Rooking Jewels. Second date. We've been doing second date updates for a while now, and we've heard a lot of stories about people getting ditched on a first date. Some people deserve it, some people don't deserve it. Carter, who is on the phone today, got ditched on his first date. But it's a little different than most because she actually told him that she was leaving. Yeah, Light, it's sort of nice. I can't tell. We'll talk to Carter about it.
Carter will find out more about that situation in just a second. But first, what's her name? Chloe? Chloe? All right? And how did you meet Chloe? I met Chloe in the comments section on Facebook? What wait? Wait, guys, you meet the comments section on Facebook. We both commented on a mutual friends picture. Oh it led to some playful danter and all right, so she commented on a friend yours picture and then you commented like, Hey, Jill, who's
this chick commenting above me? She's hot? Right? No, I did not do that, and I would not recommend that to the general population. So it was a little smoother than that, huh, A lot smoother. Okay, how long did you guys talk on Facebook before you actually asked her out. Oh, probably about a week on and off, you know, when we finally started talking, you know, when there was just one night we just messaged all night and I said, hey,
do you want to meet and get dinner? And she said yeah, so, And how was dinner when you guys went out? Was it the same as Facebook, the same chemistry as you had in the Facebook comments section? Yeah, well, initially we decided to meet at the restaurant, which, um, I think it's just good. It's better than they don't
have that awkward drive there. And I was so relieved when I saw her, not that you know, I mean I knew what she looked like, but to actually see her in person and you know, beautiful eyes, it is really sweet demeanor. And she had my notes. What do you mean she had your notes? Well, it's I know, straight have my nose, your nose, I think it's I think it's a good nose. I like my nose, and
so I liked it on her. So you're attracted to women that have the same features as you, well not all of the same features, but one out of you know many, So does that mean you have a feminine nose or she has a really masculine nose. I think it's somewhere in between. I think I have a masculinely feminine nose, femininely masculine nose. Her head. So you thought she was cute because of her smile and you both share a nose. We share a nose, And was she flattered by that or not? I think she was a
little confused. I think I like you guys words, but because I'm gonna say as a woman, that could be a real insult. I mean it's like also saying, hey, look it we also have the same pant size. It's not always look. I think you guys weren't there, you know. I mean I have a good looking nose. It looked good on her. I assumed it looks good on me, so I made the comment. Sure, but we didn't stay on that topic. Okay, so you moved on quickly from the nose thing. How was the rest of the date. Well,
the first thirty minutes was really great. It was just like talking online, and then she started like looking at her phone a lot. And I don't know if she was texting somebody or somebody was like texting her. I couldn't tell, you know, I try to not pay attention to somebody when they're on the phone, like when you're in a social situation with them. You know, it's not make them feel uncomfortable or anything. And she looks at her phone for about five minutes and she stands up,
which his carter. You know, it was really nice to meet you, but I'm sorry, I have to end the date. WHOA. That's abrupt, like in the middle of dinner, totally abrupt. Whoa. And she was polite about it and everything, just said sorry, the date is over. She yeah, that's exactly what she did. And then so I asked her, I said, is there's something I said, something is something wrong? And she I'm really sorry, but I have to call we Wow. Maybe I mean, did she seem distraught or did her mood
change when she was looking at her phone. I mean, her mood did change. But I couldn't help her. What I mean, you know, I just met her. Oh my god, how baffling, Like I wouldn't know if you are embarrassed or if she's so kind about it that you're like, okay, well I understand. Well, I'm just I'm really confused more than anything. And I mean I texted her the day after, and she did not respond. So I called you guys because I thought you guys could help me. Have you
heard anything from her at all? You said she didn't respond to that, but anything the way that it ended. I'm trying not to actively blow up her phone or anything like that, right, So, and what's her Facebook status like right now? Is she active? I haven't seen her post anything. I mean, this was three days ago, and it's just the only reason that I could think about her calling off to day. The only reason is the
nose thing. Yeah, but her leaving came a good while after you made that comment, right a while after, so, I mean, I if it was because of the notice thing, she had to play it cool for about a half hour. Yeah, and you swear you didn't compare any other body parts with her. No, that's to the end of the date. All right, Well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, awesome? Thanks?
All right, brooking jubil in the morning second update. Right in the middle of a second date update, and Carter is on the phone, and today we're hoping we can help Carter find his nose. Why do I say that, because when We were talking to Carter just a second ago about the girl that he wants to call today. He shared with us one of the reasons that he liked her was because they had a similar nose, and
he actually told her that during the date. And that's the only reason you can think of why she might not be calling him back today, because that could have creeped her out a little bit. You know, Carter, I think you should actually be happy about your first date. Well because she left you at the table and left the date. But at least she had enough respect to get up and go the date is done. I'm going home now. Because most people somebody goes to the bathroom
and then they're never seen from again. They crawl out the window or something. At least she had enough respect to tell you that she was leaving. I guess you're right. That's better. Want to do the second day update or just chuck it up and call that date a success. You're making me start to think I want to do that. It is kind of strange to me that you want to call her again and that you just won't let
it go. I just I have to know. Yeah, yeah, but one of those curiosity kills the cat type of situations where I just don't think this is going to end well for you. Maybe if you know, I don't really care what I hear. I just wanted an explanation why she would just get up and leave in the middle of the date. I just need closure. Can you guys please help me? Yeah, flose your from your one day. I'll dial the phone of her right now and see if we can find out why she ditched you. Okay,
thank you, You're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Chloe? Yes, Hello, Chloe, This is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay, how are you good? I guess what is this about? Well, I wanted to call you because we actually got an email about you from one of our listeners. I'm sorry, do you have the right phone of her? I think so? Let me ask you. You You tell me your name's Chloe, right? Yeah? Have you recently gone out with a dude named Carter
on a date? Yeah? Perfect, Then I do have the right person on the phone, because that's why we're calling you today. Carter actually emailed us and asked if we could get you on the phone because of apparently you left in the middle of your date, and now you're not responding to his text messages or phone calls, and he wants to know why. Oh my god, I can't believe Carter did this. I just got to say lots of respect for you. I mean to be able to do that in the middle of the date and just
face the awkwardness head on. Take some pretty big jones. Do what. I don't know what you're talking about. When you left in the middle of the day, when you stood up and said, sorry, we can't continue this date anymore and then left the table. Oh my god. How you guys knew that? Because Carter told us about your date and that's why we're calling you today. He wants to know if he did something wrong so that maybe he can fix it in the future. Oh, that's just
kind of embarrassing. Really, is it embarrassing for Carter or embarrassing for you? It was just bad timing, I think the date. Yeah, just it was bad timing in general. What do you mean, like something else was going on that night? I don't get it. Well, um my my I got a text from an ex of mine, okay, and I thought I should just give him another chance. So what Okay, So you left the date so you could get back with your ex boyfriend. Well, my ex was just saying some really nice things about how he
missed me and that he was thinking about me. I just I just texted him back and UM said, let's get back together. And I felt bad for being on another date, so I just thought i'd ended, and UM, what so you I just I'm sorry to keep asking for clarification, but it just confused me. You actually got back together with your ex boyfriend while you were eating dinner with Carter. Yeah, the first half of the date you were single, and then after that then you were
weren't single. Right. Good for you for getting up and leaving. I guess, Wow, I don't think it's anything great, but I didn't want to hurt Carter's feelings, so I just laughed. Yeah, well, and you're you're you know you're taking you shouldn't be out on a date. It wasn't It's not that bad. I think you shouldn't feel bad. I mean, we've all gotten back together with x's before. Most people. Yeah, she was respectful. You know, what was she going to say?
Excuse me, I just got back together with my ex boyfriend. I need to leave now. Yeah, there's not much more you could say to that. Yeah, exactly. That's why I felt like cutting the date short would be the best option. Yeah, well, okay, cool, Thank you for thank you for being honest with us and telling us your answer. I'm sure Carter will be happy to know that he wasn't like a weirdo and did anything wrong. No, car is a really great guy
under different circumstances. I mean, they think it would have worked out a nice thing to say. Well, Chloe, you were very honest with us, and like I said, I appreciate that. Now I need to be honest with you and let you know that Carter is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Chloe. Oh um, hi, well that would explain why you were on your phone. Yeah, he just started texting me and so I just had to respond, Oh yeah, I get it. Um,
are you guys back together? Yeah, we're trying to make things work. I guess. Oh well, um, well that's um, you're that's too bad. I thought you and I had something. That's really sweet of you to say, But I mean, we only met each other for a half hour. Yeah, I know, it's it's just a bummer that you didn't stick around. I mean, if we'd just spent more time together, I think we wouldn't really hit it off, and it would have let it to a little lot more nice days.
But you know, the heart wants with the heart wants, and I'm disappointed. You're so sweet. That's really nice. Um, And I do really feel bad about what I did. Um, It's just I don't know me my X. We have a history together, so yeah, well it must not have been a very good one. I mean if you broke up. Yeah, no, there I mean there were some good times and but there were some troubling times too. I guess you know, Chloe, you know I didn't know each other all that well.
But I mean we never had any trouble. Whoa, I mean, that's kind of who I am. I'm a drama free person. I gotta say, Chloe, he's doing a good job of selling himself. I'm already like Tim Carter, break up with that X. Yeah you know what, you know, maybe I do feel bad. I mean things you're saying, Carter giving
me second thoughts. Um, So maybe I don't know, maybe I should and things with what we So what is happening now, are you saying that you want to end things with your ex who's now your current boyfriend and then go back to dating Carter. I don't know. I mean he's saying some really nice things and bringing up some really good points. I mean, me, my boyfriend did have some troubling times. Wow. Well, Kloe, I don't want you to break up with him because it's something I'm
saying to you. I want you to make your own decisions. Yeah, you're right, maybe I should stay with him. Do you want to be with your ex or do you want to go out with Carter? I don't know. I'm just really confused right now, Coloe. I think you should be single. That's what I think you need to be for a little while. I think I'm going to stay with my ex. That's I think that's what I'm gonna do. Are you sure?
Carter sounds like a really nice guy. Yeah. I mean, do you guys really think I should go out with Carter? Oh my gosh, I think you should go out with Carter. Chloe, would you go out on a second date with Carter? We will pay for it. I don't know. I think I think I should do I think you should do yet I don't think you should be in the current situation that you're in, that's for sure, because you do not sound dedicated to it. Yeah, you're right, this is a lot of drama. I guess I'll go back with
my ex. That's so you don't want to go out with Carter again, or you do? It's a free date. I do want to go out with him again. Okay, so you're gonna go out with Carter on the date that we're offering. I would like you, but I don't think it's the best decision. Are you going or aren't you? This is so confusing. Oh my god, I am totally lost here, Chloe. I don't know I Carter, Yes, I do want to go out a second date, but I think it should just be a friend's date. What a
friend date? I mean you just said you want to go out with me. Well, I am seeing someone, so for at least another couple of days. Stick with it, Carter, and I'm sure you'll get the second romantic date that you want eventually. All Right. I do not get what just happened there. I think that makes everybody text in at seven eight five nine two. This is I would never let that girl pick where to eat, and I can understand why if you don't know what I'm talking about.
I'm talking about today's second date update. Student named Carter wanted to call a girl named Chloe. They went out on a date and then she stopped calling him, and we got her on the phone and found out the reason why. During the date, she got a text from her ex boyfriend saying that he wanted to get back together, and she decided to get back together with him right
there on the date. And then through the conversation, she went back and forth on now, you know what, maybe I should break up with my boyfriend and go out with you, Carter, And you know, you know what, I need to stay with my boyfriend. I shouldn't do that. I should stay with my boyfriend. On second thought, let's know, I'm gonna break up with my boyfriend and get with you Carter. No, I can't do that. And then we ask, as we always do, do you want to go out
on a second date? She said yes, she would go out with Carter, but not break up with her boyfriend. Go out with him as a friend, but maybe break up with her boyfriend was confusing. Okay, I will give her props for leaving and immediately as she decided to get back together with her boyfriend on the date. But that girl needs to be single. Yeah, she definitely needs
to be. You don't need to date anybody. Just have options, regular options, like not a boyfriend, so that one day you'll be like, I'm gonna go with Carter and then I'm gonna go with Steve. Know who'd I go out today? I don't know. Definitely could not make a decision to save her life. So I think they're going out again as friends. But then again, I'm not really sure. No
one is. They're not sure. Text you remember. If you want to do a second date, up date, all you have to do is just email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. Move at ninety two point five present