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Oh my god, that's like, I know, I've had that happen to me a few times where I've been dating somebody new and then my ex well approach to them and be like, oh, you're dating Jewel. He's such a thoughtful and good lover. That is obviously a lie. And that's kind of what happened to Chris, who's on the phone for a second Date update today. One of his exes tried to hate on him, and that's why he thinks the girl is not calling him back. Chris, how are you? I'm all right, Jewel, how are you today?
I'm good? Man. Thank you for your email. I read it and it like outraged me at what your ex girlfriend did to you. This is ridiculous. Yeah, it was bullshit, man, I mean I had great. I'm sorry, I can I can I say that? Yeah? Yeah. Before we get into what your ex girlfriend did to you, first tell us about the girl that you want to call today. So her name's Heather, and we met through mutual friends. And mean,
she's just cute, she's sweet. I'd seen her picture and I met her at a party and my buddy introduced us. And you know, I mean she, I mean, like the perfect girl. She's I kind of like short brunettes, and she's short and brunette and really attractive and fun and just, I don't know, really witty and kind of challenged me. There's something about this girl. You're right, she sounds like perfection to me, really witty. So what did you guys
do on your date? We went out for dessert. There's this really cool gelato place that reminds me a lot of I don't I don't know, like the perfect date from a romantic comedy. I know that kind of sounds silly. I'm a guy who shouldn't matter, but I think people are more relaxed around dessert. And we went and had gelato. It was so much fun. I think that's a perfect date too. I want to roma in a comedy, but I did get a kiss. At the end of the night. We had fun. I went home. I was kind of
floating on a cloud. And then I can't get her to call me back. And you think the reason she's not calling you back is because of what happened later that night when you got home, right, man, That's the only thing I can figure out. I loved on the Facebook and the guy had checked us in at the gelato place. I wanted a friend who had introduced us to know that we were out on a date. And I'm not gonna lie. The girls really cute. I was proud of being on a date with her and wanted
people to see it. So I had tagged her on Facebook, and all of a sudden, I looked down and first off, my ex girlfriend had liked the post, which is always scary weird, and she commented on it as well. And I think the comments might be why she's not calling me back. Was your ex girlfriend just crazy? Oh she's a crazy, man. Let me tell you. I don't have a clue why. I dam me, she was cute, but she was insane. It sounds like it, especially from what you put in your email, that she said in the
comment section, why don't you tell everybody? What she said? So the first post was congrats, Chris, looks like you found a new buck tooth to mess around? Where are you kidding? On your comment section? That was? That was the first one? Did you delete it immediately? I deleted it immediately? But there were also two more under that that I didn't see until I got home. Why have you not blocked your X from your Facebook page? Well,
I've blocked her now. I mean I didn't realize she was as nuts as she actually is, but holy yeah. It was the second two weren't you better than the first? So after she called her a buck tooth? What else did she have to say? Um? The second one said are you going to ignore and manipulate this one? Too? Did you like that one? And just underneath that book, yes, no, no,
I deleted it. But the worst and may have been the one that she directed specifically at Heather and it just said, hey girl, let me tell you fair warning from someone who's been there. One word herpies. I say, yeah, before I say that, this is a horrible thing. Chris. Do you have herpies? No? I don't have herpies. I didn't know if she was saying like a truthful statement or if she was lying about you. No, she's just crazy. So you deleted the comments, but you think that Heather
still might have seen them. That's the only reason I can figure out that she won't call me back. Oh my god, I would have nothing to do with you if I saw X's leave comments like that. Yeah, that's understandable, because even if she thinks that she's lying about the herpies and stuff, which I'm still not fully on your side, Chris, I don't know if that's true or not. But even if she didn't believe that, just the fact that you have a crazy X like that is enough to scare
anybody away. Yeah, that's why I'm so concerned. I think she saw the Facebook page, and she saw that she read it and said that guy's crypton. I don't want anything to do with him. That's why I need your help. The date went well, things going well, and I don't have her pees. Well, I'm gonna go ahead and agree with you on this. That's probably why she's not calling you back. I'm guessing she saw them or somebody she
knows saw them and told her about the messages. Chris, are you I mean, you sat in like a nice guy, But did you do something really bad to this girl to make her so bitter and angry? No? I mean, like I don't really know how to break up with a girl, and so I kind of just got a loof and distant and she'd send me text messages and I just slowly but surely not return them, to the point that she broke up with me. Okay, so she's
just bitter. Yeah, she's just bitter. All right, Well, we're gonna play a song, come back, call Heather and get your second date update. Okay, all right, hang on brooking jubil the morning if you're just tuning in for the second part of the second date update. Chris is on the phone with us. He thinks he's not getting a call back because of a crazy ex girlfriend. He went
out with his girl named Heather. They had a good time, even into the evening with a kiss, but then when he went back home after the date, he checked his Facebook and in the comments section, his ex girlfriend left a bunch of mean comments, things like congrats, Chris, looks like you found some new bucktooths to mess around her, and that's just one of them, I guess. She also said are you going to ignore and manipulate this one too?
And then the top it all off. Her last comment was, hey, girl, let me give you fair warning from someone who's been there. One word herpes in all caps. So Chris is guessing that Heather saw that and is like, yeah, I don't want to go out with this guy. Chris, I didn't ask you this. How long has it been since you've heard from her? It's four days and you didn't hear anything back after that last kiss? No, I mean we like, we kissed and we made plans that we would chat
the next day and then nothing. All right, Well, I'm gonna dial the phone right now, get her on the phone and get your second date update? You ready? All right? Thanks? All, here we go. Hello, may speak to Heather. Please? This is hey Heather. How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Uh okay the radio show? Yeah okay, yeah? Maybe do you know who I am? Or are you pretending? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? Okay? All right, So you have you ever listened to the show? Um?
Like maybe on accident, most people listen anyway, So congratulations. So that's awesome. Hey, I'm calling you today because we do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. It's where you go out on a date with somebody and then if you end up not calling them back after that date, they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and ask if something went wrong. We recently got an email about you from one of our listeners. Oh his name is Chris. You
guys went out for gelato. Oh okay, yeah, Well Chris has been trying to get ahold of you and he's wondering why you're not calling him back. Oh god, oh god, I feel so horrible. He honestly thinks I'm I'm blowing him off. Yeah, oh no, he thinks that you want nothing to do with him. Oh god, I lost my phone. Like I lost my phone like four days ago or something, and I just got it today, like literally, like three
hours ago. I just got a new phone. I've just been like trying to put all my contacts back on it and everything, and that he thinks that. So are you saying you're not blowing him off? No? Oh my god. No, I had a great time. I was planning on calling him like later today once I got all my contact back and everything. Oh well, that's pretty anti climax. Like I was hoping you had something terrible to say about him, but no, sorry to disappoint you. I yeah, I really
liked him. We had a great time. In that case, could you like email him or call him and tell him that I will be calling him later tonight. I could do that, But why don't you just do it yourself? Because Chris is actually on the other line listening. Um, Hi, Hi, I'm I'm sorry to I'm sorry to put you on the radio and have these guys call you. I just have such a great date. I mean, we ended it. We said we'd call each other, and then I didn't
text or email. I didn't, I didn't get anything, and I'm just worried you didn't want to go on a date again. I really liked you. I'd liked to go on a second Oh god, I'm so sorry this has happened. I locked my phone and it's like my whole world got messed up. I am, I'm so sorry that you saw that. And yes, I would totally let me go on a second date with you. Are you sure you want to go out a second date with someone? Who would just jump to conclusions like that that you never
wanted to talk to I might have done the same thing. Honestly, I don't know. Give me something. This is like the nicest second date update ever. Yeah, I mean, you guys are supposed to be helping me out here, Guys, just you know, usually something dramatic happens and this is kind
of boring. Well, I mean I don't really have any issues, and I guess the more exciting part of this is that you know, like we don't know what's going to happen in the future, but you know, we had a good You don't even then, Heather, you don't even understand the things that we hear in these second date updates from time to time, Like sometimes there was this one guy that we did a second date update with who went on on a date with a girl and then he checked them in somewhere and when he got back
to the house, there were like comments from his ex girlfriend like calling the girl a skin, saying that he had herpes and stuff like that. But we've done second date update where that's happened, crazy horrible, that is drama. Then I would definitely want to avoid that's horrible. Can you believe that, Chris, I didn't tell you that story, did I now? Crazy? It's really bad. But Heather, you should we go ahead and start setting up for a
second date. But before we get do that, I just I want to tell head of the story because it's like I couldn't believe it when we did that second date update a while ago, where like I was talking about his crazy X commenting on his Facebook like that. I mean, Heather, could you imagine that happened? You'd probably never want to date that guy? Huh yeah, definitely now
there would not want to be in that nightmare situation. Yeah, I think most people wouldn't want to be I mean with a crazy X like that, and then like claiming that the guy has herpes? Oh my god? What Oh that's awful. Yeah, that's another thing she said. Didn't that guy's fit? What if none of that was true? Like, I'm just standing up for that guy. What if none
of that what is real? Yeah? For that guy? Huh Chris, Yeah, I mean you know, I mean I didn't hear that second date update, but I mean, if none of that's true and he didn't have her fees and the girls, she's crazy doesn't make him a bad guy. You know what, Chris, that doesn't even matter. It still means that he's attached to some kind of psycho X that could do crazy to you later on. You know what I mean, Heather? Oh yeah, I mean they make movies about it, so yeah,
they do. It's a good thing that this second date update didn't end up like that, Heather. I'm really happy. Oh good, me too. Yeah, and it's cool that we could reconnect you guys, this is like the first positive second date update we've had in a while. That leads me to my question, would you like to go out on a second date with Chris? I will pay for it? Oh well, I was gonna go out with him anyway, but if you're gonna pay for it too, that's awesome. Chris.
You got your second date man, way to go? Yes, thank you? Hey, Chris, isn't there anything else that you want to tell her before we let her go? No? I mean I'm excited for our second date and uh, I really, I'm sorry I put her on the radio. I thought there was something else though. She has beautiful eyes that we had a lot of fun and I can't wait to hear a yet. Okay, yeah, that was it. I don't know, I was thinking about something else. Do you feel the deal, Chris, you feel the deal. It's good.
You're good. Well, congratulations Heather and Chris. I hope you guys enjoy your evening out. Thank you. Yeah, and take care of Heather because it could be your last. You're funny. I don't even know what that means. You will, you will, all right, guys, have a good one. Broken jewil in the morning,