Rooking jewels second dat day. You know, sometimes on the first date you're confronted with a red flag, you can just ignore it, you know, like you walk into their place and they have pictures of you all over with your eyes all carved out, and you're just like, is that a red flag? Maybe they just don't like my eye color and I should change it for them. I can change my eye color for them. That's evidence in a future crime. I want to pay attention to that.
I don't know. But Kayla's on the phone today to do a second date update. Kayla, how are you hey? How are you hey? Not too bad? How are you? I just ask you that. Yeah, I'm not paying attention to anything. Let's just ask how we are for a while. Now. Tell us about the guy you want to meet today. What's his name? Nico? N As you're asking it sounds like a question. Is that his name? Nico? Yeah? Yeah, okay, this is right. Tell us about Nico. How did you
meet Nico? Kayla? Sorry, I'm just flipping through here. Hold on, um, Okay, how did I meet Nico? We met through a mutual friends Okay, you met through mutual friends, And tell us a little bit about your date if we can somehow get this thing back on track. DT. Yeah, what is going on? Oh? Sorry the date? Yes, it feels what are you doing? We want to know about the date. This is a second date update. Um, it was good,
we got dinner, it was a good time, it was fun. Okay, you called us for help, right, like, I'm just establishing this. Wait say that again. We're inconveniencing you by asking you about the date, Like, no, hold on, I just gotta jot something down. Hold on, Okay, obviously very busy, trying to multitask, maybe do some work and a second date list that she remembered she needed, Butter, suddenly, are you good? Now? No? No,
I'm sorry. I just remembered something and I have this like relationship diary, and I just wanted to like jot it down before I forgot. You've a relationship, Darry, what's that about. It's kind of like this thing that I just like keep all my dates in and I just
like dropped down to notes and stuff. What kind of notes, just like how a date was, if there are any red flags like what he was wearing, you know, I just like to keep it for reference, so like I remember what dates are good, what we did, what worked, what didn't work, and like even maybe like I will meet the man of my dreams and like it'll be cute, Like we can look back on my diary and any guy wants to look back on your dating diary. Well
that's cute. Some people might like it. But you're on the phone with us right now, so can we take a break from journaling. I just wanted to write that one thing down, I apologize. Well, it should be a good recap of your date. Then do you have it all written down in your dating diary? I do, all right, Well tell us let me go back to that day. Hold on, you're gonna tell us about your date from your diary? Yes, yeah, I have everything written down. Okay, so go for it. Then tell us about your started
with dear diary too, that'd be awesome. So okay, seven thirty four pm. We don't need those details. Nko is four minutes late. He's wearing a blue button up and gray jeans. He's looking really cute, but he tells me he was looking for a parking spot for a long time. Hashtag red flag. Yeah, hashtag in my journal, I just talk like how I dayd like, I know your email says I'm about red flags, That's why I opened it up like that. But I didn't realize that looking for
a parking spot would be a red flag. So it's a red flag because like, was he not prepared to come get me? And I don't know if he should have been on time? Gotcha? Okay? Okay, So what else happened on the date? This is going to be the most detailed second date update ever. Then I go on some forty six pm. He complimented me on my necklace, huh okay, And then I told him a story about my dad and he listened to my story, which was
really great, And I like that, right, that's nice. As you're writing all these times down, are you documenting it while you're on the date in front of him? Sometimes I do, and sometimes like I just remember the timing because like I look at the clock and make a mental note of it, and then I go write it down later. Okay. So it's a little bit of both. So what's next? Hold on, I gonna flip the page
and trying to give us the important details. I don't know, you know, like you might down seven fifty eight, I told NKO how I was a former gymnast and to see if he had any thoughts about that. Okay, what would his thoughts be? Okay, So I want to tell you though, like that was kind of like a bait situation because I'm not a gymnast. Well, because I want to see what their reactions are, like if I'm really
flexible or like I can get kinky or okay. Yeah, I mean guy's minds do kind of go there when they're about a gymnast, like yeah, all right, she's bendy. Yeah totally. So he thought he didn't take the bait. Um I wrote down he didn't take the bait. So red flag turned pink, got red flag turned peak. So there's different shades of read. Any other details maybe just about how you guys bonded and stuff, Okay, Yeah. Eight twenty three pm Nico gets up, walks by the hostess
San and says something to hostess. Is he trying to pick her up? Question Mark? What why would you assume that? I want to ask him, but I don't want to come across as crazy. Yeah, I'm glad you didn't know. I'm going to let you know there may have been a little sense of crazy just because you're journaling. I'm assuming every once in a while during your date like that feels a little type a, a little controlling. Journaling is something that I've been doing for years and I
like doing it. So just backed off, like this is just what I do. Okay, okay, okay, sorry. Nine twenty one, we called it a night. I wrote, he kissed my lips ever so softly, like in the movie twenty seven Dresses. Oh my god, wow, like Katherine Heigel where she's a bridesmaid over and over again. That movie. I love that movie. Okay, right, then that must have been a good kiss. Then if it's one of your favorite movies on e I watch it whenever it's on. Okay, all right, well you ended
the date with a kiss. That's got to be a good thing. Could he be my new boyfriend? Question mark? Stay tuned dot dot dot when you're teasing your own dates. I like that, right, So besides, besides, it's a journal all in all, was it a good date? Well? Yeah, I mean this is like one of my best dates. I mean my other entries. You should just flip through this. I mean that's been horrible. Yeah, Kayla, I mean I
think that it's great that you journal. I also journal, But you say like you're taking the life out of a date. You're not like giving yourself a chance to really get to know somebody because you're so concerned with timelines and things that happened. Brook. It sounds like you have a stick up your ass. So I told you this is what I do. I've been doing this for a year. Yeah, and I'm not going to make change just now. You call for some help to try to figure out what this guy has it called you back.
I'm just trying to give a little outsider input. Look, I just want to see what happened and reach him, and I don't need help with you judging me. I mean, this is just a different kind of second date update than we've experienced before. I'm gonna play a song and then we'll come back and call him and get your second date update. Okay, Okay, great, Okay, hang on brooking jubil in the morning. Second update, Dear Diary. Today I
did the first part of a second date update. It was with a woman named Kayla who also has a diary. I was thinking one day we could get together and maybe be diary pals. I haven't asked her about that yet, but I might Entry number two, Dear Diary. Now it's time for the second part of today's second Date Update, where we're gonna talk to Kayla and see if we can get her a second date with a guy named Nico. Nico sounds like a swell guy according to Kayla's diary.
They even into the night with a kiss, just like in the movie twenty seven Dresses talking to each other. Dear Diary, is anybody else reading my diary right now? Your Diary? I hate you, Dear Diary. I love you, Dear Diarie. I'm sorry about lashing out. Just tuning in for today's second date update. Kayla is on the phone, and she also keeps a diary, and she keeps a
diary of all her dates. In the first part of the day second Date Update, she actually read straight from her diary some excerpts about the date that she went on with Nico. Everything, according to her, seemed pretty good. He showed up a bit late, she thought that might be a red flag. At the end of the night with a kiss, she was very excited about it, but now she's not sure why he's not calling back. So we're about to get him on the phone and find out why. Kayla, are you ready? Yeah, I'm kind of
nervous though. Okay, Kayla, I know you don't want any of my theories on why this guy isn't calling you back. I just want to know what your theory is. Why do you think he's not calling you back? I mean maybe because I was like too fun for him? Oh these for anybody? That day was awesome. If we didn't have so much fun, yeah, too much fun. Well, we'll find out. I'm gonna give me a a call right now, Okay, Okay, I don't know what it is, so this could be interesting.
All right, here we go. Well, hi, might I speaks to Nico? Please speaking? Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Ok Okay, you know what that is? No, I don't think so. Okay, I'll tell you Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show, okay, Okay. Not a lot of faces you. It sounds like you calls from radio stations all the time. Now it's diffused, Okay. Maybe he just has the same emotional range that you have.
Jewel Possible and Niko, I'm calling you today because we got an email about you from somebody that listens to our show. Oh well, what did it say? Well said some very nice things. We do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then don't call them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone to try to figure out what happened. And you recently went with a girl named Kayla. Oh
yes I did. Yeah. Well, Kayla emailed us because she said that she thought the date went great, but now you're not calling her back and she wants to know why said the day weren't great? Yeah, yeah, I was she wrong about that. I just can't believe she remembers the date. She was on the phone the whole time. Once she was on her phone the whole time, he said, Oh yeah, I mean, like the whole date. She wasn't calling anybody, but she was like texting I assume, okay,
I mean it wasn't just like looking. It was like typing constantly. And I don't know if she was texting like a different guy or setting up like a date aftermind or what, but it was distracting. I couldn't get a conversation in at all. It was rude. All right, yeah, I mean we talked to her about your date. She said that she actually had a great time and thought it was one of the best dates she's had. That's impossible.
I mean she was. I mean, I mean, like the whole time she was typing, it was weird, I think, the weirdest part. So I thought like, Okay, well this was a bust. She must have seen me, wasn't into me doing something else. But then walking back to the car, she just like, I mean, out of nowhere, just kissed me. Oh she kissed you. She kissed me. What did you think about that? I was shocked, Like I wasn't even gonna go for a kiss or even a hug. I
thought this was gonna be like a piece whatever. And all of a sudden, she just like lunges at me. And I'm not gonna say no, but I was just kind of like a mannequim, just kind of still her doer thing. She thought the kiss was great. She told us about that. She also thought that you kissed her. Oh that's impossible because I was stationary. I mean, if
she hadn't been on her phone. Were you attracted to her? Yeah, she's definitely cute, but like all I really saw was her forehead because she was bent over texting the whole time, her phone the whole time. All right, Oh my god, you're self restraint that you didn't say anything on the date. I feel like I at some point would have been like, hey, can you put the phone away? I'm just not that type of person. If that's your thing, you know, I'm not going to make a big deal about it. You
do your thing. I'll eat this hamburger. So basically, your date was you hanging out with someone who was on their phone the whole time. Yeah, and then you were sexually assaulted after what you kissed you. I wouldn't say that, but it was aggressive. All right. Well, thanks for telling us why you don't want to call her back. I also should tell you this though, she's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Wait what No, Yeah, did you hear what I just said?
Unless she was buried in her phone again, texting or something, I don't know, Kayla, are you still there? Oh? Yeah, Nico, I loved hanging out with you. I was so interested in my tea. I really liked you. How can you let her you were typing the whole time. That's because I was taking notes about the date on my phone so then I can transfer it into my relationship diary when I get home. That is so much right now. Wait, I'm very confused. What do you mean you were taking
like notes? It's what I do every time I go on a date. I just I have this relationship diary because I want to write down like red flags and pluses and minuses about the dates and details so that way I can remember things. Why do you have memory problems or something? No, I just think it'll be really cute to, like, one day look back on it all and reminisce about everything. So you thought she was being super rude and because she was actually super listening to you. Yeah,
but it's that's my normal. I've never gone on a date and the next day been like, oh, did I have a good time on that date? I should have written it down. And Kaitlin, I mean, you're listening, but you're not hearing what he's saying. Like he thought you were into him because your face was buried into your phone screen the entire time. Don't you see that as a problem. Brook back off. I'm talking to him about this, not you. I don't know why you just keep it
interrupting me. It's really pissling me off. Like I'm trying to get this across to him that Nico, I really like you. Okay, I guess that makes sense in a way, Nico, I'll prove it to you here at the next thing. Eight thirty five. You had showed me those pictures of your family, and I noted that your brothers are hot and that you guys have really good genes. Oh my god, that is so weird. No, I wanted to take note that, like you are a good person to have babies with. Oh,
that's real quick. You guys don't understand. These are things that everybody thinks of on a date, and like I'm just writing them down. I'm writing down the thoughts that everybody's thinking of. Anyway, that's the only difference. Don't you understand, Nico, You understand right? Don't you understand? No, none of this makes sense to me. Why are you saying my brothers are hot? Why are you saying you want to have babies with me? I mean, I leans think we've made
eye contact for this is higher date. Nico, you are taking this way out of context, like I'm documenting this because one day you're gonna appreciate all the details that I've put down here in this diary and you're gonna look back on it and be like, Wow, she's awesome that she wrote all this down and that she did that, and we can look at this together. There you go. Yeah, what do you think, Nko you want a second date
with Kayla? Will pay for it? Go on a second date, make some babies a second date, or yeah, how did you? I mean, so she can finish this novel? Who's writing about our This is the weirdest. If it makes you feel better, Nico, it's not just about you. She does it for every day she goes on. That makes it even worse, like a serial killer, like scared. Frankly, I'm worried. Okay, that seems a little Come on, Nico, that's not fair. And Broth, you are not helping things where you go
out with her all more time. Brook is the only one making spend right now, I wouldn't good to have been there on the date to tell you to get out of your phone. Fine, I won't even bring my phone on the next date. Are you happy? Go Nico? Are gonna take notes with like a pen and paper instead or yeah whatever, I'll just write it down. I won't use my phone at all, use the napkin next to me. God. Yeah, she'll take notes the old fashioned way, Nico. Would you go out a second date with her? We'll
pay for it. Look, I think you're very attractive, and shut up. I know what I'm trying to do, and like it's not You're just sugarcoating it and this is bulk and like, just get to the point. Oh, I think that your intentions are sweet, but what your Nico. I'd get to the point before she stabs you. I think what he's trying to get out is a no. Is that a no? Nico? Yeah, that's a heart. That's a hearty. Did you learn anything from this experience? The only thing I learned here, Brooke, was not to trust
you with anything. I mean, you have done nothing for me. Well I'm trying to help you. Just sorry, Kayla, No second day. I hate your show, especially when Brook's on it. I listen again, all right, but can I read I want to read your journal sometime. Can I just read it? No, you jubil. Okay, you sarcastic pizza, but I actually wasn't making sarcastic. I really do want to read it whatever you will. I'll give you like twenty dollars if you
just slap Brooke across the face right now. I'll only do that if you're in here journaling, because I want to see what you say about it. Broken Jul in the morning,