Second Date Update PODCAST: Christians Mingling

What's her name? Mia? Mia? Okay, so you met her on this website. Yeah, I did the normal thing where both expressed into a message dirt through the website, and from there it was awesome on for a little bit and then for about a month straight we were hitting probably almost every other night. Sometimes there'll be three four days ago by, but it's very progressing from there. So you guys talked a lot before you actually met in person.

That's the thing. We actually haven't met in person yet. Yeah, date kind of Nathan's one of those guys that date never actually happened. Yeah. I'm walking to the date and I get a phone call from her and she tells me that she's got an emergency and that she's going to have to cancel. She's flying to California. You were actually at the place that you're going to meet her, and she called you and said that she was flying

to California. I mean I would literally pulling into the restaurant practically, Oh man, you didn't happen to notice if she was like in the restaurant or like in the vicinity of you when she called you right like maybe she was waiting for you and then saw you and didn't like your outfit and was like, oh, no, thank you. You didn't see her anywhere? Well, look, I've been to meet someone before that I didn't like it, and I just took off when I saw him, like the ultimate jerk.

You wouldn't spend months talking to us, So you didn't see her around you, did you? No? And that's part of the other thing about this that's crazy enough. She didn't even have a profile tech so I've never seen a picture of her. You never, You've never seen a picture of this girl. No, I couldn't tell you what she looks like. And I had asked, and she said, I'd rather toolp a relationship. Yeah, how do you start talking to someone on a dating website that doesn't have

a profile picture. I know that they're out there. They usually have like a silhouette or somebody that hasn't uploaded it or whatever. But why would you I don't know. I would not talk to somebody on a dating website that didn't have a profile picture. I'd want to see them from having online dated. Even somebody that only has one is kind of sketchy. Guy. Yeah right, you want some of them doing activities, and so what made you want to talk to her if she didn't have a

profile picture? In all honesty, at that point that day, I just was going around and looking for people online, and it's somewhat near the area, and I just sent a message saying, hey, how's it going, just casting a wide neck. Yeah, I'll be honest with you that they didn't have anything to do. I was on the site figure that i'd stake up a conversation. So you went to go meet her, and she called you right before and said that something came up and she had an emergency.

Do you believe her? Do you think she was lying to you? Well? I was lived at first and pissed, and but the conversation actually went on. She wanted to talk to me while she was waiting for her flight. Okay. It made me believe her, and I sort of tried to ask her what was going on? Is there anything I could do? Well? Any help? Nathan. Let's face it, there's no way she's lying to you because you met her on a Christian website. Don't lie, so you know

that she's telling the truth. But you actually stayed on the phone and chatted with her while she was waiting for her plane to leave. Yeah, okay, And you do you think that maybe you're getting catfish like she's just not who she says she is. I mean, I want to believe in the best. But I've texted her a few times done and I haven't gotten messages back. So nothing bad. Point. There's a large fortune to me that's thinking.

What AD's name is going on? I don't know if it's a kid, a boyfriend there, husband, I don't know how long she's in California for. I just don't know what's going on at all. And how long ago has it been since you talked about five days? It's been about five days since you actually spoke to her. Yeah, still an emergency. You don't think she might need a little more time with whatever it is. I mean, in hindsight,

probably nobody jumped the gun a little bit. But at this point I don't understand the miss text messages well, and you've got to be emotionally invested. I mean a lot of people would consider this a relationship even though you haven't even met yet. God would definitely for sure. All right, man, well we'll play a song, come back, call her, see if we can get her on the phone and get your second day update. Okay, looking jubil

in the morning. SEC. I'm gonna be honest, I really don't care if Nathan, who was on the phone for a second date update, gets a second date out of this. I just want to know two things about the girl that he was supposed to meet up with on his date. One what does she look like? And two? Why did she have to go to California an emergency? Yeah? That's all I really want to know. Yeah, I want to know why she had to bail on him before their date even started. If you're just tuning into the second

day update, Nathan is on the phone. He wants to call Mia. They met on a Christian dating website. Interesting note she didn't have a profile picture. He was just chatting up people that day, and God's love is blind brought them together. He has no idea what she looks like. Anyway, they were supposed to meet for dinner, and when he was walking up the restaurant, she called said she had an emergency in California and had to go. So we haven't heard from her since, and he's wondering why she

hasn't been calling him back. Now, you do believe her that she had some sort of an emergency in California. I don't know. I do believe her, But this part of me that is just like, why he hasn't she reached back out yet? I don't understand that. Why do you have so much trust in this person that you've never seen those of the conversations they were in depth. I mean, who knows. Maybe she's really good, but it was consistent and was just the interests and the stories.

I mean, these aren't like five minute chats or anything like that. We really got end up. Okay, cool, Well, I'm gonna doubt the phone of her right now. See if she picks up the phone, and maybe we can find out what happened in California? Or I mean, if you want a second date two, I guess we can do that. Do you want a second date with her? Let's hear what the explanation is. So you're just like us. You just want to know what went on in California that you had to call in on your date. All right,

I'm gonna doubt the number right now. All right? Hello, Hi, can I speak to Mia? Please? This is she? Hey Mia, how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning from where Brooke and Jewil in the Morning the radio show. I'm on the radio, Yes you are? How are you? I'm sorry? I'm calling you because we received an email about you from one of our listeners.

Really his name is Nathan Okay, and Nathan emailed us because he was supposed to go out on a date with you and then you ended up having an emergency that you had to go to in California. Since that day, Nathan has been wondering why you're not answering his text messages, so he emailed us to call you and ask why. Okay,

this is weird. I know it is, but Nathan wants to know if you don't like him if you don't want to see him, something like if you if you don't want to see him, just tell us, We'll tell Nathan and he won't bug you anymore. But other than that, he's wondering if you still want to go out with him. So is there anything that we can tell Nathan from you? Just tell him I'll call him and sorry, I've been I've been busy. So you do want to see Nathan again, I'm just I'm really busy right now. So I just

don't know when. Okay, I just don't know when. All well, I appreciate you talking to us for a few minutes. We won't take much more of your time, but I just have to know do you want to see Nathan again, because it sounds like you don't the way you said that. If you don't, I'll let him down easy for you. I just look, I'm doing some stuff in my personal life that I just need to I can't. I don't want him to be involved in. Okay, So your your

emergency was legit. When you called him at the restaurant and said that you had an emergency, I was speculating that you were lying. I'm in California. You are okay? Why did you fly so last minute? Though? Look, I'm a little embarrassed about it. It was for a job. I don't I don't want Nathan to judge me for it. You're embarrassed about the work that you do. Ah, promise you won't tell him this, sure, I mean, I'll look,

I'll tell him. I will tell him that you want to see him again, but I won't tell them any other details if they're really embarrassing. So I'm doing a photoshoot for Playboy? What You're in a Christian mingles site and you're just because I appreciate my body does not mean I am not a good Christian. I'm just using the body God gave me. Okay. So you're doing a photoshoot for Playboy? Yeah? Please? Are you serious? Yes, it's

a job. Okay, that's I'll tell you why that confuses me because he told us about how he met you, and he said on your dating profile you didn't even have a profile picture. Normally people that would pose for Playboy would have a lot of pictures on their dating profile. Okay, But also people who posed for Playboy tend to be treated differently because of the way they look like I want them make him to get to know me for me, you know, for my brain and my personality and not

my you know, And you talk to him a bunch. Yeah, you never brought up what you did for a living. I didn't want him to think I was some hussy or not a good Christian or whatever, because I am. I have a really good relationship with God and I just happened to do this for a living. When were you going to drop this news on him? Well, I wanted to get to know him, and I wanted him to get to know me, and I wanted to build a solid foundation so that he knows where I'm coming from,

you know what I mean. So it's not like because there's so many stereotypes, and I hate that there's so many stereotypes of women that pose nude and models and and just you know, there's so much wrapped happening, and not everybody is the attention seeking hussy that they're putt you know, right like that, you got a great body, God has gifted you with wonderful looks. Might as well use them to your advantage and make a little dough.

I don't right, that's exactly right. And you you said that you want to get to know him on another level before you go into all that. Right, right, that's perfect because you sort of just did that. What do you mean, Nathan is actually on the other line and heard exactly what you just said. Yeah, you've already been this far. You might as well say hi to Nathan. Yeah, someone sounds exciting. Update it going. I'm sorry. I didn't want you to find out this way, but I don't

even know what to think anymore. I mean, of all the reasons you durned to California, this wasn't even anywhere near the list. Yeah, I'm sure I don't. I don't know that I hate it. I don't know that I know I don't like it. But the people in my life, I don't know how they would react if we went down this road and you weren't playboy. Yeah. I don't want to be the person who judges you. I sort

of understand where you're coming from. I mean, believe me, it's not like I haven't seen the playbool before, and but I don't know what's to think you bad boy, Nathan. It doesn't make me a bad person, It doesn't make me a bad Christian. I really, I actually love what I do, and I think God made me for this. Nathan, Are you saying that you don't want to see Mia because she poses for these type of magazines. I mean,

I definitely like to see her. Yeah, I was worried guys treat me differently when they see me in person, you know, and like I don't want to be treated Yeah, you want to be treated like every other go out there, I understand, But unfortunately for you, you're not. Nathan, So are you worried that it's the people in your life that are gonna judge you if you were to go out with me? And now I guess I am now

that I'm thinking about it. If we do end up going out, I guess I'm worried about what other people would think. On the other hand, we had an amazing connection and I am like, man, I definitely would like to see her and meet her. Okay, I will say I know that my husband would have a problem if I was taking pictures naked for other men to look at. I mean, he would, period. But it's a job, you know. It's like it's like being an actor and having to kiss somebody else. It's not It's not like I mean

that's it's my body. But my body in this case is just you know, it's it's like an accessory. And Nathan, if you like me, who cares what anybody else thinks? Really, you guys had a lot of good conversations and stuff like that. If she was a porn star and you really loved her, then who cares what your parents think or your friends? Yeah, that one might be different. I'm just saying I love conquers, all right. Yeah, So would you go out? Okay? Mia? Would you go out with

Nathan again? We'll pay for a second day please. You guys didn't even really go out in the first time. So would you go out with Nathan? Officially? I mean if he doesn't think of a bad Christian? Okay, Nathan, are you going to be an idiot and pass up a date with a playboy model? I will pay for it? Um? Mia? How long are you even going to be in Telephonia for? Honestly, I don't know. Um this is kind of a big jock opportunity for me and I really want to not

blow it, so however long half wants you there. At the end of the day, we had an unbelievable connection and I did, at the very least, like the meter in person and see if the chemistry is there in person as well. Sweet awesome, you guys can talk about it more in depth than person. That's sounds and mia. Just another question. What issues are you show research? Broken Jupil in the morning,