Second Date Update PODCAST: Commando Boy

this one and I'm just learning this. Yeah. I mean, you know, everybody knows that the best place to meet a girl is definitely at a wedding. Yeah, so tell us about the girl that you want to call today and when did you pounce during the wedding? Well, her name is Rose. We were both in the party, so she was one of the bridesmaids. I was a groomsman. She caught my eye, so you know, we walked down the aisle together, so we had a lot of time in the chit chat. Oh. She actually the person that

you were paired up with. It was Yeah, so we were they had to stand there waiting and all that. Wow. I mean the reason why is because we were the only two single people, so they put us together up it was less fate. And then they're like, well, you two losers don't have anybody you can walk down out together. Yeah. So we had a few drinks at the reception. Everybody was getting loose, everybody was dancing. I was joking around, and you know, I thought she was cute. I was

going to ask her out. So it was a wedding. I decided to get down on one knee and you know, you did it in the middle of the reception. Yeah, I mean it was It was a good time. Everybody was joking around. So I got down on one knee and I proposed a date to her. And did she cry? She didn't cry. I could tell she was a little embarrassed by it, and she's like, get up, you idiot. Like she's got a really cool, dry sense of humor,

really sarcastic, which I find that attractive. And I'm assuming she said yes, since you're doing a second date update now? Yeah she said yes. So I was stoked about it. It It was like a good match. Awesome, what'd you guys do on your date? We went out to a sushi spot that I really like, and it was great. I guess the only one thing that I'm sort of I'm going back and I'm thinking, like, what did I do?

Did I say something stupid? And there was a part where she was I don't know how we landed on this topic of conversation, but we started talking about underwear, and I basically just told her. I was like, I don't, like I personally don't believe in underwear. I just don't. You don't believe in it, Like you don't think that it's an actual thing, because I can tell you it exists. No, I know it's an actual it's an actual thing. I got that, But I just think it's unnecessary. I think

it's the most uncomfortable thing that man has invented. It's just no need. Why why do you have to wear underwear? Underwear was a belief system. I didn't know that until now. Yeah, you're pretty passionate about going commando. It sounds like I just don't feel the need to wear underwear. Why am I going to restrict myself. It's not like I'm wearing sea through pants or something like. What's a big deal? Okay, So did she take that as like you trying to

imply like Hey, lady, take your panties off. That's what I'm sort of wondering and I'm worried about, which is not at all what I was saying. I wasn't trying to be creepy, but now looking back on and I'm like, I don't know, I was like making a comment on my manhood or don't I don't know. Yeah, I could see how that could look like you're whispering across the table like I'm not wearing any other giving her a tip on what's going on. Yeah, I could see how

that could be a little weird. Did she acts strange? After that? You know, there was like probably a couple of minutes of just sort of awkward, like okay, now I got to get the conversation back on track. But after that everything seemed to be cool. You know. That was like three quarters of the way through the date, so I would say I would say the last quarter was like smooth sailing. How did it all end? Well?

I walked through out to a car again, I was I wanted to be a gentleman, and I you know, I felt like the vibe was going for a kiss, and I did, and she sort of backed away and then she apologized. She said, I'm so sorry. I feel like my breath smells because we were eating fish, so she obviously sushi. So she was like, I feel like my breath smells like fish, and I don't feel comfortable kissing you with my breath smelling like this. I said, oh, I don't mind, because obviously I had sushi too, and

she was like, no, I'm not into that. I'm sorry. Do you feel like thought her breath smelled like fish or you feel like it was an excuse. I'd like to think that it was legit, But now, without hearing from her, I'm like, maybe that was an excuse. Yeah, because if you're both eating the same thing, it doesn't matter. That's what I think. Like I've had onions before, and I've been out on datesment with girls had unisured carlic or whatever. Like it's always that sort of thing. It's

like it doesn't really matter, you know. So have you tried to get a hold of her? Yeah, you know. I dropped her a text later that night and then I said it was it was really great hanging out with you. Let's do it again. And I didn't hear from her that night, Like the next day, in the middle of the afternoon. She was like, yeah, that was

a lot of fun. But then like I sent her another text to set something up and I got sort of like a noncommittal response like yeah, maybe so um hit me up later in the week, And did you hit her up after that? I did, and then I didn't hear anything. So and you sound like such a lovely date from your description, well except for the underwear thing, sounds like a good date. Ye. I don't know. I don't think that's too bad of it, Like that's not

a put off to me. But I dated a guy who went command of all the time and I kind of like had a thing for it. I don't know. I mean, maybe you and I should go out broke. Maybe that's That's not what I'm saying. All right, man, Well, we'll play a song come back, and I'm gonna support you on this one hundred percent. During the song, I'm gonna go take my underwear off and do this commando with it. All right, we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

I appreciate that. All right, man, hang on brooking Jubile in the morning. Second update if you're just joining us for today's second date update. Ryan is on the phone with us and Ryan, I have a question for you. What's that? And hopefully this isn't going to come off as creepy as it did on your date. But are you wearing underwear? Oh? Waiting for the answer, Ryan, I mean,

I told you who I am. I think the answer is no, Like I said, if you're just joining us, Ryan told us about his first date with a girl named Rose. He said the only thing that went weird was somehow they got on the subject of underwear, and Ryan says that he doesn't believe in underwear and shared that with her on a first date. He thinks that might have come off a little creepy to be focusing on his hatred for underwear during the date, But other

than that, he says, everything seemed fine. She's not calling him back, though, and it's been a little while, so we're about to get her on the phone and see what went wrong. And you guys met you you were in a wedding party for mutual friends. Did you find out from the newlyweds if you know she had said anything to them about how your guys date went? I mean I asked, but they said, now she hasn't mentioned anything, so I don't know. I'm just trying to figure out.

It's just confusing because she seemed to have a good time. I had a good time. So all right, I'm gonna call her right now. Okay, cool, here we go. Hello. Hi is Rose there? Yes? Thank you, Hey Rose? How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Oh okay, what's going on? Is there a reason why you're calling me? There is? We actually got an email about you from one of our listeners. Okay, an email about me. It's a guy you went out on a date with. Yeah. His name is Ryan, and

I'm sure you remember Ryan. He says, you guys met at a friend's wedding. Yeah, okay, Well he emailed us and told us a little bit about your date. But he also told us that you're not calling him back. So he asked if we could find out why you don't want to see him. Oh wow, okay. He sounded really excited about you. Yeah, yeah, okay, did you not like going out with him? I mean, I don't know if this is going to go anywhere? And why is that? Can you tell us? Oh? My god, this is kind

of awkward. I can tell you what he told us. Okay, so he said that you guys met at the wedding and had fun and then went to go get sushi. Yeah, he said there was one awkward moment during your date, and he thinks that might be the reason you're not calling him back. Did he tell you what that was. Yeah, he said that he went into a little thing about how he doesn't believe in underwear and how he doesn't like underwear and it's constricting and all that, and yeah,

he says he thought that might have weirded you out. Yeah, yeah, that happened. Um, I mean it was that was a lot of information on a first day. Was that Was that the pivot point that turned you off from him? Well, he didn't even really need to tell me that part about the underwear. Yeah, you know, he was wearing shorts. I noticed at one point when I got up to go to the bathroom that he may have been reviewing a little too much in the short Wait, what do

you mean, be specific? I need specific? Yeah, I think you guys know, like he was kind of hanging out for the world to see. Yeah, I mean I wasn't sure, but then he starts talking about how he doesn't believe an underwear and I don't know, I was right, I guess, all right, so maybe he should have been wearing underwear. Yeah, so wait, do you think it was an accident or was he like putting it on display for you? Oh? God, I don't, I don't know. I mean, I hope it

was an accident too. It was just a lot of information at once, A lot of information. Who should have reached across the table and tucked it back in for him? Oh god? It is that if you guys were wearing shorts, would that be an easy mistake to make? If you sit down, you never know? I mean yeah, like I feel like the shorts must have been pretty small. Yeah, I don't. I don't know if I need to hear that. Do you think it was an accident? I don't know, but you know, to be honest, I don't really care.

I don't know if I if I want to know, I know, I don't feel like that's fair. I mean, if you had a nip slip and nobody told you about it, like, it's not something that you should get blamed for. But it's different. I mean, what if I was doing it on purpose and I didn't care, and it was just out there. So I know how we can find out if he knew that he was sort of dangling about, you know, like I said before, I

really don't care. At this point, well, I think Ryan cares and he's actually on the other line and wants to talk to you. What are you talking about? I mean that Ryan's been listening to this conversation and he wants to talk to you. Why alright? In my defense, I had absolutely no idea that I was exposing myself to you. Honestly, I'm being absolutely sincere here, Like I apologize,

that is not at all. I wasn't trying to do like a one two punch of hey, maybe look at this and oh I don't like underwear, like I share to you. I had no idea that I was hanging out. Okay, No, I mean serious. It sounds like I'm joking with I am. I'm absolutely dead serious. I did not note it was happening, nor would I have, you know, done anything like that. So if I made you feel uncomfortable, I sincerely apologize.

I'm just wondering, you know why you brought it up at that point then it's a strange thing to bring up on a first date. It is, but a conversation sort of went there and I wasn't trying to necessarily steer it there, and then it was like, oh, we sort of landed on that topic. And the second you saw that right beforehand is absolutely a coincidence. It's an unfortunate because fortunate coincidence. You don't feel a breeze or anything.

It's not like I was engineering the day to be all about my junk seeing it me talking about it, like you feel like, if you're a guy who goes commuter, you think you'd be super careful in shorts if that's a likelihood of happening, exactly, really careful. But maybe I had a napkin in my lab, so well maybe I thought like if anything was popping out, like I don't know, like that's kind ever told me about this before. So if if I have been exposing myself inadvertently, I feel

terrible about that. Yeah, now you have something to be aware of. I mean, if I've gone home for the holidays or something, I'm sitting here like with my junk hang out, I didn't know it, so wow, now you know. Yeah,

I mean, look again, I cannot apologize profusely enough. I mean, I really I had a great time with you, and I hope that I mean, you seem to have a you do have a really great sense of humor, and I hope maybe you can just sort of understand that this was absolutely inadvertent and not in any way some sort of pervy, sleazy thing that I was trying to pull out you. So I would love to take you out again, and I will promise to huh, I will promise to wear underwear him though. Ros you know what

he's doing for you right now? Would you like to go out with Ryan on a second date? We will pay for it, and we'll pay for his underwear too, if you give him one more shot. Um, you know at this point, I mean, it's a very heartfelt message, but I'm skeptical. I don't know. Come on, Brose, you guys were in the same wedding for two of your best friends. Like, do you think that your friend's going to be marrying some sleeze ball who would have a friend who would expose himself Like there's got a sub

trust circle there, right or yeah? I have references if you need references that's a good point. Um, I don't know. It's just his underwear, never an option or it's a lot. I will say this if I'm wearing shorts, it's something that in the future I will definitely take into consideration and wear. You know, I just need to suck it up and put on some box or briefer. Just be uncomfortable for a little while. It's just a couple hours, yet terribly uncomfortable to me. But yeah, I mean I

would do that, Rose. What do you think one more shot? Come on? If underwear is provided, I will go on a Saturday. Yeah, there you go. Congratulations, Ryan, thank you. I mean, Rosette's awesome. And I do I think I have a pair of underwears somewhere around my house. All right, Well, I mean, and I promise you, like, if I do not have them, I will buy them. I'll buy a

three pack. So I mean, there we go. If you don't have a pair of Ryan, I'll send you a pair of mind you can where we can share a lovely thing broken jewil In the morning, it's just me, myself and