Second Date Update PODCAST: 3rd Wheeler

let's try to figure it out. And Vic, if you want to be the second wheel, is it possible that I could be the spare tire in the trunk? What fourth wheel or wheel? I don't know exactly what it is. If it's something in Urban Dictionary and I misspoke right there, please don't. I don't want to know what it is. And it's a joke there, Vic, Um, Yeah, what is your email mean? It was confusing? All said was you want to be the second wheel. We're not talking cars,

are we, because that's not what the segment is about. Well, we're definitely not talking cars. No. So I sort of went on a date with someone, but it wasn't really my date. Hold on sort of turned into my date almost I think I'm not sure. Slow up, Okay, First, whose date did you accidentally go on? It was a co worker of mine. It's really weird how it happened. My coworker. It was his birthday a couple days ago, and you know, I asked him what he was doing, and he said he was just going to go grab

a drink at a bar with his friend. And I sort of felt bad for the guy. You know, it's his birthday. I wanted to make him feel make him feel special, So I I found out which bar he was going to, and I planned to surprise him at the bar with like fonfetti and silly string. I like choreographed a small dance for him. Dude, you're an awesome co worker. Wow. Yeah, so you have a crush on him. Yeah, that's what this is actually about. It he's going on on a date. Wait are you joking or not? I

can't tell I'm joking out. That's a lot that Yeah, that's a lot to do for a coworker though, Yeah, well yeah, yeah, you know, I felt bad for him because I feel like he never does anything for his birthday. So I was like, all right, this year, I'm gonna be really silly and goofy and like make him really happy and it's gonna be great. So I get to the bar and I have all this silly string and I'm like dressed up as a clown and everything. And I realized that he's at the bar with another girl.

And it turns out he's on a blind date with this girl. And then the look in his eyes he gave me, I realized that this girl was like a romantic interest or something. And then she went to the bathroom and he explained it all to me. He's like, get out of here, now leave. What did he say when you guys went to the bathroom? He explained to me that he had met this girl online, but she didn't know that it was his birthday. Yeah, because that's

a lot of pressure on a first date. You don't tell people that it's your birthday if you're going out on a first date. But the problem was when I came in, I screamed, happy birthday, Surprise, happy birthday. So she then realized that it was his birthday. Oh okay, See, if I was that dude, I would have just instantly grabbed my phone and called the police and had you arrested. But like crazy person stalking me. I have no idea what he's talking about, but apparently he's a better friend

to you than I would be. So I felt really bad because I think I made it pretty awkward for them, and I ended up staying. That's what. So this explains the email that I sent you. I stayed at the bar with them on their first date. Okay, so you felt bad, but you didn't feel bad enough to leave, and now you want to, I'm guessing call her and ask her on a date. Yeah, you went from an awesome friend rest in a clown suit spraying confetti to

like a leech man. That is, that's not cool. Well, first of all, he wanted me to stay because he felt awkward about the situation and needed like sort of like a wingman after that happened, So he made me sit down when she came back. And so I wasn't like I offered to leave. Obviously, I wasn't just going to like leach the whole situation there. Yeah, but what do you say in that situation? Like you have to

invite the person to stay that randomly shows up. Like if it were me, I would have told him to off. But I think he felt really uncomfortable, So tell us about her. Yeah, Oh, she was amazing. She was really cool. She was just like really funny and definitely got my sense of humor. And we definitely like hit it off right away. I felt kind of bad before I knew it.

You know. We had a couple of drinks and then like me and her were laughing a bunch and talking and he was sort of over to the side and she was sort of touching my arm in a kind of flirtatious way, and I felt like maybe it was it turned into hard date? Wow? And did it seem like that bothered him? To be honest, I was not taking too much notice of him. Do you not feel guilty about this at all? Like you showed up to your friend's birthday on his date and stole his date? Yeah?

I mean I don't feel good about it, But also I can't help where things go. And if I hit it off with someone, then that's sort of it's meant to be, you know. Do you know if the two of them have continued to talk. I do not. I haven't talked to him about it because I'm just anxious about the situation. I can't stop thinking about her. And if I find out that they have been seeing each other. It's just been like, I don't know. I don't want it to escalate anything. So you got her number? That night?

I did get her numbers. We were taking a bunch of pictures and we were taking them on my phone and she wanted them sent to her, So I got her number of that. Yeah, it's the old Hey. Oh no, we can take the pictures with my phone and I'll text them to you exactly. Okay, so you have you have a number, And have you guys actually talk outside of that night. No? No, we haven't talked since then. I mean I I would certainly like to wait, did you try to call her or text her or anything? No,

I haven't done anything. I'm a little scared too, because I don't know, Like what if I text her and she's with my coworker, and you know, I just don't know what the situation is. Then you ask where they're at and show up again. Pretty simple? All right, Well we'll play a song, come back, and then we'll call her and see if we can steal his new girlfriend. Well yeah, but can you not put it that way? All right? My bad? Vicor? All right, we'll do it.

You're looking cuble in the morning date. The Great Tupac Shakespeare once said, all is fair in love and war. So if I'm out on a date with a lady and the waiter comes up and starts hitting on her, is it okay for her to go home with the waiter? Yes it is okay. Is it okay for me to come along and film? Yes it is. Did I request that that happened on my date? Yes? I did so. All is fair in love and war. But enough about

my dating life. We're talking about Vic right now. He met up with his coworker, who was out on his birthday having drinks with somebody that he met online. He kind of crashed the date, not knowing that he was going to be out with somebody who was interested in But anyway, Vic ended up flirting with the girl, and he got her phone number, and now he wants to call her to ask her out. We don't know if his co worker is still talking to her or not, but we're going to call her anyway an attempt to

steal his girl. Are you ready, missus Silio girl? Vic? Yeah? You know, I don't really know if I like that nickname it's truth. Ye, try to come up with something else then. VI. Here's where I think you're going wrong, though. I feel like you should really talk to your coworker first before encroaching on his date. I mean, that's the only way to I feel like, salvage your friendship. Yeah, but I'm not too concerned about the friendship at this point.

I'm a little more occupied with getting this girl. All is fair in love and war, And if Vic would like me to come along and film, then I shall, because all is fair in love and war. Vic, I met you have quite the video collection, Jebil. We shall have a viewing party sometimes. Yeah. Great. Anyway, Vic, are you ready to give her a call and ask her out or have us ask her out? Yeah? Yeah, you guys ask her out. Okay, it's gonna be crazy, all right,

here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Susan? Yeah? Who's this? Hey, Susan? How are you? This is Jewil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, I don't know. Brooke and Jewel in the Morning is a radio show, okay, And I'm calling you today because one of our listeners actually sent us an email about you. H Oh, you're already scared. That's a good sign, Susan. Yeah, is it good or bad? It's bad? Maybe I don't want to hear it. It's actually really good. Okay. So we do a segment on

our show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then they end up not calling you after that date, you can email us and we'll get them on the phone and ask why. Okay, I've been on any dates recently? Um? Yeah, So do you have any idea who would be wanting to call you? Oho? Maybe Scott Scott? And is Scott a guy that you had drinks with and then his buddy showed up dressed as a clown? Yes? Yeah, yeah, perfect,

This is about your date with Scott. I mean I figured he was gonna call me eventually. Yeah. Well we're not called on Scott's behalf though, you're not. Nope, we're calling because you didn't tip the bartender. I guess. No, his buddy, the guy that showed up as a clown. Vic. He wanted us to call you. Wait, Vic, he asked me. Yeah, he did more than ask about you. He emailed us to call you. Really, what do you say? Said? He's getting that high pitch thing, which is always a good

thing when you talking about boys and you're a woman. Yeah, sounds weird. You talk about boys and you're a woman, talk about man and you're a woman that anyways and your female. Sorry wait no, so tell me what did Vic say? Well, he said that he liked you a lot, and that he had your phone over because you guys texted back and forth a picture or something, and he wanted to call to ask you out, but he wasn't sure how to do that, so he emailed us to

do it instead, because I guess that's less weird. Oh well, that's kind of sweet. Oh my gosh. She don't even texted him too, but I thought it would be kind of weird. Okay, wait, before we get any further, are you still talking to Scott, who you actually went out on a date with. I mean, he texted me a few times, but I don't know. I just he's just really not my type, so I haven't really responded. So okay,

let me just tell you what Vic told us. Vic told us that, you know, he showed up and it was awkward or whatever, but he says that he felt like you were flirting with him the whole time while you were out with his co worker. Is that true? Sounds like it's true. Well, I don't think it was

the whole time. Okay, dude, if you were flirting with any man that was dressed as a clown for any amount of time, I feel like that means that you must like him a lot, because clowns are not easy to be attracted to unless you have a clown fetish. Do you have a clown fetish? No? No, he was really cute. He wasn't wearing the nose or anything. Not excited. Oh no, I just I had a really good time. Um. And if you talk to him, could you tell him

my mashed potatoes were running. Your mashed potatoes were running. It was just like an insight joke, POTRIENO. Could you tell him that? Sure, Susan, shouldn't you tell him like you'd like to see him again or something? Not your mashed potatoes were running. Yeah, I just I just want him to know because they were talking about it for a while. So he'll get it. He'll get it. It's funny. Okay. Well, hey, Susan, hang on, hang on, let's see if he gets it. Hey,

vic her mashed potatoes are running. Yeah, Susan, you're You're right, he's laughing. You were right. Oh, I forgot to mention he's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, that mashed potatoes joke. Can't get over it. Can't get that mashed potato joke. Susan, Oh my god, have you been listening to this whole thing? Yeah, I've been here the whole time. Oh my god, Oh my god. Yeah. Yeah, Hi, Hi, Hi. This is weird because I can tell you guys hate

each other and never want to see each other again already. Dude, I feel awkward listening on the two of you even saying hi together. There is a lot of chemistry there you're talking about. So are we gonna just sit here and listen to you guys giggle for the next five minutes? Are you gonna talk to each other? Wow? Yeah? Yeah, I'm sorry that I did it this way. I just wasn't sure if I should call or text or if

that would be weird. So I hope this isn't weirder. No, I kind of like it because I didn't know if I should text you either, because of how he met right, Yeah, you're sorry. I didn't reach out to you, um, but I wanted to let you know that I haven't really hung out with Scott or texted him or talk to him or anything. So yeah, I really wanted to talk to you. Um really Yeah, isn't that obvious? Vic? It should be. Oh my god, you guys are so stink and cute. What are you feeling right now? Yeah? A

little bit. I don't know. Do you think Scott will be mad about this whole thing? I don't really know him as well as you. M Yeah, I don't think he's going to be too upset. I mean, you guys, I know how we can tell because Scott's actually on the other line listening, and what's to talk about? What? No, it's no, no, no, really no, he's Oh my god, oh god, i'd be awful just some man comes in screaming obscenities, ruins all this giggly fun. Honestly, I don't

think he'll mind. He Um, he's been like on a dating spree lately, so he's I don't know, he se these girls all the time, and he's dusting chicks all the time. He's dusting chicks, does that mean literally with a duster? Or he's cooking up with a lot of I have never heard you've heard the term dusting, right? No, not really? What does that mean? It's like, uh, I mean, I guess, yeah, like stopping you know, you see shopping around? Yeah, okay, okay, yeah,

all right. So I'm picky. I'm different. I like, I don't really you know, see a lot of girls. But when I do meet someone that I really like, then I usually know because I'm picky like that. So hey, Susan, Hi, Hey Hi, I'm just gonna see how long you guys can do that love it back and forth. You guys are so darling together. Susan, would you like to go out with Vic again on a well, a second meeting, actual date. We'll pay for it. Yep. Then you definitely

do a curveball there. I didn't expect you to say yes. That would have been so sad. If she denied, It's like, you know what, now, I'll just talk about Scott. You can't do it. So Vic, there you go, man, you got your date? All right. I'm looking forward to it. Oh my god, what are you guys gonna do? I don't know. Maybe we should hang out with Scott? Yeah, hit him up. I'm sure he'd love to come along. Broken Jupil in the morning,