Brooking jewels second date of date. I think the best way to make a first impression on a first date is to show her your rage issues right away. You know what I mean, Just rage on the first date the whole time. Usually ladies like that a lot. Yeah, yeah, they dude, Oh I love it. That's why Adam is on the phone right now. He emailed us about a date that he had that he feels didn't go so great because he was a little angry when he showed up to his date. Adam, how are you, hey, guys?
How are you? I'm good? Hey man. First of all, I will say I read your email and the issue that you had in getting to your date and the way you acted on your date. I can't blame you. I think I would have acted the same way I've been in this situation a lot. But go ahead and tell everybody about how you met the girl that you want us to call today. So her name was Wren, and you know, it was one of those like friend of a friend saying, um, we were both single. They
set us up. But she was real good looking. I was really tracked to her looking through her pictures. It really seemed like she was gonna be a good fit. So I was pretty stoked on the date from the beginning before we even actually met for the day, right before you met and showed her your angry side. Dude, I didn't mean to show her my angry thing. That listen the goal of the day. Yeah, but in your email you said you got there and you just raged for the whole time pretty much, and you felt kind
of awkward about it. Explain what happened. I mean, I was I gave myself plenty of time to get to coffee, you know, last thing I want to do on a first day, to show up late, And all of a sudden, I gotta know where. This app turns into the lane in front of me and starts going like twenty miles per hours. And I wasn't running late, but this guy, he just I felt like he was mentioning with me because I'm just sitting there and I'm beeping and I'm honking, and I'm trying to be nice first, and then I
just lose it. I slipped switch and I start going crazy on this guy and he's just just a nast because I'm just trying to get somewhere. Yeah, you're already raging with us. We're just trying to ask you, okay, Yeah, no, dude, Adam, you're talking to the king of road rage right here. Yeah, I'm constantly pissed off in my car. So I understand you were angry about this dude. Yeah, Well of course I was angry. Yeah, you know, this guy who pulls in front of me makes me ten minutes late and
that fits me off. And I tried to let it go, and I guess it was just nervous energy. I just kind of wouldn't shut up, and I just talked NonStop pretty much the whole date. Were you talking about this guy the whole time? Pretty much? Do you have angry issues normally? Are you an angry guy? I tend to think I'm pretty even killed guy. But I asked you to recap the incident on the way to the date, and you just went off on us. So you sound
like an angry dude? Are you? Are you an angry guy or are you I'm not, normally, you know, really an angry guy. I think it was just a nervous energy of going to the date, and I think that's a mix of both of those things. I just kind of, you know, had a tough time. Did you explain to her that you were upset at a guy that you did? I think it just came off angry. Yeah, I see how that happened. Did she comment about your anger? Did she say, like, whoa, you're still pretty upset about that?
Really she was pretty quiet about it. She was really quiet, probably quiet because she was scared for her life. People get that way. That's where I felt real bad with I just kind of just talked NonStop for forty five minutes. Did she get a word in edgewise? I mean not much?
All right? So you talked at her the whole time? Well, I mean at the end, I said, you know, I said to her, I asked her about going out on another date, and I apologize to her, and I said that you know, I'm not normally like this and all this stuff. And you know we slapped five. No you you high five that da end of the day. Well, I wasn't going to kiss her. I was like from from and swim nervous, pissed off. What kind of five
were we talking about here? Like on the side down low high FIVEI So you gave her a high five to say goodbye? She probably didn't want to do a fifth pound because she thought you might break her. Yeah, seriously, did you ask to see her again? Interlocked thing? So gay? Oh nice, it's almost a handhold. You almost held her hand on the first date. Did you ask to see
her again? Well? Yeah, we talked about it and I mentioned i'd throw her text and I texted her a few times and I haven't really heard back, so that I'm kind of curious, you know. I know it didn't go great, but I thought it ended good after you apologize Georgia to say, oh, I totally understand. I've been
there before or not so much, and so she seemed upset. Yeah, I mean I told her, I said, I told I told her that, you know, my energy level was often and I was really nervous for the date as it was, and then this happened, and it just it just totally threw me and I and I feel horrible about it. And I told her that and she seemed receptive to it. Yeah,
but this whole situation, you know, it's just it. It didn't go well, and I really want a second chance because I think her and I could really do well together. And I think that even with my anger issues, you know, the little bit of road rate and stuff. I feel like a girl like her could really call me down. Okay, that's kind of sweet. All right, well we'll play a song, come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, great,
thank you guys. All right, trying not to freak out brooking jubile in the morning, Adam is on the phone with us. He wants us to call a girl named Rin today for his second date update. They went out met for coffee. He was ten minutes late and ended up being very frustrated from a road rage incident that made him late. Feels like he just vented about the thing the whole time and was just angry and didn't even literally get a word in edgewise while they had
their coffee date. Adam, you're about ready to give her a call? I'm ready, man, all right. I was thinking about this. Most girls, when they list the traits that they like in a potential mate, they usually say something like I like a guy who's sensitive, a guy who's caring, good job, very responsible. They usually don't list potential homicidal maniac as a as a good quality. So that's probably
why she's not calling you back. I mean, if you went on a first date with somebody and they showed up a little late, first of all, that's one strike against you, and then proceeded to just be angry the whole time. I doubt you'd be so willing to call him back to I mean, I think that's kind of issue. And that's why I'm trying to make it work with her again, because I really do feel like I had a bad representation. You want to do over? Yeah, I just want to try one more time, you know, I
want to. I want to kind of show rens of Adam that I really am. Okay, and you think this call is gonna do it for you? You've got a level head on you right now. Yeah, I feel like I'm pretty zen right now. Just don't make him wait any longer for the phone call, don't make him late for the second bay, get this going so I don't get pised off about it. Okay, all right, I'm gonna call it right now. Man, here we go. Hello, how can I speak to Ren? Please? Is hey? Ren? How
are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio program. I'm sorry, I think you have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure I have the right number. N there's not a whole lot of rinds. And I was given your number by a guy named Adam to call you today. Why it Yeah. Adam is a listener to our show, and he says he recently went out on a date with you, but you're not calling him back. And he asked us to see if we get you on the phone and ask why how
do you know him? He listens to our radio show. Adam wanted us to call you to ask if if he did something wrong on your date, or there's a particular reason that you don't want to see him again. This is I don't even really know how to respond to this. I know it's you about this he did. He told us that you went out for coffee, and he said that he was a little late, and he actually feels bad because he thinks that he may have been a little upset from a traffic incident and he
wasn't very attentive to you on your date. Oh God, is that a pretty accurate description. Yeah, yeah, I would say so. I get this is what you guys do. So I don't mean to be disrespectful at all. I'm just kind of like, no, that's fine, I appreciate you taking the time out to talk to us. We just want to pass along a message to Adam and give him your perspective on the first date. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I can talk about that. My experience with Adam was very limited, and I'm not a very confrontational person, and he was very, very angry, and I think that the first ten minutes of the time that we very very first were introduced to each other, it was really just all about this driving experience that we had had being
so frustrated with this other person. Was he like cussid and stuff when he was explaining it to you, Yeah, I mean, it's not like it was so so over the top that I would have need to have left, because I would have done that if it was really really that bad, If you would, I was going to ask you, rin, I was going to ask you if at any point you were scared for your life. Oh god, No, I wouldn't say that. It really wasn't like that, but
it was pretty intense. Even when he finally went to go get us some coffee, which he did, you know, finally pull himself up to be like, Okay, I'm going to go get us some coffee, but pulls himself together. Even in that moment when he goes to order the coffee. He I can hear him from from all of the way at the other end of the shop and he's ordering and he just sounds aggressive. So was he like yelling at the barista and stuff like tearing up this
Starbucks or wherever you're at. No, it really wasn't like that. It wasn't like he was he was unkind towards the people around him necessarily. It's just the like the manner in which he was dealing with things. It was just like pent up. You know, when somebody's really upset about something and even though they are doing something normal, it's in an abnormal way. And here's the other thing that was that was tough. It was manifesting in like sweat. Oh,
he was so mad that he was sweating. Well, I don't know if he just sweats, if that's a thing independent of what was going on, but it seems like it was fueled or at least like made a lot worse by his emotional space. Rand It's called hyper hydrosis. It's people we can't control their sweat glands. Okay, they sweat a ton he maybe he has that. Yeah, some people, so you don't want to see him again because he's an angry, sweaty mess. It's not just that he was
sweating a lot and being angry. He was sweating profusely, like the bodies of his hand. There was sat dripping down him and then collecting like under. I'm trying to think it's the right way to say this, um like, oh man, boobs, you know, Oh gosh, he sweat it out. His whole shirt like dark, dark, just covered in sweat. Oh man, Yeah, that's bad. If he's pitting out a little bit, that's kind of like whoa, man, you sweat
a lot, buddy. If he actually his whole shirt was sweat it out, I don't think that's what And that's what I was concerned about, because I know that when i'm off set, like I'll sweat a little bit and that's normal. But it was, whoa, it was so much. I'd be curious to find out if it's an issue or if it's just his anger that makes him sweat like that. Aren't you curious to at least? No? Honestly, maybe he's a really great person that just had a really bad day. But I just don't want to deal
with this, Okay, I really don't. That's cool. Thank you for giving us an answer. I appreciate it. But I really need to find out about this sweat. And that's why I'm glad you're still on the phone, because Adam is also on the phone and heard everything you just said. Oh my god, are you kidding me? Oh, I'm not. I'm sorry, Hiram, Oh my god, I am First of all, I'm really really sorry. Look, this is really cool. I'm sorry.
And then I'm also like annoyed to be put in this situation, But I am sorry if you heard things that I said, Um, are you don't need to feel bad around every Pretty much everything you said is true. I mean I can kind of explain the sweating thing, the anger stuff, Um, the sweating thing, let's start with that. So, I mean, you know, I threw a hoodie in a coat on and it ended up not being as cold out as I anticipated. By the time I was all
pissed off at this guy in front of me. I started sweating the car because I was laughing the heat and I was so pissed up I wasn't thinking about it. The coffee shop had the heat on. I couldn't stop sweating and I knew I was and I know that my man hooves were sweating. Yeah, and that was a crappy thing for me to say about man the step. I'm sorry, that was just the first thing. I was just easier. That's what I think I want you to hear.
It's like, I'm not that angry guy. I know I was sweaty, I know I was hot ash and I thought, but attention, you wouldn't mention it. Like I was so lost in that date, and like I didn't know what to do, and I went home and showered right away. I was like I was looking in the mirror and like I literally like was mortified by myself because I was really excited about the date and like I never tell friends about going out with anybody, but for some reason, I was kind of stoked on you and I just
crashed and burned. And I kind of do that a lot in life. And I just want you to know that I really am sorry. And as far as you and I are concerned, like I'd love one more shot, there's one more chance to maybe sweat it out with you. And hey, Wren, would you like to go out with
Adam again. I will pay for a second date. We can send you guys to a spin class or something where the sweat where sweat is supposed to be there, and would you maybe give him another shot to see if he's not so flustered this time he can he can do a better job. Adam. I'm like, this is awkward, and I just want to say I appreciate you eventually
being honest. I think that what I would have preferred is if you could have communicated this to me, not on a radio station, because you did contact me and you didn't really ever just come out and say I totally get it, Ran. I mean, as crazy as I was there, it's probably crazier that I ended up on the radio with you right now. But I tried calling and I texting you, and you know, you never got back to me here. So like I thought, like this was my class option of how I can get ahold
of you, Rin, Will you do it? Will you go out with him one more time? Come on, We've never had anyone be so sincere. Will you drive please? Just a weird? It's funny? Oh right, okay, all right, yeah one more day? Nice? All right? Ran? Thank you every time. Adam, congratulations you got your second date. Man, thank you. Guys, n this is gonna be great. I promise you, Adam two words before your next date. All Right, gold bond okay broken. Jubil in the morning.