Second Date Update PODCAST: Bowling Alley Shoe Licker

just go hey, you throw the ball like this. Sometimes you get slapped, but sometimes you get a phone number. Oh my god, I put a bully ball in your face if I was there. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm looking for. And Melissa, who's on the phone right now, went to a bowling alley on her first date, but now she's not getting a call back. Melissa, what's up? Hi?

How are you? Did you actually know this guy before you went to the bowling alley or did he just show up there and do my special trick to meet you? Oh no, he didn't. He didn't do your special trink um. I didn't know him, my eyes. He met him through some friends. Okay, So it was the bowling alley, the first time you actually laid eyes on each other. Yes, it was. We texted a couple of times, like about where we were going to meet and stuff, but that was the first time we saw each other. Okay, And

what's his name? Jay? Jay? All right, and tell us a little bit about the date. Why do you think you're not getting to call back? I honestly don't know. Guys, Like the date was kind of great or so I thought, like we got there, it was a really cool place. It was bowling in beers. You know, it was a good time. Like we were cheering each other on. You know, we were bowling. I'm not that good at bowling, but neither was he. Like we were both like kind of

like mediocre, but it was fun. Okay, Okay, So he wasn't like some extreme bowling enthusiasts that would like put you down or not date you because you got a couple of you know, he was mad because he was not doing that great job himself. I mean, can you remember like a moment where you're like, oh, this is really going well. Well, the whole date was going really well, But I do remember a moment where I was like, okay, I hope I didn't like screw this up, Like it

just kind of got a little weird. It got kind of out of hand. Weird at a bowling alley can never be good. So we were like we were playing, we were bowling around, you know, we had took a little break and we started talking. We're talking about playing some bets on the game, you know, and just like that's like, oh, I bet a dollar you can hit a strike, or like I bet that at five dollars you can't chug this beer and like less than a

minute and stuff like that. Yeah, it sounds funny. I'm yeah, it was playful and I'm always down for a bet, Like I don't back down. Okay, So he bet me too, you know, to lick the inside of one of the bowling shoes. Oh my god, well are you in like fifth grade? I know. At first I was like what the hell, Like did I do this? I want to see him down, you know, So I was like I kind of have to please tell me you didn't actually do that. I absolutely did it. Oh god, I thought

he would think I was cool. We've done a lot of second date updates. I've got to say, this is the filthiest thing I've ever heard happen. Don't They prayed them? They sprayed the shoes. You know, what did it taste like? I think, Okay, now that's disgusting. I'm not gonna say that. I don't know. It honestly kind of tasted like a wet sock, like a foggy sock. It was. I think you're kind of badass for doing it. Yeah, exactly, that's what I was thinking he would think. But what did

he do after you did it? Oh, he was cracking up. He thought it was the funniest thing in the world. I don't know if he was laughing with me or at me, like he was cracking up, but he I don't know, Like he hasn't called me. We haven't they planned for a second date, So I'm thinking that was it. But then I thought, like I was, okay, I thought we were having a moment. Did you guys kiss? Okay?

So no, I mean we didn't kiss. But where there were moments like when we were getting ready to leave, he walked me out, you know, you're waiting he caught me an ooper and everything. Yeah, that's where there were so many moments I thought he was gonna kiss me, but I'm sure he was thinking about the shoe, because I was thinking about the shoe, Like, is he gonna want to kiss me? So you guys didn't kiss No, I didn't get my kids. Come on, that's out there.

He's the one that dared her. He dared me exactly if you bring it up and you can't handle the actual truth of what happens, and that's on you. And have you heard anything from him since your date? No? I text him the day after the day, just like, you know, Hey, what's up. I had a great time last night, thanks for taking me out. Just thanking him. I made a little joke about the shoe thing. Think I said something like I used the whole bottle of listerine or something. I don't know what I said, Yeah,

but I was like, I'm all good my breast. Okay, Like he didn't text me back. Do you think it's the shoe looking that did you? In? Did just listen to yourself? Well, I don't know. Like my friend said that he was a ladies man, Okay, Okay, so it could be like seventy percent shoe thirty percent he's a

ladies man, and he's just like has other girls. Okay, you know, I don't know how many dates I've been on where I like, if I just wouldn't have licked that damn shoe, I wouldn't have been in this position right now. All right, we'll play a song, come back, call him and get your second day update. All right, thank you, hang looking jubil in the morning. Second if you're just tuning in for the second date update, Melissa

the Shoe Liquor is on the phone with us. And Melissa went out on a date with a guy named Jay. They went bowling, They had a fun time, and at some point they were making bets with each other and he bet her to lick a bowling shoe, the inside of a bowling shoe, and she did it. And like I said earlier, this makes today's second day update the most disgusting in the history of second day updates. We've heard a lot of really bad things. So she licked the inside of the bowling shoe, and she thinks that

that's the reason she's not getting a call back. Maybe it grossed him out too much. Although he did bet her to do it, she hasn't heard from him in a couple of weeks. So we're about to get him on the phone and find out if that is the reason he's not calling her back. Melissa, you got the shoe out of your mouth. You're ready to do this? Yes, it's out of my mouth and I'm ready. And I

think that's the reason he's not calling you back. It's so unfair because guys always say I want a guy's girl, and then you give him a guy's girl, and then they decide they don't want that. Yeah. I wouldn't even hang out with them, my dude friends if he did this. All right, here we go. I'm gonna call him right now. Okay, all right, here we go. Hello. Hi is Jay there? Yeah, this is Jay. Who's this? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. How are you wait? From

the radio show? Yeah? What's up? Man? How are you doing? Okay? What's up with you? Not much? I'm just chilling. I wanted to give you a call because we actually received an email about you, about me. Yeah, it's from a girl that you went out on a date with. Are you serious right now? I am. Her name is Melissa. Do you remember going on a date with Melissa? Oh? Oh, yeah, yeah, I do, all right. I figure she'd probably be easy to remember because she licked a shoe, a bowling shoe

while you guys are out. She told you that, Yes she did. We actually talked to her about your date, and she's confused because she's been trying to get a hold of you for a second date. But you're not calling her back. Oh yo, I could believe she told you about the shoe. Yeah she did. Hey, I can't believe she admitted to doing that either. Man, that was crazy. I would have told nobody that you're the one that dared her to lick the shoe. You've got to take

some responsibility. Yeah, but I didn't tell him. Go tell anybody about it. That's like it's something you, you know, take to your grave, right, I almost exited the inside the whole of a bowling ball. You might actually do it, yeah, dude, I think Yeah, I think you stopped at the appropriate time. Or maybe actually I think it went too far, but it was open to Auntie, but we stopped right there. Wow. Um, so what's the reason you're not calling her back? Do

you don't want to see her again? Let's just put it like this, I date my fash old lady, and certain things are red flags. And I can tell pretty easily when I can't and can't trust somebody. Okay, oh wait, so you're saying you don't think you can trust her. No, I couldn't trust any fun I could throw. Why do you say that? Because what happened at the bullet alley. You can't trust her because she licked you. I would think, Hey, if I dared somebody liquor shoe and they did it,

they would have all my trust, you know what. She had points for that. She was doing good up until this other moment that happened and maybe changed my entire perspective on him. What happened, all right, so we would close it out. We're about to get out of there, and she ran to the bathroom real quick, you know, And I said, okay, cool, I'm gonna go to ticket shoes and check them back in with the front desk.

So as I'm dropping the shoes off, the cash it guy leaned into and say, hey, you know that's your girlfriend or whatever. I'm like, you know, like no, I know, like not yet, you know. It's kind of joking with him, and he was like, well, she might be dodging a bullet, man, What are you talking about? So he didn't tell me he was watching the bowl the whole time, and while while I was setting up my shot, he saw her pick up my phone and it actually started going through

my phone. What exactly how could he tell that that was your phone from all the way back at the bowling desk. No, he said he saw her do it five was six times, and only did it why my back was turned? Oh what really? And you didn't like think to ask her about it or anything. It was the first date if it was a girlfriend, cool, We didn't have it out right through the day, but the first date and you're already going through my phone? So you believe this dude that you don't know who said

she was going through your phone? Yeah? Hell yeah? If anything, he was looking out for me. If the unwritten rule guys look out for guys, he helped me dutch a bullet. So, I mean, she seemed really cool when we talked to her. You don't think that there could be another explanation like she accidentally picked up your phone instead of hers five or six times with my back turn. No, and what she did in some straight shady I don't need that in my life. I'm curious if she was actually going

through your phone though. I want to know the answer to that, and why I don't really know that. I mean she did in the first Dame, what do you think will happened on the second? Why? I just say that because I want to ask her, and I forgot to let you know that she's actually on the other line listening to this conversation. Yo, No way, Melissa, Melissa is still there. Okay, Wow, Okay, I thought you were. I am not sneaky at all. You got it all along that story, his side of the story. It is

not how it looks. It's not what it seems like. Really, So you weren't going through his phone, I mean, not like that. It's not like I hacked into his phone and was looking through every little detail. No wait, Melissa, I was like standing up for you. You actually were looking at his phone when it's gay Listen. I was sitting there, he's bowling his phone buzz loud as hell. I just feel happened to look over and it's right there. I can it's you. I'm not blind. I can see

what it says. So just leave it there. You don't pick it up and then start reading all his messages. I just well, I saw I saw a name and it looked like a female's name. I think it was Sammy or something like that, and I just leaned the phone over to see what's The text said, he's the one who has the message right there on the screen, and it said are we still on for some matter? Are you still picking me up? Something like that? Like at nine, like right after our date. It was really

it was weird. So I was just like, what what's that? That was? It was you looking at my messages? I mean, but your messages were sitting next to me, so I looked over. I wasn't trying to be sneaky or anything like we're having a good time, all right, all right? Cool? So all right, so you saw something on my phone? Why are you going back to my phone again? Five or six times after that, did you picking up my phone? It was not. It was like two or three times.

Why are you picking up my phone? That's that's the point I'm trying to get you. Why are you picking up my phone? It kept going off like the whoever that girl was, she kept texting you. So I'm just trying Okay, wait, you the phone monitor or something. No, but me and you are on a date, and I want to know if you're involved with someone else. I know you're really I'm sure you know your own damn reputation and died shorty. That's none of your business when together. Look,

you have a reputation. You know your reputation. I know it, our friends know it. You're a ladies man, So don't act like it's all out of the blue. Why a female because I'm sure they've done it in the past, looks over and checks your phone, especially if they're on a date with you and your phone's just getting blown up. I think anybody with you that Actually it was my phone and you were sitting down and I'm bowling and my phone's just going out. Buzz buzz, buzz, buzz buzz.

You can't tell me you wouldn't look over, like who's hitting her up so much? Who wasn't over It's like, yo, yo, do you hear what you're saying right now? All right? You know what you say? I would never go through somebody's phone. Will We're on a date, a first date at that, Well, that's you. I want to know who I'm your craziness and trying to tell me what I'm gonna do on a date. I'm not trying to rationalize it. I think any sane person would do what I did. And I'm not like mad that I did it. I

don't feel bad for doing it. I was just I wanted to know who you were, what was going on with you, And if I talk something suspicious, then I'm gonna look into it. I don't really blame her. I mean, she's just trying to look out for herself a little bit more like buzz buzz buzz buzz buzz. Like for you, you had two dates planned in the same night, Jay, I mean you kind of had a point, all right. All right, wait, all right, look about we about like

just squashed all that nonsense. Let me tell you this right here. The name that came up Sammy. That's a dude. That's a dude, Sammy, really guy Sammy. In his phone, it was spelled s A M M. I no guy spelled Sammy like that. That's a girl, Sammy for a guy. It's Sammy, sweetie. I know that. So it wasn't like that in your phone. That's a girl. Okay, So all right, so now now there's rules to how I have to sell my boy's name in my phone. Okay, can you

get any further in my business? If Melissa, why did you even call for a second date with this dude? If you think that he's a player and like planning dates after you? I spell thought the date went good, and I asked my friends, like, do you guys know anybody knew Sammy? And nobody knew a Sammy, So I'm like, maybe it's nothing. Yeah, I didn't know that he knew that I looked. I thought maybe would have affect the date. I just got five guys. All right, Well, Jay, I

have to ask this question. Maybe I don't know the answer. I don't know what's right and wrong anymore? Jay, would you like to go on a second date with Melissa? We will pay for it? But now really, yeah, yes, I'm asking would you like to go out with her again? It sounds like you guys have the perfect foundation for a great relationship. Nah, Chief, I'm a pass. But if I need to way to check my phone messages, I know who to call. I'm sorry, Melissa, no second date

for you. That's okay, guys, thanks for trying. Yeah, it doesn't sound like it was meant to be. No, ain't that bad, you know what. I'm actually kind of glad this happened, though I'm dodged a hell of a bullet. Man. Yeah, well, good luck to you both. Okay, thank you guys. All right, man, thank you and Jay tell Sammy I said Hi. However you spell her name, it's a dude, not a girl. In the morning seven eight five nine two says that

girl has no concept of personal space. I'm going to check somebody's phone the first time you meet them, And then another text message that says I would do what she did. I believe this guy is a liar. It's very split on the text message board. About the second date update right now if you missed it, Vanessa wanted to call a guy named Jay. They went out bowling and they had fun whatever. There was an interesting moment where she looked at shoe, but that's not like the

main focus here. The focus is on their first date. A dude told him that he saw her checking his phone repeatedly every time he would bowl repeatedly, and then we got her on the phone. She didn't deny it. She was checking his phone during the first date and he ended up getting a text message from somebody named

Sammy at making plans a meet up later. She was thinking, that's a girl and they had plans later she still wanted to call him for a second date, which is interesting, but anyway, she was like defending the fact that she should be able to check his phone even on a

first date. But come on, you're telling me if you were sitting down at the seat and the phone buzz and it was facing up, and you're on a date with a girl and it's from some dude name like Dan, and Dan says hey, I'll pick you up at nine to you wouldn't look down and then be like no, I would just go off. It's probably a dude, huh, make a joke about its huge. Yeah. I'd look at it,

and then I wouldn't check the phone. I'd continue to date and I'd let her do her thing, and then later on I'd be like, hey, let me ask you a question. Are you also dating somebody named Dan? I don't know, why is it? Why would I be rational like that? But people are. People are texting it at seven, eight, five to nine two, saying it's completely acceptable to check somebody's phone anytime. Even if it's the first date. Do you agree? TEXTA seven eight, five nine two. Remember if

you want to do a second date. Update I have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back