take you on a date. I didn't take you on a date. So did you mean to say, oh, that Spanish girl in our Spanish class is beautiful or something, and you said I was beautiful or because it was? I mean, I gave you a compliment. It was a compliment like you are beautiful, and so you know I give you a compliment. I
get friends compliments all the time. It's misleading when you don't tell me why we're hanging out, when you're using me so that you can hang out with another girl. Oh well, you know, Arnfury, Catherine, I phone be awkward if I approached you. I was like, hey, need some help finding some style. I barely knew you. I mean, probably it's more awkward now i'mna think of it. But you know, I just phone. You don't have any other friends that you know better that you could have asked
for help, Arnty, I do have friends, but knewbody. The dress is as nice as you like every time I of the Spanish class, you looked so amazing, So I thought, like, who better to help me out than you? Trying to figure out if I'd be offended if I were you, Catherine, I mean, he's really complimenting you a lot. But it doesn't want to go on a date with you. Though I'm not offended if he thinks I have good style.
I'm offended by the fact that he was manipulative and it is trying to add like he wasn't yeah, because that's what it sounds like to me too, and that you're not owning up to its nice. But he wasn't being honest, and that's the key. And he was using like she obviously liked him and he knew that, and you were taking advantage of that. Well, I didn't know that she thought it was a date, So I mean, I feel we were just hanging out like friends and
Spanish class having a good song. I disagree because we weren't friends. It was our first time hanging out. He paid for everything and it felt like a date. Oh yeah, you did pay for everything too. Yeah, I told you guys, it was to thank you for her helping me shop. You know, I didn't like, like I said, I didn't kiss or anything. I didn't like seal the deal afterwards. I don't know what do you guys want. There's plenty
of dates that don't end in a kiss. I just think that you should say I'm sorry for not being more forthright. Why would I apologize though you don't tell like you know, people like everything on the first date, you know what I mean. Like, it's not like you know, I'm gonna go up to and be like, oh I have that CDs from other relationships or anything like that. I don't think anything open like that too, are on
the first date. Well that's where you're wrong, Grady. I always disclose all my STDs before any date, always, and I think more people should do that as well, and you find better matches that way too. It's like, oh, you got one I don't have. Well, let's I got one you don't have. It's like trading cards. But now you're describing it as a date. So now I'm even more confused. I don't see what you guys think that there was a date, because it wasn't a date at all.
It's just two friends hanging out having a good time. Well, how about this, I think you guys should go out, Grady, would you like to go on a second date with Catherine? We'll pay for it d D Yeah, like an actual date. Well this is uh more because that Spanish chick didn't actually work out. It turns out you had a boyfriend, so I would be okay with going on a date. Oh, Catherine, what do you think it went from not being on a date and helping him shop for clothes and now
he's willing to date you? Are you interested? No? Thank you? Yeah, you just called the radio station to talk about our first date. So why don't we actually make the first date of thing and just go out and do? I agree? I hold the whole time? Why weren't you more nice and open to hearing what she had to say? I didn't want a date back then because I was interested in somebody else, But since that somebody else just rejected me,
I'm interested in Katherine. They're in a big pity date for you if you want it, and he is a romantic Catherine, I cannot believe this path. I know you're getting asked out on a date right now. I can't believe it is that's what she meant for you. I'm truly notice interested. Yeah. No, okay, at least you got your answer there, Katherine and Grady, thank you for your time. Sorry the Spanish chick turned you down. Yeah, and I guess I will be seeing Katherine in Spanish class next week.
A text message in at seven eighty five to nine two, says, Catherine sounds so sweet and loving and caring. That guy was a told layhole. I'm glad you decided not to go out with him again. She deserves so much better. Well, that is a very thorough text. I'm assuming it's gonna be followed up with, By the way, can you give him my number? Break and jewel in the morning, talking about today's second date update if you missed it, Katherine wanted to call a dude named Grady. They met in
a night Spanish class. Grady actually asked her out to dinner, and afterwards they walked around shopping a little bit, and he even bought her a hat that she liked. But after that he didn't ask her on another date, and she was wondering why, Like, who buys somebody a hat and doesn't ask him? Well, I know, I'm still on that so angry. I think it's just the hat. But okay, Oh.
We called Grady and he revealed that the only reason that he wanted to hang out with her was to get some fashion advice on new clothes, because he wanted to impress a different girl. And he says Catherine had great style, and he thought maybe she could help him, but he never told her that, like the entire time he paid for dinner. He bought her. The hat says she was pretty. I mean, I get why she was
led astray. He basically pretended it was a date. And the thing is, if he would have just said, hey, you dress really nicely, could you help me because I feel like I would like to impress this girl, yeah, she probably would have been like yeah, she'd be like friend zoning. Yeah, yeah, totally. It's still a compliment, like you have such nice style, I'd like you to help
me shop. In the end, it did get a little weird because Grady told us that that different girl turned him down, and then he was like, but I'll go out with you now, Catherine, Yeah, yeah, after all those things, she said, no, remember, if you want a second date update, just email the show and we'll call the person who didn't call you back.