Need Lasic, trust the experienced team at the leasing center at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. What will you do Lasik at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels second dat day. You know, the saying goes, after you just got out of a relationship, you gotta jump right back on that horse, or you gotta let the horse jump back on you. However it works, And that is what Mark tried to do on his date. He
tried to let the horse jump back on him. Right, Mark, I don't know what that means that you wanted to get back in the dating scene. Okay, Mark said that he wants to call this girl name Alison today. Apparently Mark met her and they went out on a date recently got out of a long relationship. That's what your email said, right, Yeah, that's right, okay, And tell us a little bit about Alice and the girl that you want us to call today. She works in my building,
not in my office, but in my building. And my friends were trying to get me back in the game, and and they hooked me up with her. And so you just work in the big business park. How'd you approach her? A bunch of people from the building went to lunch together and she was in that group and sort of hit it off. There was it like a set up where your friends were like, Okay, we're all gonna go to lunch, We're gonna invite her. No, I
wasn't set up for me to meet her. She was just there and I made the move, all right, And I made my move. So tell us a little bit about your date. What did you guys do? We actually went ice skating. Oh that's so dude. I always wanted to do that for a date and my husband will never take me. Maybe Mark, you know, if this doesn't work out for you, Mark, you can get a date with Brooke. I guess. Yeah, you went ice skating. How'd
that go? It was awesome. I only fell twice and we hit it off, and like, we talked about how we both wanted to leave our jobs in the same building. All right, so you both said you both bonded over the hatred of your job. How'd your date end? Then? After ice skating, we got some hot chocolate and you're adorable. Nice and then I walked her to her car and we kissed and it was really nice, really nice date, really good way to get back in it, you actually kissed,
and since then she hasn't called you. Well, we have plans to go out again on a Saturday the next day, and then Saturday rolls around and she says, oh, can we push it to the next day. I said okay. And then after that, the next day comes and she's like, oh, can we push it to next week? And I'm like that sucks? So Mark, I'm just wondering what could have gone wrong? Like you mentioned that you just gotta out of a relationship. Did you happen to talk about your
X on the date? I specifically avoided that topic. That's good. A lot of people wouldn't do that. They would have taken her ice skating. We're like, oh, man, Jessica used like ice skating a lot. I missed ice skating with her. You know, no, no, no, I've listened to your second dates a lot, so I know that's the wrong move. Like the second dates are actually helping people learn how to date. So if everything went right, ice skating was cool, you kissed at the end of the date, why do
you think she's blowing you off? Now? I've been racking my brains and I have no idea because it went really, well, have you run into her in the building? Now she works in a separate part of the building, so I never really saw her in the first place. All right, okay, Well, we'll play a song, comeback, call her and get your second date update. Okay. Well, I have one more thing though. It's the texts are really polite, and they're pushing this
date that is theoretically going to happen. So it's long a she's like blowing me off. She just politely keeps moving. So that's why it's so confusing, because it's not just hey, I can't do it today, Yeah, exactly. Okay, all right, we'll call her get your second day update right after this. Okay, but there's one more thing I have to tell you. What is it? Mark? I really appreciate you taking my call. You're welcome. Is there before I throw it to the song?
Is there anything else that you want to say before we go? Um? No, we're good. All right, play a song, come back and get your second date update. Hang on the phone, all right, brooking jubil in the morning, sudate. All Right, Mark is on the phone with us. He emailed us about a girl named Alison they met through friends at work, They went out ice skating, had some cocoa, kissed at the end of the date. Really nice date.
Can't really find a reason why she wouldn't want to go out with him again, and she's been blowing him off rescheduling in a very nice way, so he's not even really sure if she actually doesn't want to see him again, or if for some reason she just really is rescheduling. We're about to call it right now, but Mark, before we get her on the phone. You know you got out of a long relationship. You told us, Yeah, that's right. Do you feel like this girl could be
your next girlfriend? I mean I probably. I wouldn't be pushing it if I didn't think like we had something, Okay, so turn into something? So there's something there then yeah, yeah,
and you're ready for another relationship? Um yeah, I think well, you know, yeah, I'm just curious if you really like this girl, like and you thought maybe you saw a future with her, or if you just thought that you wanted to go out on another date, because I mean, I definitely think there's potential there for to turn into something more. They're just really curious. I don't get it. I don't get why sheeps putting it off. Okay, well I'm gonna call it right now. See we can get
on the phone and then get your second date up date. Okay, cool, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Alison please? This is Alison. Hey Alison, how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Yes, how you doing fine? I'm calling you actually because you recently went out on a date with a listener of our show. It then Yeah, his name is Mark. Yeah. Well apparently you've been blowing him off for a couple of weeks since your date, and he asked us to
call on see if we could find out why. He said I was blowing him off. He said, he's been trying to go out with you ever since your date, and you keep like postponing it. Yeah, but I'm not blowing him off. I genuinely just needed to postpone it. Okay, Should I tell him that You're actually going to go out with him one of these days? Yeah? Absolutely? What are you waiting for? Well, I mean, this is just it's important and I want to make sure that, like, I'm totally there for it. So I just needed to
have the right time. Are you trying to end another relationship? No, no, definitely not. No, I'm single. Okay, Well Mark wants to know, because that's why you emailed us, because you know how it is if you go out with someone and they keep, you know, going, oh hey, I can't go out this week, maybe next week, and then they keep doing that. At a certain point, you feel like they don't like you. I never meant to do that, like, that was not my intention at all. No, I just I just needed
more time. Okay, Because he's starting to get that vibe from you that you don't want to go out with him. What can I tell him? Then? Can you just tell him that I just needed a couple extra days just to just to kind of get some things together. That sounds so sketchy, though, Allison, but it's not really. It really isn't sketchy. I just I just needed a couple
more days. I promise. I really do like him. Are you just like out of time, like you don't have enough time in your day and your job's really demanding or I kind of would rather not tell you, guys, because I think it might sound crazy and I would really not want to come off like a crazy person that makes me want to know even more what it is. Yeah, I'm thinking, like you're you're going to get a boob job or something and you need to get that finished. No,
not at all. I just feel like this could be the most important second day of my life and I've really rather not ruined the surprise. WHOA you like him that much? Wow? I do? I mean, I just I've been working on this picture book for him for the last I don't know, a couple of months, and I just want to make sure that it's because Saton, it's just not ready yet to get to him, and so I'm just trying to finish it. You say you've been working on a picture book? Yeah, have you what I mean?
I've been working on collecting some photos of the last like year or so of I guess, like of me liking him and like Alison, I guess I'm I'm I'm confused. You guys went on that one date? Yeah? Had you known each other beforehand? Because when we talked to him, he says that he knew you worked in the same building and you met like at a lunch. Yeah, in terms of like dating, But I've known of him for about a year. And a half or so. One of my girlfriends at work pointed him out to me, and
we were with two totally separate groups. But I've met and I just knew it was perfect, like it was we were going to date, so I just had to wait it out. So are the pictures? So what I don't I guess I don't understand exactly what you're building. You said a picture book, but what is the picture book of collages or something? Like who we were before we started dating? So like I went to a high school and I got his high school yearbook photo who
had that in it? And I recently died my hair blonde, so I have like the before and after photo, like, so like who we were before we got together. How you're planning on giving him this on your second date? Yeah, And I mean I think he's really appreciated. I think he'd really love it. We don't have girlfriends to tell you that this is like crazy. This isn't crazy. It's like a book of my feelings and all of like all of what we were before we're going to be together.
And it's you know, like I know how much she liked blondes, and the fact that I went and died my hair blonde. She's just going to appreciate it. Alison. You know where you're right, Alison. Married, we're gonna have this like shown at the wedding was like what our minds were like before we were together. Alison. You know what if somebody had done that for me on a second date, I would think that that was so sweet.
You are such a no I would think that. You know, it'd be nice if somebody went to all that work for me, give me a picture book of things for the last year. Yeah, I see. No, I just wanted it to be sweet like and that's why I can't see him yet. It's okay, I'm not ready, all right, Allison, Well then I will. I will tell him to just hold tight and you will eventually go out with him. That's what that's sets the message you want me to pass along, That's exactly it. Thank you, you're welcome, Allison.
I also need to let you know that Mark is on the other line and just heard that. Mark. Yeah, say hi to Allison. Gosh, Allison, M what's going on? You've been collecting pictures of me? Allison? Um? Mark, it wasn't that you weren't supposed to find out about it this way, Like, I have this beautiful book that I've just been working on and I just wanted you to see it. And I haven't been blowing you off, I swear. So you've been working on this since way before we
even met. I mean yeah, because you were in a relationship, and so I knew that we couldn't be together. I'm not kind of girl like, of course I was going to wait until you were single. How did you even know I was in a relationship. I mean, like we have mutual friends and at work, and so I just, you know, I knew, I knew some things about you. You've been like talking me for the past year. No oh no, no, no, no, I'm not I'm not that kind of crazy person. I'm not a stalker at all,
a crazy person. You knew what our life was like before, and it was documented. Alison, this is creepy. It's not, it's not at all. Like it's really just meant to be sweet and endearing, and I mean, you're really gonna love it when you see it, I promise. I feel unsafe. I don't think anybody blames you for that, Alison. I think you've officially scared Mark a little bit because of you, because it wasn't supposed to be like that. She was supposed to see it on our date, and now you
ruined it. And everybody knows that I was supposed to show him this book and he was supposed to just be so happy to see it. Yeah, Alison, you know what. I'm sorry up for you for the apology, but that doesn't change anything. Alison. In your mind, how was this going to play out exactly? He was gonna fall in love with you after you gave him a book? Do you think you are that is exactly what it's supposed
to happen? Oh, honey, don't know? Honey, mean you know this was a genius plan and you're just upset because you didn't think about it. Oh my god, there's so many things wrong with this guy. How dare you spoil this? I don't know. Hey, hey, Allison, you made me look and everything. Allison. I know that you're upset, but I haven't even asked if Mark will go out with you again, like the whole thing might not be ruined. Mark, would you like to go out with Allison again on a
second day? We'll pay for it. No, it's because of you. Yes, you did that. I'm sorry. I apologize Alison. I think Allison's gone, Oh my gosh, I'm scared for my safety. And Mark, I think you might need to find a new job and a new town. I think Coley, you guys might have literally saved my wife. The morning text message in at seven eighty five to nine two that says, I was super creeped out. If I was that guy, I'd run fast. Yes, broken Jewil in the morning if
you missed today's second date update. Mark wanted to call Alison, and when we got her on the phone, we found out the reason she wasn't calling back was because she wasn't ready to hang out with Mark yet, because she was collecting photos of him so she could make an album about how they were when they meant, oh my god, and yeah it is weird and creepy and he was creeped out by it. But then she blamed all of us for ruining everything. Actually I feel kinda weird. Actually
she needed to learn that lesson. Someone in her life needs to talk to her, someone in her life needs to hug her. They need to hug her and say, don't start making a photo lage album of a dude you went on one day with because it will probably creep him out, like a will scrap book like my grandma's scrap books everything, And that's weird. You know, it doesn't make sense of a grandma's not being so clean. All right, you pictures of me? What the hell? Grandparents? Parents?
They are so clean and like, why are you watching me? Yeah, I didn't give you any approval to take those pictures when I was younger. And I'm thinking about calling the authority. Remember, if you want to do a second day up, they don't have to do his email the show and we will call the person who didn't call you back. I need another hour of se