Brooking jewels second dat day. I always love it when I receive emails or even text messages in all caps. The email that we got about today's second eight update was primarily in all caps and exclamation points everywhere. Was it not from Kanye West? No, it wasn't. It was from Anthony. Anthony. What's up? Man? How are you? Hey? How you guys doing good? I expected it was like, hey, what's up? How are you? From the way that your email was written, Oh my god, you're a very excitable guy, Anthony.
Oh yeah, I just think I blew it with this girl. You sound like you're about to cry right now? Are you all right? I'm sorry, I'm just I'm a little bit upset. I'm sorry. Okay. Who is this girl, Anthony? Her name is Tricia. She was a a friend of a friend hooked um, you know, set us up on a date. Happy. It's been a long time, so I've gone out on a date because Anthony relationship. Anthony? Are you crying? I'm trying to get it together. I'm sorry,
are you Are you really crying? And that's okay? If he is jubile, Okay, I'm just saying I like men who are comfortable crying. Yeah, but it's you went Okay, tell us about the girl. She's just real sweet. She got really beautiful hair and smells great, and she's got a funny laugh, and she seemed like a really nice person. Okay, what did you do on your date? Anthony? I'm afraid of doing anything too romantic and too forward? So what got ice cream and you know, look at the water
and had dinner. It was just a really nice fun time. I'm sorry that I judge you. I'm I'm almost in tears right now because that sounded like I think Anthony White. What people are curious about is like, how can you get so attached to a woman that it makes you cry when you've only gone on one date with her? Well, part of it's her because she seemed like she really liked me. And then, like I said, I'm not on
this a lot. I dated my high school girlfriend since I was a freshman in high school and then we were together until a year ago. Okay, so that's all you've had. You've had one serious girlfriend ever years Yeah, and never dated right Okay, wow, yeah, explains a little bit. Yeah, so how did the date end between you? Guys? Did you weep into her neck while she held you. We
just hugged because you know, I don't. I don't like to justis on the first date, because you know, I want to have like a nice, memorable thing, but everything else is built on now. Your email said you'd be really devastated if you never found out why. Well, I mean, if I'm doing something wrong, I'm going to be alone for rest in my life, right, so it'd be nice and I could figure it out. I know you're new to this, but it's one date, dude. You you get
blown off a lot in the dating world. But she seemed to really like me, and she was so sweet, and she's got the best smelling hair ever. Okay, the hair twice. So you didn't like freak out about her hair the whole time on the date, right, because that could freak a girl out. I didn't. I didn't mention it. Okay. It sounds like you were really really into her hair. It's really pretty, and I mean she feels like a shampoo commercial girl. It's great. Wants to sound weird or anything.
I just really felt like a strong connection with her, and I just don't want to lose that, Okay, I don't think. I don't think that comes along every day. So Anthony, UM a little concerned about your emotional state. I just want to prepare you. Like a lot of times, when we get the other person on the phone, they can say some negative or maybe some unflattering things. Are you prepared for that? I think I'll be okay, Oh God, not to make you wait any longer. We're gonna play
a song. No, come back and get your second day out date. All right, Okay, thanks guys, looking jubil in the morning. Guys, think Anthony's been huddled in a ball in the corner weeping. Yeah, during that whole song, listening to a really sad song like True Colors or something, Anthony is still with us. Yeah, I'm here all right. My heart was beaten so fast and that last song I was If anybody's just tuning in for the second
day up date. Anthony called us about a girl named Tricia that he went out on a date with, the first person he's been out with in how long, Anthony, Well, since my girlfriend I broke up a year ago in his first real adult date period. You've never dated before. He met her in high school. They did it for a long time, Can I give you some advice? Anthony? Okay, okay, Anthony, are you for real freaking out this much? I just haven't dated a whole lot, and I knew she was special.
Everything about her was so right. Trying to pull yourself together a little bit, pull yourself together? What the hell is wrong with it? One day? This does not sound It's a little tough love. Right now, Anthony, I want you to stand up straight, pull your shoulders back, and get ready to do this like a man. Okay, you never know, Anthony, could him at the love of your
life that night. This is very important, Anthony. We just went through a whole power him up there, I know, but I just want to let him know how important this thing is. And he should be very nervous. I know. I know you're an emotional dude. I get it. But put your phone on mute if you start to like hyperventilate or cry. Okay, I can do that, all right, Anthony's still there, I'm here. Just let make sure you didn't pass out. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Tricia.
That's a shame. Hey, Tricia, how are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Hi, how's it going good? You recently went out with a friend of mine? I did. Yeah, his name is Anthony. You remember going out with a guy named Anthony? I do? How is he? Wait? Okay, you're on the radio and he's your friend. I'm on the radio. So I have lots of friends. Yeah, and
Anthony happens to be one of them. Okay. And he said that he really enjoyed the date with you and thought that you guys were going to go out again. But you haven't called him back or responded to any of his messages or voicemails or any of that. So I wanted to call you and ask if he did something wrong on the date. That's just weird that he's having you call for him. But he did have a really great time on the date, that's true. Did you
not have a good time? I mean I had a good time, but I think that Anthony had a really good time. Like, was he just too eager on the date? Well, it wasn't really on the date, it was afterwards. What do you mean he tweeted like five times about our date within like two hours. Oh, so he went back after your date and just started tweeting about it. Yeah, he was, like, he tweeted, lonely no more, most amazing date of my life. It is horrible. Wait it gets better.
It was like, is this what love really feel like? Explanation points in question mark. Are you scared at this point? Tricia? I mean yeah, especially okay, how about this one? At last? My love has come? And he did in parentheses, but at a jame no really plotting out James on his twitter feed Tricia. Yeah, I should also let you know that Anthony is currently on the other line right now listening to this conversation. Are you serious? Hi? I'm sorry
it creeps you out a little bit. And I was just trying to make a really nice evening for you, and oh my god, I thought we were having fun. Okay, well, the date was very nice. You took me out on a very nice date, and it was fun. But seriously, Anthony, you tweeted, oh my god, freaking out? I think I hear church Bell. Isn't that a romantic thing to say? I mean, isn't that what every getting together and living
happily ever after? Are you crying? No? Oh my god, this is a joke, right, There's no way you're crying right now. I think he has allergies. I think that's what it is, Trisha. Anthony's an emotional guy. Anthony needs therapy. Amen. I am sorry, Anthony. Let me help you a little bit, Tricia. If you didn't know, Anthony just got out of a long relationship with his high school sweetheart, you're the first girl who's been on a date with since high school. Dude,
it be single for a while. Seriously, there are so many great things about being single, like go experience life a little bit before you tie yours. Yes, Anthony, it's okay to be single and experienced things by yourself. It's actually a very fun time. You can do it. Okay, Anthony, you needs really like. Dating is hard and it's gonna hurt, but you need to find some confidence. Dude, what do you like about yourself? I think I'm charming and I'm
good looking. I mean, I don't know. Yeah, Trish thought you were a good looking didn't you. Yes, he's very attractive. See she thinks you're good looking. Okay, No, okay, now, Trish, if you could give one piece of advice to Anthony, what would it be? Yeah? Stop crying? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean like the date. The date was really sweet, and I think that maybe if he just the charming part of it all was very nice, but the clingness and the like just all of a sudden feeling like
you were owned about. I mean, like, I don't know, he just needs he needs to baby step it. Anthony, you'd like to go out with Trish again? Right? Yeah? I would very much. I think you can hold it together and not not be too clingy. Um, yes, yes, I'm gonna. I'm gonna. I'll work on that. I'll be really I'll be good at that. At this point, I would like to ask you if you'd like to go on a second date with Anthony. Hey, for sure? Do
you want to give him another shot? We will send you guys out, We'll pay for it if you go out with Anthony one more time. I think I'd rather set him up with one of my friends, a friend that you dislike. Or what if I go out with him again and this happens, then it's going to cost me something because now I'm going to be the mean girl, and I don't want to be the mean girl. And I feel like I just feel like he needs a little bit more time to be single. Okay, all right,
that's fine. Sorry, Anthony, but you got your answer and now you know, Okay, maybe take some time to yourself, especially if you haven't dated in a while. The first girl that you go out with, you will like fall for it because you'll think that she's awesome because she's something different than what you've been used to. But but you need to kind of like check your emotions a little bit. I mean, I should not share like all
of myself right away. No, definitely don't wait to like the third date for the crying guy to say the third year. Okay, guys, thanks for trying. Do you like everybody else? And save the tears for the bedroom in the morning. Seriously, Anthony, you tweeted, oh my god, freaking out? I think I hear church Bell. Isn't that a romantic thing to say? I mean, isn't that what every getting together and living happily ever after? Are you crying? No? Second? At seven eight five nine, who says, poor guy, he
sounds like a sweetheart, but definitely not ready for dating yet. Yea. That was a clip from today's second eight update. If you missed it, Anthony and Tricia went on a date. She wasn't calling him back. Why because when she got done with the dates, she went home and saw that he was tweeting a bunch of things about how amazing it was and now you were basically what happened right there, and then he started to kind of cry and was
very emotional. So the guy hasn't dated anyone since high school man, and I just have this feeling that his ex isn't sitting around crying. I bet she's maybe celebrating, yeah, her freedom. She's probably doing okay, Yeah, and he's not. Okay. I'm all for a guy crying. I'm gonna I cry all the time. But that was like something's a little off with him. He is like literally blowing. Yeah, sometimes when you got to keep it together a little bit. Yeah, you know, like that's like that's time to cry in
private after a first date. And that's for both genders. Yeah, Like nobody should be running on a first date. It doesn't matter if you're man, you're woman, who you're dating. That's gonna scare scare anybody away. Yeah, I mean, unless someone dies. I think that's the only time it's okay
to cry in the first date. Yeah, no matter what if you go out with someone and then after that they're tweeting about how it was the most amazing date experience in their heart is ready to love again, and they're in tears and they can't do anything but think about you after a first date. That's problem going to scare you off. But it doesn't scare everybody off because we just got a text in that says I'll go out with Anthony. Yeah, they're into it. See, some people
might like that. They might both be this. They both be with tweeting the same thing and both crying and calling each other and talking about how they've met the love of their life after one dinner dated. Yeah, I'm just going I mean, if they're crying after one day, can you imagine the tears after the breakups? Really tough. So they decided not to go out again, Well, she decided not to go out with him again. But he'll be all right eventually, maybe with some therapy and yeah
and something, he'll be okay. He'll get through this tough time in his life. Remember, if you want to do a second day update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.