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Second Date Update PODCAST: Car Shopper Sleeper

Nov 14, 201416 min
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How far would you be willing to go to avoid someone? Would you change your phone number? Your job? Move towns? The guy in today's Second Date Update is changing EVERYTHING about his day to day schedule just to avoid the girl he went out with... and you won't believe why. Find out in the Second Date Update!
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Rooking Jewels second date update The actual date on today's second date update is crazy. All right, So this girl emailed us she actually went car shopping with a guy on their first date and he ended up buying her a Car's not true. No, that's not true at all. The car shopping part was true. I made up the rest. Morgan is on the phone with us right now to do a second date update. She wants us to call a guy named Graham today to find out why he won't call her back. How are you, Morgan? I'm good?

How are you, Jewel? So you went car shopping on your first date? Huh? Yes, we did that. Actually sounds kind of fun to me, of course. How did you buy more cars in one year than anyone I've ever met in my life? I like going on test drives. I don't think a girl would enjoy doing it. But Morgan,

how does somebody go car shopping on a first date. Well, we met at the gym, and we've been seeing each other there for like two months, all right, and I was hoping he would ask me out, but he didn't, so finally I was like, hey, man, let's go out sometimes. So this isn't like a brand new thing that you got. You guys actually know each other pretty well. I mean yeah, like we see each other, you know, a couple of him in a week, and we always say hi and

have like at least a conversation. But you've never seen each other outside of the gym. This would be your first out of the gym experience together. Correct. Okay, when you asked him to hang out, did he know that it was like a date situation or did he think you were going out as friends? I think it was a date because what he said was the reason I haven't asked you out is I don't have a car

right now. He's like, my car's in the shop. So well, that had to feel good for you when you finally got up the nerve to ask him out and he was like, hey, I've been thinking about asking you out too. Yeah. Yeah, all right. So he doesn't have a car and you offered to go buy him a car. That's very nice. No, I didn't buy him a car, but since he didn't have money, thought it would be nice to go car shopping together. Okay, but it's nice skip drinks and the

normal date stuff and go to car shopping. I'd always thought it would be like a fun that kid in a good way of helping him out. Yeah. I actually think that would be cool if I didn't have a car and somebody and a girl asked me out and I was like, well, you don't really have any transportation. I don't want to take you on the bus, and she's like, well, that'd be fun to go car shopping. I'll take you out. I would think that that would be a fun date actually, so long as you avoid

the drinks before the test drive. Yeah. Did he seem to enjoy it? Yeah, we had a really great time, Like it was like a fun thing to do on a date. Is there anything that happened while you guys were out looking at cars that you think was awkward for him? Or the only thing that came to mind is like once I introduced us as like a married couple, they asked if we were you know, and I was like, oh, yeah,

that you know, where do yeah? And I thought it was hilarious And he did not laugh, So maybe that wasn't Maybe he's like, oh man, that's just a little crazy. I mean, if that happened to you, Jewel, would you think that this girl is automatically thinking marriage off the first date. It depends how she did it. If you looked at him while you were saying it and you're like, yes, we're a husband, and then why then I'd be a little creeped out. Did he seem upset by that? Or no?

I wouldn't say. Instead, he just looked really uncomfortable. Oh yeah, did you guys kiss or anything. Get in the backseat on one of those cars. Really give it a test drive, you know the HU. Have you guys talked at all since your date? I mean you were friends at the gym, I'm assuming weirdly, I have not seen him at the gym at all, but we have been texting like a little bit. But I definitely feel like he's blowing me off. So he not good. He's responding to your texts. What's

he saying? Just like basic conversation like hello, I know me too, whatever, So it feels like he's avoiding you. I think he's blowing me up, but I can't be for sure. So that's why I need your help. Okay, we'll play a song, come back, call him, get him on the phone, and get your second date update. Okay, think guys, all right? Hang on point five looking jubil in the morning, if you're just joining us for the second date. Update, Morgan is on the phone. She wants

to call this guy named Graham. They apparently have been jim buddies for a little while. She finally asked him out. Unfortunately, he didn't have a car, so he didn't want to go out with her, but she said, let's go car shopping. It'll be fun, and that's how they spent their day together. She says that everything went well except for one kind of awkward moment where she pretended that the two were married to the car salesman and he seemed a little

weirded out by that. But other than that, everything seemed cool. And now they've talked a little bit. But it's obvious that he's avoiding her. Morgan, are you ready to give him a call and find out if he is actually avoiding you? Yes? I am ready, all right? Anything else you can think of that might have caused him to not want to see you again? No, everything was really great. It was really natural and fun and like I was thinking about it, and that was pretty harmless. Like he

wasn't upset. It wasn't that big of a deal. Okay, you haven't seen him at the gym at all. No, I will say it's someone who's dated, like everybody at my gym. If you get somebody to change their gym schedule, then you might have done You've done something wrong. All right, Morgan, here we go. I'm gonna Dallas phone um right now, see if we can get him on the phone. Okay, okay, Hello, how can I speak to Graham? Please? This Graham? Graham? How are you? This is Jewbil from brook and Jewil

in the morning like the radio. Yeah, just like the radio. How are you doing fine? I'm calling you because you recently went out on a date with one of our listeners and they've been trying to get a hold of you. You know what I'm talking about. I think so, Morgan. Yeah, why aren't you calling Morgan back? Uh? This is kind of weird, Like I don't feel like it's any of your business. Really, Well, it kind of is my business because Morgan actually asked me to call you and find

out if you're avoiding her. Well I'm not. I'm not. You're not avoiding her. I mean I've been texting her and stuff. I don't know. Okay, but she says, she's been trying to see if you'll go out on another date with her, and you've been very unresponsive. And then she also hasn't seen you at the gym, so she's confused and feels like you don't want to see her again. That's not true. I mean I want to see her

again for sure. I'm in a bit of a situation right now that just prevents me from pursuing it at the moment. Okay, is it the car situation? She told you about my car situation? Yeah, she just told us that she asked you out on a date at the gym and you said you couldn't go out because you didn't have a car at the time. Was in the shop, and so you went car shopping together, which sounds like a fun date. Yeah, that's why I'm asking. Is it

because you don't have a car? Well, no, that's no, all right, So between me, I do have a car, it's not that. So you lied it about the car. Well I didn't. Yeah, well I kind of had to because you guys, you know, if you keep this between us, the deal is that at the moment, I'm like kind of locationally up in the air. Are you living in your car. Yes, oh, all right that Hey, I'm sorry to hear that. Man, I'm temporarily staying in my car because I had a really focused job like four months ago.

So I quit and I couldn't find anything right away, and then rent was zoo and I had to you know, leave my spot, and so it basically came down to the fact that it was like, you know, I want to go on a date with Morgan, but literally everything I own is in my car, so it's kind of weird, like show up and be like, hey, welcome to my home. Okay, So you haven't been You haven't been avoiding Morgan because

you don't want to see her. You've been avoiding her because the situation that you're in right now doesn't feel ideal to be dating somebody and might not be that attractive to her exactly. Yeah, you know, and I'm guessing that's why you're not at the gym is because you

can't afford the membership right now. Well, like, I mean, the gym is actually the one thing that I do have because I use it to like shower and like make myself presentable, and you know, I've actually I just know when Morgan goes so I try to like avoid those times. Do you feel like she's not gonna want to see you if she found this information out? She seems like she's pretty nice. Yeah, yeah, I mean, I know she's really nice. She's like definitely one of the

coolest people I've met in a really long time. But I just like I don't want to up, So I don't think you have to worry too much. I dated a guy that lived in this car. Didn't end well, but I still dated. Yeah, Like, I mean, my situation is going to change, and when it does, and I'm gonna really pursue this, Like she's a great girl and I just don't want to start off on a bad foot. Well, then what can I tell her then? Because she had us call you because she wanted to find out if

you're avoiding her. If I just tell her, hey, he's not avoiding you. Just trust me, Just hang out for a little while and he'll be back, that's gonna sound kind of weird. Don't you think you should just be honest with her and see what she says. I mean, I guess I don't know, but I'd rather like tell her myself, you know, perfect, I can actually make that happen for you, Graham, because she's actually on the other line listening. Serious. Yeah, I gotta go, you guys, I

hold up a second, Graham. We just need like one second with you. Graham. Hello Morgan. Wait, I'm so confused that which had happened. I'm pretty sure he hung up on us. I mean, I'm guessing he's probably embarrassed or something. I'm gonna I want to get him back on the phone, though, because I want you guys to talk. Yeah, I mean, I'd love to talk to him about it. Did you know that he lived in his car? No? I mean, but to be fair, like, I only see him the jim So yeah, does it bother you? Um? I have

questions about it for sure. All Right, I'm gonna try to get him back on the phone. See if we can talk to him. Okay, Okay, Hello Graham. Yeah. Sorry, I thought I had a job offer calling on the other line, but it wasn't. Oh well, I was in the middle of telling you that Morgan was on the phone and wanted to talk to you. Morgan. Hello, Hey Morgan, how are you? I'm good? How are you? I'm okay? I guess so I had no idea yeah, well that was kind of the point. I was hoping it would

say that way. But Quinn, you could have told me you're living out of your car, like I would have understood. Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I just I didn't want to like mess anything up before we even got started with anything, you know. I I don't know. I just wanted to be able to like do nice things and like take you places and you know, start off on the right foot rather than tiny to be like some kind of weird thing that like we have to like

overcome together right at the beginning. That's totally understandable. And so do you want to get a job? Are you looking for a job? Like what's your deal? Yeah, I mean I've been looking every day. You know. It's like that's my job right now, is getting a job. You know, it's just not that easy right now. And I'm you know, if you if you could just give me like two more weeks, I'm going to have something by then. I have a couple of leaps coming through right now, and

I'll be back on my feet then. And I don't know, I would just hate to like ruin this before anything even had a chance to happen. Yeah, Graham, now that you guys got this out of the way, I will pay for you guys to go on a second date, would you. I mean, you might as well go out with Morgan again, especially now that she knows what she knows and you guys can talk a little more in depth about the situation. Yeah, it's out there. Yeah, I

want to. I want to. I just hope she will. Okay, But what I'm saying is, Graham, why do you have to wait like two weeks until you get a job. I will pay for you guys to go on a second date. I mean, yeah, Graham, and then you guys kild decide what you want to do about your situation when you go out. But would you like to go out with her? Absolute? Yeah? Morgan? Do you want to

go out with Graham again? Graham? Like, I like you, and I would love to hear more about your situation, and I'm totally down to hang out with you and go on a date with you. It's gonna be so easy to get her back to your place. I mean, that's awesome. I really didn't expect to be that cool about it, and I'm just glad to hear that. It's like a huge relief. There you go, successful second date date. We'll send you guys out again and you can have a good time. Graham, I want to let you know

it's your lucky day to day. Yeah, because not only am I sending you on a second date with Morgan, but I'm gonna go ahead and adopt you. You can come stay at my place if you'd like. I think I'd rather stay in my car in the morning. Today's a second date update might have actually just changed somebody's life. It's Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five if you missed today's brand new second date update. This girl Morgan wanted us to call Graham

because he'd been avoiding her. Turns out that Graham, when we got him on the phone, doesn't have a house. He's in between places right now because he quit his job and can't afford rent, so he's living in his car, and that's why he was avoiding her, because he was embarrassed of that cool. At the end of it, she gave him a second chance. He wanted to go with

him again. She didn't she could look past that. But I say that it could change his life because we're getting so many text message in at seven eight five nine two with job opportunities for Graham, and that's what he was saying. He quit because he couldn't take his job anymore that he was doing because it was terrible, and so he's been looking for a new job and he was going to try to find a job and then hopefully ask her out on a date when he could afford to take her out and could afford to

have a place to take her back to. But everybody texting us at seven eight five nine two is offering Graham a job. I'm going to go ahead, awesome and get all these together, give it to him, and then I'll leave it up to him to get in contact with you guys. But really appreciate that you guys are awesome. We have the best listeners. Yeah, Like we joke around a lot and stuff, but when it comes to like semi serious stuff like this, don't they know that we're

supposed to be all coldhearted? Yeah, feel that station. This is not what we do. This is uncharted territory for us. It's really weird charitable things. But yeah, thank you guys very much. I think Graham will obviously appreciate it. And hopefully he can get a job out of the deal and the two of them can start a relationship or at least go out and enjoy each other's company a little bit. But I will get all the job offers down.

Keep him coming. If you want to try to interview him for a job and you're interested in that at seven eight five nine two, I'll give it to him and see if he can get in contact with you and we'll get an update. I'll stay in contact with Graham and see if we can find out if he actually gets a job out of the deal, and then if he does, I want ten percent because I helped him find that job. Kind of a fine receipt. Look, we're charitable to a point, all right, I'm not an idiot.

Have limitation, all right. Remember if you want a second date update, ILL have to do his email the show Brook and Jewell at moving nine two five dot com.

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