Second Date Update PODCAST: Are We Having Fun Yet?

today and he was in that situation. He went out with a girl that he met on tender and he says it just seems like she didn't like him very much, but he liked her, and now he wants to call and try to get a second date. What's up, Vic? Hey, Oh, yeah, I get it. I understand why she didn't like you. Know, it makes sense you too, Yeah, I'm sorry. Man, maybe on the phone with you for three seconds. So your email said that the girl you went out with just was cold to you the whole time. Fridgid, then why

are you even calling us? Why would you want to go out with somebody that you didn't obviously connect with. Well, I really want her and I just have to know if whatever I did is something that I do on dates, and it's kind of plague me, you know, for the rest of my life. I like how you're already blaming yourself the whole thing. That's good. Has this happened to

you before? Not exactly. I mean I've I've dated online before and either it goes well that's really poorly okay, Yeah, and this this one sort of felt like an in between it. I mean, it didn't seem like we had no chemistry. It just doesn't seem like she liked me. And was this the whole date that she didn't like you? Or was there a turning point? Um, I'm say about twelve minutes. In twelve minutes for her to like you. What did you guys do on your date? We decided

to go rock climbing. Oh that's ambitious. I assume you guys saw that you both were into that on Tinder. Well, she's got a lot of pictures of her doing you know, like really athletic staff I play probably about the beach, and you know, she seemed like probably played sports in college, and it seemed like a fun thing for us to do. I'd gone like once or twice before and she'd never gone, and she said it sounded like fun. Yeah, it sounds

like an awesome date. Yeah. And so we went to the place and they've got you know, they set you up, they give you a harness and you know, teach you how to get hooked in and what to do. And we paid for two hours, thinking that, you know, we'd be good and tired, not knowing that twelve minutes in she'd wanted to be over exactly. And so I looked over at her at one point and she just had this look on her face like she was doing the last thing in the world she wanted to be doing.

Did it look I mean, for the sounds of it, looks like she wanted to push you off the fake rock wall that you were on. Yeah. She just didn't seem like she was having it. So I said to her, I, look, you know, maybe this is another thing, you know, forget the two hours, Like I know, an oyster shack a few miles down the road. Let's go there and we'll switch the date up a little bit. See, I feel like that is good self awareness in a date. How

did she respond? She was relieved, it seemed like at first, and she said, you know, you know what, I think they'd be a great idea. I'm not really feeling this. So we got to the Oyster Shack and we order drink, and this conversation would like kind of start and stop. We'd find a thread, talk for a minute or so, and then it would sort of die, and then it was kind of up to me to start the next threat of conversation. And it just seemed like she had

something on her mind. There was something bothering her, and I didn't know what it was. It kind of felt like that throughout the night, and by night, I mean twenty five minutes because she then tells me that she has a work presentation that she totally forgotten about she had to go prepare for. And I'm going like, this is weird. It's five thirty on a Sunday and completely slip my mind to have the biggest presentation of my

life tomorrow and I don't know why I forgot. So I'm gonna go handle that right now, you know, And theoretically I would like to give me the benefit of the doubt, because I mean, if if she really did have her presentation the next day, then you know, maybe that was why she was not having fun rock climbing, maybe why she couldn't really hold a conversation together. So

that's true. She could have been preoccupied with trying to get ready for her thing and felt like she was kind of wasting time on a date at that moment. Either that or I'm really unlikable. That's so sad. Yeah, what did you like so much about her? Because she sounds like it was kind of a painful, awkward time with her. You know, she was she was gorgeous. She has these brown eyes that could like pierce into your soul. And on tint or a profile, you know, so she's

into old eighties horror movies stuff I grew up on. Um. It seemed like we were really going to hit it off. And when she was talking with me, I mean, she seemed really cool and interesting those brief moments she would respond to your comment or something. Maybe, I mean, maybe she just wasn't attracted to you. And it's not to say that there's probably anything wrong with you, but maybe that was just it. But we I mean, we met on Tinder. She has like four pictures of what I

look like. Yeah, how accurate are they? They're all recent pictures taken in the last year. So it looks like me. I mean that's what I look like. Okay, So it was definitely your personality that she didn't good. We got the looks out of the way, and we know that it goes deeper than that. It goes straight down to your soul. So let's figure it out. Will play a song, come back, and then call her and get your second date update. All right, all right, thank you fucking Jebels

second date update date. If you're just joining us for today's second date update. Vic is on the phone, and Vic is the most likable unlikable person I've ever met in my life. I say that because Vic went out with a girl named Jesse that he met on Tinder. They went rock climbing and then went to go get some oysters. But he says the whole time it just seemed like she hated him, and he wants to know

if he's doing something on dates that makes women dislike him. Also, he's as he likes her too, but more than that, he just wants to know what's unlikable about Vic. It sounds like a sitcom. Vic, Yeah, just doesn't work out on the second date. We could just maybe write a show what's unlikable about Vic? What do you think? I don't know if you go could handle that? I mean, what if she does say something super harsh about you,

then I will know and I can change. Sometimes you can't change the things people don't like about you, and you just have to find somebody who does like it. Okay, Vic, Yeah, I don't know. She's just she's really cool. I like her and I hope she'll go out with me again. Okay, Well, well let's get her on the phone and find out first why she seemed to have a horrible time in second, if she'll do it all over again, sounds great. Okay, all right, here we go. Hello. Can I speak to

Jesse please? Hi speaking Hey Jesse, how are you? This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry, I don't know who that is. We're a plumbing and contracting service. I need to know if you need you worked out in neighborhood, that'd be so amazing. What are all those people in the background, Hi, Jesse? Those are all people that work at Brook and Jewel in the morning plumbing and contracting. Well you do it in the morning. I'm sorry, I'm confused. I don't know what's going on.

Brooke and Jewel in the Morning is a radio show, and we're calling you today because we actually got an email from one of our listeners who wanted us to call you. Okay, his name is Vic. Oh um, all right, that actually said it kind of positive. Okay. Well, we do a segment on our show called the second Date Update. So Vic emailed us because he really liked you a lot and was hoping you guys would go out again. But since your date, you haven't talked to him. I

don't think that's going to happen. You don't think going out with him again is going to happen? No, what is it? So he says, it seems like you had a horrible time the entire time on your date, Like there was just something about him that you didn't like. You know, it was the first date. It wasn't amazing, and it's not a big deal. It's a big deal at him because he liked you a lot. Uh okay, So can you tell us, like, why didn't you like him? He said, like twelve minutes into the date is when

you started being cold towards him. Oh, he gave me twelve minutes that's that's funny. No, it's way before that. He didn't even like him for twelve four minutes. H No, how could he make you upset right away? Well, for starters, he looked different than his pictures. Really, he said all of his pictures were taken within the last year and looked just like him. Oh well sure, but in his

pictures he was clean shaven. Okay, okay. So he showed up with sporting a beard or something, and you don't like facial heart, No, I'd be fine with a beard. He didn't show up with a beard. What did he show up with? He had a Hitler mustache? What like a fake one that you get at a costume store. No, like a real one growing out in his face like he grew it on purpose. Was it like to try to be ironic and hipster? You know, I don't care if he's trying to be ironic. No one should have that. Yeah,

I agree, except for Michael Jordan. For some reason, Michael Jordan can wear a Hitler stash and it's okay, he's the only person in America that can do it. But erhaps from a multi millionaire basketball star. Yeah, that's true. Vic obviously, couldn't pull off the Hitler stash. He didn't tell us anything about that. Well maybe for him nuts metal,

but it just doesn't work for me. But the thing is, okay, I can get where the mustache was a turn off for sure, but that is something that can be easily changed, I guess. But it just gave me this bad first impression, Like I'm climbing up this rock wall and I look next to me and there's Hitler. Yeah, no, what do you hate it? That'd be a little disturbing. Yeah, disturbing is a good word for it. Did you ask I'm about it at all? I mean, I don't know how I think. You know, it's a first date. I don't

need to ask about it. But then it just got worse, Like, how does it get worse than Hitler? Yeah? Literally worse than Hitler. He kept like staring me down and being like are you having a good time? Are you having fun? And it'd be like, well, I'm trying to figure out how to climb this flock. Well you know I've never done that before, and I'm trying to figure out this difficult thing. And he's like, you're not smiling. I don't think you're having a good time, like I'm trying to.

It's like you're actually on a date with Hitler. You will have fun fun, you will have no fun. You're not having enough fun, man, So I can't well, I can't believe that you left the gym and then went and got drinks with him. I thought maybe alcohol might calm him down a little. I was wrong. I was wrong. I shouldn't have gone to the second location with Hitler. I'm not going to do that again. What happened then? Are just just more of the same. He's staring me up.

Are you having fun? You don't look like you're having fun now. I picture him doing it and like his banks falling in his face and him like angrily getting out. I'm just shouting at you the whole time. That's pretty much what it felt like. It was just so weird. Yeah, not to get weirder on you, Jesse, but Vic is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Wait seriously, Yes, oh god, so you didn't have a presentation. No, no, you don't. I didn't have

a presentation. Yeah, Jesse got out of the date by saying that she had a work presentation and that's what you're focusing on. Vic, Well, that was a little rude to lie to somebody. I mean, you can't just tell them the truth. Oh, Vick, why do you have a Hitler stash man? That's how my mustache grows. I don't have like a full mustache. Show. It's kind of like a more a bridge. You're trying to get tobody because your mustache doesn't grow mustache. I do not think it

looks like a Hitler statche. I've watched hours and hours of Hitler's speeches, and I do not. I hope you mean like in documentaries and not just for your own research. No, I'm a history I was a history major in college. Okay, time. I mean I've just I've seen a lot of videos of Hitler about Hitler, and I don't know, Well, why have you seen a lot of videos about Hitler? Like Jesse, didn't you hear me? I mean I was a history major. I didn't. I didn't go out of my way to

watch Hitler videos. But I don't look Okay, look, I think it looks good. I get that you don't think it looks good. I guess I have to ask some people that I'm close to and get a consensus. Look, even if you don't look like Hitler, which is fine, that's what you think. It's so really rude and strange. It's been the entire date asking me if I'm having fun yet, and being mad at me for not having enough fun? You know, maybe how is it like you I would have been having fun. I just don't understand.

How is it rude to ask someone if they're having fun? I just thought that's what people do. Are you? Are you having fun? I'm having fun? I'm not having fun. I'm not having fun now and I wasn't having fun then? Why why aren't you smiling? Are you having fun? Why do you because I'm not having fun? Because you keep asking me if I'm having fun? So what can we do to make sure that you're having fun? Why do something now? Jesse? Would you like to see if you could have fun with Vic and go on a second

date with him? We will pay for double No? No, please, I have heard enough. I do not want to go on another date with the ice queat. Oh yeah, I guess I won't be having any fun at all. Well, I I've yet to see you have any fun? So am I done now? Do I have to keep talking to you guys? Can I hang up? Yeah? Jesse, that's fine, you can go. Thank you for your time. Yeah, thanks, Yeah, Vic, that was intense. That was a little rough. Um. Sorry you didn't get a second date? Man, No, I'm even

happier than I call it now, you know. No, you need to shave that mustache off, is what you need to do. Vic. I think you really have the wrong idea of what this mustache looked like. It's very professional. I can go out into the world like I think that if I was walking around with a mustache that looked like Hitler, one person other than the crabbiest person I've ever met, do you think that she probably would

have liked it? Like sweet Jewil in the morning, text in at seven eighty five nine two says, I don't care if that guy looks like Hitler. He sounded nice to me. Really, I mean, but think about when you're getting intimate. I couldn't. I couldn't. I mean, I understand if you missed today's second date update. We're talking about

Vic who wanted to call this girl named Jesse. They went out on a date and she seemed instantly cold right away and he wanted to know what he's doing wrong on dates or if he did something wrong just

in that specific situation. And we got her on the phone and found out that she didn't really like him because he had a quote Hitler mustache right away, and then the whole time just like kept asking her if she was having fun, because it was clear that she wasn't having fun and that just kind of annoyed her. He says that he doesn't have one. He's just trying to grow his mustache out and it grows in kind of weird or something, and nobody's ever told him that

but her. So we don't know. We don't have a picture of him to say if he does have a Hitler stash or not. I feel like it's such a distinguishable feature. I think there's no like gray area for that d make eye contact. Yeah, yeah, exactly. So I don't know. I don't know if he does or not. We'll try to get a picture of him and see if we can find out important piece. He sends us a picture. It's black and white and it looks like exactly like Yeah, hold on a minute. Either way, they

decided not to go out again. As a matter of fact, they'll probably never talk again because it didn't sound like they liked each other at all at the end of that phone call. Remember, if you want to do a second date update, all you have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. Yes, Young Jeffrey's song of the Week is just a few minutes away at eight ten.