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Second Date Update PODCAST: Best Date Ever?

Dec 19, 201615 min
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When you have a lot of money... you can afford to do some pretty awesome things for your first date. It's hard to imagine a better date than the one Anna went on. And that's why it's so confusing that she isn't getting a call back. We'll find out why in the PODCAST.
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one of those. A little while ago, was out with this girl and then randomly like she was at my house and somehow her tires got slashed while she was there, somebody sold the battery in her car, She couldn't find her wallet, just things kept happening. To wait till Monday to get her car fixed, so that the whole weekend together. It was fabulous, Just a fabulous time. You just get creepier and creepier, don't you. That's what happened to Anna, who is on the phone to do a second date

update today. She wants to call a guy named Chris. Apparently their date went so well that they just spent the whole weekend together and it was magical. Hey Anna, how are you? I'm good, guys, how are you doing? It's pretty good? Thank you for your email. Oh definitely. So tell us a little bit about Chris ChRI is this amazing guy. I met him online and I know that's kind of like not very serious, but it can be serious. It's those commercials are like everybody who meets

on here gets married for life. I don't think it's not a not serious thing anymore unless where'd you meet him? Oh yeah, that is one of the not so serious sites you need to be on, the ones where you actually pay money to join up. Hey, it worked out for her, though. What did you like about him when he saw him? Thank you, thank you Brooks. Okay, so it didn't really work out for you because he's not calling you back technicalities. Okay, he's just a little rough

around the edges. But he's one of those guys with a complete heart of gold. How do you know that? Already? He was just so generous the time we spent together. I mean it was literally like the best date I have ever been on. Okay, so tell us a little bit about it. He cleaned out this phenomenal dinner. I'm talking like nine different entrees and everything was just really planned out and expensive. I can only imagine does he make a lot of money. I don't know, but let's

just say I was impressed. Okay, you guys were at like fancy restaurants and stuff, right, and it was just sting after staying so we ate and then he took it for a helicopter ride in the city. What that is awesome? It was amazing. Did you know all of this going into the date or was it a surprise to you? I mean we'd talked online for a while before he took me out, and he'd been planning it this entire time when we're talking. Oh, so you knew you were going for dinner and a helicopter ride. Yeah,

he planned all this other stuff. There's more than just a helicopter ride in a nine course meal. In my opinion, that's all you really need to do. I mean, you don't even you need to do half that, and most girls would be a status What else? What else did this guy plan? Gifts and flowers? And it was like seven different dates combined in the one amazing weekend. Did it feel like too much? I mean, that's a lot for a guy that you're just meeting. It wasn't too

much for me. Yeah, I don't think it'd be too much for anybody. Yea, if some girl would offer me to go on a helicopter ride and all these gifts and everything else, absolutely, some dude work. I don't care. Anybody just shower me with gifts. No wonder you're upset you're not hearing back from him. I know. Then we have this really weird text exchange. So you have heard from him since the day, Yeah, but barely. What did

he say? Well? I mean I texted him, thinking him for such a great time, and he said he had a busy work week and he couldn't really talk. So okay, Well, if the guy's got that kind of dough that he's dropping on helicopters and seventeen thousand course meals, he's probably a pretty busy guy. Yeah. Yeah, let work so he can take you on another helicopter ride. I know, and I get it. I know that he is completely busy. But I texted him and he said that he was

busy about four or five different times. And I said to him, I said, are we ever going to go out again? He said no, I mean I don't think so, Like, what do you feel like? Maybe you were blowing him up too much? Because if he was like, I'm busy. I'm busy. I'm busy. Hey, you really didn't think so. I mean it was maybe like once or twice a week. He's the one that seems too eager in this situation if you ask me planning an entire weekend together. Right right,

did you guys hook up that weekend? I mean I'm hoping you did. With all those gifts and things like that. Let's just say we've slept in the same bed. Okay, all right, Well I was I mean, it could go either way. Maybe he did that with you, and I was like, all right, I got that out of the way. But he doesn't need to go to that extent if he just wants to hook up with a girl like it depends out tract. Yeah, they only describe him as a heart of gold he had, Yeah, definitely, but like

I said, rough around the edges. Well, anyway, you obviously liked him a lot. So we're gonna play a song, come back, call him and get your second date update. All right, Okay, thanks guys, Okay, hang on looking jubil in the morning. You know what, Anna what, I actually don't want you to get a second date. Why because this guy took you out for like a fabulous fancy dinner, helicopter ride around the city, spent the whole weekend spoiling you. I don't want you to get a second date so

I can date him. That's why it sounds like a fabulous date to me. If you're just tuning in for the second date update. Anna did exactly that. She went out with a guy who just spoiled her for the whole weekend, and they texted a little bit after he said he was really busy, and then she finally was like, when are we gonna hang out? And then he said it's not going to work out, and she wants to find out why. So we're about to call him right now.

Any last thoughts before we dial the phone? And Branna, Oh, I'm just really curious, and how did you guys leave the weekend again in each other's arms? I mean, were I thought we had a really good Joe? All right, Well, I'm gonna do the phonnel right now, so if we get him on the phone and get your second eight update, Okay, awesome, here we go. Hello. Can I speak to Chris please? Yes? See Chris, how are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. What this is Jewbil from

brook and Jewil in the morning. How's it going? Uh, it's going, it's going good. I just want to talk to you about something if you got a minute. Uh, this is one of your praying phone calls. And yeah, it is not a prank phone call. You actually went out on a date recently with one of our listeners and they emailed us to call you. Okay, her name is Anna m. You remember going out with Anna. Yeah, I went out that crazy chick. Man, you went out

with that crazy chick. Yeah, yeah, she's crazy shack crazy? Really yeah? Wow, just out the gate like that. You're gonna call her crazy. I haven't even really had a chance to talk to you about the date at all. Can you tell us a little bit more about why do you think she's crazy? I mean, she's back. I don't know what else you need to know. Yeah, pretty much says it all right there, But can you tell us why at least? Because look, she enjoyed your date obviously. Man.

You took her out to dinner, helicopter rides, all that she told you about that, I mean the date was so of course she liked it. Yeah, it sounds like it sounds like you know how to plan a pretty nice date. Chris. I mean, you know we're here to somebody, you know, go on out. I guess, I mean, I'll do it. Why would you spend an entire weekend and that much money with a girl if you thought this shoe was crazy? I mean, that's how I treat women

that I'm interested in. Maybe somebody doesn't treat you like that, but they should. I actually agree with you. But so you were interested in her, but now you think she's crazy. Oh that's again, that's crazy. Why is that? Was it? Did something happen after your date? Or was it during your date that you decided that? And your date lasted a whole weekend? So I'm guessing it was after you know? She she would text me and I would tell how I'm busy, okay, and then she one day showed up

in front of my doorsteps. Who she showed up? She's got from here, She's not from here, all right? So she just one day she shows up all my property in my front door, talking about Horry. I'm moving here. What are you talking about? WHOA she's not? When you say she's not front or she's from where, from far away where they make crazy specific She's from like four states away, and that's how we met online. She's from out of state. Yeah, so she shows up, you know,

it's not like she went down the street. She jumped on a plane and then came to him on front door and stood there. I was like, Hey, I liked you so much, I'm want to move here. Now what you talk Chris, I need to get some clarification because I'm kind of confused now. When we talked to her, she didn't say she was from somewhere else. How did you guys go out on a date? Which did you fly her out here for the date or something? Yeah?

I flew her out. So we're talking. I was like, all right, I'm like, I'm a fly aloud here and we'll have a great weekend. That's why we had a a weekend plan, because you know, I knew I only had limited time with this, and she lives so far away. That makes sense. When we talked to her about it, she left all that out. She just said, we spent the weekend together and he took me on this fabulous date. You had no choice but to spend the weekend with her. Yeah,

but also in the same people leave out facts. You know what, I'm did you out? But you enjoyed the weekend with her? I mean, listen, the weekend it was. It was fine. I got what I wanted. So cool, you know what I mean? Like, Yeah, if you fly a girl out from another state to hang out with you for the weekend, it's usually kind of a hookup thing. Is that where you were going for? Yeah, you know, but you didn't. It should have been cool about it. You know, it could have happened again, but you know

she wasn't cool about it. Yeah. I guess all that other stuff is just beside the big point though, that she showed up on your doorstep on My Doorstep show talking about I don't like people I'm around, I don't like my surroundings. Maybe that doesn't like you. Are you sure? Are you sure you didn't give her mixed messages? Because

I'm sorry. If a guy flies me to another state, takes me in a helicopter ride, pays for all this fancy stuff, gives me gifts, I'm thinking that he is like interested in the long term relationship, not for a hookup weekend. Listen, listen, I get your point. All right. I told her I was busy five different times, in five different text messages, and she still shows up the doorsteps. Yeah, from states away. Yeah, so she flew here. I don't know if she flew she hiped, I don't know. I

don't know. She could have hiked, who knows? All right, Yeah, and I never want to talk to her again. All right, I might move. She can't find me. One of those things is going to be a problem, Chris, because she's actually on the other line listening. Oh, y'all, bulls man, No, no, no, hey, no bulls Chris. I'll shut the up man. You will with me right now, Chris. In your case, I kind of wish I was, but I'm not. Anna is actually on the phone, Hi, Chris, Hi crazy. I don't want

to talk to you at all at all. Listen, Chris, I no doubt here because I like it here, not just for you. So get over yourself that none of that was believable, none of it. Annah. Why didn't you tell us that you were from out of state and that you moved here for this dude? I didn't think it was that big of a deal. And I didn't move out here for him. Okay, keep flattering himself right now, you know that could be true, Like, give her the

benefit of the doubt here. It could not be all about you, Chris, it's not okay, okay, if it's not all about me, name three things right now. Besides, you moved out to cor Go. Okay, listen, I love I love the area. I think I don't like after the whole weekend in Haiti. I'm not moving the Haiti. You're being a real asked Chris. Okay, Oh, and you sort of at my doorstep, so it wasn't like you. I want to breathe the fresh air of this new place. You can't move my doorstep. I thought I was checking

in on you. I mean you are. You're busy. You're busy all the time. After we had such a great weekend with what's the you're checking in on me. I am not a baby. I'm a grown ass fan, a busy ass man five text is a busy You don't so on the gold adults doorstep checking me in on me after one kend again, Man, that's crazy. I just don't get you. I don't can get you at all. Good You're not supposed to get to me. I don't want you to get me. I would be not happen forever.

Did he like say something to make you think that he was looking for more than just like a weekend hook up. I honestly thought who we had Chris, was something more than that. But apparently I just your booty hall. You don't apply from the pup for a weekend after we've been talking for months and then expect me to feel like it's a crazy person. Listen, I've talked to plenty of girls for months longline, and I don't see any of them moving and sewing up in my doorstep

because they little the area. Okay, me and I am crazy for feeling like we had a connection, but you're just being an ass, all right. Well, I hope you take that and you learn not to wipe me ever, all right, you learn not to stop the next guy, so you could actually day went for a little while. Oh my god, I would love to ask you guys at this point, would you like to go out on a second date? Chris? Would you like to go out with Anna again? We'll pay for it, No, but you

can pay for a restrainted order. All right, Anna, you're still there? Yeah, would you like to go out on a second date with Chris. Yes, I know. Well Chris, I appreciate your time. Man, Thank you very much. No problem. Be safe, Anna. Are you all right? Yeah, I'm not crazy. He's literally just being an ask. Okay, Well, welcome to the area. It's nice to have you find residents broken Jupil in the morning,

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