Second Date Update PODCAST: Broken Dreams

know how that goes. It gets so awkward after that, and then you get up and excuse yourself and go to the restroom to try to collect yourself, and on the way to the restroom, you end up going to the parking lot and grabbing your car and driving it through the front of the establishment. Whoa, it happens every time, and that is incredibly awkward. So I'm sorry that happened for you, Justin. No, it's actually worse, worse than worse

than getting an iced tea when you ordered a hot tea. Wow, if you can believe it could possibly be worse than that. I guess we'll get to that in a second. First, tell us about the girl you want to call today? What's her name? Her name is Naomi. Where'd you meet her? Dating? Nap? Okay? And she's pretty pretty cute nose, cute nose, really like a tiny nose, like smaller than the normal small nose. Like I'm picturing somebody with barely a nose, just two

nostrils on your face like a button. Sounds like you're really into the nose, man, Is that a normal thing that you look for in a lady? Yes, it is. Okay, you're you're a nose guy. Okay, Well, I'm a face guy, and the nose is sort of like the focal point of the face ties the whole thing together. Yeah, okay, all right, okay, So you liked your nose and you guys hit it off, and where'd you go on your date? Well? We we went to a nice restaurant, probably nicer than

needed for a first date. Okay. Okay, So you into a real expensive, classy restaurant with a woman who has a button for a nose. Okay. And what was it like when you guys saw each other the first time? It just it couldn't have gone any better. And I was having the best time with her, the best date of my life. Whoa until the table next to us there was a couple having a romantic dinner themselves, and halfway through our dinner, this guy gets down on one

knee and proposes to his fiancee. I can't believe you guys got to witness that? How cool? Oh oh oh, it gets better. But you don't sound like you're excited about it. You were upset. You thought you should have said no? Is that what it was? Stoned out? The restaurant was a plodding Everyone was, you know, clanging their glasses and with everyone looking at us, the guy leans over and he says, hey, this could be you too soon. Oh man, all right, so he didn't make it awkward

for you guys. Why was the guy even comment to you guys? Well, so I tried to field it though I feeld in it, and I felt good about it. I had an impulse, so I went with it. Okay, what'd you do? So? I said, funny, you should mention that. Stand up out of my chair and kneel down and pretended to propose. Why why would you do that? Why is God's planet would make you do something like that? That is wrong on so many levels. I was just

trying to be funny. I thought it was really funny. Yeah, real funny, like upstage the couple that just got engaged, and then make it really awkward between you and your date. Well, I don't think it would have been except I got up and I said, sorry, guys, just kidding. We're actually on a first date. Okay, so you admitted that you weren't actually proposing. Didn't people all think that was funny? Yeah,

everyone thought it was funny. But now all of a sudden, every eyeball in the restaurant was on us as a first date in the middle of the room, next to the couple who have just gotten engaged. Right, okay, look at you? Was your date real awkward? After that, it was excruciating because it really felt like everyone was paying attention to us. The couple who just gotten engaged thought that they should, like should pole around with us, and

they tried to buy us dessert. And at the end of the dinner, the manager came over and he says, look, if you ever want to come back to the spot of your first date to propose, Yeah, yeah, but you're acting like annoyed. You're the one that set yourself up for that. I didn't propose to the woman next to me at the other table, He like back guard didn't. Yeah, you didn't have to fake a proposal to your first date exactly, but you weren't there. You had I had

to make the joke. I don't know, man, I could just see if I was your date. You don't want to see someone joke about that, even like the first time you see a man get down on a knee, you want it to be for real. Well, I just I don't know if you get the sense of humor in it. Okay, did your date get the sense of human though? I think that's most important. I think she did.

She laughed la with everybody else. I think it was me saying that it was our first date and that it kind of put us under a microscope for the rest of the evening. So why do you think all the attention ruined your night? Because it was like it felt like we were on display. I mean you could see the people people would like lean over and whisper to each other, like while making eye contact with me, and I didn't feel good about the rest of the date,

and I think Naomi felt the same way. So how did it all end with you and Naomi with an awkward hug. Oh right, So everything went downhill after that face ended with an awkward hug, and then I kind of reapproached the joke. And this is where I think, Brooke, You're probably right. I went too far because I said maybe we'll come back one day. Oh man, you should not have called back to that joke. You should have pretended like it never happened. That just feels like it's

too sincere. Then I feel like that makes it then not a joke. Well, that's where I'm thinking I screwed it up. I mean, I thought it would be funny, and you know, she didn't really even laugh. And we've texted a little bit and it's it's sort of lukewarm. When I asked her if she wants to do anything, I don't really get a response. Okay, Well we'll play a song, come back, and then call your fiance and

get your second date update. Okay, thank you, yeah, Brooking jubil in the morning, Second d update and welcome back to Dating Tips with Justin from today's Second Date update. Always remember Justin's three rules for a successful first date. One open all doors for your date. Two make sure you pay the Bill and three always fake a wedding proposal? Sure to work? Man Never. Justin is on the phone for a second date update, and today he wants to

call a girl named Naomi. They went out on a date to a restaurant and the couple next to them got engaged. The restaurant was all buzzing about it, and so Justin thought he'd play a funny joke and then stand up after them and go, we're getting engaged to His joke wasn't as well received as he thought it was going to be. Justin, are you ready to give your former fiancee a call? I am, and you know, I just she's just so cool, and so I guess what I'm looking forward is like a we do just

a second chance? Yeah? I mean you said it was up until that point the best day of your life. Yeah, So, was there some sincerity behind your joke proposal? No? I just want to make sure, because you know they say there's always some truth to Yeah. I mean if she just said yes, it would have turned into the worst date ever. Yeah, Okay, I just want to make sure you didn't secretly want that, all right? That could have gone so bad for you If she's absolutely, I'd love to.

And then she calls her mom right then and there, and now your all right, Well, I'm gonna dial her phone number and see if we can get on the phone. Here we go, Oh god, hello, Hi is this Naomi? Yeah? This is her? Hey Naomi? How are you? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook and Jewil in the Morning. What this is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. What's going on? Not much? Just hanging out? What's going on with you? How you doing? Man? What's you up

to to date? Girl? No? I mean like, why are you guys calling me? Oh? Okay, I missed the point. Sorry, we got an email about you from one of our listeners. It's a dude who wants to do a second date update. Do you have any idea who might have email us? I mean, I went on a date recently, but I don't know why he'd email a radio station. What was his name? Justin? That's it. Justin emailed us because he said he really enjoyed going out with you, but now you're not getting back to him. M Yeah, okay, so

that's true. So I guess there's a reason it wasn't just like, oh, I let him know that I ran out of time. Uh No, there's there's definitely a reason there, is it because he proposed to you on the day. I mean, I'm just taking a wild guess. Okay, awkward? Yeah right? Did you think that was funny because he said he meant it as a joke and you were laughing, I mean at first, but then the whole restaurant kind of started looking at us, and it was it was

not comfortable. Yeah, so you think it was just I mean, was that the moment that ruined the vibe before that? I honestly I was having a good time with him and he seems like a funny kind of guy. Okay, so the wedding proposal thing didn't completely kill it for you. Well, it's kind of complicated. Can you you mind explaining so we can tell him? Well, later that night I went home and I just I had this vivid dream and was wearing pants. When I wearing pants, she doesn't even

know who you are, jubil not about you? Oh yeah, assuming again? Sorry, get back to your dream. What was your dream about? So Justin and I were actually getting married in my dream, and like it was really really vivid. Uh, and you know, we went through the whole ceremony. Yeah, I mean I could see I could see how you would have a dream about that, like the night after it happened, of course you meet top of mind. Yeah, but then afterwards it went straight to us in court

getting divorced and did all your dream we dream dream? So, I mean, when I woke up, it was really unsettling, and I felt kind of weird, and I just I didn't know how I really felt about it. But the more I thought about that, that's definitely a sign from the universe, like I should not go out with him again. Right Wait, hold on, whoa You dreamt that you got married and divorced and you think that that's why you shouldn't go out with him again? Oh definitely. Wait. Sorry,

I'm gonna hop in here. Wait what Yeah, Naomi, that's Justin. He's actually been on the other line. Listen, I wants to talk to you. Oh my god, wait, are you joking? No, I say, look, I understand that this is a little extreme, maybe a little overkilled to call in. Oh my gosh, I just I just need to go back to what you were saying. You had a dream that we got married and divorced, and so now you don't want to

go on a date with me again. I mean, justin, first off, this is crazy that you contacted me through our radio station. So this is I think this is almost maybe another sign that we shouldn't pursue this. But that might mean you're saying that the reason that you thought we shouldn't met together is because of a dream that you had, Like I don't. I don't have a dream that I get fired and then not go to work the next day. Well, justin, I believe in signs.

I believe that our dreams do tell us the truth about things. They reveal, you know, what is our path or not our path in many ways, and I definitely think that this is not the right path to take. It would end in divorce. Naiomi, I'm sorry to interject, he real quick, but I just don't think like I've had dreams that my husband's cheated on me. And I mean, as far as I know, I didn't wake up in the morning and say, oh my god, we've got to get divorced because what you did, like it's your your

subconscious it's not it's not from the universe. Yeah, but it's not just a dream. I mean, we had had the couple proposed next to us, then he did the fake proposal. Then in my dream, we get married, then we get divorced. It's just it's too much. I think it's just a sign of an active imagination and there's nothing wrong with that. But come on, Naobe, things don't look good for us in the future. So you're convinced, Naomi that you shouldn't date Justin because of this dream? Yeah,

I mean we got married and we got divorced. That's as clear a sign as any in the universe that we should not be together. I don't even know how you battle that, Justin. It nailed me. I'm sorry, but the sort of sounds crazy to me because it was a dream. It was one dream. You can't make all your decisions in life based on a dream. I mean, obviously you would dream about that that we had the proposal thing happened that night, and so you would be dreamed.

I mean we talked. I think we even talked about divorced at dinner that night. Jess, I don't like, I don't think you get it. Like I know plenty of people. For instance, my grandma, she had a dream where she got sick and she was sneezing, and then she got pneumonia. Whoa was it like the next day or like a year later. No, it was like wiz in a week. WHOA, Well, that probably means her body was already ill. Yeah. I don't know exactly exactly. You're starting to sell me on

this whole dream things. I dreamt I was a wizard in a Harry Potter book once, but I wasn't yet. Are you sure about that? Maybe you got maybe somebody cast a spell on you now you don't even know you can do wizardry. Yeah, I know. Maybe it'll happen in the future. Oh, Jessin, you sound a little kind of angry at this point. Well, I am angry because this is ridiculous. The bottom line is, Naomi, I like you.

I had a lot of fun with you. I think we would continue to have fun together, and that bizarre freak incident is not going to but every time we go out, all right that being said, Nay, would you like to go out with Justin on a second date? We will pay for it. Yeah, you didn't dream that, did you. Yeah, And Naomi, think of it. I feel like you have to give him another chance, just one more time, and if you have a similar dream, then call it quits. I you, guys, I just I've got

a bad feeling about it. I just don't want to tempt the universe with stuff like this because we'll end up regretting it, and I don't want that. Justin, You're a nice guy and I wish you the best of luck. Oh wow, I really think you're making a mistake. I cannot fathom that this is actually happening. But if this is what you really want, Justin, it's not what I want. It's what the universe is telling us. Is right, But it's what you dreamed. Come on, and dreams are signs. Justin.

Either way, Justin, it doesn't sound like you're getting a second date. I'm sorry many Thank you guys for trying. Yeah, no problem, Naomi, thank you for your time. Appreciate it. Before you go, could you do me one favor? What is it? Can you dream about me winning a million dollars? Yeah? All of us? That'd be dope. Text In at seven to eight five nine two says I had a dream once then my girlfriend dumped me. Sure enough next morning,

she laughed. So okay, maybe sometimes you should believe your dreams. Working Jewel in the morning, talking about today's second date update, Justin wanted to call Naomi. They went out for dinner and there was an awkward moment when a couple got engaged next to them, so he thought it would be funny to fake an engagement. He thought she wasn't calling back because of that, because it was awkward, But really she wasn't calling him back because later that night she

had a dream that they did get engaged. Yeah, and then they got married, and then they also got divorced. It's a long dream. That's a lot, ye man. Yeah, And I'm actually just shocked how many people are texting in that they agree with her. Like someone else said, the dream thing is real. I had a vivid dream of a car accident and it happened the very next day in the exact same way. Oh my god. Either that or you just ran your car into a pole because you dreamed about it the night before. I want

my dreams to come true. They never come true, not if their car accidents. Just in general, my dreams have never come true. And why are the ones that always come true the bad ones? Dreams are bad? Dreams are bad. Divorce. Don't have dreams. I think that's what we learned from the second Dreams. Okay, everybody stopped dreaming. Yeah, dreams like ones that you sleep, you know, dreams when you're asleep, and then dreams in life they just never dreams goals. Yeah,

they ruin everything. So the best way to I think, live a stress free life is to just not dream. There you go. Ever, remember, if you want to do a second day update, all you have to do is eat or they didn't go out, by the way, they decided not to go out because she trusted her dream. Texted seventy five nine two. Do you believe in your dreams? I'm curious how many people actually do live their life

based on what they dream. And if you want to do it second day update, I have to do is email the show and we will call the person that didn't call you back. Removed at ninety two point five