Second Date Update PODCAST: Christian Singles

You know It's like, OMG, I was just driving and then my car just broke down outside of a chapel, and I knew that was the universe telling me, you know what, I need to divorce my husband and start dating the pastor from this chapel. Why else would my car break down right there? It's the universe, Okay, the universe knows my dating life best. Very specific messaging from the universe. Well, we have a guy named Connor on the phone today who also got a message from the universe.

Please don't tell me you married a pastor. Bro Connor. What's up? Hey, what's going on? Guys? How you doing? Okay? What was your sign dude. Yeah, I'm scaredness to find out they don't believe in cosmic signs. You just said. It's awful. Connor, do you converse with the universe on the regular. Yeah, you know, I do love to pray. I'm I'm a man of God. You know, you open up your heart and you live with love, you never

know what might happen. Oh okay, the guy says, Oh, I believe in God, and all of a sudden You're like, oh my God, you're a sweetheart. I'm crazy over here talking about signs from the universe. You're a hypocrite. You think forcing someone based on a car breaking down and he's trying to live with that, God telling you God stepping in. He's trying to get me. Yeah, jess right once you say God? Yeah, no argument there, but sorry, Connor, go ahead, no, no, no worries, no where. Connor is

so chill. Yeah, you know, I think you just live with love, my man, It'll come, it'll come. Oh yeah, that's good encouragement. Connor. Who Now, who did you meet? Well? I met Aaron and I met her on Christian singles, So I guess that might be the signies referring to as we were both on the Christian Singles dating app. I don't think that's a side. I think that's just

an algorithm working correctly to match you up with someone. Again, I'm not blind to that, but I think just since we're both on that platform, I guess we would have the same beliefs in general, So you're kind of having a smaller pond of fishing. I guess you could say, Okay, but the actual well, the funny thing is, this isn't the first time we matched on the app. So about a year ago, me and this the same girl, we matched and we started talking and you know, we wanted

to meet up, and then she actually ghosted me. Oh yeah, I don't really know why. She just kind of stopped talking to me. For a Christian, yeah, not a Christian of her at all. Is it if it's on a Christian dating app? Is it angela new instead of that's a good one. You might you might have to copyright that one. So so, but you get that, like it happens all the time on these apps. So a year later, I took some new photos, you know, spruced up the profile a little bit, and we ended up matching again,

so I called her out. I was like, oh, so you know, he came crawling back to me, and I reminded her that we matched last year. She remembered and felt super embarrassed. See, that was more of the sign from the universe that I was talking about the double matching. When you matched twice, I feel like that's the universe telling you something special as well, tell you remember, well,

whatever something's telling you something. Yeah, I feel like God would be smart enough to help the algorithms out and lead us to the right path. Did she take it in stride though? I mean you said she was a little embarrassed about that, Yeah, but it was cool. Now we laughed about it. We laughed about it, but she actually wanted to meet up this time. So we're talking about what we wanted to do. In her pictures, she's really fit, takes care of her body. So I didn't

really know. I mean, not that a good Christian man would care about that, now, would he. Well, I didn't know what she might want to eat, so I'm not that smart. I guess I thought she was vegetarian because she was so in shape, So I suggested the vegetarian place, and then she replied, She's like gross, that's disgusting. Is if you're a vegetarian, I don't think this is gonna work. Oh yeah, it's another sign. So what did you guys end up doing? So we actually ended up going to

a barbecue joint. So that was the complete opposite. There you go, that's reading the signs correctly. You're getting it common exactly. So dinner was great. You know, I got the ribs, she got a chicken dinner, and everything was really good. But she wanted to try mine and I was like, yeah, of course you don't have a rib or two. And I share my plate with her and she's mowing down my ribs. I mean we just watched, like, you know, the fourth of July hot dog eating contest.

I mean she's going for the world record of a racket rich. Oh was this sexy to you? Or was this gross? Because I mean there's two different types of guys and how they would read that in the moment, I was wicked hungry, right, I was like slow down. I was like easy, you know. I eventually I was just like, hey, could you stop and let me have some of my dinner? Did you laugh? She kept apologizing, but we were laughing about it, and then I made some jokes about how, you know, like there's no way

I'm going to share a dessert with her. That's pretty funny, So overall I thought it was awesome. At the end of the night, there was a pretty passionate kiss. I think I got a little riblet out of her teeth. Dude, losing her teeth with your tongue. Yeah, you know, you know you didn't get to enjoy the dinner there, so I got a little later, a little second meal in there. That's nice. You did not say that to her after you were done kissing her, did you? No? I did?

That really just turned me off, But overall I thought it went well. I thought was one hundred percent chance we would get to have a second date. But since then I haven't spoken to her. And again I thought it and really really well. So I'm just trying to figure out what went on. So that's why i'm here. What what do you think could possibly be the reason

that she's not calling back? I don't know. Maybe she was mad about me not letting her eat all the ribs, But like we were joking, everything, everything seems fun like it all seemed coach er to me, So, did you ever find out the reason she goes to you the first time a year ago? No? No, I mean that was just online. So I feel like that's pretty standard. Just sometimes just stop talking. Yeah, well, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play a song for you, Connor.

We're gonna it's just for you. By the way, no one else is allowed to listen. Just condy. Yeah. But when we're done with the song, we're gonna come back. We'll call Aaron for you, and we'll get you your second date update. Okay, all right, sounds good. All right, if you're just tuning in for the second date update. We're on the phone with a good Christian man named Connor. Yes, so I think before we continue any further, we should probably bless this phone call. Connor, would you like to

say grace over this call? Because I'm Jewish, I don't know how works. Sure, I think we can. I think we can all come together, all right? Can we close our eyes and hold hands. Let's just do it, all right? We don't do this stuff. We can we can do it. We can do it, all right. Let's all take a deep breath and just thank our heavenly Father for bringing us together today in the quest of real love and friendship.

We realize that there are ups and downs and misunderstandings and opportunities to just keep getting better and lead our lives with love and lead our lives with truth. All right, I don't want to interrupt, but we gotta wrap this up. Can you can you do the abbreviated version of the prayer? I wrapped it up. That wasn't baby? Yeah, okay, I think to say you do it? You say amen at the end of Amen. Hashtag hotties for God. Yeah, no, you don't. I kind of like it. I don't know

how this Christian thing works anyway, Oh my God. If you're if you're just tuning in, Connor is trying to get a hold of a woman he met on Christians single name Aaron. They went out to get barbecue together, had a really good time. They swapped dishes, and then at the end of the night they even shared a very saucy, no unintended kiss. Yeah, a lot more swapping there. Yeah, barbecue saucy kiss and it was really great. But now Aaron has not been reaching out to Connor since then.

We're trying to figure out why. I remember they matched a year ago and she ghosted him then too, So this is the second ghosting by the same woman. Yeah, you're right. Actually, oh what was that, Connor? I'm hungry from the barbecue interested reaction to hearing that. Stay focused for a few more minutes, Connor. Okay, because we're going to call her right now and then you can go order barbecue. All right, let's do it, all right, I'm a doll the number. Here we go. Hello, Hi, can

I speak to Aaron please? This is Aaron. Hi, Aaron, how are you doing? My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi. Hi, Hi, your moments talk with us? What's up? Not much. We're just doing a little segment that we do all the time on our show called a second date Update. It's where if you go out on a date with someone and afterwards you're not calling them back, you can reach out to us and we'll call that person for you

to figure out the reason why. Okay, And we're reaching out to you today because you recently went on a date with a guy named Connor. Oh yeah, that's not going to happen, so no need really, yeah, no need. Why would you not just call him back and tell

him why or something? Um? I am just not interested because the way that Connor described it to us, he said a very nice story about how you matched on Christian singles and that you had actually matched a year before then, So it was kind of like it felt like it was meant to be. Okay, someone read that sign different. Yeah. Well he said that you guys eventually went to a barbecue place together and it even ended with a very passionate, smokey barbecue flavored kiss. So did

I get any of that wrong or what did I miss? Well? I mean that was all accurate, but there is something that he doesn't know that happened after the date that really just made me like, no, nope, happened after the date? Yeah? Did he do something or did you find something out about it? Yeah? Well both? I like saw him after the date. What do you mean you saw him? Well, we were going out of the parking lot doing kind of like the same way, okay, So I was like

right behind him. I don't he didn't notice me or anything, okay, And I saw him like put on his blinker and I don't know, I maybe I shouldn't have done this part, but I just started to follow him because, oh no, well he he was going in a different direction, like from where he said he lived. So I was maybe he just needed to get gas for his car, or maybe it's not your like it's one date, it's none of your business where he's going. Maybe the best nat well,

I mean at that point was harmless. I was just like curious. So anyway, I followed him, and first he pulled up to an ATM. But then he gets back in his car and he like drives a block and pulls into this parking lot for a gentleman's club. Okay, and then he goes inside. Okay, So wait, are you against strippers or are you just not liking it that it happened after your date? I just thought, like, how classless and weird. Right after our date with me he

goes there to like get his jollis or something. That was just like just freaking out. It's a little strange after the first date to go to I mean, he said, you guys shared a pretty passionate kiss at the end of the night, so now maybe you riled him up a little bit, Okay, unacceptable? I mean, is there. Any way, there could be an explanation as to why he's there, Like his mom works there as a bartender. Yes, that

would be the worst possible for it. But anyway, the worst part of it all the next day, I'm driving, like, because it's kind of on my way back and forth from my house, past this gentleman's club, and his car is still in the parking lot. Okay, but you're stalking him at this point. No, I was driving past because that's my route, Okay, but there's his car, and like, I don't know, I mean, obviously he got wasted and like Ubert home or something or when home wants someone.

I don't know. It's just all of a too too too sketchy. Well, I mean there could be I mean I know it's maybe out of the realm of possibility, but there could be an explanation for this. What could that possibly be? I wonder the same thing, And I think that's why I should probably tell you. At this point, Connor's been on the other line listening and he's heard

everything that she said, So let's just ask him. Connor. Yeah, you naughty little Christian boy, what were you doing and going to very very, very great detail when you tell us sure, sure, I mean, I mean, I'm just a little taking back that you were keeping tabs on me. I don't know if I should be alarmed or flattered, but neither. So when we were on our day, as it was winding down, I was getting text messages from my friend and people who I also don't know on

my friend's phone. So my friend, as a lord loving man himself, has some fun and his vice seems to be the club with the dollar bills, and he went to the club after a couple of drinks, didn't have the right amount of funds, and started getting lap dances on credit. As we all know, that's probably not a

good idea in general. I don't think it is a thing because I started getting calls from the club bouncer that they were going to take this guy out back and you know, teach them a lesson what The club bouncer has your phone number, and you certainly seem to know a lot about how things work in there, so it sounds like you're a regular. Come on, be honest, Connor, you can't be. Jeffrey, Jeffrey, Jeffrey and Brook. You guys didn't hear the story okay, callowing me from my friends phone.

So my friends drunk. He was a couple grand of back room dances. They're calling me and they're saying, hey, like if you want to come get your boy and bail them out or else. So I didn't want to let my friend go down that road and get his you know, beat up and get hurt. So I went over there, I got some money, I went, I got him out out there. I didn't want to leave this car there because they were going to probably mess up

as car as he left it overnight. So I decided to drive his car home and I got him out of it. Do you believe him? I don't know, but it just sounds like they're covering up something to me, that's just what it sounds like. Oh, as a god fearing Christian man, it's hard to cover up the truth. So I just I got to put it out there, and I guess we can all make our final decisions. I feel like I believe the lies, the lies in

the specifics. I mean, how specific can you get? I can show you the text messages of this guy founding me for money, you wouldn't. Okay, here, here's where my issue lies. So Why are you so defensive about it if it's all the truth? Because I don't want to. I don't want to ruin a fun relationship. We had a great time, Like, I want to go out on a second date. I like this person. Why so now I'm gonna lose it over something that I thought might

be a you know, a year's future. Probably my friend will look back and say, wow, my buddy bailed me out, Like I thought I did the right thing you did. What do you think, in Aaron, after hearing that description, I mean, I I'm inclined to believe him. I don't even though, come on, it's worth a second chance. Isn't that what they teach in the Bible, like multiple chances, or that they forgive this. So at this point, Aaron, I would like to ask you if you would be

interested in going on another date with Connor. We will pay for it. Do it. What do you have to lose? Oh my gosh, All right, fine, but Connor, I'm trusting you right now. But I actually wouldn't mind if you give me your friend's number so I could talk to him about it. That wouldn't make you feel better? Ah, yeah, that seems fair. I'll give him a call. First, let him know that you're gonna call him, and then you can whoa hold on, hold on, I mean now, hold on.

You already agreed to a date. Let's all right now you guys have already agreed to go on another date. So good luck on the second date, guys. And lord, if this is a bad idea, give us a sign right now. Look out. Aaron Raiding and Studio Moving ninety two point five