Second Date Update PODCAST: Backseat Crier

like a horrible first date. But we're going to talk to him about it anyway and ask Nick, how are you? Hey? Guys? First off, I just want to say I'm like a huge, huge fan of the show. You guys are awesome than jew Like you're the man I have the loveless news stuff you guys to do on the radio. All right, okay? And couldn't agree more. Yeah, we're getting out of control, Nick, who Let's be honest, Nick, your email said that you and Grace, the girl you went out with, argued the

whole time on your date. Why do you want to call her? Why do you even want a second date? I don't know, man, I just fell there was some kind of like connection, you know, like it was not passion dude. Well, was it the type of arguing that's like over big theological issues or was it the kind of like fiery debate that you can have with some people, because I think that's nice. Sometimes it was just like about some stuff, like some of it was about stuff

that happened at night. But um, can you get can you get more specific here? Yeah? Well I'll give you a little like sort of the lowdown of like what happened, okay, basically like weird online and um, it was either like tender or was okay stupid or you don't even know which place you met her at night? How many? How much online dating are you doing? Dude? I don't know, like a good deal. I mean it's fun, you know, it's fun to meet people. Right, So, you met Grace

on some website and you guys met up. Now your email said that you started off arguing. You started the whole thing off with an argument. How does that even happen? Dude? How do you start off with an argument on your first date? Right away? Well, like we met up at this parking lot, like we met in the mall parking lot. You know, because she was like, oh, you know, we don't really know each other that well, I don't want you to like come pick me up at like my house,

which I respect for. So we're like hanging out in the parking lot of this mall and I was like, all right, well let's go. I made a reservation somewhere else and she was like, oh, well I kind of thought we would be here and I was like no, no, like that said another restaurant down the way, like just hopping my car and we'll go. Oh. So she didn't want to get in the car with you because she thought you were a creature. Yeah, she didn't want to get in the car. You guys argued about that. Well,

I was like, you know, like it's a date. It seems like a more sort of economic car. Yeah, you don't sound like a fiery person. You sound pretty laid back. Well, I have like opinions, I guess, I don't know. I wanted to do nice things for her and she wasn't letting me do him. And I was like, hey, like I want to drive you to the date. Okay, So she said no, I don't want to get in your car. You said, get in the car now I'm taking it to dinner. She said, no, did it get heated with

you guys? We were arguing, but it couldn't really get heated until we got to the restaurant. And that's when like the big argument argument. You guys have known each other for all of what an hour by this point, probably like fifteen minutes a little left? Okay, So what was the argument about in the restaurant? Well, she like went to sit down and I could see that she had this tattoo on her hip. So I was like, Oh, what's that? Can you tell me what it's about? She

was like, no, no, no, I'd rather not. And I was like, oh, come on, like it's on your body, you know, like you got a tattoo on your body, it's there forever, it's in a pretty visible place, Like what is it? And she was like, no, I got it when I was seventeen, and I don't really like just would rather not talk about it on a first date.

Why didn't you just let it go? Then? Nick? Well, I tried to like forget it and not think about it, and then like a minute, will go buy and it would come into my head again and just ask I know, I'd say, like, why can't we just talk about this now so we can get to the next part at dinner? Oh my god, you know you're coming off? Is crazy? Right? You argued with her the entire date. How did things

in with you, guys? Well, I was pretty upset about it, and she was pretty upset about it, and you know, we drove back to the parking lot and it got a little bit worse and then she just left. Were you, I mean, at any point during this it did the arguments escalate into actual yelling? Yeah? Definitely? So, Nick, why do you want Why do you even want to call her back for a second date? You guys obviously don't

get along. I just like, I really liked her. She's really pretty, and she had a cool energy about her. She's really feisty, and like she didn't take any crap from me, and you know, she would just give it right back, and I felt like it could be like a really cool sexual energy. Nick, do you normally fall for girls who tend to beat you up a little bit?

I like a girl who, like you, can stand up for herself, right, But screaming at the end of a date not exactly the same as feisty yeah, but you never know, you know, like sometimes people were together and they like just have that thing where they just like or know how to push a chow's button. Fight and then you make up. The makeup is very nice. All right, Nick, Well we'll play a song, come back, call her, get her on the phone. And we already know why she's

not calling you back. That's a terrible first date you just told us about. But we'll see if we can get you a second date. I guess okay, all right, cool, all right, hang on foking jubil in the morning. All right, I figured it out. I figured out how to who's on the phone to do a second day update with us? Right now? Can actually get this girl to go out with him again? Well, apologize profusely and swear it won't

happen again. No, oh, well kind of. I guess Nick's about to have us called Grace for a second date update. Their first date was filled with arguments. It started at the car and continued on through dinner. They argue the whole time. Nick, you want a second date with her? Right? Yeah, definitely? For whatever reason, I'm guessing the best way to do that is to just tell her, Hey, at least, it's going to be all uphill from here, Like, it can't get any worse than what happened on our first date

unless she disagrees with you and then you start a fight. Yeah, and then sends up in an argument. I mean, I'm willing to try whatever. So okay, we're gonna call her right now, see if we can get her on the phone, talk to her about your date, and then we'll connect you with her. Okay, great, all right, man, here we go. Hello, Hi is Race there? This is Shame. Hello Grace. How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Right. Do you know who I am? I do,

I just don't know why you're calling me? But hello, do you know who I am? Grace? I feel like you've used that line a couple of times I have, mostly at restaurants. So you listen to our show at all? Yeah? Okay? Have you ever heard the second date updates before? I think I heard one? Okay, so you kind of know what it is. It's where you go out on a date with somebody end up not calling them back. They email us to get you on the phone and ask why the person that I'm calling about is named Nick.

You've got to be kidding me, And I feel like, I feel like this is a very memorable date for you because we actually talked to Nick. We read his email and he said that you guys argued throughout the whole first date, but Nick still wants to go out with you. Is a loon. I'm glad we're doing this because this is gonna be like a warning to everybody on match dot com. Oh my god, he didn't even list match. So what happened on the date? So I

told him, let's meet in the mall parking lot. That's where I always meet dates because I don't know these guys yet, right, And I told him we're gonna go to eat at the restaurant there was, you know, right there where I had parts. He starts going into a bitch, wanting me to get in his car because he's gonna take me to a place that's quote bitchen bitchen spot, that's like a five star yelp. Yeah, yeah, Well he

explained that to us, Grace. He told us all about your argument in the parking lot, that you didn't want to get in the car, and he said that he was he had planned to take you to a nice dinner and wanted to drive you there and told us how you argued quite a bit. So we're in the car and he starts trying to kiss me at every stop sign. Really right away. Yes, I'm like, get out of here and need ask you need to be more open with me. Wow, Okay, he didn't mention anything about

the kissing. I'll go ahead, Grace and tell you what else you said about your date. Go ahead. He said that you went to the restaurant and got in a little bit of an argument about your tattoo. It was like a dog seeing a bone. He would not shut up about this tattoo. Where did you get it? With me? What you haven't hold? Where you did it? Will ring three two? I'm like, shut up, it's primate. First of all, if I want you to know what my tattoo is,

I'll tell you. Okay, I didn't. So I'm getting mad and I'm just start yelling and I said, you know, it's none of your business. And so he said, well, if that's your attitude, you're paying for dinner. Oh no, it was worth forty dollars to me to just get him out of my sight. I put down the forty dollars, and I'm like, take me back to my car now. I mean really, I could have ran there, but I

had on good shoes. Hey, Grace, I'll tell you this, Nick, when he was talking about you, I said, why do you even want to go out on a second date with Grace? Because you guys argued the whole time, right. I didn't know about him being a weirdo or whatever with you. I just knew about you guys arguing. And I said, why would you want to go out with her again? He said, I love the fact that she's got spunk and she stands up for herself. You do have a lot of spunk, You got that right, and

you're funny. Yeah. What if you were to talk to Nick right now, what would you say to him? Well, I'd have to spit because I threw up in my mouth a little bit. Just a bit of therapy, you know. He just I don't know if his med's hat and kicked in yet or they wore off. Story is he's got issues? Grace? Oh my god, Nick is actually on the phone. Hey, Grace, you've got hitting me, not at all. Nick. What do you have to say for yourself? Is everything

that Grace said true. I mean it's not that bad, but like, yeah, we had some hiccups in our date, and like what you told us about the hiccups. You told us about the hiccups, But I'm talking about trying to kiss her as soon as she got in the car and that kind of stuff. Well, I met her online. Like a lot of the girls that have met online are like down you know, to kiss like pretty much

right off the back. It's probably not true. They're not nick They might be doing it to shut you off, because first of all, I have never been around anybody that uses more words, that says absolutely nothing and takes twenty five minutes to do it. I mean, you are one of the most annoying human beings as ever walked the story. Wow. See, Like that's why I like you, because you've got that spunk. You're not afraid to tell how it is. But right, here's how it is. The

guys didn't let me finish my story. When we got to my car finally, Thank the Lord, he started crying. He was what was he saying? Why was he crying? I just don't understand why this is south, you know, because I think that you're just like an awesome chick, come down and there's like all this energy chemistry, and he jumps in the backseat of my car. He jumped on the back seat of your car. How'd you get him out? He said? There, I'm not gonna get out.

You promised me a second date. I'm not gonna get us. Sometimes I just gotta warm much better on the next day. And so I was like, okay, I'll go out with you again. And the freak got out of my car, and I'd like to apologize to them all because I left big old tire. Mark says, I don't know, Nick, is all that true? Well, I was upset, you know, like energy and focus on something. And Nick, Nick, you are very calmly talking about this. You don't see anything

wrong with your behavior? No, I do, Like, I don't think I was like the perfect date or anything like that. The perfect date. Nick. Nick, I'm just gonna I'm gonna recap one thing real quick for you. You were in tears, blubbering, jumped in the backseat of a car, refused to get out unless you would go on a second date. That is not normal behavior, man, All right, Well, I just I don't know. I was improvising Nick. Yeah, how about this. You don't have to cry and throw yourself around this time.

I will ask for a second date for you, Grace, would you like to go out with Nick again? We will pay for a second date. Please don't yell at me. Yeah I would. What we're gonna do is we're gonna go to a therapist office. I'm gonna drop him off, and you guys will pay for it. That'll probably be the nicest thing you've done this. It's like a charity case for Nick. Nick. There you go, man, that's that's what happened. Well, win some loose something, I guess. Hey, Nick,

are we still cool? Like? I know that you got put through a lot here with Grace and everything else and being in this segment, like you may feel ripped on everything else. We're still cool, right, Like you still are friends with the show and everything. Yeah, you guys are cool. I mean like you went out of your way to do this for me. That's pretty cool. All right, Thank you man, Thank you for a second day update. Um,

take care all right, It will all right, man. Yeah, I just want to make sure he was still friends with us, because he is crazy. Morning