Brooking jewels. Second date update. I don't know if anybody's ever had this experience before, but you go out on a date and you think you had a great time, and then you hang out with your friends later and tell them all about it, and they go, she's not going to call you back, Oh, because they think that you did something wrong. Well, apparently that happened to Trevor, who's on the phone right now to do a second
date update. His friends informed him that he might have screwed up on his date, and he didn't realize it until he was talking to them. What's up, Trevor, how are you hey? Doing well? How are you? Guys? Not too bad? Probably better than you. Maybe we'll figure that out. Okay, Well, you know it's a good start your friend's sake. Here a dumbass and you got a girl that's not calling you back. That's one way to put it. Why don't
you tell us what happened? I went to dinner with this girl, Carla, and as far as I could tell, everything was going really well. No awkward pause, no weird story or some weird moment of like, oh what do I talk about next? Yeah? I'm just like, okay, this is easy. This is simple. I feel like we're just talking away, no big problem, easy and simple. That's what I've always looked for in dates. Isn't that what you are at a date? Pretty much? Yeah? So everything felt
good with her. What your email said after you talk to your friends, now you're feeling different. Yeah, because I was talking to one of my best friends about it later, and the only thing that came up was at one point, you're showing each other pictures and talking about hobbies, and she showed me a picture and said something along on to like, hey, asked her, hey, are you a swimmer because you have really broad shoulders. Who Then after I told him that, she kind of stopped me and was like, wait,
really that's what you said for me? You're like, yeah, dude, that's probably why that could be really rude. It could be taking the wrong way. I mean I could see that. I think it's a great compliment. That didn't seem like offensive a rude to me, So just genuinely curious. Yeah, but what if she has, like I mean, that's like her most self conscious thing about her is how broader shoulders are. Or what if she's like walking down the street and she gets mistaken for a man every once
in a while, like it could be a sensitive subject. Yeah, looking back, and now that you say it like that, I didn't think of it that way. So but what was her reaction to it? I mean, she kind of paused and kind of looked at me funny for a second, and then I was like, no, that's a good thing. You have shoulders like an olympian. Yeah, and know what
she'd do after that, which she's like, oh, sweet, thanks, Okay. Yeah, we just kind of picked up conversation from there and the yeah just kind of like oh okay, thanks and moving on from there. And throughout the rest of the day everything felt fine except maybe that one moment. But when we got to the end, it's like time to leave, and she just straight up left. There was no like formal hug or kiss or anything like that. It was just kind of like a bye. Well, she didn't want
to hug you with her broad shoulders crush you. So did you at least like walk her to her car? Not really, because as soon as we that's the restaurant, go to walk in through a car, but she's already turned and started almost looking like she's like speedwalking jogging off to her car, so without barely even saying goodbye, heads off through a car and then I'm kind of left standing there awkwardly like, well, wait a minute, do I like walk you to your car? Do I chase
after you? As that all your Yeah, don't ever choose chase after her as the answer. Yeah, I didn't chase after her, because then it's like if she starts sprinting, and then it looks really weird. It's like if I'm chasing you to your car drinking off, her starts screaming she has pepper spray, it's even worse if she has some pepper spray, you know what I mean? Oh yeah, that would that would just be the best part of it. Okay, So after that experience, if you talked to her all
after that? No, I mean like I've tried to do the nice, polite follow ups of like texting or should or a call and say hey, let's do this again, or trying to figure out what's going on, but no returns. And I realized this probably doesn't sound as dramatic or crazy as other second dates. But I mean, apart from my awkward broad shoulder comment, I thought everything went really well,
so I'm just genuinely trying to figure out what's going on. Yeah, because she was definitely avoiding any chance at like a good night kiss with you. Yeah, I mean, like nothing up to that point. Was saying, oh this is gonna end inflames. Yeah, okay, but it did so sprint. But yeah, yeah, her running away from you. We'll try to figure out what we're wrong. And was it your comment about her husky build that ruined? Thanks for you, Oh, I hope all right, we'll play a song, come back, and then
get your second date update. Okay, thanks, all right, hang on brooking jubil in the morning. Second, it's been right in the middle of a second date update, and if you're just joining us. Trevor is on the phone and he's not getting a call back from Carla. They went out for dinner. He thought they had a lovely time until he was describing the date to his friend and his friend picked up on something that Trevor said and
he's like that it was probably offensive. Trevor is trying to compliment his date and he said, hey, you have huge shoulders, sort of like a Russian powerlifter at the Olympics, Like big burly, huge shoulders, like I could strap a yoke to your neck and you could probably plow a field. You're like an ox. I think is that the exact quote, Trevor, Or, did I embellish? That is not even close. But we
can say you embellish. Okay, However, I will say that even though that's not exactly what you said, that may have been what she heard far enough. Yeah, what did you actually? I actually said asked, hey, are you a swimmer? Because you have really broad shoulders? Right, okay, right, But all the other stuff was implied. We went from swimming to powerlifting. Sure, that was completely implied to an ox
plowing a field. That's what I think she picked up on. Anyway, Trevor has not been getting a call back from her, and he thinks that maybe it was that comment that did him in. And for the record, Trevor, I think that that wasn't a great comment. But I think that there's something worse that you did that you're not realizing. If she was literally running to her car at the end of the date. I didn't say she was running. I just said it developed into a light jaw didn't
have time to run. Yeah, Okay, I'm gonna donor phone of her right now and see we can figure out what happened. Okay, okay, Hello, I might I speak to Carla? Please? Yeah? This is her. Hey Carla, how are you? This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Sorry, what did you say? Jew Bil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. I didn't understand a word you just said. My name is jew Bil and I host a radio show called Brook and Jewbel in
the Morning. Oh okay, and we recently got an email from one of our listeners about you me. Yeah, yeah, that's you, Carla. Why that's a good question. Well, because you recently went out on a date with him, and we do a segment on our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up not talking to them after, they email us to see if we can get you on the phone and find out what happened.
His name is Trevor. He emailed you to call me, correct because he says that you won't return any of his text messages or phone calls. Um, Why like I didn't respond? I think that should be hint enough. Yeah, I know usually it should be you're right, but we do this a lot on our show, and some people just want an answer, you know, So he he just wants to know why you're laughing and why you think this is so funny. Basically, um didn't tell you about
like what i'll happen spend on your date. Yeah, yeah, well, I mean he told us a little b about your day. He said there was a moment where he felt like he might have offended you, Like, how did he How did he say he offended me? He said that you guys were talking at one point and he commented on your shoulders and said they were very broad and you look like you we're an Olympian or something like that.
I mean, yeah, that was kind of weird. You don't sound offended, though, No, I mean I used to swim. I swim in college, Like, I know, I have broad shoulders. Oh so he's actually spot on. It was like an accurate observation. Yeah, but it's kind of weird just staying to point out on a date, especially on a first date. You know. Yeah, it's not usually the compliment women are looking for. No, usually almost anything but die, the eyes, the hair, all kinds of things to choose from, rather
than focusing on how big your shoulders are. It's not even just like how my shoulders are, it's that they're Olympic sized. But you, I mean, you could understand that he was nervous and he didn't mean any harm by it. I get that. I just I really just wanted to move on after that comment. Yeah, that's understandable. What else did he tell you about our date? He told us.
That was like the main thing he did say. At the end of it, you kind of like ran to your car, he said, a light jog, yaid he said, Yeah, he said that you walked outside. You didn't really say goodbye to him, no hug, no handshake, no nothing, and you kind of went from a fast walk to a light jog to your car. I absolutely did. I could get the vibe that he thought it was going a lot better than I liked, and so I didn't want to have to turn him down if he went in
for a kiss or all, but anything like that. So I just turned and walked away. I just got to get out of here because I don't want to have the awkward situation of telling him no. And I guess it wasn't just the broad shoulders comment that made you go to a light jo, No, No, it wasn't. It was um, oh my god. So we're we're sitting, we're chatting, you know, dinner. He's kind of I mean, kind of a weird dude. Okay. And then so we start talking
about our pets. I have a cat, you know, I pulled out a couple of photos, you know, I've showed up the cats, real cute. And he starts pulling out his phone and showing me pictures of his bird, his parakeet, and it's a lot of them. Okay, well it's not just love, it's more like an obsession. How was it Like every photo on his phone was his parakeet? Almost almost every photo? All right, that could just mean that
he's lonely too. Well, he's got all these photos, and the bird has an Instagram page and he's got a Facebook page. Yeah wow, Okay, so it's a lot. So he loves this bird so much that you didn't feel like you wanted to get to know him anymore. I just felt like you probably don't have any time for anything else in your life. Oh hey, okay, I take offense to that. Wait, what is going on? Oh that's Trevor. I forgot to tell you that, Carla. He's actually on
the other line. Listen, I wants to talk to you. Hello. Oh my god. First of all, his name is Stephen Squawking and he's pretty popular on Instagram and Facebook. But that's the said point. Really, I just brought up Stephen because I thought you were interested. I like you. I was sharing that with you because I wanted to share part of my life with you. I didn't think you would knock me down and literally run away. First of all,
I didn't run, I just walked away quickly. And your obsession with your bird is a bit much, while my obsession could actually get us rich if he gets enough followers. So how many followers does Stephen have? He has a thousand followers on Facebook and Instagram. Okay, all right, so you're building a business with your bird, Stephen Squawking that that is exactly right. He is my best friend and my business partner. It's kind of cute in a way, right.
He just loves his pet. A couple of pictures is cute, but he took the parakey and got professional glamour shots. Wait, what do you mean like he took the parakee to a studio. They had someone light it, put it in outfits and take photos and edit and tell them parakey, what is wrong with that? I care about him, He's my pet. I'm love Stephen. I love him, and I can take whatever pictures I want of him. You know what, Trevor,
I really think you need to get a life. I mean, you feel like a nice guy, but you're going a little overboard with this. Get a life. I have a life, Stephen squawking is my life, and do you guys? That's why I didn't call him back a little bit more sense. Well, Carl, I'm hoping I can change your mind because I would like you to go out on a second date. Whichever will you go out? Whichrevor one more time? We will pay for it? Are you kidding me? I just told
you he took glamour shots of his parakeet. I'm not going out with him again, That's fine. I don't even want to go on a date with a bird hater. Okay, all right, okay, all right, So so we're both in agreement, then you guys don't want to go out with each other? No, no way, Okay, first, yeah, I mean for Stephen in this day. I wish we could talk to him and get his side of the story, but we can't. I don't think he can talk to us about it. He's not available for interviews right now, but if you check
in his Instagram, he's going on tour soon. Okay, I'll be sure to DM Steven Squawking and see if I can set it up. Thank you. Broken Jubil in the Morning text in at seven eight five nine two says that's really sad his bird has more social media followers than I do. To Jubil in the Morning talking about today's second date update if you missed it, stude, Trevor wanted to call Carla. He couldn't figure out why she
wasn't calling him back. We got her on the phone and it turns out that she was kind of unattracted to him because he's super obsessed with his bird and his bird's Instagram account. Stephen Squawking is a insta celebrity, is what it sounds like to me. The name alone is amazing. It's a great name, it really is. I han't pulled up the account or anything else yet, but
to check it out. But I'm sure I will be doing that later for like hours and shout out to everybody else on the text message board at seven eight five nine, who just shouting out their pets Instagram trying to get us to say it on the air, Like this one says, I have an Instagram from my dog and his his at Dodger the Boxer, So check that one out. It's it's They're always disappointing to me though, Yeah, I mean you want these dogs, Like there's like three
dogs that are worthy of Instagram accounts. Other than that, I mean they're sleeping man in fetching balls. Well yeah, like crazy cat ladies now have something to do more than just you know, sitting around with her cats. Right, And I have a dog and he has an Instagram account, but he's kind of boring. Yeah, It's like I got him for one specific reason and that was for Instagram, and he's really not helping me out at all. So I'm gonna be once at Texas seven eighty five nine two.
You can have a dog if you want to be a second day up. They have to do is email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back.