Second Date Update PODCAST: Car Hopping Date

how are you good? Now? Which one are you are? Are Are you a loose car or a fast man? I'm a fast car loose man. Okay, so your email explained the date that you took this girl on. It's really interesting. Yeah. I wanted to do something, you know, sort of unique, and I said, you know, why not go a car Honda. Do you mean like you go to dealers and you just test drive cars or You're like, yeah, oh, pretty much. We're going to like a dealership and you know, Likecedes

and Lexus, you know, really nice cars. I'm like, hey, you know, we're looking at buying a car and we want to test driving and it was a fun way to get to know each other test driving cars that you normally wouldn't drive. Yeah, it sounds like a cool date. Has this something you've done before? No, it's something that I kind of came up with. He let me ask Brooke, because, like, from a dud's perspective, would be awesome to just drive a bunch of cars that I never got to see

the inside of as a woman. Would you be interested in this date? No? No, okay, it sounds terrible. One going to dealerships is like huh yeah, who wants to do that? And too then having some dude go on some weird power trip thing when you like to drive fast car, like the whole thing is too much testosterone from my taste. No, No, it's not like that at all.

I mean it's not like we're, you know, we're going out to test drive a hundred Civic or some car and then talking about the safety features, you know, or a mini bag like hey from just fit seven people. You know, we're like, you know, we're test driving very nice cars convertibles, you know. Yeah, but how much conversation and sexy can you have with a car salesman in the car with you. Well, they don't always go with you know, some of the nicer car dealership let you

go on your own. Yeah, so you know, it's not like you have the third wheel. They're sitting you know, the guy's trying to listen to your game. What's going on? Yeah, that's true. Anytime I've gone to look at a car with somebody else, though, he's like, you two can go ahead and take it and I'll just be here when you get back. Yeah. And I understand if you go into a dealership and you're sending their crunching numbers and so on. We were just test driving the car and

we're like, all right, well thank you. You know, I didn't really like the car and go to the next dealership. You're just wasting the salesman's time instead. Yeah, which is fine to do, because they waste a lot of people's time. You're wasting the car salesman time. I'm all for it. Before we get into more about your car hopping date, where did you meet this girl? I met Hather actually at a singles mixer, you know, speed baiting sort of thing.

Speed and yeah, she wrote my number down, I wrote her number down, and you know, we had a connection. And while you guys were out test driving a bunch of cars, how did everything seemed to go? Did she seemed to really have a good time? Yeah? Absolutely at one point, you know, we drove for like an hour, I think, and you know, we really hit it off. And you test drove a car for an hour. Did they think you stole it a road trip? No? I think the guy actually I really wanted to buy it.

So he's like, hey, you can test drive the car all day if you want, so he took his word for you, like sure, all right, exactly. And then then I asked her, you know, if she wants to get some lunch and then take her to lunch in the car that you were test driving, should have done? She said sure. He had plans with her friends, you know,

and maybe a little awkward. I didn't want to go in for a kiss, you know, but I you know, kind of give her a hug and I said, you know, I really had a good time and we'd love to see your gang. Yeah. Absolutely. Okay. Do you think she's making that up? Um? The only reason I bring up business We've done a lot of second day updates where people make up like oh, I had plans earlier. Yeah,

um no, I'm gonna get that. And even if she was telling the truth, the thing is is, if she was really truly interested in you and you guys were doing an early date like that, she'd bail on her friends to hang out with. I mean, like her friends would understand if she was on a date and it went long. Yeah, I don't know, a baby shower or something. I mean, we know it's always look d Yeah, I know. I know a lot of women, Cliff, and it's always

a baby shower every time. So yeah, have you heard anything from her since she left your date to go to this damn baby shower? Yeah? No. I called her actually and spent about a week that and she has her called me back yet. So I'm just, you know, trying to figure out. That's why I called you guys. Okay, And you can't think of anything weird that happened in the cars, She was perfectly happy. Maybe the problem was

that you didn't buy a car. You should have gone back to the dealer and said, hey, I'm gonna let the missus wait in the waiting room while men go crunch some numbers. You hang out there and maybe we'll get some dinner and my knew sedan later that could have been? Could have been? That sounds all all right? All right, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, guy to thank you, guys, jam hang brooking jubil in the morning.

Se We're in the middle of a second date update and if you're just joining us. Cliff is on the phone and today he wants to call a girl named Heather to find out why she's not calling him back. Cliff took her on a very interesting and creative date that we haven't heard of before. He took her out to test drive cars. It sounds a lot more boring than it is. I think the whole idea was you get to test drive a bunch of cars that you

normally wouldn't drive. You have some fun conversation and everything else. But here's where I think you messed up, Cliff. Okay, okay, it sounds fun, but I don't think you made it fun enough. You needed to make it a little more exciting. You get in the car to test drive it, and then take the car off a jump, you know, find a jump somewhere and jump that car or Hey, there's train tracks everywhere. Race a train, Drive that car up to the top of the mountain, then drive it down

to shore. What it can really do. Live on the edge, show her just how precious life is. Yeah, you know, and then there's a chance that you'll realize she's not gonna be on this earth for a long time and she might spend the night with you. That's what you should have done. Oh boy, Yeah, that was the plan. Yeah, he said, she's not calling you back. Are you kind of rethinking that whole car idea? Maybe you should have sticked to something more traditional, like, I don't know, say cocktails.

Maybe maybe a nice lunch, you know, a brunch or something. Yeah, would have been better. I think could have combined to both cocktails and test drives. No hopping the car with a margarita. Yeah, I'm very illegal. All right, I'm gonna dollar phone of her right now and find out the reason she's not calling you back. You're ready to go? Okay? Yes, absolutely, all here we go. I'm a dollar phone of her right now, but we're gonna do it intense. Yeah, I can take it up there. Hello, how can I speak

to Heather? Hey, Heather, how are you. This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, who is this Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning the radio show. Okay, I'm calling you because we recently got an email about you from a dude that you went on a date with and for some reason, you're not calling him back. And he asked if we could get you on the phone and find out why. Who are we talking about? His name is Cliff. Oh Helliff. I never want to talk to that guy again. Why because

he used the sketch us creepiest. I can't even Was it just the weirdness of the date or the weirdness of the person you were on the date with. You know those kind of people that get the emails that say a distant relative of yours just died in England and you will get a million dollars if you just provide assist information for the disbursement of the funds and they actually answer those emails. I've made my mind, basically became that kind of person. What do you mean by

you're that kind of person? I don't understand. I mean I'm an idiot for going on a date with him. Oh okay, like he suckered you into it. Yeah, and you knew from the beginning. You should have said no. I mean from the beginning I didn't know it, but about fifteen minutes into the date, I definitely knew, and I should have just walked away. Then I talked to Cliff. He doesn't sound like a weird guy. Can I tell

you my side of the story? Yeah? Absolutely. Okay, first of all, we'll put aside the weirdness of our date. Is going to test driving car, okay, sure? And then we're driving this car for a long time and he goes, do you think I look sexy in this car? Did he say just like that too? Yeah? And like really seriously and crazy, He's like, do you like this car? Oh my god? How did you respond to that? And I'm like, I guess yeah. And so then he goes,

do you think I should buy it? Oh? Boy? And I'm like, I mean, if you want it, do you need a car? Sure? You know, I don't know what it's just so creepy. Yeah. That was my fear when we first talked to him about the date, was that he was going to do something like that to try to impressures. Oh, gets better. Well, then he pulls over and he like, very seriously to me, says, you know, I really love this car. I love myself in it. I love you next to me, and it would you

be willing to co sign? No? No, he did not stop it. Where to God? He asked you to co sign on a loan for a car with him? Yes, And I said, uh, we just met that. And so then he goes on to say, you know, I've gotten some financial trouble a few years back, and my credit is shot and I can't buy a car while I have the you know, the money to make the payments and everything. They're not going to give me a loan and I need a co signer. And I just think

you and I have great chemistry. Like what is even happening? It's like I don't see the song with that. I mean, I don't understand what's such a big deal? What was that? That was? Cliff? Cliff? You're supposed to wait for me to tell her that you're on the phone. Cliff is actually on the phone listening. You ask, well, I mean, I don't know how much I can think of her or you know, making it sound like I was some

creep or weird er, you know. Blah, blah blah. How do you think that that was acceptable for state bhavior? Maybe I was wrong. You know, when I met you, I saw a lot of compassion, And if you had compassion, that you would know that it's not such a bad thing to call sign with me. So, Cliff, you weren't joking when you were asking her to co sign a loan. No, I had to listen. About three years ago, I asked some of the problems with my credit, you know, and I'm working on it, and I think me driving a

better car would definitely give me a better look. Yeah, that's a really good idea. Buy one hundred thousand dollar car that'll, you know, really secure your finance. That's a really building financial stability. So you're saying, Heather, you never had a rough time in your life, and now you're putting me down, your man wipe down? Is that what

you're saying. I have had rough time in the past, I guess, But I've never asked a complete stranger to co sign on a loan for me A complete stranger the second time I saw you, we met the second so I'm not a complete stranger, first of all. Second wall, when I looked last time, when I when I pulled over and I looked at you, and it really made a deep connection with you. And I looked at you and I say, you know what, I can really see myself driving this car with you in it. I meant that.

I meant that, and you could be in it because you could basically own part of this car if you wanted to. I'm totally baffled by this. Do you truly not understand how bad it is what you did? I mean, maybe I trust people totty much. Clif is there anybody? Is there anybody else closer to you that you could have co sign a loan rather than somebody that you're on a first date with? Well, my family, you know, I mean I don't really talk to them, but that's

a full note story. Could you owe them money? Yeah? You know what, Heather. I hope one day that you don't hit a rough time like I did, and you know, maybe some day you need somebody to co sign with you and then you'll remember this time. Do you remember the car? Hobby? You remember me? And you go, you know what? Karma is a bitch, all right? Well, at that point I would love to ask if you guys would go on a second date. Heather, will you go out on a second day with Cliff. We will pay

for it and I'll have somebody co sign that loan. No, yeah, Cliff, I'm sorry. No second date. Man. You know that's fine, you know it is what it is. But hey, Jubel, if you want to co sign with me, you know I'm apport And then you're asking me to co sign alone with you. I mean you were offering. You know I didn't. I didn't offer. I said, like, I've had to have people do that, and trust me, the old you said, if she went out with me again, you find somebody. Yeah, look me, co signing alone with you

would only make your chances worse of getting alone. I don't know. We could always give them free advertising on your radio show. Okay, I'll do that. I'll risk my job and give him free advertising for plugs on the radio, and I'll co sign alone with you, even though I don't know you. I'll totally do that for you. Really, no, we'll not do that, broken jupil in the morning, she'll be the death of me and Lise Wire boben Up