Bread and butter wins pair with the life moments you love, offering a rich and jammy Cabernet sauviignon, a silky smooth piano now Are, and a buttery Chardonnay. Bread and butter wines are delicious. Find a bread and butter wines in your favorite store. Second date update. We've got a woman named Lisa who emailed us for a second date update. And Lisa has a request. Okay, she says, she just doesn't want us to think she's a bad person. We are no matter what, you guys have to promise to
not think she's a bad person. That's what she's asked of us. So can you guys promise? I promise. My hand is over my heart. Promise. I you know I don't like favorite promises that can't keep. I mean you Okay, here's the thing, by her saying that she already thinks she's a bad person, so but she doesn't want you to think that. Can you promise not to think that? Please? Okay, there, everybody. Because I read her email, of course I think she's a bad person. I just don't want you guys to
think that. We can't all be in unison thinking now, so hopefully she doesn't hear any of me saying any of that. So Lisia there, I'm here. I'm conflicted about being here, but I'm here. She definitely because Lisa, I hope you didn't Yeah I heard. Oh well, okay, maybe pretend like you didn't hear. All right, Okay, okay, I do that. I mean, I just gotta say I was disappointed in your email. Though. Oh no, that's the worst to be. I feel so just well, no, it's not
like that. It's just because like it's not as naughty as I had hoped. Oh well, when you hear someone say I've been bad, I'm thinking like, oh, she's bad, but no, she's just it's just bad bad. It's like a very vanilla kind of fat. Yeah. All right, so vanilla bad girl. Tell us about the guy you want to call today. So his name is Jake. And I mean, you're already going to start judging me when I tell you where we met. Okay, we met at a convenience store.
I think that's fine. Yeah, why is that? I don't know. It just seems like it's easily to meet someone. But anyway, that was just like running a quick errand to grab some beer. And it turns it out like as I was rounding the corner, I was like, wow, there's only one six pack left of my favorite one. So you sprinted right because you had to get there first. I didn't really sprint because I mean, I figured it wasn't
like there was a crowd convenient stores. But before I got to the case, this guy reached in and grabbed my beer. It's already become mine when I saw it there. But when the refrigerator door closed, he looked over at me, and I must have had, like, I have no poker face, so my face must have said like, oh my gosh, this is the worst thing that could happen. Yes, it said wtf is what your face said? Probably probably so he said something like you're gonna get this. I was like, Oh,
it's okay, you can have it, Lisa. You're in a convenience store. You don't have to be Is this why you think you're a bad person because you didn't stand up for yourself. Yeah, I know. I was trying to be nice about it and not make a big deal because even though it's my favorite beer, it's not like there was no other beer on the entire place, right, Yeah, but he was super nice and he was like, well, you know, if you're not busy right now, we could
share it. Oh well, look at that's so you just went into the back alley of a convenience store and beers with this dude. Well this is where it gets to the vanilla bad. So I'm not really spoken for, but I'm sort of not really spoken for. You're whispered for. That sounds like you're like, you know what I mean when you're like seeing someone but you never had to talk about being exclusive, and it kind of feels like you're both in it till something better comes along. So
you're sleeping with somebody else, is what you're saying. Yeah, but not exclusive, Yeah, but like without strings? Yeah, funky. Why is that bad? I don't know. It made me feel like I was a bad person because I think that not to like a Catholic girls school didn't share like everything you do. You're very ashamed of yourself. Now those Catholic are would do a lot more than just shue. Why do you think you're so bad? I don't know. I guess because I'm in this sort of gray zone
that's not really anything. But I don't know what did you say to the guy to his proposal? So I said that would be great, and he like he took care to be here, Like we didn't go to the back alley where there was like a food truck with some pickney tables around, so we grabbed some food and we were just like hanging out and had a couple of beers. It was it was really fun. That sounds like a good day, yeah, I mean it. But that
was just the beginning. Because there was a flyer up for Bingo Night and it was that night and it was like about start and he was like, hey, I don't know if you would be up for this, but you want to go to Bingo Bingo night at the food truck somewhere else? It was near the food truck. It was near the food truck, dude, like the community center or something. That's awesome. Real. That is such a refreshing change from just all the stupid of online dating stuff, right,
I mean, it was so much more fun. There was one little awkward moment because I did get a text from mister gray Zone and it was like where are you with the beer? So I had to teck bag really fast, like oh, sorry, you change a plan. Oh, you were getting beer for you and the other guy and ran into this new one. New guys. Definitely an upgrade if that counts for anything. Okay, that is definitely like I was cool with you dating other people, but not when you're currently on a date with someone. Yeah,
you are bad. Is bad. That date hadn't actually started yet, so I mean technically there was just like a little overlap. So did you make it back to gray Zone's house after bingo? No? What happened? So? Bingo is super fun, and like there was one really awkward moment, which is where I think everything went so well? Was it? He said, this was so much fun, I'm gonna head home. My place is this way kind of just gestured and okay, I said, oh, is that like an invitation? And it
was not an invitation, which she made very clear. Wow, that was a big jump from you, for sure, it was. But I thought it was cute and funny, and apparently it was really not cute and really not funny. And we've texted a few times since. And that's kind of where it all is right now. Okay, Can I just ask where's the situation with mister gray Zone? Well that isn't really a thing, right, I mean, sure, all right?
Did you say? I mean we never had to talk about not seeing other people, so I mean that's okay, right, sure, Sea, everything's fine. All right. Well, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play a song. We'll come back and try and get your second date update. If you can stop yourself from being too bad in between, Okay, I'll try. She may find another radio show, just leave us all together. Hold on, Okay, if you're just tuning in for the second Date update, you're in luck because we've got a
bad girl on the phone today. Oh yeah, Lisa is her name, and she is so so bad because she met a guy named Jake at one of the baddest places around, a convenience store. Yeah, maybe we should tune this down because we're gonna do some bad things when we listen to this. But she met Jake at a convenience store when they were both going for the same beer, but Jake got to it first and he offered to split it with her. They went to a food truck, went to a bingo hall after that. That's where all
the bad girls go. It's actually a really cute and romantic it is. It's actually a very sweet story. And at the end of the night, there was an awkward moment where Jake said he had to go home, back to his place, and Lisa thought that was an invitation, like, oh, are you saying I should follow you there? And Jake is like, uh no, I just gotta go. So a little awkward there. But Lisa feels bad about how it all played out. Why because she has a gray man.
Mister gray Zone. Yeah, mister gray Zone is a guy that she's kind of seeing, kind of not like it's not really anything she was buying who she was buying the beer for. But that's another story, right right, We're focusing on Jake and bad girl Lisa. Yeah, all right, Lisa, you're ready to call him? I mean I need to know what happened or what's going to happen. So yes, let's do it. Okay, I'm gonna dial Jake's phone number right now. Here we go, Hello, Hi, can I speak
to Jake please? I think he got the wrong number. There's no Jake there, No, this is who are you looking for? Okay, guys, we should just hang up. Let's hang out the fall, right now wait, hold on, wait, why are you right? Come on? Um? So wait, what do you say? Tom is your name? Yeah? That's right, Okay Tom, My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, seriously, someone gave us
this number. But no, please, seriously, you guys, can you just hang up the phone and I will tell you what's going on? Okay, put her down? Sorry about that. So, yeah, we're doing something called a second eight update, and we're calling you about a woman named Lisa, who you probably just heard a second ago. Do you know Lisa? Yeah? I know Lisa. Do you remember meeting Lisa at a convenience store? And you, guys showed a six pack of beer, went to a food truck, spent some time in a
bingo hall? What? No, none of that's ringing a bell. No, that is not how Lisa and I met. How did you meet Lisa? We met through a friend at a party. I don't know what you're talking about. Convenience store? What? Just give us the wrong phone number? Like you're just a friend of Lisa's. Then you're just like a buddy. We're talking about the same Lisa here. I don't understand let's just obviously you heard it that she's on the other line listening. Usually we'd wait to tell you that,
but let's just bring her back on Lisa. Yeah, okay, guys, Yeah, what's going on? Yeah, well, I don't want to say a whole lot right now the radio. I yeah, I'm really sorry about that. Tom. Um, so I didn't mean to give you mister Grayson's number is maybe the way to put it. Oh it was, mister Grayson. Oh, Tom, you and Lisa are like seeing each other a little bit. Huh. Yeah, And Tom, we can totally talk all about this later, like I'll see you later and we can have a
nice mistake. No no, no, no, no, no, no no, no, what we're gonna talking about this right now? What is going on? You like trying to embarrass me on the radio or something? What is this? Right? Is? No? Tom, I'm really sorry. It's just it's a big mix up. And um, I mean, I don't know. I guess there's never a good time to have this conversation. Um. Look, I um, Tom, I met someone. You met someone, and this is how you decided to tell me in front of like a million other people or whoever is not
you do not have that many listeners. You give us way too much credit. Lisa, I'm really sorry. I didn't. I wanted to have a private conversation with you, which I think we could still do. Right. We can eat, we can talk, we can have a private conversation anytime we lived together, Lisa, whoa hold on? Are you like living boyfriend girlfriend's situation? Well, he's kind of not telling the truth. I mean, yeah, I spend the night a couple of few times a week. We do not live
together here all the time. You have a suitcase with all your clothes in it. I could throw it out the wind right now. They were like almost moving in together. What's that weird? I mean not really. I mean you never wanted to be official, so I figure, if we're not official, it's okay to other people. What are you talking about, I'm not seeing other people. I assume you're not seeing other people. You never bring it up that you want to like be official or anything. Yeah, but
you never brought it up that we're official. And I mean it's awkward for girls to do that because guys feel so pressured. So I just figure that you want to that awkward. You want you want to bring it up on the radio instead. Up, can wait? Hold on, Tom, how long have you and Lisa been not official? We've been dating for like six months now. That's just like that's like a grandfather clause, Like if you're together for that long, it's official, whether you say it or not. Yeah,
listen to her. Whoever that is? I agree with her in her life? Yeah, who is mister Gray? Is that like a third guy you're seeing? I'm a code name now? Wow? Wow? Yeah, you're like a secret agent. You're cool. Oh my god, she went out to get beer for you. Guys, because you were basically living together, you cannot take his side. We were not basically living together. A couple few nights a week. I was at his place and we never had to talk. Were you out in yourself? You know
you were doing something wrong? You said you felt bad and this is why. Yeah. I mean, look, it just seems like Tom, like, obviously we're kind of overdue for a talk, So maybe we should talk. Maybe, I mean, women is up? Yeah, hey, Tom, if it makes you feel better. The guy shooting out with isn't calling her back. So are you sure you had the right number or were you sure you just didn't give him my number. Instead,
he's gonna call me later, maybe looking for adage. Well, it sounds like you guys have a lot you need to talk about, sort of sort things out, and I think maybe you could do that when we send you guys out on another date. We'll pay for it. I live together. Well, we can still pay for them to go out and talk things through. What do you say, Tom, Tom, Like, listen,
it's not a bad idea. I mean, I think that we should just like figure out where we're at and what we're doing, and going out on a nice date would be a cool way to do that. Maybe this mistake was meant to be. This is the final step that pushes you guys into the beautiful harmonious relationship that you clearly have. Or it's a free steak dinner on a breakup night, you know. Yeah, Yeah, clearly we need to talk some things out here. Gee. So that's a
yes to a second date. Technically it's not a second date, but yes, all right, days for this. Yeah, I'm in awesome, all right, I mean it's just singing and you and not whoever all these other guys are okay, all right, Well, it's only one other guy and his name is Jake, And honestly, I mean I think maybe we should reach out to him too. Oh why why would you want that? Because that's why I got in touch with you in the first place. You already know this. I feel like
you lied to us. I don't think you deserve it, Lisa. We're not going to call Jake for you again. Okay, this is like prison. You only get one call, so you're stuck with Tom. Deal with it. I guess that's fair. Yeah, ninety two point five